Aquarius Man Ignoring My Text and Disappear

We had great talk and it seems he opened up to me. We talked about many things, such as cultures, work, hobbies, politics, etc. Then before he left, we promised to see each other again. He said he will contact me when in town. So during his trip I sent a text to ask how it is going, but he ignored it.

I m so confused with this guy. did I do something wrong? I never initiate contact until that time when I asked him about his trip.

Did he lose interest? and will he keep his promise to see each other when he's back?

On the basis of my brother who is an Aqua, and a few other male aquas I’ve known. They are oblivious, and think about so many things and have so many platonic friendships that they arnt too too worried about texting you a lot ect. They just like to know you will be there when they come back, and some have so much going on their time lines of responses can get very frustrating. But they will feel more inclined to come back to you when they realize you are dependable and always there for them when they come back. In my experience they are very truthful and consistent. Someone on here told me advice about the female

Aqua I’m seeing, which has helped me deal with the spurts of disrance... and that advice is always “just go by the last encounter”. If it was positive and friendly than they will remember that experience as such. And if they arnt romantically interested, they may still want the friendship, they just take time to figure that out. They are very logical, and have a lot of emotions all the time, they just want to build that trust and foundation first. Which has inspired me personally to take romance in a more light and airy way. Not too complicated. Just requires a lot of patience. Especially the men. My old boss when he started dating the woman he is now engaged to, expressed to me “I like her so much, but I’m not gonna lead her to believe that quite yet”. They take timeeeee

Why would you think you've done something wrong by simply having a variety of conversations and then reaching out to ask how things were? That's all normal. Far too soon to start questioning yourself. Here's a tip: Date other people and stop focusing on one who is already leaving you confused.

Posted by WaterDevil

On the basis of my brother who is an Aqua, and a few other male aquas I’ve known. They are oblivious, and think about so many things and have so many platonic friendships that they arnt too too worried about texting you a lot ect. They just like to know you will be there when they come back, and some have so much going on their time lines of responses can get very frustrating. But they will feel more inclined to come back to you when they realize you are dependable and always there for them when they come back. In my experience they are very truthful and consistent. Someone on here told me advice about the female

Aqua I’m seeing, which has helped me deal with the spurts of disrance... and that advice is always “just go by the last encounter”. If it was positive and friendly than they will remember that experience as such. And if they arnt romantically interested, they may still want the friendship, they just take time to figure that out. They are very logical, and have a lot of emotions all the time, they just want to build that trust and foundation first. Which has inspired me personally to take romance in a more light and airy way. Not too complicated. Just requires a lot of patience. Especially the men. My old boss when he started dating the woman he is now engaged to, expressed to me “I like her so much, but I’m not gonna lead her to believe that quite yet”. They take timeeeee

The last time we spoke, it was positive and friendly. and we agreed to start it with friendship. I think you're right, it takes a lottttt of patience to be with them. Hopefully he doesn't disappear forever

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Why would you think you've done something wrong by simply having a variety of conversations and then reaching out to ask how things were? That's all normal. Far too soon to start questioning yourself. Here's a tip: Date other people and stop focusing on one who is already leaving you confused.

I was afraid of looking clingy or needy by contacting him first or asking that question. So when he didn't reply, I stopped trying to contact him

Posted by WaterDevil

On the basis of my brother who is an Aqua, and a few other male aquas I’ve known. They are oblivious, and think about so many things and have so many platonic friendships that they arnt too too worried about texting you a lot ect. They just like to know you will be there when they come back, and some have so much going on their time lines of responses can get very frustrating. But they will feel more inclined to come back to you when they realize you are dependable and always there for them when they come back. In my experience they are very truthful and consistent. Someone on here told me advice about the female

Aqua I’m seeing, which has helped me deal with the spurts of disrance... and that advice is always “just go by the last encounter”. If it was positive and friendly than they will remember that experience as such. And if they arnt romantically interested, they may still want the friendship, they just take time to figure that out. They are very logical, and have a lot of emotions all the time, they just want to build that trust and foundation first. Which has inspired me personally to take romance in a more light and airy way. Not too complicated. Just requires a lot of patience. Especially the men. My old boss when he started dating the woman he is now engaged to, expressed to me “I like her so much, but I’m not gonna lead her to believe that quite yet”. They take timeeeee

This ☝️

And OP if he said that he wants to start with a friendship it really means just that. Relax and enjoy the friendship without expectation.

If it means to be it will be.

Just do your thing. Contact him whenever you feel like. Be there when he connect with you and have fun

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Posted by WaterDevil

On the basis of my brother who is an Aqua, and a few other male aquas I’ve known. They are oblivious, and think about so many things and have so many platonic friendships that they arnt too too worried about texting you a lot ect. They just like to know you will be there when they come back, and some have so much going on their time lines of responses can get very frustrating. But they will feel more inclined to come back to you when they realize you are dependable and always there for them when they come back. In my experience they are very truthful and consistent. Someone on here told me advice about the female

Aqua I’m seeing, which has helped me deal with the spurts of disrance... and that advice is always “just go by the last encounter”. If it was positive and friendly than they will remember that experience as such. And if they arnt romantically interested, they may still want the friendship, they just take time to figure that out. They are very logical, and have a lot of emotions all the time, they just want to build that trust and foundation first. Which has inspired me personally to take romance in a more light and airy way. Not too complicated. Just requires a lot of patience. Especially the men. My old boss when he started dating the woman he is now engaged to, expressed to me “I like her so much, but I’m not gonna lead her to believe that quite yet”. They take timeeeee

This ☝️

And OP if he said that he wants to start with a friendship it really means just that. Relax and enjoy the friendship without expectation.

If it means to be it will be.

Just do your thing. Contact him whenever you feel like. Be there when he connect with you and have fun

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will do that. thank you...

I’m unsure if Aqua males are similar to us..but if I’m undecided, I don’t always reach out or respond right away either. Just know it’s never to toy with emotions or play games bc that’s just not my MO.

Also, if a guy really has my attention or there’s chemistry even just in conversation...I won’t totally ignore him unless I sense a red flag. I may respond casually...here and there..until I decide whether I consider him a friend or more.

So I agree..if you’re really interested and he hasn’t replied at all, give it time and do your But I wouldn’t text every couple days if he’s gives zero response. It may cause him to not respond even more. You could wait til you see him out or wait a couple wks and send a light “hey stranger”...if he was interested at all, he will likely respond within a day or so (yes I said days...sorry). If so, keep texts short, light, witty....so he’ll want more..cute but not corny/phony. I wouldn’t ask why he hasn’t contacted you, etc...just fun, no expectations.

Good luck!

🙄Oops meant do your own thing

Posted by Angelia

I’m unsure if Aqua males are similar to us..but if I’m undecided, I don’t always reach out or respond right away either. Just know it’s never to toy with emotions or play games bc that’s just not my MO.

Also, if a guy really has my attention or there’s chemistry even just in conversation...I won’t totally ignore him unless I sense a red flag. I may respond casually...here and there..until I decide whether I consider him a friend or more.

So I agree..if you’re really interested and he hasn’t replied at all, give it time and do your But I wouldn’t text every couple days if he’s gives zero response. It may cause him to not respond even more. You could wait til you see him out or wait a couple wks and send a light “hey stranger”...if he was interested at all, he will likely respond within a day or so (yes I said days...sorry). If so, keep texts short, light, witty....so he’ll want more..cute but not corny/phony. I wouldn’t ask why he hasn’t contacted you, etc...just fun, no expectations.

Good luck!

When you're being undecided, will you disappear/detached from that person?

I knew him for less than a week, but then, till now he's been ignoring me for 3 weeks. so not really sure if he wants friendship or even relationship with me

3 weeks of ignoring you. Sorry, but you know what that means.

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Posted by Angelia

I’m unsure if Aqua males are similar to us..but if I’m undecided, I don’t always reach out or respond right away either. Just know it’s never to toy with emotions or play games bc that’s just not my MO.

Also, if a guy really has my attention or there’s chemistry even just in conversation...I won’t totally ignore him unless I sense a red flag. I may respond casually...here and there..until I decide whether I consider him a friend or more.

So I agree..if you’re really interested and he hasn’t replied at all, give it time and do your But I wouldn’t text every couple days if he’s gives zero response. It may cause him to not respond even more. You could wait til you see him out or wait a couple wks and send a light “hey stranger”...if he was interested at all, he will likely respond within a day or so (yes I said days...sorry). If so, keep texts short, light, witty....so he’ll want more..cute but not corny/phony. I wouldn’t ask why he hasn’t contacted you, etc...just fun, no expectations.

Good luck!

When you're being undecided, will you disappear/detached from that person?

I knew him for less than a week, but then, till now he's been ignoring me for 3 weeks. so not really sure if he wants friendship or even relationship with me

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Unfortunately yes, I’ve stopped communicating after knowing someone a week or so. If there were just a few conversations, it didn’t seem like a big deal...neither had vested in each other anyway.

You seem very genuine about your interest in this guy...so while I understand some aquas’ ways/actions, I wouldn’t spend much time if his actions don’t change fast. You deserve someone who feels and gives back your same energy.

Oh girl please. Clingy and needy are adjectives used by superficial people who doesn't value anything. There's etiquette for everything in our every day life, the way things are done, how 2 or more sane people communicate with each other, be it friendships or more personal. Checking on someone is not clingy, calling them on their bs if they go weeks of silence is not clingy and kick anyone right in their teeth who tells you otherwise. Effective communication go hand in hand with respect, and if there's absence of any of these 2 then you know what you've got.

i hate texting and responding lol sometimes i disappear just for the hell of it cause i got other stuff going on.

aquas require a lot of freedom or space. just wait for him to contact you when hes back. its fine.

I’m an Aqua (moon in Pisces) and we can be pretty difficult to navigate, especially if people personalize our behaviors. Aquarian’s are faulted for our aloofness pretty often, and at times we’re really capricious, which is a prime combination for confusion with people trying to figure out where they stand with us.

I wouldn’t weigh too much on the assumption that you did anything wrong. Especially if he’s traveling; we tend to be social beings when the mood strikes & can often get easily distracted with the goings-on around us, so it could be a case of him just getting tied up in physically present happenings. I would honestly send him a brief but to-the-point message - as again we subconsciously can have our heads in the clouds often - and depending on his reply, I would gage the likelihood of his interest.

Wishing you luck & that things end up as you’d hoped!