@Josie
18 Years
Aquarius men often prioritize independence and may not respond promptly to messages, even to friends. Their communication style can seem distant but is not necessarily personal. Patience and understanding their need for space can improve your connection. Recognizing their unique social boundaries helps manage expectations and reduces confusion.
Egoism..seems like we have to understand them.but they didn't do the same..
Oh man that gives me such a warm fuzzy feeling knowing that I will never be priority. That makes me feel so loved & appreciated! :-)
I love that we have to tiptoe around their "sensitivity" and completely sacrifice our own. The Aquarius man is obviously the kind of man every girl dreams of, now that's a real man!
Oh whoa.....get on the wrong list.....heavy stuff!
I think this message board is feeding into your egos too much. "Oh we're Aquarius men......don't cross us! Be careful! Take a backseat to anything I say or you'll get on my bad list!"
How very charming.
Talking? Communication? From what I've read on these message boards that's exactly what Aquarius men are bad at.
We'll hope one day they could find their endless love..let's pray for them ...AMIEN
I've had great relationships in the past, they were rather effortless which is why I'm so preplexed by my frustrating aquaman. Aquaman....sounds like a superhero.
Prime, what it sounds like is Aqua people run away from their problems. Hmmmmmm.....not an admirable trait. I'm the exact same way but at least I admit that about myself.
Primegen,
It's just not fair for us ( girls whom involved with aqua guys )been threated with those things above.
Anyway girls...here we again..i just wanna say...Good Luck with your Aqua man !!
Too late, I already got rid of him.
" here we go again" ...i mean
The truth is I absolutely adore him and our breakup is pretty recent, which is why I'm here I'm obviously not over him.
" i said they ARENT good at communication...
but talking is the better means if u want to get thru to him...not email or text...."
^Nyx^,
They don't even wanna talk...they are scared...we scared them...!!
Yes, I know, but like I said it's recent so I need to vent. Don't we all in these cases? I told myself I deserved better. All girls should have the attitude. Men too at that.
Remember..when you ask about his aloof being...don't put your emotion on it...be sweet, be nice...be spirit.....grrrhhhh...!!
Maybe you are right...but most aqua men i involved with....they avoid talk face to face..🙂
Lol, Megamen your last post was pretty funny.
Nyx, I'm afraid I don't have much patience for stupid male behavior. We had an amazing night together and he didn't even call me the next day. Or the next day after that OR the next day after that. I dont know about other girls but that really bothers me. I've read on the message boards that is very typical behavior of Aqua superheroes but it hurts my feelings and makes me feel cheap. Two feelings i detest.
We were doing so well prior to that, we fell for each other pretty hard....I thought so anyway.
Well hey primegen, I'm venting my way, hope that's alright with you. I'm a Leo so please understand and be sensitive to my Leo traits as people are to yours.
Nyx, YES I am a Leo! Gee, how did you guess? That obvious huh?
Ooooh Primegen......looks like you're bashing me for being my true Leo self. Please understand me for all my unique Lioness qualities as people understand you for yours. You may get on my bad list.
"Why should he lose his job to deal with you? "
Primegen,
I didn't want m boy friend lose his job because have to deal with me.I don't like that reasons either. BUT, as i know what's relationship means is about share problems with..share feelings with and understand each other for happiness.especially when you are in commitment.
"lack of attention is the greatest reason for a leo to be so pissed off..."
Unfortunate but true.
Mega....from what I've read on the message boards, Aqua people dont share their problems, feelings or feel the need to understand their mates. They just need us to get out of the way when they decide it's time for them to take their personal time. It's a lost cause and one my pride won't let me give into.
Oh god....the Leo keeps creeping up on me, I hate being such a drama queen. But I love being a Leo anyway.
Prime, I think I've summed up the Aqua male pretty well up above haven't I? According to all these posts, I understand those endearing qualities of the Aqua male pretty well. Afterall, those are the most discussed aqua topics on these message boards.
Why did my aqua male have to be so darned hot? It would be so much easier to get over him. ....
I'm sorry all the gals reading this, I know I sound obnoxious. I was really down about the breakup and now I'm just P.O'd.
P.O'd and down.
Prime, Then I can only conclude there can never be a successful relationship with an aquaman.
Josie,
if you think you can handle it...go for it..i know somehow it worth..🙂
Primegen,
so the bottom lines is about us, women, have to understand their men...hmm...why can't you men understands us ? or at least, understand each other —
Nyx, thank you for that advice. If running away and needing personal space is a strong Aqua trait then I may have some Aqua in me also. I have a strong need for my own personal time and I don't like that space or time invaded so I can understand that need. And it's also to the point where people around me irritate me with very little effort.
I cherish my freedom and personal time more than anybody else I know (except for my aquaman of course) and I guard it pretty fiercely.
I hear Leo and Aqua are the worst match? So it's for the best anyway, even though I'm sorry about the breakup, he's pretty great despite his "faults."
"ohh then count me in...lol...i've successfully tamed an aquarian...
ohwell...hehehe"
That's great for you! You're really lucky. :-)
Primegen,
Are you married ? Cool -)
Prime, I didn't think you were married. I know enough now to know that you're a commitment phobe.
And yes, I suppose I'm creating much more drama over this than necessary, I'm hopelessly a Leo afterall. I always liked to consider myself a tamed version of the Leo. But when it creeps out I guess it creeps out with a vengeance.
Prime,
Wanna having some fun ?
what fun you like the most ?
Ok, so from now on I'm gonna lie and tell all my suitors I'm an Aquarius. That way I can lie and tell them I need my personal space to restore my soul whenever they start to get on my nerves and I want a weekend away with the girls.
Hey, that's a great way to get out of sticky situations! This Aqua thing can come in really handy actually! And when I'm feeling somewhat moody and he's especially getting on my nerves, I'll blame my lack of affection and zero sex drive on my Aquarius "quirks."
Actually, this is pretty brilliant....
Prime, I dont have relationship issues. As I've said I've had very successful long term relationships in the past. In fact, I usually only have long-term relationships.
Apparantly, what I've been reading around here is EVEYRBODY has relationship issues with Aquamen.
Sure..we'll find the way...😉
"No, the zero sex drive is a Leo thing, that's what happens when you all get moody."
Actually Prime, I think this happens to most women when they get moody. It's not really fair for you to blame that on us Leos, is it—
Nyx, just curious, what sign are you?
Prmgn,
Will tell you when the time has arrived.
"dont get sarcastic josie...even leos have their own irritants..."
I'm fully aware of that Nyx, but c'mon. That was pretty lame of Prime to blame the zero sex drive on moody Leos. That probably effects most people when they're moody. And I don't really get moody, obviously I get pissed off when the occassion calls for it.
I'm the first to admit one of my most frustrating flaws is my pride. Unfortunately, I'm stubborn as hell about it too. Obvoiusly....
I'm a Leo/Leo. Pretty scarey, huh?
Oh c'mon people, I"m poking fun at myself too!
Nyx, trust me. I"m not taking the commments here too seriously. I play around a lot, believe me, I don't take things in life too seriously. Unfortuntately, I'm one that lives for the day.....unless it comes to matters of the heart. That to me is pretty serious.
you should know which country i lived after seeing my typing..😉
Jossie,
We all loved and curious about our aque men..that's why we all here, right ?
Just take it easy..( i know somehow we can't, especially when it cames to heart )
And I feel the need to say that Leos are the best sign ever! :-) But I'm sure everybody thinks that of their own sign. :-)
Megan, I'm trying....jeez I really like this guy still.....a lot. I'm never dating another Aqua man again. If I ever meet one I'm gonna take off running.
I like a good challenge like anybody else (to a point, sometimes they get too stupid) but this is ridiculous!
Yes
" Megan, I'm trying....jeez I really like this guy still.....a lot. I'm never dating another Aqua man again. If I ever meet one I'm gonna take off running "
Jossie,
You would fall in to aqua guys because they had what we all want from men..except,their aloof things..🙂
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I have just discovered the aqua male and its only been a one month but it's been a painful, ego destroying, bewildering, nuisance of a journey. Obviously, I'm going through much mind boggling confusion and have many questions.
So is this very special treatment of not responding to emails & text messages just reserved for their very fortunate romantic partners or do their ever important FRIENDS! & GOOD BUDDIES get to bask in the warm, fuzzy feeling of nonexistence too—