Do aqua girls cheat when in love?

I've with my girl for few years and I recently discovered in the beginning she was secretly contacting her ex lover, she did this for the first 4 years of our relationship and never told me, she would always speak bad about him, she also visited him on 3 occasions, but said he never was home, so why 3xs then, she hid his number and contacted him also via Myspace at the time, so why not just send him message to make sure he was there before going over. Also she decided to come clean about her past, I was always under the impression I was the 5th guy she's been with, I just found out I my be the 50th guy, and while we were just talking and fooling around she also had a guy friend she visited, but when we got serious cut him off. Yet she lied for years about her ex, calling him and visiting him and says nothing ever happened but stuff keeps coming out. At that time we fought a lot nothing physical just verbal. I can forgive her because I love her and she is 110% about me now, but I feel she is lying about cheating and I just want her to be honest with me. What do u aqua women think did she cheat, would u?

I've been with my girl for few years and I recently discovered in the beginning she was secretly contacting her ex lover, she did this for the first 4 years of our relationship and never told me, she would always speak bad about him, she also visited him on 3 occasions, but said he never was home, so why 3xs then, she hid his number and contacted him also via Myspace at the time, so why not just send him message to make sure he was there before going over. Also she decided to come clean about her past, I was always under the impression I was the 5th guy she's been with, I just found out I my be the 50th guy, and while we were just talking and fooling around she also had a guy friend she visited, but when we got serious cut him off. Yet she lied for years about her ex, calling him and visiting him and says nothing ever happened but stuff keeps coming out. At that time we fought a lot nothing physical just verbal. I can forgive her because I love her and she is 110% about me now, but I feel she is lying about cheating and I just want her to be honest with me. What do u aqua women think did she cheat, would u?

I'm not looking to break up with her, I'm just tired of lies, it's like she is holding on to things that can damage our relationship, and I just want her to be honest so um just asking the women in this situation would you have cheated, and if you did would u tell the whole truth.

Some of Her chart
Sun...Aqua
Moon.Capricorn
Mer...Capricorn
Ven..Pisces
Mar..pisces

Mines
Sun ..Virgo
Moon..Cap
Mer...Libra
Ven..Libra
Mar..Leo

Myspace? Is that site still alive? Also if she cheated on me, then she would be out of my life for good. Why trust someone when they do that to you? I would also be wary of girls who say you are the 50th guy in her life. Aquas in general are faithful to their lovers. Do you know of her Venus sign?

As an Aquarius woman, I AM COMPLETELY FAITHFUL to my lover. I don't think she cheated. I have a web of male friends, but they are not people I would fool around with. Also, I talk to one ex, but it is strictly friendly. If he flirts in some way, I back away, but we don't stop contact completely because we share the same group of friends.

Perfectly answered she always said once ex always a ex, I just love her too much, and I know she loves me. If she did cheat I would have liked her to be the one to tell me and I would try my best to fix it, I have yet to meet a women like who completes me like she does. I would be devastated to loose her, so I just wanted her to understand the best relationship is the one that holds no secrets

thank you@ Futurseeker

Sorry for the double threads I'm using cell phone, up at 6am, but thank u I strongly feel she is being honest now.

Posted by iVirgo
I've been with my girl for few years and I recently discovered in the beginning she was secretly contacting her ex lover, she did this for the first 4 years of our relationship and never told me, she would always speak bad about him, she also visited him on 3 occasions, but said he never was home, so why 3xs then, she hid his number and contacted him also via Myspace at the time, so why not just send him message to make sure he was there before going over. Also she decided to come clean about her past, I was always under the impression I was the 5th guy she's been with, I just found out I my be the 50th guy, and while we were just talking and fooling around she also had a guy friend she visited, but when we got serious cut him off. Yet she lied for years about her ex, calling him and visiting him and says nothing ever happened but stuff keeps coming out. At that time we fought a lot nothing physical just verbal. I can forgive her because I love her and she is 110% about me now, but I feel she is lying about cheating and I just want her to be honest with me. What do u aqua women think did she cheat, would u?

well for one, you're very silly to stay with this girl.

she's not going to change. IF she loved you back, (i dont care what birthday she has) she wouldn't hurt you at all or go sneaking around and hurt you some more.

she just doesn't give a damn about you -- those types of women don't care!!!! she's either on drugs and having no direction in her life, fucked up, and if she were with that other guy she's sneaking around with you with, she would do the same to her.

this one you can't FIX or HEAL.

you need to give up on her because the more you try to FIX her ways, she will keep sneaking around on you.

and how do you like that??

you know she's been doing this all the time, yet you come in here asking for help. Help with what??

to change her??

yet she completes you? something is rotten in denmark.

a super smart virgo doing this to himself?? doesn't make sense.

@Aquistorm

Her Venus is Pisces, it took her time to tell me about 50 guys in her past, 10years to be exact and she came forward on her own after everything came out about her ex, she decided she wanted to be honest about her past experiences, which MOST women do lie about, but that was before me, my only concern is if any during me.

The response I got from seems to be same from 90% of other aquas, you guys cherish friendship and will not risk a good relationship for quick hook up.

The Cap moon and Venus Libra he is committed to someone who isn't committed to him.

Her placements is similar to mine, but I don't go cheating on my wife. It doesn't matter if she come forward with her confession. You are being too leaning and forgiving. She took advantage of your trust.

Posted by Aquistorm
The Cap moon and Venus Libra he is committed to someone who isn't committed to him.

it doesn't look compatible.

she probably can't wait to get the fuck away from him and makes sure he knows she is cheating (which i think is rotten -- just leave) but maybe this girl can't get away from his controlling ass, so she has to do the passive aggressive approach of making sure she throws all the men in his face.

so he gets the picture that he should LEAVE.

maybe he's beating her up in private and he's not saying something to us about it?

because why would a woman do that to him? unless she is honestly fucked up and on drugs/heroin ect,

no woman would do that unless she fucking hates your guts secretly.

very very revengeful.

those are the only 2 options i can think of, in which why she just doesn't walk away.

She does not use drugs, she told me on her own about her past and her ex, we are also married and we have children, she may have not had good sense of direction once upon time, but now she is a perfect wife . Besides the secrets, she is everything I could ask for.I didn't ask for help I ask for mature advice and opinion.

Her placements are very similar to mine.

Is she born on Feb. 9th 1983?

Posted by iVirgo
She does not use drugs, she told me on her own about her past and her ex, we are also married and we have children, she may have not had good sense of direction once upon time, but now she is a perfect wife . Besides the secrets, she is everything I could ask for.I didn't ask for help I ask for mature advice and opinion.

well i'm telling you...
WHY would any woman do that to you—

i'm not going to put her on trial here...

because you slander her already, your own wife.

so if she is really like that, then you have a woman who doesn't respect and love you.

I dnt hit women never have never will that's what cowards do. I dnt drink or smoke that's for junkies, I support my family. I ask for advice not insults .

usually people have already LEFT the relationship and complain about their ex's cause they hate them and talk about how they cheated and did this and that.

but you are still married to her!! and with her.

who is the crazy one?

Yes wow that's right 1983 same as yours

What is her ascendant?

But she is worth it, besides the secretes that she openly told me, she has been perfect, emotional but perfect .

It's either Scorpio or Sag

Posted by iVirgo
I dnt hit women never have never will that's what cowards do. I dnt drink or smoke that's for junkies, I support my family. I ask for advice not insults .

well i'm really honestly wondering why you are staying with this woman?

she isn't worth it.

plus you put her down and call her a liar and a cheat.

what kind of woman is going to want to love a man who doesn't respect her—

you dont respect her at all!!!!

you come in here and slander her.

you have NO LOVE for this woman. you make yourself like the GOOD GUY and she's the worst woman in the world.

so, i'm gonna ask you, why are you with her??

so you can look like the good guy?

i can't stand men like you.

i dont give a fuck if she's a former prostitute.

Honestly I'll just exit before I insult any one. If we can't use words to uplift each other then it fine, I could careless about the insults, I mange 500 ppl daily so I've heard everything...lol I'm really just laughing at everything. Key board gangstas lol

Your clearly exposing your home life which is very sad, and unfortunate, but I hope you find peace inside you.

Posted by iVirgo
Honestly I'll just exit before I insult any one. If we can't use words to uplift each other then it fine, I could careless about the insults, I mange 500 ppl daily so I've heard everything...lol I'm really just laughing at everything. Key board gangstas lol

Your clearly exposing your home life which is very sad, and unfortunate, but I hope you find peace inside you.

no i'm putting myself in this woman's place.


you manage 500 people daily and you can't even handle your own woman.

yet you come in here and slander her. and you haven't even paid attention to who she really is!!!



OMG...on clearly exposing our SAD homelife...


mirror mirror.....


😆 omg omg omg..

no buddy...

i really hope YOU find peace.


😄 😄 heehee

cause that cheating and lying woman you call a wife?? who bore your children??

yeahhhhh you ain't getting any peace, more heartache that's right.

Posted by iVirgo
Honestly I'll just exit before I insult any one. If we can't use words to uplift each other then it fine, I could careless about the insults, I mange 500 ppl daily so I've heard everything...lol I'm really just laughing at everything. Key board gangstas lol

Your clearly exposing your home life which is very sad, and unfortunate, but I hope you find peace inside you.

Please explain on how we are being what you call Keyboard gangstas? We are just telling you what we think. If you don't take it positively, that is your problem. Some of us find your story sort of far fetched to say the least.

But isn't this for people who have questions regarding astrology, and personal experiences with individuals who share same signs. I have no reason to lie , especially lie to strangers, I'm not abusive, I dnt drink or use drugs, these things occurred years ago. Maybe I should have not asked a question here. I wasn't referring to you in that bad way just that clown, who has nothing of value to speak, which I could careless about her opinion that's why I won't bother with response.

ooohhh now he's trying to find someone to side with him, cause he can't stand to stand on his own two feet.

It was 6 years ago , I'm more mature now, if it was back then I would have probably left. But it's easier to say you would leave then to actually do it.

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ooohhh now he's trying to find someone to side with him, cause he can't stand to stand on his own two feet.

Will you shut the fuck up? You sound like a god damn psycho moron.

If you don't have anything constructive to say to this man then go make breakfast for your husband.

You've taken over his topic making yourself look like a loon. You didn't even give him a chance to respond before you threw in another post to berate him. Take your unhappiness out on someone else for fucks sake

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why dont you stfu?

if you dont like what i have to say to this guy, then BLOCK ME.

go make breakfast for your husband....?

wtf? you ordering me AROUND??

you dont even "Get" It what this guy is doing...

you're probably the type that will be doormat to this guy and cater to his every whim.

the good guy and he'll make you out as the bad guy. gross.

what kind of man is that??

@ ramparts thanks

I really just feel sorry for her.

Posted by iVirgo
@ ramparts thanks

I really just feel sorry for her.

honestly, i feel sorry for YOU.

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Posted by lisabethur8
go make breakfast for your husband....?

wtf? you ordering me AROUND??

you dont even "Get" It what this guy is doing...

And wtf are you gonna do? Verbally abuse him into seeing the error of his ways?

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just like what you're doing to me??

yeah stfu yourself.

he's just as GUILTY.

i hate men who stay with women like that too, and then complain about it constantly.

fucking LEAVE already.

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go make breakfast for your husband....?

wtf? you ordering me AROUND??

you dont even "Get" It what this guy is doing...

And wtf are you gonna do? Verbally abuse him into seeing the error of his ways?

just like what you're doing to me??

yeah stfu yourself.

Well you're a belligerent idiot.

This man is not calling his wife a bad woman. He's trying to figure out her mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes and some people leave beause of mistakes. He doesn't want to leave her. He just wants some security because new information has come to light.

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oh really?? wowwww.... it's NOT that hard to figure out.

DUH.

she doesn't want him.

@ramparts

It's gotten better, she had opened up, and I understand I had a part in bad things that happened earlier , I complained a lot, I was controlling, verbally aggressive, but I grew and my wife grew. She expressed how bad it made her feel hiding secrets and she needed to get it out. This is why I can forgive her because she told me when I had no clue.

and you know what is also silly— she stays with him. Why—

and both of you accuse me of bad relatinshps and bad life?

Posted by iVirgo
@ramparts

It's gotten better, she had opened up, and I understand I had a part in bad things that happened earlier , I complained a lot, I was controlling, verbally aggressive, but I grew and my wife grew. She expressed how bad it made her feel hiding secrets and she needed to get it out. This is why I can forgive her because she told me when I had no clue.

so why are you here?

this is a new turn of events....

so interesting....

Guys please no fighting , and Lisa I'm just gonna block you , you truly ugly inside .

Posted by iVirgo
Guys please no fighting , and Lisa I'm just gonna block you , you truly ugly inside .

that's right....really really ugly.

do you feel better now after that LAST confession??

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go make breakfast for your husband....?

wtf? you ordering me AROUND??

you dont even "Get" It what this guy is doing...

And wtf are you gonna do? Verbally abuse him into seeing the error of his ways?

just like what you're doing to me??

yeah stfu yourself.

Well you're a belligerent idiot.

This man is not calling his wife a bad woman. He's trying to figure out her mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes and some people leave beause of mistakes. He doesn't want to leave her. He just wants some security because new information has come to light.

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Oh geez OP.. next time maybe post on a different area. Aquas are lovely in many ways but I've never personally known one that I would seek advice from.. yikes. Obviously you are not slandering your wife, but instead are surprised by this new info coming to light and just trying to wrap your head around it all. People act in ways early in a relationship that don't always reflect how they will be later so yeah.

and youre so stubborn you stay with her and still complain about her ways.

the woman you're with, she is DUMB to stay with you.

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Posted by lisabethur8
go make breakfast for your husband....?

wtf? you ordering me AROUND??

you dont even "Get" It what this guy is doing...

And wtf are you gonna do? Verbally abuse him into seeing the error of his ways?

just like what you're doing to me??

yeah stfu yourself.

Well you're a belligerent idiot.

This man is not calling his wife a bad woman. He's trying to figure out her mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes and some people leave beause of mistakes. He doesn't want to leave her. He just wants some security because new information has come to light.

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Oh geez OP.. next time maybe post on a different area. Aquas are lovely in many ways but I've never personally known one that I would seek advice from.. yikes. Obviously you are not slandering your wife, but instead are surprised by this new info coming to light and just trying to wrap your head around it all. People act in ways early in a relationship that don't always reflect how they will be later so yeah.

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you clearly didnt see through his bullshit.