My birthday

Hey there aquas. Another quick question.

How are you guys with birthdays of the ones you are in a relationship with?

My Aqua never did anything special for my bday last year (he promised he would but didn't follow through)

And this year, at 10 days away, he hasn't said anything about it at all.

It's really important to me to get some special attention on my birthday this year, because last year hurt so bad.

How should I go about this? Straightforward and to the point? Hints? Wait and see what he does?

How important are birthdays to you guys?

I always remember his and celebrate.

Mine remembers that he wants to do something on my birthday; he just needs me to remind him when it is. Used to bother (hurt) me, but I realized that if I want something, I have to ask for it. Yes, even for a birthday.

Mine thinks birthdays are no big deal.

Posted by sultrykitty
Mine remembers that he wants to do something on my birthday; he just needs me to remind him when it is. Used to bother (hurt) me, but I realized that if I want something, I have to ask for it. Yes, even for a birthday.

Yes, you have to ask for whatever you want. Aqua men don't catch on to hints and subtlety. If you come right out and ask, they're usually very sweet about trying to make you happy. They just don't know it's important to you unless you tell them.

Posted by truecap
Mine thinks birthdays are no big deal.

Yup

Thanks for your input guys. I kinda figured it wasn't so important to aquas. Conformity? Not them.

Well he didn't forget my birthday. But he let me know that next week is no good for him to do anything special with me.

So he remembered, but he won't do anything about it.

So is that an aqua thing?

My Aquarius moon and it's in the 8th house too a simple happy birthday and it's just another day of ager.

My earth placements and water placements, I'll end up baking and making something in the kitchen and watching a good movie on that day.

I also am a bit into gift giving myself though, I never forget a birthday and we'll say happy birthday or throw potlucks at work....