Crazy love story...Scorpio woman and Aquarius man

Hello everyone!

Crazy story...We know each other for about 15 years, same age 33, both married with kids (him 2 kids, me 1), his wife is my friend from high school,my husband and I used to come to their home and vice versa (this past year not very much??_all very busy).This past August suddenly from nothing he kissed me. I never ever looked at him in any different way that just "husband from my long time friend" or just a friend (more like brother-sister relationship)??_but he told me that he liked me all these past 6-7 years but I never saw or felt that .I thought that it was just a kiss that day and that's all but the day after, he called me and ask me when will we see each other. So we did see each other and since that day we are in a relationship "on a side". Crazy I know. I never ever cheated on my husband and he never cheated on his wife either. We connected right away, felt each other from the very beginning, crazy chemistry and what happened to us is that love was born from a long-time friendship (these are his words).I thought that this will be just a summer romance but this story continue on??_

The first month he was sending me texts and telling me "I miss you, we are made and born for each other, that he had girlfriends but that I am something special to him, I can spend my life with you, I??ve got you under my skin...." He was very open about his feelings and told me that he is in love with me .He even told me "I love you" (just once) at the very beginning. He was calling me every day many times, texted me a lot...His mobile bill came up to 700 $ .I told him that he is crazy. Then after that first month he started to call me maybe every other day, suddenly he stopped sending me sweet texts like he used to. Suddenly he become distant with me and started to behave a little weird when he is with me??_ little nervous, always in a hurry (even thought he is always very very passionate with me kissing me, hugging me).He still keeps calling me and told me one more time that he is in love with me. We see each other maybe every other week. Sex with him is incredible but rare (he told me that he does not want to use me in that way). He is a great guy, handsome, just I do not like his distance when we don't see each other (as I said first month he was not distant at all, very open about his feelings).

This forum helped me very much to understand those crazy aqua man behaviors. I am Scorpio lady and I have all these "qualities" about aqua man lik

I am outgoing, I like to talk, open, little bit "crazy" in a good way .He said that I am very interesting person and he always laugh with me like crazy. He told me that I am the only one who figured him out (thanks to this great forum!!! He has no clue about it??_ha, ha??_) That his wife even after 14 years together did not figured him out. What I assume from his behavior is that he fell in love with me but since we are both married he keeps distance (and he got a little bit scared about his feelings) Am I right or not? I wanted to break up this crazy love story cause of all situation regarding out marriages, kids, etc, but did not. Cannot explain why. What do you guys think from his behavior? Thanks a lot. And I apologize for my English (it's my second language).

I forgot to say that in these 4 months he did not pulled yet real aqua disappearing act.Max.he did not call me was 5 days I think(I assume he was thinking.

I dont believe he has pulled a disappearing act because he doesnt have to. He is not in any danger of having this become a reality, seeing that you two are both attached in marriages to other people.

This seems like exactly the behavior anyone would display in an extramarital affair. Its all fun until someone gets found out.

Thanks you for your response.Believe me it's not soo much fun to be married but be in love with other person.Our spouses are very good people, we don't have any major problems in our marriages but they are not our type of people, you know what I mean.We found each other bacuse we are exactly the same where my husband and his wife are completely different then us.He told me that we should stay in this type of relationship for a while and then we will see and decide together what to do.Only time will tell.

scorpio_chic thank you for you response.I agree everything you wrote regarding friendship with "my friend"...it's been extra difficult past 4 months for me and for us together.I feel sooo BAD, ASHAMED, I cried a lot, we talked a lot and he was there for me, he never pushed me to do anything what I do not want to and he told me if I do not feel good regarding anything that I can stop and break this relationship whenever I want to.I told him I feel sooo bad specialy cause of her cause you know friendship for us scorps means sooooo much.But life writes some crazy stories....As you know some things in life we cannot predict like getting flu or cold and love is one of them which comes suddenly when you last expect it and that exactly happend to us this summer, believe it or not.

However, I am not agree that I have been used by him.It' s him who does not want to have sex with me (3, 4 weeks can pass and he does not even mention it).He just wants to kiss with me and talk (we have sex maybe 1-2 per month only).I asked him why is he behaving like this cause it's not usual behavior for 33 years old man (he is tall, handsone, real man)and he told me that he does not want to use me, hurt me in any way and that he cares about me.Believe me we know each other for a long time and you know when you feel someone that that person does npt lie to you, like there is some special bond between two of you and it will always be there even if we stay just friend.

These past couple of weeks I am thinking a lot about this situation and I think despite love/feelings what happend to us(believe it or not) I will break this relationship cause of her, their kids, my husband and my daughter.If someone told me 5 months ago that I will be in this situation I would not believe it (thanks God nobody knows about this between us...just here on this forum I wrote it cause it's easier to write somehere cause I don't want any of my friend, relatives to knows this cause I am honestly ashamed of this).I always hated cheating....always judged those people and from this situation I learned not to judge anyone in any life stituation cause you never know what will happend to you in the future.Thanks everyone for your responses and I hope that you don't think that I am bad person.

exam, I forgot to thank you as well.You did not sound harsh and you did not offended me at all.I wrote everything earier in my post and from this time on I will worry about my husband and my daughter.My husband is very nice man, we have been together for 11 years (3 years of marriage)...don't have any major problems between us and I love him of course but what happend between me and aqua man was stronger than us.From this time on I will try to be less selfish and think more about dear people around me who I could hurt sooo much with this situation.Once again, thank you very much for your responses and your help.

scartooth, me and aqua man get very well but as I wrote it I will break this ( as I wrote earlier I am very ashamed of this)and I know that me and him will alaways have some special bond bewteen us, where I don't regret anything what happend to us cause I know that I got a friend for a lifetime.