@librak924
7 Years
What Is This Aquarius Man Thinking?
What Is an Aquarius Man Thinking in Relationships
An Aquarius man values independence and honesty. He may be cautious after past experiences and needs space to process his feelings. His actions can be unpredictable, often reflecting his desire for freedom and clarity. Understanding his need for boundaries helps interpret his behavior and can improve communication.
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Also, I'm like 100% sure he still has a little flame for me. That time we had lunch and coffee just "the look." The same look he'd give me when we basked in our love when things were good. It was intense, and he would keep breaking eye contact just completely looking away
I'm wondering if he thinks I'll try to message him
🙄🙄🙄🙄🤦🤦🤦🤦
SMH.
🙄🙄🙄🙄🤦🤦🤦🤦
SMH.
Not helpful, but OK
Any more wisdom from anyone else?
Why did you break up? If it was a really bad breakup why would you want to go there again?
I'm not saying I'm going there again, I'm asking what might be in his mind to have requested to follow me. We broke up because he spent his half of the rent money on drugs.
He wants nothing, just to stalk you on Instagram... which he was doing until you made it private and you gave him no other option than to add you.
But I think thats what you wanted to find out, if he was looking at your profile, right?.. he knows it he is aquarius... we smell bs from far. lol. and thats why he is not adding you on his.
Thats my input. 🙂
He wants nothing, just to stalk you on Instagram... which he was doing until you made it private and you gave him no other option than to add you.
But I think thats what you wanted to find out, if he was looking at your profile, right?.. he knows it he is aquarius... we smell bs from far. lol. and thats why he is not adding you on his.
Thats my input. 🙂
You mean why I put it private? No. Had nothing to do with him, hadn't thought about him once since he texted me that he does not want to hang out again. Put it on private because I posted a double picture of me playing poker and drinking a beer, don't want certain people to see it
He wants nothing, just to stalk you on Instagram... which he was doing until you made it private and you gave him no other option than to add you.
But I think thats what you wanted to find out, if he was looking at your profile, right?.. he knows it he is aquarius... we smell bs from far. lol. and thats why he is not adding you on his.
Thats my input. 🙂
You mean why I put it private? No. Had nothing to do with him, hadn't thought about him once since he texted me that he does not want to hang out again. Put it on private because I posted a double picture of me playing poker and drinking a beer, don't want certain people to see it
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He hasn't been on since he's added me, I'm sure he will once he goes on
He is interested..thats how i consider. I am a poker player as well. Nobody will lose his time unless there is something! He knows is not enough good for you, but will appreciate from far everything you do
If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
I was looking for answers years to understand mine🙂 . He wants you but he knows the price! he has to change in order to be there with you.. People dream a lot
“No I’m good, we should leave it as is”
Blocks you.
Why do people do this to themselves 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Believe the words out his mouth AND his actions. He took you up on your invite for coffee/lunch for old times sake. He doesn’t want anything more from you.
Following someone on social media means fuck all.
Don’t linger. Take what’s left of your dignity and move tf on.
Also requesting to be friends on insta hardly constitutes a ‘freak out’.
Bit of a stretch.
If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
Oh maybe I worded that wrong. He can certainly see me because I have the same car, but I doubt he knows I can see him. I only saw the car once when we hung out that time, and only know it is him because I memorized the license plate. And the Monday and Friday thing is just because of work. I am not sure if he realizes it's on Mondays and Fridays, but I certainly do because he works early, and those are my two earliest days.
You're manipulative.
What a headache.
Why do you want him back in your life? He told you "No I'm good, I think we should leave it as is."
Aquarius is friends with everyone.
Where did I say I want him back in my life? I'm wondering wtf he followed me. No need to be a prick. Found it odd he followed me as soon as I put my thing on private.
“No I’m good, we should leave it as is”
Blocks you.
Why do people do this to themselves 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Believe the words out his mouth AND his actions. He took you up on your invite for coffee/lunch for old times sake. He doesn’t want anything more from you.
Following someone on social media means fuck all.
Don’t linger. Take what’s left of your dignity and move tf on.
Go shitpost someone elses post. "Believe his mouth and his ACTIONS" which is following my on social media two months after he said he did not want to continue. I know this dude, the social media thing is pretty big. Wouldn't be here otherwise
If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
Oh maybe I worded that wrong. He can certainly see me because I have the same car, but I doubt he knows I can see him. I only saw the car once when we hung out that time, and only know it is him because I memorized the license plate. And the Monday and Friday thing is just because of work. I am not sure if he realizes it's on Mondays and Fridays, but I certainly do because he works early, and those are my two earliest days.
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If he is interested, he knows. Probably knows your plates too.
Oh, I forgot he blocked her. lol
I love Aquarians lmao
Translate block please..I find lots of frustrations in this stuff! And to come back one day like nothing happened? Tipic aqua..
Weakness ...we all experienced this stuff . Look at her story..the guy was OUT from her life for a reason...she wants him and loves him or whatever ..but he Knows is not good enough for her till he will f.. change. Who will watch you from far on Insta FB or any other media? Only who cares..
Thats the reason he block her..lets be realistic
If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
Oh maybe I worded that wrong. He can certainly see me because I have the same car, but I doubt he knows I can see him. I only saw the car once when we hung out that time, and only know it is him because I memorized the license plate. And the Monday and Friday thing is just because of work. I am not sure if he realizes it's on Mondays and Fridays, but I certainly do because he works early, and those are my two earliest days.
If he is interested, he knows. Probably knows your plates too.
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Oh, I'm sure! Even that time we had coffee he said he sees me everywhere driving, but he knows I do not see him because obviously I would not know he has a new car
If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
Oh maybe I worded that wrong. He can certainly see me because I have the same car, but I doubt he knows I can see him. I only saw the car once when we hung out that time, and only know it is him because I memorized the license plate. And the Monday and Friday thing is just because of work. I am not sure if he realizes it's on Mondays and Fridays, but I certainly do because he works early, and those are my two earliest days.
If he is interested, he knows. Probably knows your plates too.
Oh, I'm sure! Even that time we had coffee he said he sees me everywhere driving, but he knows I do not see him because obviously I would not know he has a new car
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I think he is lying, downplaying the extent of his "paying attention" for appearances sake.
Is the route you see him on the most convenient for him?
If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
Oh maybe I worded that wrong. He can certainly see me because I have the same car, but I doubt he knows I can see him. I only saw the car once when we hung out that time, and only know it is him because I memorized the license plate. And the Monday and Friday thing is just because of work. I am not sure if he realizes it's on Mondays and Fridays, but I certainly do because he works early, and those are my two earliest days.
If he is interested, he knows. Probably knows your plates too.
Oh, I'm sure! Even that time we had coffee he said he sees me everywhere driving, but he knows I do not see him because obviously I would not know he has a new car
I think he is lying, downplaying the extent of his "paying attention" for appearances sake.
Is the route you see him on the most convenient for him?
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If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
Oh maybe I worded that wrong. He can certainly see me because I have the same car, but I doubt he knows I can see him. I only saw the car once when we hung out that time, and only know it is him because I memorized the license plate. And the Monday and Friday thing is just because of work. I am not sure if he realizes it's on Mondays and Fridays, but I certainly do because he works early, and those are my two earliest days.
If he is interested, he knows. Probably knows your plates too.
Oh, I'm sure! Even that time we had coffee he said he sees me everywhere driving, but he knows I do not see him because obviously I would not know he has a new car
I think he is lying, downplaying the extent of his "paying attention" for appearances sake.
Is the route you see him on the most convenient for him?
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Quotes went to shit, cant see what you wrote.
If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
Oh maybe I worded that wrong. He can certainly see me because I have the same car, but I doubt he knows I can see him. I only saw the car once when we hung out that time, and only know it is him because I memorized the license plate. And the Monday and Friday thing is just because of work. I am not sure if he realizes it's on Mondays and Fridays, but I certainly do because he works early, and those are my two earliest days.
If he is interested, he knows. Probably knows your plates too.
Oh, I'm sure! Even that time we had coffee he said he sees me everywhere driving, but he knows I do not see him because obviously I would not know he has a new car
I think he is lying, downplaying the extent of his "paying attention" for appearances sake.
Is the route you see him on the most convenient for him?
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Sorry i pressed by mistake!
love the way @Mr_Pinchy is thinking and going deep on the story.. Take note librak924
If he knows what's best for him, he'll stay away from someone he had a relationship with while coked out. It's a great way to relapse if you're trying to stay sober.
“No I’m good, we should leave it as is”
Blocks you.
Why do people do this to themselves 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Believe the words out his mouth AND his actions. He took you up on your invite for coffee/lunch for old times sake. He doesn’t want anything more from you.
Following someone on social media means fuck all.
Don’t linger. Take what’s left of your dignity and move tf on.
Exactly! 🤦 #dignity
Oh, I forgot he blocked her. lol
I love Aquarians lmao
Translate block please..I find lots of frustrations in this stuff! And to come back one day like nothing happened? Tipic aqua..
Weakness ...we all experienced this stuff . Look at her story..the guy was OUT from her life for a reason...she wants him and loves him or whatever ..but he Knows is not good enough for her till he will f.. change. Who will watch you from far on Insta FB or any other media? Only who cares..
Thats the reason he block her..lets be realistic
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When he texted me does not want to again, I texted him back but I had already been blocked via text. These shitposters are just bored, or hate Libras.
But I am not sure if I want him, I would not mind him as a friend but I think he is just going through whatever notions from being freshly sober
If he knows what's best for him, he'll stay away from someone he had a relationship with while coked out. It's a great way to relapse if you're trying to stay sober.
Yes! That's what I figure too. Gotta change people, places, and things
should count the story the full story. here its a part of it
they had something in the back together, well that part is important to can see exactly why this guy is doing this shit now. Why people are going to conclusion so fast?
If he has a new car, how would that stop him from seeing you on the road, so knowing about Mondays and Fridays.
Oh maybe I worded that wrong. He can certainly see me because I have the same car, but I doubt he knows I can see him. I only saw the car once when we hung out that time, and only know it is him because I memorized the license plate. And the Monday and Friday thing is just because of work. I am not sure if he realizes it's on Mondays and Fridays, but I certainly do because he works early, and those are my two earliest days.
If he is interested, he knows. Probably knows your plates too.
Oh, I'm sure! Even that time we had coffee he said he sees me everywhere driving, but he knows I do not see him because obviously I would not know he has a new car
I think he is lying, downplaying the extent of his "paying attention" for appearances sake.
Is the route you see him on the most convenient for him?
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Yes, me as well.
You're manipulative.
What a headache.
Why do you want him back in your life? He told you "No I'm good, I think we should leave it as is."
Aquarius is friends with everyone.
Where did I say I want him back in my life? I'm wondering wtf he followed me. No need to be a prick. Found it odd he followed me as soon as I put my thing on private.
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Then ask him! If you ask stupid questions and get an answer you don't desire, it doesn't make the responder a "prick". You have to take the good, the bad and the ugly sometimes. It's part of growth.
Oh, I forgot he blocked her. lol
I love Aquarians lmao
Translate block please..I find lots of frustrations in this stuff! And to come back one day like nothing happened? Tipic aqua..
Weakness ...we all experienced this stuff . Look at her story..the guy was OUT from her life for a reason...she wants him and loves him or whatever ..but he Knows is not good enough for her till he will f.. change. Who will watch you from far on Insta FB or any other media? Only who cares..
Thats the reason he block her..lets be realistic
She stated he blocked her on her phone. Yes, he was out of her life but she invited him back in. I read her post and stated the obvious.
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Did not invite him back in by asking him to request me on Instagram, but okay
should count the story the full story. here its a part of it
they had something in the back together, well that part is important to can see exactly why this guy is doing this shit now. Why people are going to conclusion so fast?
People be slow today lol
I will not ask anything. People have to fix them stuff by themselves.
Just be you..and continue to be you. Let him eat his frustration.
Oh, I forgot he blocked her. lol
I love Aquarians lmao
Translate block please..I find lots of frustrations in this stuff! And to come back one day like nothing happened? Tipic aqua..
Weakness ...we all experienced this stuff . Look at her story..the guy was OUT from her life for a reason...she wants him and loves him or whatever ..but he Knows is not good enough for her till he will f.. change. Who will watch you from far on Insta FB or any other media? Only who cares..
Thats the reason he block her..lets be realistic
She stated he blocked her on her phone. Yes, he was out of her life but she invited him back in. I read her post and stated the obvious.
Did not invite him back in by asking him to request me on Instagram, but okay
"Go our separate ways. I text him later at night just a simple "hey it was nice seeing you, hope I see you again soon." No answer
I text again "Hey wanna go for coffee again?"
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I text again. 3 weeks later. He says what he says. Then blocks me. 2 months later requests me on Instagram. Okay
you are a girl most probably full of life, ins it? Forget what he does. Think for yourself..and what is good for you! Block/unblocked etc...I know it hurts sometimes. The man is weak, he will watch you from far till you let him do it! he has to change the black points..its not your job to do it
you are a girl most probably full of life, ins it? Forget what he does. Think for yourself..and what is good for you! Block/unblocked etc...I know it hurts sometimes. The man is weak, he will watch you from far till you let him do it! he has to change the black points..its not your job to do it
We shall see what happens! I am not too concerned, just curious
I see.. Time will tell for sure
Oh, I forgot he blocked her. lol
I love Aquarians lmao
Translate block please..I find lots of frustrations in this stuff! And to come back one day like nothing happened? Tipic aqua..
Weakness ...we all experienced this stuff . Look at her story..the guy was OUT from her life for a reason...she wants him and loves him or whatever ..but he Knows is not good enough for her till he will f.. change. Who will watch you from far on Insta FB or any other media? Only who cares..
Thats the reason he block her..lets be realistic
She stated he blocked her on her phone. Yes, he was out of her life but she invited him back in. I read her post and stated the obvious.
Did not invite him back in by asking him to request me on Instagram, but okay
"Go our separate ways. I text him later at night just a simple "hey it was nice seeing you, hope I see you again soon." No answer
I text again "Hey wanna go for coffee again?"
I text again. 3 weeks later. He says what he says. Then blocks me. 2 months later requests me on Instagram. Okay
He wants to be friends from afar.
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I could see it as a possibility. Maybe even reaching out again at some point. I honestly believe he wanted out of my life because just focusing on being sober. I am not sure what I would want to happen, if anything.
And idk if you and me had miscommunication or something, sorry for calling you a prick 🙂
Which one of us lol
“No I’m good, we should leave it as is”
Blocks you.
Why do people do this to themselves 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Believe the words out his mouth AND his actions. He took you up on your invite for coffee/lunch for old times sake. He doesn’t want anything more from you.
Following someone on social media means fuck all.
Don’t linger. Take what’s left of your dignity and move tf on.
Go shitpost someone elses post. "Believe his mouth and his ACTIONS" which is following my on social media two months after he said he did not want to continue. I know this dude, the social media thing is pretty big. Wouldn't be here otherwise
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Following someone on social media does not mean he wants to fuck or have a relationship. That’s absolutely inane.
If he wanted those things he wouldn’t have ghosted your texts reaching out after you invited him out again and to add insult to injury he blocked you.
Read the writing on the wall. This delusional hopeful thinking is only gonna hurt yourself at the end of the day.
“No I’m good, we should leave it as is”
Blocks you.
Why do people do this to themselves 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Believe the words out his mouth AND his actions. He took you up on your invite for coffee/lunch for old times sake. He doesn’t want anything more from you.
Following someone on social media means fuck all.
Don’t linger. Take what’s left of your dignity and move tf on.
Go shitpost someone elses post. "Believe his mouth and his ACTIONS" which is following my on social media two months after he said he did not want to continue. I know this dude, the social media thing is pretty big. Wouldn't be here otherwise
Following someone on social media does not mean he wants to fuck or have a relationship. That’s absolutely inane.
If he wanted those things he wouldn’t have ghosted you texts reaching out AND blocked you.
Read the writing on the wall. This delusional hopeful thinking is only gonna hurt yourself at the end of the day.
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Lol girl I'll bet you that we fuck in the next few months. Ain't nothing gonna hurt me because it's not something I care about, just curious about
Can you please tell about your placement?? Or about yourself
Did you get the feeling she might be good in bed just by reading her posts in this thread too? 🤔
😇
“No I’m good, we should leave it as is”
Blocks you.
Why do people do this to themselves 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Believe the words out his mouth AND his actions. He took you up on your invite for coffee/lunch for old times sake. He doesn’t want anything more from you.
Following someone on social media means fuck all.
Don’t linger. Take what’s left of your dignity and move tf on.
Go shitpost someone elses post. "Believe his mouth and his ACTIONS" which is following my on social media two months after he said he did not want to continue. I know this dude, the social media thing is pretty big. Wouldn't be here otherwise
Following someone on social media does not mean he wants to fuck or have a relationship. That’s absolutely inane.
If he wanted those things he wouldn’t have ghosted you texts reaching out AND blocked you.
Read the writing on the wall. This delusional hopeful thinking is only gonna hurt yourself at the end of the day.
Lol girl I'll bet you that we fuck in the next few months. Ain't nothing gonna hurt me because it's not something I care about, just curious about
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Good luck
Why did you break up? If it was a really bad breakup why would you want to go there again?
I'm not saying I'm going there again, I'm asking what might be in his mind to have requested to follow me. We broke up because he spent his half of the rent money on drugs.
It seems he doesn't really want to go down that path again because he knows it's not good for him hence why he blocked you. Did you break up with him or the other way around? I think it's the best you just leave him alone because he clearly has some bad emotions related to you otherwise he would have been OK with being friends and talking to you.
He might be confused so he is watching from far but he knows if he spends time with you old feelings might resurrect whether it's good or bad feelings it's for sure something he doesn't want to revisit. Let him be is my advice.
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Yea I’m not gonna do anything but I figure requesting him too is a small enough thing. I agree 100% he’s confused and I think old things would def resurrect if anything happened. I don’t remember if it was him or me
Hello everyone. New story here. I have posted here a few times about a certain Aquarius, and this is a completely different story, completely different Aquarius. This one has Cap moon, Cap Venus. I was his first real love. He always told me he's never been closer to anyone in his life.
So we were in an on and off relationship from 2013-2017. Broke up for good Feb. of 2017. That was a baaaaaadd, bad, no good very bad breakup. Anyway, time goes on and we go our separate ways, date other people whatever.
This past Jan., I have an epiphany of sorts, and decide to reach out to him to go out for coffee and catch up. He graciously agrees. We have coffee. We have lunch. It was a lovely time. So lovely, that I figure we would do it again. We hug goodbye. Go our separate ways. I text him later at night just a simple "hey it was nice seeing you, hope I see you again soon." No answer. One week goes by. Two weeks go by. Three weeks. Nothing. I text again "Hey wanna go for coffee again?" "No I'm good, I think we should leave it as is." And he blocked me. Okay whatever.
Something I should mention, he was 8 months sober (now 10 months sober I am assuming) from that white powder stuff that makes you hyper. That was actually one of the roots of our problems while dating. So I did not take offence that he did not want to see me again, I understand he's just getting his shit together and I'd probably be a distraction. No big deal, hope he does well.
Fast forward to yesterday. I woke up early in the AM to get ready for work. And for some reason, I decided to make my Instagram account private. No biggie. I am driving to work and see him at an intersection driving as well. No biggie, I see him most Monday and Friday mornings on the ride to work. I never look at him, and he probably doesn't even know I know when he drives by because he got a new car. I only saw it that time we had coffee, but I am a creep and a freak and memorize peoples license plates. Not sure if he remembers that little tidbit about me. Anyway, yesterday evening. He requested to follow me on Instagram. I accepted, and requested to follow him back. He did not accept. I am sure he will in time, but idk.
Anyway, WTF. Should I expect to hear from him at some point? I have a feeling he always used to look at my Instagram, went to look at it last night, saw it's private and freaked out.
Any input here?
Most of the time aquarius is toxic for libra ... And vice versa, go get fire it's better 🔥 🔥 🔥
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Preach!
Oh, I forgot he blocked her. lol
I love Aquarians lmao
Translate block please..I find lots of frustrations in this stuff! And to come back one day like nothing happened? Tipic aqua..
Weakness ...we all experienced this stuff . Look at her story..the guy was OUT from her life for a reason...she wants him and loves him or whatever ..but he Knows is not good enough for her till he will f.. change. Who will watch you from far on Insta FB or any other media? Only who cares..
Thats the reason he block her..lets be realistic
Can you please tell about your placement?? Or about yourself
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Im not an aqua. My adoptive parents are both aquarius, plus the man who stole' my mind for few years now
Sun Scorpio
Ascendant Aquarius
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Scorpio
Mars Leo
Can you please tell about your placement?? Or about yourself
Did you get the feeling she might be good in bed just by reading her posts in this thread too? 🤔
😇
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Hahahaha. Good one again @Mr_Pinchy
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Hello everyone. New story here. I have posted here a few times about a certain Aquarius, and this is a completely different story, completely different Aquarius. This one has Cap moon, Cap Venus. I was his first real love. He always told me he's never been closer to anyone in his life.
So we were in an on and off relationship from 2013-2017. Broke up for good Feb. of 2017. That was a baaaaaadd, bad, no good very bad breakup. Anyway, time goes on and we go our separate ways, date other people whatever.
This past Jan., I have an epiphany of sorts, and decide to reach out to him to go out for coffee and catch up. He graciously agrees. We have coffee. We have lunch. It was a lovely time. So lovely, that I figure we would do it again. We hug goodbye. Go our separate ways. I text him later at night just a simple "hey it was nice seeing you, hope I see you again soon." No answer. One week goes by. Two weeks go by. Three weeks. Nothing. I text again "Hey wanna go for coffee again?" "No I'm good, I think we should leave it as is." And he blocked me. Okay whatever.
Something I should mention, he was 8 months sober (now 10 months sober I am assuming) from that white powder stuff that makes you hyper. That was actually one of the roots of our problems while dating. So I did not take offence that he did not want to see me again, I understand he's just getting his shit together and I'd probably be a distraction. No big deal, hope he does well.
Fast forward to yesterday. I woke up early in the AM to get ready for work. And for some reason, I decided to make my Instagram account private. No biggie. I am driving to work and see him at an intersection driving as well. No biggie, I see him most Monday and Friday mornings on the ride to work. I never look at him, and he probably doesn't even know I know when he drives by because he got a new car. I only saw it that time we had coffee, but I am a creep and a freak and memorize peoples license plates. Not sure if he remembers that little tidbit about me. Anyway, yesterday evening. He requested to follow me on Instagram. I accepted, and requested to follow him back. He did not accept. I am sure he will in time, but idk.
Anyway, WTF. Should I expect to hear from him at some point? I have a feeling he always used to look at my Instagram, went to look at it last night, saw it's private and freaked out.
Any input here?