Inconjunct Poll

Look ar your Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars. Have you dated people with that sun sign or placements in those signs?

For example:

My sun is Virgo. Inconjuncts => Aries, Aqua
Moon is Aries: Inconjuncts => Scorpio, Virgo
Venus Cancer: Inconjuncts => Aqua, Sag
Mars in Aries: Inconjuncts => Virgo, Scorpio

So my list would be people with Aries, Aqua, Scorpio, Virgo, Sag in their chart (or 1st, 11th, 8th, 6th, 9th house placements)

Aries and Aqua suns are in the majority of men I dated.

For Scorpio..I am really fond of Scorpio Moons. I like Scorpio Venus on a water trine venus level.

Virgo...moreso 6th house placements and rising

Sag...Venus in Sag people like me.

Aries Inconjuncts: Virgo, Scorpio
Taurus Inconjuncts: Libra, Sag
Gemini Inconjuncts: Scorpio, Capricorn
Cancer Inconjuncts: Aqua, Sag
Leo Inconjuncts: Pisces, Cap
Libra Inconjuncts: Pisces, Taurus
Scorpio Inconjuncts: Aries, Gemini
Sag Inconjuncts: Taurus, Cancer
Cap Inconjuncts: Gemini, Leo
Aqua Inconjuncts: Virgo, Cancer
Pisces Inconjuncts: Libra, Leo

yayaya a fun thread . thanks Nata 🙂

If I had to make a chart for a dude based on my inconjuncts for every placements:

Sun Aries
Moon: Virgo/Scorpio
Venus: Aqua (can't have sag venus on an aries)
Mars: Scorpio or Virgo

Sun Aqua
Moon: Virgo/Scorpio
Venus: Aqua or Sag
Mars: Scorpio or Virgo.

Aqua Sun Inconjuncts: Virgo, Cancer

Sag moon Inconjuncts: Taurus, Cancer There is that Cancer gain, no never dated or really been attracted to a Bull ( sorrries)

just going to list all my other Sag:
Mars, Venus, Nep. Jup- see above lol

so Virgo, Cancer, Taurus

i have dated both Viirgo and Cancers, love me some virgos 🙂 Cancer was my strongest connection... and well we will see what happens with that road.

Friendship wise Virgo is by far the closests friends i have ever had.

So perhaps what @GreyWiz mentioned has to truth to it.. SHIT.

Posted by TauroMale
The inconjunct in synastry makes me think of a seesaw with both people sitting on one side, trying to get each other up by moving down. In a balanced position there is no fun at all.

Guess it depends on the energy of the chart.

To me inconjunct energy to my placements is best, because I have it natally with Sun/Moon, Sun/Mars.

Posted by starwars
I'm going for the aqua with aries moon and rising and mars in aqua, shame he has venus in pisces but whatever.

lmao.

if i go by rising, i need cancer or taurus rising.

soo lets see:

Virgo/cancer sun
Taurus/cancer moon sorry but i just dont think so on this moon.
Taurus/cancer Venus
Taurus/cancer Mars

aries/Gem rising? i dunnooooo maybe the gem rising.

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Posted by Damnata

Posted by starwars
I'm going for the aqua with aries moon and rising and mars in aqua, shame he has venus in pisces but whatever.

lmao.

if i go by rising, i need cancer or taurus rising.

oh I thought it doesn't matter as long as they got the signs in their chart, regardless the placement!

in that case I need a leo-libra rising. hell no im going for the aqua. l

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You can combine them however.

Maybe not even signs but display characteristics associated with those signs.

I was trying to figure out a chart where I have sun inconjunct, moon inconjunct, etc.

I've dated all of my inconjuncts (using the other person's sun and/or moon sign to compare with my sun, moon Venus and Mars) except Taurus (which is inconjunct my Libra Mars).

I have several inconjuncts in my chart with my rising sign, sun, moon, Venus and Mars. Other things too.

I can't see a pattern with inconjuncts being better for me. The attractions I've had seem to reflect my moon and the content, or lack thereof, of my 7th and 5th houses.

Posted by Vanish

Posted by Damnata
For Scorpio..I am really fond of Scorpio Moons.

You cant even stop yourself from going aries moon pissed on a libra moon. How do you think you're going to be able to handle a debilitated moon? Inconjunct is for people who settle.

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pissed on a libra moon?

did they like it?

Posted by Vanish

Posted by Damnata

Posted by Vanish

Posted by Damnata
For Scorpio..I am really fond of Scorpio Moons.

You cant even stop yourself from going aries moon pissed on a libra moon. How do you think you're going to be able to handle a debilitated moon? Inconjunct is for people who settle.

pissed on a libra moon?

did they like it?

He felt the hate for sure but wondered where the vinegar was. God no nvmd, I'm not playing into your lame jokes.

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Do speak for this person. Who is it?

Anyway, water moons should not attempt fire and air moon banter.

It's not your bag of tricks.

Posted by Vanish
Everyone in my large family is in an inconjunct relationship..

That's cool though. Just one pair in my family is.

This is very true for me in regards to sun signs...but only sun signs.

Posted by elllesque
(I know I didn't answer your question the way you asked)

lol, it wasn't a specific question. i can see the answers playing in many ways.

Burn it all imo

My two serious relationships have been with inconjunct signs (Libra = Pisces/Taurus)

I'm a Libra sun with Scorpio venus married to a Taurus sun with Gemini venus.

My ex of 9 years before my husband is a Pisces sun and venus with Aries mars (inconjunct my Scorpio venus/mars).

My Cancer sun brother is married to a Sagittarius sun. My brother has Aries moon and mars, while my sis-in-law has Scorpio venus. With all that fire and mars energy, theirs is a somewhat volatile relationship. My husband and I, thankfully, are a lot more peace-loving (typically venusian).