play it cool and detach...

Wheres the pisces?

hey pattylaindia!

this is my take on aqua men.... my brother is one and my ex is a capricorn with aqua rising/mars. i didn't know my ex was an aqua rising/mars until after we broke up if i knew before i would have never dated him. i thought he was normal (capricorn sun), but slowly realized he wasn't. these guys are more than different they can be very diabolical so watch out!

at best aquas can be quirky at worst they can be boarderline psycopathic. i won't even let my brother come to my house when he visits. i've seen him do some ridiculous stuff to women and then try to manipulate me into his little schemes....HA! my ex was the same way, the manipulation, the fake sincerity (think Paris Hilton), the mind games...sometimes i would just sit back and watch him...i just wanted to see how far he would go to keep up his fake world...i learned a lot and i will share it with you...heh heh

"I tried and tested the game of "play it cool and detach" with myaqua.">

here is what i have learned about aquas:

1 - they have a god complex and everyone around them are like little characters in their personal SIMS game that they can manipulate at will

2- they like to feel like they are popular and liked. rest assure they will have lots of aquaintances. BUT very little if any real friends. and they will change them ever so often so that no one figures them out.

3 - they live in their own world and you are just visiting, if you get too close or start to figure them out they will try to run out with their mind games or you will leave out of frustration. they will never kick you out.

5 - they have a better understanding of the world than most people. they know that life comes in cycles and that even if they do the worst thing, it doesn't mean that something bad will happen to them and if something bad does happen, so what, life goes on...

4- it's not that they don't like confrontation it's just they don't like to get caught. when you do catch them they will try to manipulate you back into their lives with their fake sincerity. don't fall for it, it's just that they know once you leave they have to find a replacement....the motto it's cheaper to keep her applies here. however they won't do anything overtly kind to keep you.

5 - they like to be worshiped or at least feel like they are. they like to keep serveral questionable relationships with women going at the same time. in fact their greatest fantasy is to have these women at the same event (unbeknowst to them) as they pass effortlessly though the room. unfortunately most can't pull this off in real life and end up with some dramatic scene that they had wished never happened...

6- after every blow up they will re-arrange their life so that you won't catch them again...rest assure they will never change their behavior...not for you anyway.

7- they're sensitive about their own feelings not yours!

8- the best way to deal with an aqua man like the one above is to keep him on the side...he will never know, he is too busy with his own schemes..and if he finds out?...who cares.

i hope this helps🙂

*run you out with their mind games.

9. We keep a stash of muzzles, ties, whips, and chains at will....

"they like to be worshiped or at least feel like they are"...
I just read this... and WOW!!! it reminded me of a note myaqua wrote on his own page. "(name) has worshipped himself" a few weeks ago. Amazing!

"the best way to deal with an aqua man like the one above is to keep him on the side...he will never know" LOL.

I can assure you, the 2 aquas Im plying with will never know. LOL LOL!!!

oh i forgot somethings

- they like independant women (so you can leave them alone) but they don't like smart women (cuz they will figure them out).

- they don't like their women to be more sucessful then them...they will find a way to undermind your happienss while pretending to help you...remember you are to worship him not the other way around.

You need to stop finding guys on myspace.

Stop saying aqua men dont like smart women...b/c thats truly the only kind they respect.

yeah...you're a scorp so you know how to mentally process someone....straight face and all... just watch him and listen to him...their actions rearly match their words...

I am learning a lot from this forums!!! I thought I might get me a little challenge and get in the game just like them.

Stop saying aqua men dont like smart women...b/c thats truly the only kind they respect.

outwardly yes (she makes him look good)....secretly no (she catches him all the time)

Dont get hurt...or an STD while your at it.

we aquas only are about ourselves.

*care

Sumthing fishy,
how do you know I am a scorp? (dugh, my profile).

Too bad for this 2 aquas, they found a smart and independent girl. The war has started.

Listen to Starfish.

I dont want to see a sob post a few weeks from now.

i thought i heard an aqua speaking.....

must be my imagination

how do you know I am a scorp? (dugh, my profile).

patty - we also been speaking through pm, i'm scorp rising with virguy.

I know exactly whats going to happen, specially since she's a scorpio.

if your pisces sent you into a tizzy what do you think an aqua would od...2 at that.

Starfish, Im a scorp, i cant let it go. I have learned so much from this forums, that I just cant help it, I got to put these skills to the test.

Too bad for this 2 aquas, they found a smart and independent girl. The war has started.

if i were you i wouldn't give them that much thought...they don't care....that's why i don't deal with them they are just a waste of time...take that time to build your own world...and then you can invite them in when you want to.

preach!

I didnt freak about the market either. One my fathers old friends called him crying about how he lost his entire lifes saving in the market. It would have been a good opportunity to buy cheap shares had I had the money and time.

I agree, those who can be manipulated are no fun.

oh i forgot something else....

-they will try to manipulate the list i wrote.....

i've said my peace...goodbye and good luck...

lol, sumthing phishy is a riot.

no, i'll pass.

cheap enteratainment at its best.but cheap isn't always good😛

Hey devil.

feeling better yet? 😉

Everybody is telling me is not a good idea. What do you mean by my pisces? explain please.

You know what...honestly it isnt a mind game. Its just pure confusion and fear.

feeling better yet?

about what?

"about what?"

Well kermits gone...

ummm..... so aquas can be compare to a staring contest. They can have several girls going at the same time and whoever stays or (stares) the longest wins them.

They can warm up #one, leave them hot and bother,
go to #two, leave them hot and bother,
go to #three, leave them hot and bother...
and so on... time passes by, a few of them drops from the race.... whoever hold on the longests wins.

Then, the is thats how aquas take their time to be "friends" first?

"they love the feeling of being wanted,admired and worshipped.."

who doesnt?? but I see your libra point.

Well kermits gone...

look again,its still there,just feigning to be more sedate and mellow.😛

le huh patty?

🙂 @ devil.

"You know what...honestly it isnt a mind game. Its just pure confusion and fear."

-YEP, you are so right!!! that's exactly what it is...you hit the nail on the head.

all this ultra analysis into the aquarian personality is pretty fascinating.haahaa
*brings more popcorn*

share the popcorn.

I dont think scorpios are built for what patty is trying to do.

**throws popcorn at ladyM**
😛

I dont think scorpios are built for what patty is trying to do.

what exactly is her gameplan?
this should be even more interesting,scorpio chick after aqua guy!
*nostalgic*

::catches popcorn in mouth::

yummy. 🙂😛

prime,

how am i looking at this wrong?
I can see a pattern, I am not saying that aquas are playing all the girls all at the same time. I can see a pattern, a cyclical pattern of months. Yes, its one girl at a time, but one after the other.

I can just see that just by talking to the 2 aquas I am "seeing". They both have talked to me about their past relationships. I have read thread about how aqua, like to go tap their ex while being involve with someone new. This is madningly fascinating!!! (i think i just made up a word)

You play the lotto Prime?

yeah baby!! we are all bloody casanovas!😛

"M

No, but when it's $ 200 million plus, why not give it a shot!"

true. Use the number 9.

lol @ devil.

no! go with 8,8 is your lucky number,8 is great😛

patty, try treating them as individuals first,and then follow what your gut says,just don't chase them so damn aggressively that they start thinking you are psychotic.take it easy