Ilovemyaqua
@Ilovemyaqua
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Emotionally close but physically distant?
Posted by KoniuchaThe guard there 😛
Who caught you making out? I don't get the issue here, for some reason.
Why does he want to be so secretive? From what you said, he doesn't seem mad, but who knows.
I feel confused lol
I have a feeling that he is considering moving into more serious territory and wants to see how good you two are without the sexual component. If it's good and atays that way he knows that it's for real and not jiat a sexual connection.
Posted by sultrykittySo is it one of the stages that aqua have in their commitment process or is it just him?
I have a feeling that he is considering moving into more serious territory and wants to see how good you two are without the sexual component. If it's good and atays that way he knows that it's for real and not jiat a sexual connection.
Posted by IlovemyaquaI dont know, really. Mine told me early on that he wanted to still see me, he just didn't want to see me naked anymore. Those exact words. Needless to say I didn't listen, lol.Posted by sultrykittySo is it one of the stages that aqua have in their commitment process or is it just him?
I have a feeling that he is considering moving into more serious territory and wants to see how good you two are without the sexual component. If it's good and atays that way he knows that it's for real and not jiat a sexual connection.click to expand
But I think that's where his head was at.
ilovemyaqua, is English your first language?
I think he's trying to establish control in the relationship, when he's kissing you and show affection then let him, if you block him half way while his expressing his love he will most definitely put a lid on his emotions and exercise caution and control around you. If he does anything that you don't feel comfortable with then by all means tell him to stop but also take his feelings into account, that he may have got carried away and is embarrassed. Another thing is we DO NOT like PDA especially when you're in the heat of the moment and a stranger gives commentary, that's a fucking no brainer....
Anyways that answers your questions^^ but I'd be more concerned with the stupid games you're both playing with each other, it's not cute
I think he's trying to establish control in the relationship, when he's kissing you and show affection then let him, if you block him half way while his expressing his love he will most definitely put a lid on his emotions and exercise caution and control around you. If he does anything that you don't feel comfortable with then by all means tell him to stop but also take his feelings into account, that he may have got carried away and is embarrassed. Another thing is we DO NOT like PDA especially when you're in the heat of the moment and a stranger gives commentary, that's a fucking no brainer....
Anyways that answers your questions^^ but I'd be more concerned with the stupid games you're both playing with each other, it's not cute
Posted by sultrykittyI really wish that's where it's headed! 🙂Posted by IlovemyaquaI dont know, really. Mine told me early on that he wanted to still see me, he just didn't want to see me naked anymore. Those exact words. Needless to say I didn't listen, lol.Posted by sultrykittySo is it one of the stages that aqua have in their commitment process or is it just him?
I have a feeling that he is considering moving into more serious territory and wants to see how good you two are without the sexual component. If it's good and atays that way he knows that it's for real and not jiat a sexual connection.
But I think that's where his head was at.click to expand
Posted by scorpx3Yours continued for 2 yrs?
I agree with @sultrykitty ...it seems as if he wants to take the physical aspect out of the relationship to see how well he emotionally/mentally bonds with you. That's a good thing 🙂 I was like that with the one I fell for. Nothing physical for about two years, and then we finally got some of the good-goods in 😛 All that waiting made the experience even better! Haha. But, no, seriously what was more important was that longing, that feeling of connectedness... That's what made the physical aspect of our relationship an infinite amount of times more beautiful.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11No,I'm from India,so it's not my first language but it's our official language.
ilovemyaqua, is English your first language?
I think he's trying to establish control in the relationship, when he's kissing you and show affection then let him, if you block him half way while his expressing his love he will most definitely put a lid on his emotions and exercise caution and control around you. If he does anything that you don't feel comfortable with then by all means tell him to stop but also take his feelings into account, that he may have got carried away and is embarrassed. Another thing is we DO NOT like PDA especially when you're in the heat of the moment and a stranger gives commentary, that's a fucking no brainer....
Anyways that answers your questions^^ but I'd be more concerned with the stupid games you're both playing with each other, it's not cute
And the stranger passing comments incident happened the last time we made out,not this time when he was refusing to,maybe he had that incident at the back of his head?
Also,what games are you talking about?
Posted by scorpx3Oh okay,I get it now.Thanks for the inputs 🙂
@Ilovemyaqua Two years without anything physical, and then we became physical. I feel he was in it for the long run, but due to certain circumstances, we fell apart. If that's what you're asking.
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