Aquarius help needed!!!

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wiggins
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18 Years

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Hi you all!
I have such a confusing time understanding if my aqua male wants more then friendship.
I know he needs someone who is patient, and I am. Here's the scoop:
My aqua lives near me. We started talking in the summer when I knocked on his door and asked him if he had our landlords tel#. He didn't have it but he invited me in. We sat there and chatted for 6 hours. Over time we would call eachother a little more often and have some great talks. One day he totally opened up to me and said all kinds of things about himself. His past, family, feelings, about being single....crazy stuff. I went on my way as at the time I wasn't interested in him romantically.
Since the end of October, I have been running into him like crazy. Everytime I do, he invites me over. This has been going on for 5 weeks. We hang out on saturday and friday nights a lot. We talk and listen to music..we have the best witty banter. First he was always negative. He would never talk seriously about anything. Now he tells me everthing about himself. He looks hard into my eyes...a lot. A LOT.
Although he doesn't usually call me, when I see him he always wants to hang out. If I tell him to call me to hang out at a certain time, he calls on the dot. If I tell him to stop by..he's there in a flash. When I call him, he talks my ear off then askes me to come by. The other day he had made me a mixed CD...told me it was a surprise. I haden't seen him in about a week and I was convinced he was not interested in me. Then it turns out he had spent all this time making me some music. I was surprised!
Now I am trying to not run into him so I can see if he will call me. I called two times now to hang out and both times he was busy. That's cool, I know he has a million friends.
I just wonder where I fit in. Please ask me any questions...and please help me understand if my aqua male is slowly moving towards romance with me...
I am a Leo but I don't carry a lot of Leo traits. I am outgoing and fun but I am not materialstic or wanting all kinds of attention.
Thank you!
Wiggs
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crushbuddy
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i think that he is totally feeling u, but they do want friendship first and I am actually learning this the second time around with my x. we are friends now but were involved for a year and half and there are times that I'm like I really can't tell how he feels or if he really just sees me in a platonic way. but from what your telling us he seems interested for sure. but just be cool for now and be his friend and I think that its a good chance it will turn into more.
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crushbuddy
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wiggins, I think you should let him make the first move if you can. I know its hard when you want something and its not moving at the pace that you would like it to. I really don't think that it is wrong for you to tell someone how you feel but lets just say I have learned alot in the last few months and with them its better for them to say it. I would go by his actions which from what your saying is telling me that he is interested, just be patient.
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wiggins
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18 Years

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Oh you are all so nice! I have been feeling so alone in this!
I will not move in on him. He is very awkard and I don't want to scare him. I guess i am afraid he will meet someone else. I don't want to regret not saying something.
We have so much fun when we hang out. I have even made him laugh quite a lot. Sometimes when he looks at me, I feel this 'click'. Like we both just get it. It's weird.
as long as you, all of you, the experts, think this is a very positive connection. I will keep doing what i am doing and not spill the beans. And not get upset that he hasen't called me or anything in 5 days.
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Reiniba-Chan
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oh yeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssss. I'm aqua girl. ^_^ me love to debate. Just go look at the poor virgos on the virgo message board.

I know that I live to argue. ^_^

I'm in the JSA club in school. It's a political debate club. I've been arguing since I was 13. @___@

Most of the time it's either argument out my mouth or silence, take your pick.
IF it doesn't look like I'm arguing then you'll see me typing facts. Why? because facts are the overtures of an argument. Just get ready to be ready. ^_^ hehe



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wiggins
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18 Years

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I did ask him to educate me about politics...he seemed pleased. Then I educated him about Jeff Buckley. It was great!
So, today I saw him as I left for work...he was his usual self..we bumped into eachother at the store adn he waited for me. We talked about his ear. I had to leave him to go to work so nothing much was said but I realize 5 days to him is probably nothing! He probably was glad to see me and will run into me again and invite me over. I am patient..being very patient. Biting my nails...aquas are so very interesting!!