AQUA MAN ADVICE

Hey everyone,

I'm new here so please ever so kindly be gentle on me. I matched this Aqua man back in 2016. We spoke for a month but then he suddenly disappeared. Recently, we rematched and have been talking for two weeks. Friday, we met up and had our first date. We went to the movies and we spent an hour talking before and two hours talking after. During the movie, he put his arm around me and help me close. He expressed on our date his reason for disappearing the first time (VALID REASON) and apologized. Prior to our date during our two weeks of talking, we would take turns initiating (me more than him). On our date, he refused to let me pay for anything, not the movie, not our drinks and not even my parking ticket. We have a lot in common that in today's generation is pretty rare. He assured me before I left that i'd be seeing him again. Had me text him when I got home. Saturday, he initiated. Sunday, I did. Monday I didn't hear from him. Today, haven't heard form him yet. Oh, I'm an Aqua woman. My questions are:

1. Do Aqua men prefer the woman to initiate?

2. Do Aqua men often go for days without texting (i heard they need their space)?

3. Is this a test by Aqua man?

Any tips you have for Aqua man and what they like? Greatly appreciate all the advice!

Do you have an idea of his work schedule? Could be your texting him at work. He reads but doesn’t have a chance to respond, and then 6ish or so hours later end of day it’s out of sight out of mind.

@Epihanes Many Thank You's for the advice!!! There isn't any visible reason to distrust me. I just have been told that some men like to play test games to see if the woman is actually interested/needy. Just the common case of my over thinking.

@LadyNeptune Thankfully, I do know his work schedule. I am mindful not to text during those times just in case. Just weird that he didn't reach out yesterday or today (yet). Wondering if I should initiate.

In my experience, they initiate when they have something to say. Never a test. They like some space instead of ultimate clinginess. But not too much. I’ve always preferred conversations on the phone or in person rather than texts with an aqua.

he’ll reach out to you don’t worry 😉

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@LadyNeptune Thankfully, I do know his work schedule. I am mindful not to text during those times just in case. Just weird that he didn't reach out yesterday or today (yet). Wondering if I should initiate.

If you feel like you need to initiate do it. They don’t mind at all. Just don’t get needy/ upset if he doesn’t reply straight away.

@pinkbird03 Thankfully, we both share that quality of needing space since we're both Aquarius. Amen to some personal space! Thank you for the advice.

@MoonshineLeo @pisceswoman123 Update: I ended up initiating and he was responsive. Then the very next day, he did initiate! You were correct! Thank you for the advice.

If anyone has any tips on dating Aqua, let me have it haha

Posted by ChanelLucas

If anyone has any tips on dating Aqua, let me have it haha

Challenge him intellectually at will, be a little brat at leisure but when he wants to spend some quality time with you the only answer should be "yes".

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@Mr_Pinchy Thank you so very much! Any advice on what's the best date activity he would appreciate?

You are an aqua just do what you do. Don’t overthink it. Just be nice, charming and friendly and don’t be scared of being who you are or do what you really want to do. Don’t think about what would win him just be yourself. That is the best advice I can give you.

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@Mr_Pinchy Thank you so very much! Any advice on what's the best date activity he would appreciate?

Yes.

Visit an airplane museum. Sneak into the cabin of a passanger airliner (sometimes they are open for exhibition) and have sex (don't get caught tho)

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