bye bye aqua...

my aqua boyfriend is moving across country in less than 3 weeks (as many of you already know), and i was not invited and therefore will be left behind. we decided to stay together and work it out to the best of our ability, as hard as it may be.
my question is: should i be worried that i wasn't invited to come along? should i take it personally and wonder if perhaps i am not "the one". or is this typical of an aqua male to do...is he just thinking of himself and his own life right now?

I think you should see your single life on the horizon. Sounds like a good thing to me too. Sorry MC, but ive heard you talking about this for so long, and you need to move on up and out of this one.

On the other hand, he might want to get organised before he offers you an invitation to save stress etc. Its up to you how you interpret the situation, but i know i wouldnt be entirely happy about it.

Sorry...

I really think what is important here Moonchild is, are YOU happy with the decision?

It does not matter what "his ways" are and why should you feel the need to adapt to him? He is a big boy and what he has chosen to do is, fulfill his needs. I suppose, if it were me, and some guy I was in a relationship moved away without me...yeah, that would be a HUGE RED FLAG yeah...think so.

Let me ask you - if you were a man and you were in a relationship with a woman you loved dearly and wanted to spend your life/time with her, would you move away and not include her? If so, what might your reasons be?

I personally do not do long distance relationships - that is a deal breaker for me.

Maybe your title says it all?

P.S. a man will NEVER let "the one" get away.

hey there moonchild...it's been a while.

so time has come...hmmm

you know what i ended up doing with my situation...and believe it or not, i'm still standing strong.

i believe you truly do love this guy...and i do think he does love you too.

but along with what everyone has been saying too, i think it's about time you think about you as well...about how this makes "you" feel...what would "your" decision be with regards to that.

aquas are sometimes hard to read, sometimes not...i think once you know them for years you can get a MUCH better picture...at least i did...and i miss and still love my ex...BUT for me, it came to a decision of what was important for me at the time...and sadly i needed more than what she could offer me at the time.

the future holds new doors for us moonchild...always...whereas that is you and your aquaboy getting back or staying together...or not at all....

but you've given so much to this relationship...what is that 'much' back you need now? can he give you that? if not, would you be willing to wait and still struggle a bit longer to figure it out?

i couldn't.

i would...but right now...this is the best place for 'me' to be at.
i have reconnected w my ex, and i believe she is back into her old aqua ways of trying to win me back bit by bit...but i'm moving on with my life moonchild...not because of someone new...but because of me...and the type of things i need and like...which maybe she could give me one day, but certainly not now...and so i'm enjoying the type of life i do want to have...as a single person...full of challenges and yet less stresses in certain ways...

whatever you decide, moonchild, do it for you and nobody else...and as usual know that you'll have my friendship here even if once a year...you can be extremely happy with or without your aqua and you both deserve the best together or separately.

you are wonderful and whatever is coming bext would be just as wonderful!

vll

I don't know, the venus in leo in her chart is like a lot of work added, no, multiplied to the life-load of work we Aquas already have. 😉

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