librasuncapmoon
@librasuncapmoon
8 Years
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Aquarius trying to get Scorpio to not be friends with me
Threesome at their place to mend relations? Sexual healing 'n shit.
You asked for thoughts. Here they are. 😂😂😂
You asked for thoughts. Here they are. 😂😂😂
Eventually it will be bros before hoes situation.
He's scared that you're going to fuck the Scorpio.
Which I think that you will too, so that's make two of us..
Me and him both. Cuz that's how bitches do.. Men and women don't hang out over and over for nothing ..
That's all that's going on.. He must really like you. He doesn't want his friend to fuck his bitch..
I just hope their not stupid enough to let you fuck up their friendship.
Which I think that you will too, so that's make two of us..
Me and him both. Cuz that's how bitches do.. Men and women don't hang out over and over for nothing ..
That's all that's going on.. He must really like you. He doesn't want his friend to fuck his bitch..
I just hope their not stupid enough to let you fuck up their friendship.
I am not down to treetrunk the Scorpio because I dont see him like that. The Scorpio and I have been hanging out more but in group situations. I made it clear to t
to the Scorpio that I adore his FRIENDSHIP. The Scorpio doesnt want to fight the Aqua nor stop being friends with me. I just feel bad that now the Scorpio is in the middle when this is between the Aqua and I. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to confront the Aqua or not since I know they dont do well with confrontation
Don't flatter yourself. He probably had a girl coming over and didn't want you there. Hence "tell her to come over tomorrow".
Btw I think you're going to have sex with the Scorp too. Sounds just like something most Libra females would do.
Btw I think you're going to have sex with the Scorp too. Sounds just like something most Libra females would do.
Posted by STILL
Don't flatter yourself. I will probably had a girl coming over and didn't want you there. Hence "tell to come over tomorrow".
Btw I think you're going to have sex with the Scorp too. Sounds just like something most Libra females would do.
Thats what I was thinking from the get go, that he was just bringing another girl. I dont mind if hes talking to other girls. And no the Scorpio is strictly friendship, dont assume I'd be the type to treetrunk a pair of friends just bc Im a libra :~)
Posted by Emhendo
He's scared that you're going to treetrunk the Scorpio.
Which I think that you will too, so that's make two of us..
Me and him both. Cuz that's how cookiemonsteres do.. Men and women don't hang out over and over for nothing ..
That's all that's going on.. He must really like you. He doesn't want his friend to treetrunk his cookiemonster..
I just hope their not stupid enough to let you treetrunk up their friendship.
I hang out w the Scorpio most of the time in group situatioms and alone when he wants to rant to me about his girl problems. I dont think hes into me because he would be making more of an effort if he was.
I expected more roasting for this shyte🙂
I agree with @STILL , dont flatter yourself
you want them both OP, or punish the aqua? ... you said "I dont think hes (the Scorp) into me because he would be making more of an effort if he was."
why you need to go their place, I dont know... they are roommates... if there is a CHEAP situation, this is it
and agree with @Bondgirl007, they will not take you seriously
I agree with @STILL , dont flatter yourself
you want them both OP, or punish the aqua? ... you said "I dont think hes (the Scorp) into me because he would be making more of an effort if he was."
why you need to go their place, I dont know... they are roommates... if there is a CHEAP situation, this is it
and agree with @Bondgirl007, they will not take you seriously
Posted by Pandora101
I expected more roasting for this shyte
I agree with @STILL , dont flatter yourself
you want them both OP, or punish the aqua? ... you said "I dont think hes (the Scorp) into me because he would be making more of an effort if he was."
why you need to go their place, I dont know... they are roommates... if there is a CHEAP situation, this is it
and agree with @Bondgirl007, they will not take you seriously
I dont want the Scorpio, just friendship. I was looking into wanting a fling with the Aqua but he wouldnt really text or reach out to me after that one encounter. So I just figured he friendzoned me. Now I feel confused as to why he is acting weird and wants the Scorpio (who I was friends with first, introduced me to Aqua) to stop seeing me. Aqua wont let Scorpio bring people over without his consent now, and Scorpio hasnt confronted Aqua with what he knows.
If you wanna roast me go ahead just give me a bone and include information about whats going on.
Posted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoon
I am not down to treetrunk the Scorpio because I dont see him like that. The Scorpio and I have been hanging out more but in group situations. I made it clear to t
You want the scorp too. Otherwise, why do you even care to mention him in this situation?click to expand
Because its obvious hes being affected by the situation when hes not supposed to be in the middle in the first place. We hung out as a group last night w other friends and some people were asking where Aqua is, and Scorpio felt uncomfortable addressing that Aqua was just at home and Scorpio didnt bring him because Aqua was being difficult.
Idk how to make it better for the Scorpio, the only way I can think of is to confront Aqua but I know Aqua's hate confrontation and tend to run from it.
Posted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoonPosted by Pandora101
I expected more roasting for this shyte
I agree with @STILL , dont flatter yourself
you want them both OP, or punish the aqua? ... you said "I dont think hes (the Scorp) into me because he would be making more of an effort if he was."
why you need to go their place, I dont know... they are roommates... if there is a CHEAP situation, this is it
and agree with @Bondgirl007, they will not take you seriously
I dont want the Scorpio, just friendship. I was looking into wanting a fling with the Aqua but he wouldnt really text or reach out to me after that one encounter. So I just figured he friendzoned me. Now I feel confused as to why he is acting weird and wants the Scorpio (who I was friends with first, introduced me to Aqua) to stop seeing me. Aqua wont let Scorpio bring people over without his consent now, and Scorpio hasnt confronted Aqua with what he knows.
If you wanna roast me go ahead just give me a bone and include information about whats going on.
Maybe aqua dont want you hanging around. Their place is his safe place. U being there when ge doesnt have anything to do with you is making his space smaller. Reaaly, who wants that? Its not that hes stopping the scorp from bringing people over. Lets admit it. No one can tell a scorp what to do. So its likely a mutual decision between two friends. Just not being direct with you.click to expand
I agree with that. Im just relaying what the Scorpio said to me, but its possible that thats their compromise. But even then like the Scorpio mentioned to one of the friends "Can I crash at your dorm for a bit I just dont even feel like being home"
and Scorpio told me he hasnt confronted Aqua about anything, like brought anything up. So I kind of believe that, and it just seems like now hes leaving Aqua in the dark and Aqua doesnt know why. Im thinking it would be better to just confront Aqua before Scorpio and Aqua get into a fight over Aqua's attempts to trying to make the house a safe space (which i understand) by controlling who the Scorpio brings/cannot bring.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by BondGirl007Look at us tossing ideas lmaoPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoon
I am not down to treetrunk the Scorpio because I dont see him like that. The Scorpio and I have been hanging out more but in group situations. I made it clear to t
You want the scorp too. Otherwise, why do you even care to mention him in this situation?
I think Scorp wants her. Otherwise why would he tell on his friend?
He wants to sleep with her. Lol and she wants it too
Idk. Why can't he sleep with her without telling her about the aqua and his demands?
We are bored, aren't we?
I should go out.click to expand
I think Scorpio had a crush on me in the beginning, but there were instances where Aqua and I danced and kissed and Scorpio saw. I think from then he backed off, and then I started being there for him as a friend when he was going through family and girl problems now I know we both are on the same page with friendship.
One of my friends thinks a reason the Aqua didnt tell the Scorpio of us treetrunking was maybe because the Aqua knew the Scorpio had a crush and was actively pursuing at the time. I only had those intentions with the Aqua but never with Scorpio.
Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by AerialView
Eventually it will be bros before hoes situation.
Hard!!!!
Why do Libra’s get off on wedging?
I got a libra acquaintance who does that with my Scorp friend. She plays both of us and gets the buttertttz when we have coffee without her.
Posts cryptic snaps about how great her life is straight after my Scorpio friend snaps me saying/doing random Shyt.
Meh
But cmon Libra... Share!!click to expand
I mean "playing" would have to involve her treating both of you guys as if she wants to actively pursue a relationship with both of you. If its "having fun" from the get go and thats made clear, then its okay. The problem is that shes "having fun" with a pair of friends and even I wouldnt think thats a good idea.
Posted by Pleistoanax
Have a one on one talk with the Aqua and make your intentions clear and once you did stick with them.
Thank you, thats what I was thinking. But how to do that when he doesnt wanna see me?
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by librasuncapmoonPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by BondGirl007Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoon
I am not down to treetrunk the Scorpio because I dont see him like that. The Scorpio and I have been hanging out more but in group situations. I made it clear to t
You want the scorp too. Otherwise, why do you even care to mention him in this situation?
I think Scorp wants her. Otherwise why would he tell on his friend?
He wants to sleep with her. Lol and she wants it too
Look at us tossing ideas lmao
Idk. Why can't he sleep with her without telling her about the aqua and his demands?
We are bored, aren't we?
I should go out.
I think Scorpio had a crush on me in the beginning, but there were instances where Aqua and I danced and kissed and Scorpio saw. I think from then he backed off, and then I started being there for him as a friend when he was going through family and girl problems now I know we both are on the same page with friendship.
One of my friends thinks a reason the Aqua didnt tell the Scorpio of us treetrunking was maybe because the Aqua knew the Scorpio had a crush and was actively pursuing at the time. I only had those intentions with the Aqua but never with Scorpio.
That sucks. Did the scorp knew you guys were like dating?
Idk this looks messy.
No offense but I won't get into this situation. In your place best thing to do would be to exit the scene but that's me.click to expand
I understand where you are coming from and in hindsight I will not have this relationship with someone within the same friend group for sure. An Aqua eould be the last person I would expect to be making something weird out of nothing.
I feel like I could exit the scene but its hard to yanno. I want to at least try to talk to the Aqua to maybe redirect his assumptions or feelings that may be causing this. But he does think of the house as a safe space so i dont know how to reach out without violating that
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by librasuncapmoonPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by BondGirl007Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoon
I am not down to treetrunk the Scorpio because I dont see him like that. The Scorpio and I have been hanging out more but in group situations. I made it clear to t
You want the scorp too. Otherwise, why do you even care to mention him in this situation?
I think Scorp wants her. Otherwise why would he tell on his friend?
He wants to sleep with her. Lol and she wants it too
Look at us tossing ideas lmao
Idk. Why can't he sleep with her without telling her about the aqua and his demands?
We are bored, aren't we?
I should go out.
I think Scorpio had a crush on me in the beginning, but there were instances where Aqua and I danced and kissed and Scorpio saw. I think from then he backed off, and then I started being there for him as a friend when he was going through family and girl problems now I know we both are on the same page with friendship.
One of my friends thinks a reason the Aqua didnt tell the Scorpio of us treetrunking was maybe because the Aqua knew the Scorpio had a crush and was actively pursuing at the time. I only had those intentions with the Aqua but never with Scorpio.
That sucks. Did the scorp knew you guys were like dating?
Idk this looks messy.
No offense but I won't get into this situation. In your place best thing to do would be to exit the scene but that's me.click to expand
We werent dating because Aqua would only do that stuff when I was conveniently there, Scorpio would invite me to things. Aqua didnt care enough to reach out and would be nice and friendly when im in front of him but very indifferent and aloof through text or anywhere else.
Posted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoonPosted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoonPosted by Pandora101
I expected more roasting for this shyte
I agree with @STILL , dont flatter yourself
you want them both OP, or punish the aqua? ... you said "I dont think hes (the Scorp) into me because he would be making more of an effort if he was."
why you need to go their place, I dont know... they are roommates... if there is a CHEAP situation, this is it
and agree with @Bondgirl007, they will not take you seriously
I dont want the Scorpio, just friendship. I was looking into wanting a fling with the Aqua but he wouldnt really text or reach out to me after that one encounter. So I just figured he friendzoned me. Now I feel confused as to why he is acting weird and wants the Scorpio (who I was friends with first, introduced me to Aqua) to stop seeing me. Aqua wont let Scorpio bring people over without his consent now, and Scorpio hasnt confronted Aqua with what he knows.
If you wanna roast me go ahead just give me a bone and include information about whats going on.
Maybe aqua dont want you hanging around. Their place is his safe place. U being there when ge doesnt have anything to do with you is making his space smaller. Reaaly, who wants that? Its not that hes stopping the scorp from bringing people over. Lets admit it. No one can tell a scorp what to do. So its likely a mutual decision between two friends. Just not being direct with you.
I agree with that. Im just relaying what the Scorpio said to me, but its possible that thats their compromise. But even then like the Scorpio mentioned to one of the friends "Can I crash at your dorm for a bit I just dont even feel like being home"
and Scorpio told me he hasnt confronted Aqua about anything, like brought anything up. So I kind of believe that, and it just seems like now hes leaving Aqua in the dark and Aqua doesnt know why. Im thinking it would be better to just confront Aqua before Scorpio and Aqua get into a fight over Aqua's attempts to trying to make the house a safe space (which i understand) by controlling who the Scorpio brings/cannot bring.
Hmmmm. I think you will be better off not getting involved in their arrangements coz they live together. If you talk to the aqua about what the scorp said he will get defensive and you will get stressed. Who needs stress these days? And if the aqua talks to the scorp abot what u said to him, it will just appear very silly as well. Those are guys. Guys never argue like we women do. If anything they will jsut let the situation be and move on with their lives. So it will be best for you to do the same and let them be as well.click to expand
Thank you I appreciate that. Yeah and I wouldnt want to pester them or make the situation worse. maybe time is just what the Aqua needs to kind of refresh and get over things hopefully.
Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by librasuncapmoonPosted by Pleistoanax
Have a one on one talk with the Aqua and make your intentions clear and once you did stick with them.
Thank you, thats what I was thinking. But how to do that when he doesnt wanna see me?
Aww, yeah. That's the difficult part.
I fear you may have to do your own small walk to Canossa to soften him p enough for a meeting.
At the moment I don't know how it can be done but once you are there and are allowed to voice your intentions thingsshould calm down a bit.
Us Aquas are crazy, annoying, difficult and just plain dicks at time but we can be reasoned with as long as there is no drama.click to expand
Yes I see. Thank you. Would texting him to ask him to talk be a bad move? Or does the fact that he doesnt even want me in the house signal that thats not the best move.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by librasuncapmoonPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by librasuncapmoonPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by BondGirl007Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoon
I am not down to treetrunk the Scorpio because I dont see him like that. The Scorpio and I have been hanging out more but in group situations. I made it clear to t
You want the scorp too. Otherwise, why do you even care to mention him in this situation?
I think Scorp wants her. Otherwise why would he tell on his friend?
He wants to sleep with her. Lol and she wants it too
Look at us tossing ideas lmao
Idk. Why can't he sleep with her without telling her about the aqua and his demands?
We are bored, aren't we?
I should go out.
I think Scorpio had a crush on me in the beginning, but there were instances where Aqua and I danced and kissed and Scorpio saw. I think from then he backed off, and then I started being there for him as a friend when he was going through family and girl problems now I know we both are on the same page with friendship.
One of my friends thinks a reason the Aqua didnt tell the Scorpio of us treetrunking was maybe because the Aqua knew the Scorpio had a crush and was actively pursuing at the time. I only had those intentions with the Aqua but never with Scorpio.
That sucks. Did the scorp knew you guys were like dating?
Idk this looks messy.
No offense but I won't get into this situation. In your place best thing to do would be to exit the scene but that's me.
We werent dating because Aqua would only do that stuff when I was conveniently there, Scorpio would invite me to things. Aqua didnt care enough to reach out and would be nice and friendly when im in front of him but very indifferent and aloof through text or anywhere else.
Was the scorp dating you?!
I can't.
I'm sure you will know what to do.click to expand
I wasnt dating either of them! Scorpio is just friendship from the beginning, but the Aqua had an initial connection to it so we had a fling but now its not looking good. I really appreciate ur insight and well wishes to you, I hope you are able to go out tonight!
I remember two friends, scorpio and aquarius, they had this weird rivalry every time they saw someone attractive they'd "compete" to see who would bang first, but as usual when time passed some stubborn people wanted to stay in the group and some feelings did fly around, shorts dramas, messy situations, more misunderstanding, and much more.
in the end, the two friends are still friends, and I saw many faces come and go.
I think what I'm trying to say is.... when's the threesome 😆
in the end, the two friends are still friends, and I saw many faces come and go.
I think what I'm trying to say is.... when's the threesome 😆
Posted by librasuncapmoon
to the Scorpio that I adore his FRIENDSHIP. The Scorpio doesnt want to fight the Aqua nor stop being friends with me. I just feel bad that now the Scorpio is in the middle when this is between the Aqua and I. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to confront the Aqua or not since I know they dont do well with confrontation
The aqua may not want his space invaded by a chick he used to hit up for casual sex. That’s awkward for anyone tbh.
I don’t think he’s jealous of you or the scorp. He just doesn’t want to come home to you both chilling on the sofa and have to make fake small talk while cringing inside.
Posted by Endless
I remember two friends, scorpio and aquarius, they had this weird rivalry every time they saw someone attractive they'd "compete" to see who would bang first, but as usual when time passed some stubborn people wanted to stay in the group and some feelings did fly around, shorts dramas, messy situations, more misunderstanding, and much more.
in the end, the two friends are still friends, and I saw many faces come and go.
I think what I'm trying to say is.... when's the threesome
Now that you mention it there was one instance earlier on where it did seem like they were both trying to get my attention through a conversation but that feeling only lasted 30 seconds though, very fleeting.
I learned my lesson lol because I actually do value the Scorpios friendship and want to be accepted by the people in his life so hopefully this dies down and things can restart when this doesnt bother Aqua as much. Thanks for bringing up your own story 🙂
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by librasuncapmoon
to the Scorpio that I adore his FRIENDSHIP. The Scorpio doesnt want to fight the Aqua nor stop being friends with me. I just feel bad that now the Scorpio is in the middle when this is between the Aqua and I. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to confront the Aqua or not since I know they dont do well with confrontation
The aqua may not want his space invaded by a chick he used to hit up for casual sex. That’s awkward for anyone tbh.
I don’t think he’s jealous of you or the scorp. He just doesn’t want to come home to you both chilling on the sofa and have to make fake small talk while cringing inside.click to expand
Thats very true. I think this is the most accurate description of situation. However it doesnt add up why he asked scorpio about if i was seeing anyone, and then texted me, but didnt reply when i said i was open to seeing him.
Regardless, Im assuming ur advice would be to give both the Aqua and Scorpio, if not just the Aqua space right?
I think you (OP) is the one who is caught in the middle, not the scorp
where the fling with the aqua took place? at their house?
I still dont understand why you are so determined to go to their house.... I mean, dont you feel awkward to go there? cant you meet with the scorp in a pub or somewhere outside?
the only reason I can see why you are so adamant to go to their place is that you want to:
a) get back at the Aqua
b) get back the Aqua
c) you are thrilled with this drama and feel important, doesnt matter at what cost
d) you want to fuck the scorp and you two have no other place to do the deed
e) —
where the fling with the aqua took place? at their house?
I still dont understand why you are so determined to go to their house.... I mean, dont you feel awkward to go there? cant you meet with the scorp in a pub or somewhere outside?
the only reason I can see why you are so adamant to go to their place is that you want to:
a) get back at the Aqua
b) get back the Aqua
c) you are thrilled with this drama and feel important, doesnt matter at what cost
d) you want to fuck the scorp and you two have no other place to do the deed
e) —
It's the code thing, no one really wants the person they're dealing/dating/hooking up with hanging out with the opposite sex. And in your case, it's his roommate, even though it's not serious but he's going to feel weird about it knowing that you and the Scorp are close. He probably won't discuss about it and let it slide because it's nothing to him but fun. Or either, in his head, he thinks that the Scorp has feelings for you even though you clearly saying it just friends.
Posted by Pandora101
I think you (OP) is the one who is caught in the middle, not the scorp
where the fling with the aqua took place? at their house?
I still dont understand why you are so determined to go to their house.... I mean, dont you feel awkward to go there? cant you meet with the scorp in a pub or somewhere outside?
the only reason I can see why you are so adamant to go to their place is that you want to:
a) get back at the Aqua
b) get back the Aqua
c) you are thrilled with this drama and feel important, doesnt matter at what cost
d) you want to treetrunk the scorp and you two have no other place to do the deed
e) —
No the scorpio is caught in the middle because he didnt have abything to do with it to begin with and now hes feeling the effects of everything. You could say im in the middle if they had pre existing problems and this just makes it worse.
Its because theyre house is the "hang out" and I had no problem coming ocer previous to this. Aqua even offered their wifi to me to use freely because my wifi was disconnected due to miscommunication with my roommates.
Its just the "sudden change" when really nothing has happened and Aqua now having control over who Scorpio can bring over or not. Like it makes the situation weird. Because before it was fine and now its not.
Posted by Pandora101
I think you (OP) is the one who is caught in the middle, not the scorp
where the fling with the aqua took place? at their house?
I still dont understand why you are so determined to go to their house.... I mean, dont you feel awkward to go there? cant you meet with the scorp in a pub or somewhere outside?
the only reason I can see why you are so adamant to go to their place is that you want to:
a) get back at the Aqua
b) get back the Aqua
c) you are thrilled with this drama and feel important, doesnt matter at what cost
d) you want to treetrunk the scorp and you two have no other place to do the deed
e) —
We hang out outside the house but imagine wanting to bring people over which you had no problem doing before and now theres a bunch of rules and regulations and you dont even understand why because Aqua didnt even tell Scorpio
Posted by Snowx3
It's the code thing, no one really wants the person they're dealing/dating/hooking up with hanging out with the opposite sex. And in your case, it's his roommate, even though it's not serious but he's going to feel weird about it knowing that you and the Scorp are close. He probably won't discuss about it and let it slide because it's nothing to him but fun. Or either, in his head, he thinks that the Scorp has feelings for you even though you clearly saying it just friends.
Thank you
eww
all i saw is that you fuckd the aqua and now want to do the scorpio?
i would not want a man who has another woman he was intimate with.
my singularity aqua will never want that. Detach.
(could be my 1st house, i want to be number 1)
and i will be super jealous and everyone will PAY! for getting me in the middle.
so ...see ya later aligator!!!
😛
all i saw is that you fuckd the aqua and now want to do the scorpio?
i would not want a man who has another woman he was intimate with.
my singularity aqua will never want that. Detach.
(could be my 1st house, i want to be number 1)
and i will be super jealous and everyone will PAY! for getting me in the middle.
so ...see ya later aligator!!!
😛
Posted by librasuncapmoonPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by librasuncapmoon
to the Scorpio that I adore his FRIENDSHIP. The Scorpio doesnt want to fight the Aqua nor stop being friends with me. I just feel bad that now the Scorpio is in the middle when this is between the Aqua and I. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to confront the Aqua or not since I know they dont do well with confrontation
The aqua may not want his space invaded by a chick he used to hit up for casual sex. That’s awkward for anyone tbh.
I don’t think he’s jealous of you or the scorp. He just doesn’t want to come home to you both chilling on the sofa and have to make fake small talk while cringing inside.
Thats very true. I think this is the most accurate description of situation. However it doesnt add up why he asked scorpio about if i was seeing anyone, and then texted me, but didnt reply when i said i was open to seeing him.
Regardless, Im assuming ur advice would be to give both the Aqua and Scorpio, if not just the Aqua space right?click to expand
No reason to stop hanging out with the scorp. Just don’t hang out at his place.
Don’t text the aqua either. Give him his space. Just focus on your friendship with the scorp
Posted by lisabethur8
eww
all i saw is that you treetrunkd the aqua and now want to do the scorpio?
i would not want a man who has another woman he was intimate with.
my singularity aqua will never want that. Detach.
(could be my 1st house, i want to be number 1)
and i will be super jealous and everyone will PAY! for getting me in the middle.
so ...see ya later aligator!!!
Please read through the thread instead of skimming. No where have I said I want to treetrunk the Scorpio and I have mentioned like 5 times about just wanting friendship with the Scorpio. Nevertheless, I appreciate you taking the time to write your thoughts and your opinions down to help.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by librasuncapmoonPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by librasuncapmoon
to the Scorpio that I adore his FRIENDSHIP. The Scorpio doesnt want to fight the Aqua nor stop being friends with me. I just feel bad that now the Scorpio is in the middle when this is between the Aqua and I. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to confront the Aqua or not since I know they dont do well with confrontation
The aqua may not want his space invaded by a chick he used to hit up for casual sex. That’s awkward for anyone tbh.
I don’t think he’s jealous of you or the scorp. He just doesn’t want to come home to you both chilling on the sofa and have to make fake small talk while cringing inside.
Thats very true. I think this is the most accurate description of situation. However it doesnt add up why he asked scorpio about if i was seeing anyone, and then texted me, but didnt reply when i said i was open to seeing him.
Regardless, Im assuming ur advice would be to give both the Aqua and Scorpio, if not just the Aqua space right?
No reason to stop hanging out with the scorp. Just don’t hang out at his place.
Don’t text the aqua either. Give him his space. Just focus on your friendship with the scorpclick to expand
Got it, I will follow that advice. I'll see if Aqua gets over it and if he doesnt, I feel like I'll say something then but like months down the line. But for right now I will give space and continue being friends with Scorpio. Thank you.
Posted by librasuncapmoonPosted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoon
I am not down to treetrunk the Scorpio because I dont see him like that. The Scorpio and I have been hanging out more but in group situations. I made it clear to t
You want the scorp too. Otherwise, why do you even care to mention him in this situation?
Because its obvious hes being affected by the situation when hes not supposed to be in the middle in the first place. We hung out as a group last night w other friends and some people were asking where Aqua is, and Scorpio felt uncomfortable addressing that Aqua was just at home and Scorpio didnt bring him because Aqua was being difficult.
Idk how to make it better for the Scorpio, the only way I can think of is to confront Aqua but I know Aqua's hate confrontation and tend to run from it.click to expand
Why won't you just leave those guys alone? It's not like scorp is your bestie and you've never had anyone like him wtf. Aqua doesn't want to fuck you anymore and obviously doesn't want to see you at his place. I would suggest you wise up and respect yourself enough, don't act like a street girl if you are not one !
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by librasuncapmoonPosted by BondGirl007Posted by librasuncapmoon
I am not down to treetrunk the Scorpio because I dont see him like that. The Scorpio and I have been hanging out more but in group situations. I made it clear to t
You want the scorp too. Otherwise, why do you even care to mention him in this situation?
Because its obvious hes being affected by the situation when hes not supposed to be in the middle in the first place. We hung out as a group last night w other friends and some people were asking where Aqua is, and Scorpio felt uncomfortable addressing that Aqua was just at home and Scorpio didnt bring him because Aqua was being difficult.
Idk how to make it better for the Scorpio, the only way I can think of is to confront Aqua but I know Aqua's hate confrontation and tend to run from it.
Why won't you just leave those guys alone? It's not like scorp is your bestie and you've never had anyone like him wtf. Aqua doesn't want to treetrunk you anymore and obviously doesn't want to see you at his place. I would suggest you wise up and respect yourself enough, don't act like a street girl if you are not one !click to expand
Im asking for advice within the current situation and Ill take roasting here and there but your comment doesnt even provide any help or advice, its just judging on the way I choose to live my life.
I also got advice already from other insightful people from this thread.
Theres nothing wrong with casual relationships, they dont mean im a "street girl", im just doing my own thing. If youre going to judge me go ahead but why tire out your dainty little fingers.
If the Scorpio wants me to leave Ill leave but he still makes plans with me obviously because he wants to keep our friendship. Im not making the situation about myself so why are you?
It's not unusual for an Aquarius to have casual sex, but they are really selective so I wouldn't be surprised if he had feelings for you. How I imagine this played out judging from the information you've posted is that the Aquarius caught feelings for you, and he probably got upset because you weren't being exclusive to him. Believe it or not, Aquarius' are exclusive when it comes to relationships, and they expect the same from their partners. And if you're anything like a Libra (which it sounds like you are), you're probably a flirt.
And I can't see why you'd want to hang out with the Scorpio at his and the Aquarius' place, knowing that the Aquarius has some sort of quarrel with you - other than to spite the Aquarius of course. This whole thing is messy but if it were me, I'd show some dignity and not press the Scorpio to hang around at their place.
And I can't see why you'd want to hang out with the Scorpio at his and the Aquarius' place, knowing that the Aquarius has some sort of quarrel with you - other than to spite the Aquarius of course. This whole thing is messy but if it were me, I'd show some dignity and not press the Scorpio to hang around at their place.
never met a Libra who didnt flatter themselves and tought they are the centre of the universe and everybody loves them (secretly or otherwise) 🙂 (just my experience)
so, to sum it up:
1. your gang usually hang out at their place outside
2. you had a fling with the Aqua who doesnt want to talk to you anymore
3. nevermind, because the Scorp still wants
4. so you are now after the Scorp (the only reason why you are telling you dont want to do the scorp is your answer I think on the first page - he seems friendly and you think he would make more effort if he wanted you)
5. How many boys are in your gang? you know, after you do the Scorp casually, like you like to do it and nothing wrong with it and he stops talking to you... if there will be another reason (another boy) so you can go back to their house and force your presence on the Aqua and later on (after the fling where you are heading with the Scorp), on the Scorp
maybe the Aqua and the Scorp have some unresolved room-mate issues and the Scorp is using you for some kind of revenge? I dont know, but this is not a good situation
I just feel that maybe the scorp is taking advantage of you a bit..
My advice is: meet the scorp somewhere else..... if he is inviting you to do things, you can do it somewhere else? problem solved
or the scorp´s friendship with you is limited only to their garden?
okey, I am maybe too harsh, but you are making a thread about the bad Aqua who is forbidding you to go to their place.... honestly, this Aqua and Scorp and their dynamics sounds toxic, maybe the Aqua is a douche/is in love with you/feeding off rivalry with the Scorp mutually.... I just dont want you to get hurt and you will get hurt if you now start with the scorp.... I am not sure about the Scorp´s motivation in this case...
so, to sum it up:
1. your gang usually hang out at their place outside
2. you had a fling with the Aqua who doesnt want to talk to you anymore
3. nevermind, because the Scorp still wants
4. so you are now after the Scorp (the only reason why you are telling you dont want to do the scorp is your answer I think on the first page - he seems friendly and you think he would make more effort if he wanted you)
5. How many boys are in your gang? you know, after you do the Scorp casually, like you like to do it and nothing wrong with it and he stops talking to you... if there will be another reason (another boy) so you can go back to their house and force your presence on the Aqua and later on (after the fling where you are heading with the Scorp), on the Scorp
maybe the Aqua and the Scorp have some unresolved room-mate issues and the Scorp is using you for some kind of revenge? I dont know, but this is not a good situation
I just feel that maybe the scorp is taking advantage of you a bit..
My advice is: meet the scorp somewhere else..... if he is inviting you to do things, you can do it somewhere else? problem solved
or the scorp´s friendship with you is limited only to their garden?
okey, I am maybe too harsh, but you are making a thread about the bad Aqua who is forbidding you to go to their place.... honestly, this Aqua and Scorp and their dynamics sounds toxic, maybe the Aqua is a douche/is in love with you/feeding off rivalry with the Scorp mutually.... I just dont want you to get hurt and you will get hurt if you now start with the scorp.... I am not sure about the Scorp´s motivation in this case...
Posted by celestinerose
It's not unusual for an Aquarius to have casual sex, but they are really selective so I wouldn't be surprised if he had feelings for you. How I imagine this played out judging from the information you've posted is that the Aquarius caught feelings for you, and he probably got upset because you weren't being exclusive to him. Believe it or not, Aquarius' are exclusive when it comes to relationships, and they expect the same from their partners. And if you're anything like a Libra (which it sounds like you are), you're probably a flirt.
And I can't see why you'd want to hang out with the Scorpio at his and the Aquarius' place, knowing that the Aquarius has some sort of quarrel with you - other than to spite the Aquarius of course. This whole thing is messy but if it were me, I'd show some dignity and not press the Scorpio to hang around at their place.
I appreciate your thorough analysis on the situation. I did not know the Aqua had a quarrel with me until the Scorpio told me he reacted to me coming over, he texted me two weeks ago being nice so I thought everything was okay. Since then I havent pressed hanging out at their spot. I thought the Aqua was probably entertaining another girl which is the lack of interest in me which is fine. I tried to reach out to the Aqua through text too but he didnt reply, so obviously I dont push it. I doubt the Aqua caught feelings because he wasnt making the effort to initiate plans. I actually wasnt seeing anyone but the Aqua for a good month until I thought he lost interest so I started dating again. Thank you for your thoughts and perspective.
Posted by Pandora101
never met a Libra who didnt flatter themselves and tought they are the centre of the universe and everybody loves them (secretly or otherwise) (just my experience)
so, to sum it up:
1. your gang usually hang out at their place outside
2. you had a fling with the Aqua who doesnt want to talk to you anymore
3. nevermind, because the Scorp still wants
4. so you are now after the Scorp (the only reason why you are telling you dont want to do the scorp is your answer I think on the first page - he seems friendly and you think he would make more effort if he wanted you)
5. How many boys are in your gang? you know, after you do the Scorp casually, like you like to do it and nothing wrong with it and he stops talking to you... if there will be another reason (another boy) so you can go back to their house and force your presence on the Aqua and later on (after the fling where you are heading with the Scorp), on the Scorp
maybe the Aqua and the Scorp have some unresolved room-mate issues and the Scorp is using you for some kind of revenge? I dont know, but this is not a good situation
I just feel that maybe the scorp is taking advantage of you a bit..
My advice is: meet the scorp somewhere else..... if he is inviting you to do things, you can do it somewhere else? problem solved
or the scorp´s friendship with you is limited only to their garden?
okey, I am maybe too harsh, but you are making a thread about the bad Aqua who is forbidding you to go to their place.... honestly, this Aqua and Scorp and their dynamics sounds toxic, maybe the Aqua is a douche/is in love with you/feeding off rivalry with the Scorp mutually.... I just dont want you to get hurt and you will get hurt if you now start with the scorp.... I am not sure about the Scorp´s motivation in this case...
I cannot say you are lying about your statement of Libras lol but I actually do care about Scorpio, and Im not trying to make drama for Aqua either.
If im making the Aqua sound "bad" thats not my intention at all! The Aqua is actually protective of the Scorpio and has a kind heart and is very generous. Even though he has a problem with me at the moment i guess i am not blind to the fact that he is a good friend and loving to those he cares about.
Yeah Im just going to keep the friendship with Scorpio and just hang out outside the house.
Scorpio was just a friend from the get go. I do gather that he had a crush on me before but I think were past that now and Im thinking were actually friends— (But I too am analyzing his motivations just in case because you cant trust everyone).
And no sorry, i meant that i feel like AQUA doesnt have feelings because he would actually reply if he did or something yanno.
I am 100% not going to have any casual relations with the Scorpio. Im not attracted to him in that way at all. Theres 3 guys (roomates) and 2 girls (me and my roommate) usually, but my roommate went back home for the summer so I would usually kick it with just Scorp and the other roommate. Aqua went back home, but comes back from time to time. He doesnt make it aware to me that he is back though.
I am kind of thinking they have a rivalry or preexisting problems already and maybe I am being used as a pawn. Because everyone on here SWORE ON THEIR MOM that Aqua would tell Scorpio about us..... but he didnt. He kept that a secret from his roommate. So that means something is up im guessing.
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