Aries male + Aquarius female, give me opinions

tell me abt ur experiences

I think it could work Ive seen it try to prosper but she was shy. Don't know the charts but I dont think a Ram has to worry about his forwardness, striking home is appreciated.

i have an aquarius friend, shes far from shy shes opposite she will yell in public and embarrass you if you say something wrong, gotta be very careful with her, just wondering they are all like that... i can put up with her but it would require effort like i would have to watch my mouth, not be mean, and i have to be mean all the time, so i would cause conflicts.. its like she doesnt get jokes sometimes, i have been training her so she is more used to it now but still i dont wanna push it.. its just things going through my head since she just broke up with her bf recently after daitng for 3 years, shes virgin

Posted by KingOfAries
i have an aquarius friend, shes far from shy shes opposite she will yell in public and embarrass you if you say something wrong, gotta be very careful with her, just wondering they are all like that... i can put up with her but it would require effort like i would have to watch my mouth, not be mean, and i have to be mean all the time, so i would cause conflicts.. its like she doesnt get jokes sometimes, i have been training her so she is more used to it now but still i dont wanna push it.. its just things going through my head since she just broke up with her bf recently after daitng for 3 years, shes virgin

it really depends on the chart and upbringing. Many Aqua suns (and moons, ect) are sensitive. But there are some far out ones there. You'll have to compare your charts to see if you're compatible.

That's a scary aqua you got there. I'm surprised many men want to date many aqua women. smh.

if you get one with loads of aqua, btw.....watch out! Explosive dynamite! Put up a sign "Caution: work in progress: Uranus upheaval dangerous and unsettling for the peaceful mind."

j/k

okay ill post our charts, will try at least, she is compatible because she shares my fked up views on humanity in a way, but thats not hte only thing she is drop dead gorgeous and a straight A student

HER
Sun Aquarius 11.40
Moon Capricorn 14.42
Mercury Aquarius 3.56
Venus Capricorn 8.35
Mars Capricorn 17.08
Jupiter Virgo 12.59 R
Saturn Aquarius 9.31
Uranus Capricorn 15.30
Neptune Capricorn 17.24
Pluto Scorpio 22.49
Lilith Aquarius 1.16
Asc node Capricorn 9.31

ME
Sun Aries 25.41
Moon Libra 2.17
Mercury Aries 0.19
Venus Aries 10.01
Mars Pisces 14.13
Jupiter Virgo 4.59 R
Saturn Aquarius 17.01
Uranus Capricorn 17.59
Neptune Capricorn 18.58
Pluto Scorpio 22.18 R
Lilith Aquarius 9.31
Asc node Capricorn 3.16

check out those Pluto's 😉

Posted by KingOfAries
check out those Pluto's 😉

hm well if you can satisfy that Capricorn Mars and Venus and Moon, then you're in. But unless you have SECURITY for her, then forget it. Sorry, just what Ive noticed.

Security: Women who look for a man who is ESTABLISHED in their career and successful.
If she's yelling at you to get away from her, listen to her. Don't stalk her. Find another girl that will meet your needs.

If you go to the Capricorn Board, you'll understand to some degree. Though some of the capricorn sun women have stronger influences in other signs/placements so they won't care about success/status quo and career.

In a way, they're similar to Taurus women's needs. Even to Virgo women's needs. If you got that down, you're in.

here you go, something to help you with mars/sun in capricorn:

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-women-capricorn.shtml<BR>
SUN or MARS in CAPRICORN
The man who attracts you seems serious, aloof, and detached, and somehow projects a hard-to-read "inscrutable" look that intrigues you.

You like a man who's ambitious and socially acceptable, and you're drawn to money, status, and power.

You may be attracted to men who are much older or younger than yourself, and to men from families with "old money" or long-established wealth and social standing (think "Kennedy" & "Rockefeller").
You could be a "material girl" who is more concerned with financial security than sexiness or romance. You may choose the up-and-coming or established career man over penniless romantics, sexy studs, or guys with good looks but poor prospects.

You can be slow to show your affections, so you are comfortable with a man who hides his feelings, and patient with one who takes time to commit - if he is serious about commitments. And you may expect a man to be patient with you too - and committed to you!

Basically, you "play for keeps" and are only interested in "serious" contenders in your game of love. ??2001 by Michael Star

Firstly, I would suggest erasing the personal info (upper left corner) in both charts.

Also, does she know you are posting her chart wheel on a internet board? I know she probably wouldn't mind, but asking for permission wouldn't hurt either.

Oh, and you need to enter both yours and your friend's time of birth if you want an accurate reading. The way the Moon and the ASC/DSC axis are aspected is VERY important when it comes to compatibility. Reducing the orbs to 80% would help as well. We don't want to waste any time in aspects that are too wide.

Finally about the jokes, her Sun is conjunct Saturn. Of course she doesn't get jokes... being serious about everything is part of her nature.

My mom doesnt know what time i was born, and its not on my Birth certificate, i wanna keep her out of this im just checking this for my own info..

Yes she is drawn to money and status, she recently found out that i am in stock trading and she got very excited, then the other day she texted me saying if i could lend her $ 160, i had no problem but instead of saying sure i replied in a couple of hours cause i was sleeping, i replied "hey, what for?" and then she replied back in like 15min "nevermind." I was just curious you know, but im sure its nothing big., just sucks i couldnt help, she told me she likes guys who she has to pursue. I had a big fight with her once and we had to work together, and she says "i just wanna let you know, after this we will not talk to each other dont text me dont call me.." then i interrupt her and say "NAMEEE NAMEEE as much as you want it to end I want it to end twice as badly, after this i dont want to see or hear from you, lets just get this project over with and not talk to each other again" then it really hurt her and she started trying to clear things out she hugged me in the end and we are friends for now.

Well even without her of birth i can tell her Moon is in Cap because the Moon moves about 13 degrees a day (just looked it up, lol). Not sure about yours, though.

The attraction certainly is there. You are mostly Aries and she has a lot of planets in Capricorn, cardinal signs. Aries tends to be direct and is quick to take action (fire), while Capricorn is direct as well but is way more cautious (earth). Your Aries Venus is square her Capricorn Venus and Mars. Mutual attraction will likely not turn into something deeper because you are not in tune with each most of the time. She may be too slow, serious and critical for your liking. It's going to be hard work if you want to make it happen.

i know it would be hard to make it work, but thinking back what our usual fights were about - it was her thinking that i was screwing up someones relationship when i wasnt the girl in a relationship liked me and was prety open about it, and we also fought because she thought i liked her too much, she also gave me hints cause i had sort of a unibrow never really cared but she is like "guys get their nails done their eye brows done and by bf blah blah blah" shed always mention it so i fixed that, then she started giving me hints how i should act around girls for her own liking, i didnt need to be taught, its just the specific way she liked how guys act, in a way i like the hints but then again why would she be saying that, we had a short convo the other day over the phone in the end she just shouted love you bye, we were talking very fast so being in the moment i shouted love you too then i realized wtf did i just say and she stopped too probably to laugh then "bye -bye" and thats it, and she is one of those 10/10 girls on the gorgeous scale

Hmmm, I don't know if i understand your post correctly...

She told you she would like a man to be "the girl" in the relationship? Also she's giving you hints in how you should behave in a relationship? If so then i would say that's just her preference. I don't think you have to pay attention to her if you are not comfortable with it. Also you only seem to talk about what she thinks/feels. It must be your Mars in Pisces letting her have her way so you can get what you want later. The danger here is that you may end up thinking that what she wants is what YOU want.

I curious about your POV, i would like to hear more. But try not to mention "her", talk about you.

no she doesnt want me to be a girl, she just gives me hints that she likes guys who are into themselves and who take care of themselves, the infamous metrosexual type i would guess, or a rough manly, anyway, idk i am friends with her for now, i guess it would be nice to have a relationship with her but she honestly can get very complicated at times, as a friend i dont say anything, usually, but once were used to each other i might yell at her that will cause tears cause she is very emotional, i heard her cry probably like 5 times, i never seen her cry tho, yes over the phone. abotu her ex or something like that, i dont want to get my hopes up or ask her out, ill be there as a friend, if she wants a relationship ill give her the pleasure of asking me out

Posted by Metoo
Hmmm, as a cap female when I cant express myself appropriately I act out a little, I am conscious of who is around but will get "quietly" angry with the person cauding me grief. Its a sign though that I at least feel comfortable enough to express my anger to you, if I dont care, you wont even "deserve" my anger or emotion.
You should both settle down and figure eachother out.
What do you mean you always have to be mean? I dont get that and it doesnt seem appropriate, it seems kind of passive aggressive? Just trying to understand what makes YOU tick. She will expect more steady/stable behavior in my opinion.

well being angry and upset are two different things, when she is angry she will let it out right away even in front of a crowd and american president, she doesnt care, this is what i hate the most about her, she likes to do it in public that way embarrassing you as well, i believe i wanted to tell her that if she does that one more time i will stop talking to her, but then we had that fight and never got to telling her.. When she is upset however its a completely different story, i got her upset by rejecting her letting her know that i dont want to be her friend or anything, she then got upset and we had a long talk where she was basically trying to steer things to better, admitting her faults and moving on, at least she could admit her faults unlike stubborn Gemini i was friends up to recently then ended up deleting her number she was insane.

But again I just wanted to know how "Us" would play out in an actual relationship, she does like financial stability, but that doesnt bother me so much because the major reason i like her is her gorgeousness, but she really likes that stability, i was joking and said that im gonna become a bum in the future and she was like why are u serious why are u serious

lol okay i see, and what about your compatibility with my chart then?

this is what the website said



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Your relationship is smooth, and everything is possible. You simply need to adjust to each other and you can easily do so. It only takes a minimum of warmth and mutual understanding for your couple to function steadily in spite of some rare disagreements. You must turn your marvellous relationship into a success love story because you have all the necessary keys and assets to this end. So, go for it!

its not really changing my personality though, i dont really have a personality other than being blunt and mean sometimes, of coarse i will not start behaving like an ass or a bad boy i will keep my "personality" but things like hair style or getting in shape is an improvement. Just how i look at it at this point.. will see i am not going to ask her out dont want to make it awkward ill give her the honors

Posted by bubblyaquarius
She's that type of woman? I would rather the man ask me out, but okay.

you dont understand, when I tried asking her out she had a bf, now IDK what she is thinking of me, when she had a bf i kept flirting with her and she flirted with me then she would get all pissy and yell at me and fight something i didnt even do, now she is dating multiple guys cause she cant pick the one she wants, everyones flaw drives her crazy, and shes not sleeping with them shes a virgin. idk if i will ask her out i have to see how things go when we finally go out as a group of friends.. when she had issues with her bf they would fight and end it and eventually go out again and forget about the issue, now she doesnt have to take shit from anyone, but she is used to me in a way so.. will see, i really dont have any hopes up its just.. whatever happens happens lol