Do aquas like jealous partners?

From what i've read and what i know, i thought they didn't but a friend of mine has recently allowed himself to be controlled by some chick who calls all the numbers in his phone demanding to know who you are, has worked out his email password and continually checks/deletes his messages, answers his phone if it rings and then abruptly hangs up and has even gone as far as to sit outside his job waiting to see who he goes to lunch with. This is major stalker material to me and i didn't think aquas were supposed to deal with such bullbutter but he seems to be putting up with it and doesn't look like he's going to be leaving her for now. I'm so embarrassed for him that i have tried not to mention it but i'm really getting concerned. Is that usual for an aqua?

Wow, how long have you been doing all this?

Sounds like one of my exes. I miss her. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

i am not so sure why anybody would like that, aqua or not...why would somebody want to be with someone like that— there is a huge lack of respect there as well as a lack of trust.

Aqua guys really like/stay with the crazy chicks.

< Aqua guys really like/stay with the crazy chicks.


This is so true!

Aqua guys really like/stay with the crazy chicks.

Other people think they're crazy. To us those girls are normal. Well normal compared to us that is. We're all freaks in some sort of form. Plus who doesn't like a chick who's slightly off her rocker. Unless she forces me to drink goats blood during a full moon with no clothes on while walking on shards of glass that are covered with ants that lik to chew on human flesh but they;re actually genetically enhanced ants that have fangs and lasers or maybe those lasers shoot more ants with ants with lasers and a cow that likes to jump over the moon but can't quite do it because it didn't bring its rocket boots because the farmer was too busy milking the other cows so he didn't bother to fit the cow with the boots but it doesn't matter because the cow was going to take a nap anyways. I guess what I'm trying to say is it takes crazy to know crazy.

when I was younger I didn't mind jealousy, I felt soooooo special lol! I'm too old for that game now but yeah I think Aqua's are perfect to deal with issues such as this. Deep down we have our own crazy tendencies and you don't know what he's doing and saying to cause her to react in this way, some aquas like attention and being fussed over, he's FULLY aware of whats going on and he's enjoying it or he wouldn't tolerate it, aquas don't put up with BS period unless were getting some sort of adrenalin rush or deep emotional feeling from a person or situation, when he gets sick of it she will be pushed to the side and ignored but for now allow him to the space to deal with it b/c he's enjoying it.

"Plus who doesn't like a chick who's slightly off her rocker. Unless she forces me to drink goats blood during a full moon with no clothes on while walking on shards of glass that are covered with ants that lik to chew on human flesh but they;re actually genetically enhanced ants that have fangs and lasers or maybe those lasers shoot more ants with ants with lasers and a cow that likes to jump over the moon but can't quite do it because it didn't bring its rocket boots because the farmer was too busy milking the other cows so he didn't bother to fit the cow with the boots but it doesn't matter because the cow was going to take a nap anyways."

SH*T.....so I guess I'm out?

😉

SH*T.....so I guess I'm out?

Wait a second. You're into that stuff?!?! Nice. I'm going to keep you on speed dial. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

"Wait a second. You're into that stuff?!?! Nice. I'm going to keep you on speed dial. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!"

I thought you'd like that! 🙂 LOL

"Unless she forces me to drink goats blood during a full moon with no clothes on while walking on shards of glass that are covered with ants that lik to chew on human flesh but they;re actually genetically enhanced ants that have fangs and lasers or maybe those lasers shoot more ants with ants with lasers and a cow that likes to jump over the moon but can't quite do it because it didn't bring its rocket boots because the farmer was too busy milking the other cows so he didn't bother to fit the cow with the boots but it doesn't matter because the cow was going to take a nap anyways."

This actually sounds like an aquarius wet dream.

Back to the issue at hand. There is a cirtain element of control he is enjoying weather or not he realizes it in that she is putting forth all of this energy for another person. Also, Aquas like to help and save those they care about....he probably feels as if this is someone he can coach into normalcy.

"....also...come on...who else is going to put up with an aqua guy's antics for the long-haul...lol!"

hmmm, i guess that makes me very unusual/unconventional!!! well, my aqua does always tell me that i am far from average. and then he goes on to say that he would never "be" with an average girl 😉 and i am totally ok with that, because i would never want to be considered "average"...ugh!

Ok I dont find jealousy attractive AT ALL, but there are levels of jealousy.
If its a cute, funny play on jealousy...im okay with it....in the short term.

If it gets to be overbearing..."Who was that? Who are you talking to? Where are you going? Cut all ties with the outside world, its me and you bonnie and clyde...ride or die..."

YOU GOT TO GO.

Im one of those freedom loving aquas you hear about.

"Ok I dont find jealousy attractive AT ALL, but there are levels of jealousy.
If its a cute, funny play on jealousy...im okay with it....in the short term.

If it gets to be overbearing..."Who was that? Who are you talking to? Where are you going? Cut all ties with the outside world, its me and you bonnie and clyde...ride or die..."

YOU GOT TO GO.

Im one of those freedom loving aquas you hear about."

So if I hug you and don't let go because you're one of my favourite people and you tried to escape that would anger you? Because you know how much I like to hug M. It's in my being to hug. Hug. Hug, hug, hug, hug, hug. 🙂

I have a taurus rising so I can get to be a bit possessive which I have to keep in check

LOL!! Well no ones perfect proverbs, I can admit I have issues, some I have conquered some I'm mindful of and some I may not be aware of right now.

I'm not sure why people think their are no lows with the highs that come with different zodiac signs. Yes Aqua females can be jealous, possessive, insecure like any other sign.

I wish I could say I'm a 100% secure all the time, life would be much easier but simply I am not atleast not all the time and when I fall off the jealousy/possessive wagon, I check myself, the one thing I have found about being jealous and possessive, it doesn't feel good and it's not attractive be it coming from a man or woman, it's just an ugly ugly feeling.

I'm very mindful when I'm behaving a certain way and I check myself b/c I know deep down inside I'm better than that emotion and just b/c I feel it doesn't mean I have to play it out. I'm fully aware of how it makes me feel and if it doesn't make me FEEL GOOD or bring me closer to my loved ones I remind myself of that and STOP playing that emotion out, thus far it has worked for me.

Most of us deal with different levels and extremes of jealousy, not a lot of people/women are mindful of their behavior, some are jus too busy playing it out rather than looking at it and curbing it or stopping all together.

Yep proverbs! I have the same sentiments as your ex,

in the beginning a friendship i'm very trusting after trust has been broken I'm pretty skeptical of that persons intentions towards me, not that I can't trust a person after trust is broken but I am very very very sceptical after trust is broken, a person will have to really jump through a few hoops to prove themselves and most people won't do that, saying sorry jus isn't enough for me, my taurus rising needs to feel secure so a persons actions must measure upto the apology.

as I get older i'm truly understanding that security comes from within which helps me to allow people in and get close to me even if I'm not so trusting, I have learned to jus accept people for who they are and get on with it, instead of going thru the routine of having a person prove him/herself I let it go and become mindful of how I choose to interact with that person, I don't cut people off for good ANYMORE I let that person/s in but not so much.

OF COURSE i WOULD HUG MY TWIN!!🙂

Ive never been jealous (relationship wise). I dont see it happening in the near future either.

not really.

well...if your up for it.

Did someone say challenge?

Now I know what people mean by taurus being possessive, I have a taurus rising and I have to curb my desire to possess things and people, I love food and tend to be lazy at times, not so much jealous but possessive yes and thats a no no with a leo male...so I had to check that real fast.

Here's a better question. How many Aquas here are jealous partners? I know I am. I just don't show it.

"I have scorpio rising so I am probably a lot more than your average aquarius girl, unfortunately"

-hmmm, is that why my aqua is so darn jealous— he has scorpio rising as well! i guess that it explains it all 🙂

"I have a taurus rising and I have to curb my desire to possess things and people, I love food and tend to be lazy at times, not so much jealous but possessive yes"

-i am also taurus rising, and i am this same way. very possessive over just about anything...ugh, bad trait to have, huh?

yeah it can get bad moonchild but I have learned to be more understanding towards people but yes I can be possessive over my friends, my mom and boyfriend, when i saw how it was affecting me and my relationships I started to push my heels into the ground and look at it and decided to stop practicing things that didn't make me or others happy, I find being mindful and conscious of my feelings helps and just admitting how I feel to others no matter how silly it may seem, I find that its best to put it all on the table after all the feelings have died down, I soon realize I don't feel that way at all and I was just afraid of loss, it only gets bad when it's hidden or ignored atleast for me it seems that way.

yeah, i guess i should give my aqua the "unreasonable" line next time his jealousy gets out of hand (which it has on many occasions!!!)... nyx, i totally agree with you on that. sometimes i am floored by the stupid little things he gets jealous about.

what you could do mc is what my cancer was doing, she used her property as a considerate person and she ensured me of her care for me (then I couldn't be unreasonable to her even if I was too blind)

nice of you to join us.