okay so I met this Aquarius guy through my best friend on February 2016. As soon as he saw me he couldn't take his eyes off me. We were all hanging out at his apartment and he would leave the kitchen to go sit with me on the couch and he would just talk and try to get to know me more. Finally towards the ending of the night he told me "we should hang out sometime, here's my number" so I thought it was strange that he didn't ask for my number but I just took his number anyway. Three days passed by and finally I decided I would text him because I was curious to know more about this guy. So when I texted him he instantly brought up meeting up. So I agreed. I was in my first semester of college and even though I drive to school he still offered to pick me up and we ended up hanging out at his place. We had very good conversation and it was getting late so I decided it was time to go. When I asked him to take me back he seemed sad and hugged me and kept begging for me to stay 30 more minutes. I agreed. Finally when I did make it home he texted me asking if I made it home which I thought was so sweet. Then he texted me the next day and we had such good conversation we literally talked all night. He even opened up to me about family problems and health concerns with his mom. We talked about dreams and goals. All was good until one day I left him on read but he never attempted to text me back so I decided to text him after a couple of days. After the day I left him on read he NEVER texted me unless I would text him. Then Valentine's Day came around and he cooked my favorite dish, gave me a massage and we did make out but never actually had sex which was surprising because we got very close to that. Then after that we were still texting but towards the ending of February he left me on read and I wasn't going to text him unless he texted me because I started noticing he would leave me on read after I did that to him. So now we are in March and he and my best friend went to a concert and he asked my best friend if he knew anything about what happened between us because he really liked me but I wouldn't text him. So my best friend was shocked because he had no idea we had something going on. So when he told me that this Aquarius guy asked about me I decided to text him and he answered immediately. We would text but he never actually asked to meet up again. Finally after some days of texting he left me on read again so I decided I was done with this game. Then months later I found out he didn't get accepted back to the university so he had to go back to his country. But he never told me anything!!! I found out through my best friend. Now fast forward 9 months later, and this Aquarius guy starts to follow me on Instagram! I got so excited and followed back immediately. But he never sent me a message at all. Then two weeks later he posted about my best friend passing away which I found out through his post and I was heart broken. So I texted him and asked him to keep me posted if he found out anything else and he said he would. But he never did. Now just a week ago I drunk texted him telling him that I was going to his country. And he texted back immediately and he asked when I was coming and he told me that he would help me to get my papers done for my visa because it is difficult to get into his country unless you have connections (he is very wealthy and comes from a well known family in his country) we were later texting back and forth and he was telling me how he plans on coming back to get his masters and how he is working on a business. Mind you, he is openly telling me this I didn't ask at all. Then I was at work and didn't get a notification of his message so I took 7 hours to reply back. Now a week has passed and he hasn't even opened my message and I know he's been active on Instagram because he's liked his friends pictures and followed a couple of accounts. Another thing to keep in mind is that he only follows 97 people on Instagram and only 10 of them are girls, and I am the only American girl he follows. So do you guys think he is still interested in me or do you guys think he is just playing games? I feel so confused. I am a cancer by the way but have been told my many people that I don't show my emotions
HELP!

The "on read" thing was accidental from him, you took it as a game and wanted to respond/be responded in the same manner. This Aquarius seems to be the shy type. You having the lead would not bother him, but you overthought it again. He was interested in you, but not enough. He probably knew he would have problems with his visa, so it was not worthy for him to get involved romantically with you. It seems he is just being friendly.
Okay do you know why he would have started following me on social media after so long especially when he doesn't really follow people? I just feel so confused over his actions

Air signs are often interested in the social media activities of various friends. Take it lightly.

Posted by Sunshine23maybe he just found you. but i think he likes you for sure.
Okay do you know why he would have started following me on social media after so long especially when he doesn't really follow people? I just feel so confused over his actions
I thought he liked me too but him not opening my message is kinda rude in my opinion. Why do you think he hasn't replied or at least opened it by now?

Sunshine please don't be desperate. Air signs can be turned on and then for no apparent reason turn off, the younger Air signs can behave this way. Do you really want a guy that has not opened your email? He's ignoring you so you should follow his lead and ignore him.

Posted by Sunshine23yeah as an aqua myself i don't understand why lol
I thought he liked me too but him not opening my message is kinda rude in my opinion. Why do you think he hasn't replied or at least opened it by now?
Yeah it's so confusing because at least before he would leave me on read. But I have not texted him again

Posted by Sunshine23I certainly cannot speak for all Aquas but with that being said when I was a bit younger if a person demonstrated too much interest in me outwardly I appeared engaged and open but realistically inward I was overwhelmed and would grow apathetic and disinterested.
Yeah it's so confusing because at least before he would leave me on read. But I have not texted him again
You have to keep a bit of yourself CLOSED OFF b/c we tend to gravitate towards someone whose apathetic towards us b/c its mentally stimulating to dream and overthink and analyze the other person. IMany of us are MENTAL creatures and love mental stimulation.
This isn't about games, playing games but moreso about UNDERSTANDING what an Aqua desires and giving it to him or her. Reject him a little bit, don't answer his messages right away, calls etc immediately, be slightly aloof and this can pull him back in mentally.
Out of sight out of mind, forget him and move on, he know you exist therefore if he's not contacting you then that's your answer to what's happening between the both of you at the moment.
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