@rochellea
9 Years
Is he for real?
How to Determine if an Aquarius Man's Love Is Genuine
Aquarius men value friendship and may fall quickly but can also be deep. Look for consistent actions, open communication, and long-term interest to gauge sincerity. Trust your instincts and observe if his behavior aligns with his words over time to understand if his love is genuine or infatuation.
I'm afraid to admit it...but *yes*
...and I'm not happy. But simply content.
Posted by -Flo-
So because out of nowhere he says he loves you and other lovey stuff, your NOW wondering about your own feelings towards him?At this point you're easy to manipulate for this Aquarius man. Through the time of your friendship, he's read what will make you tick. Do not believe what aqua man or any man says without actions. He can be the most charming sweetest guy around but if he can't back it up, he can not be trusted. You will see how quick men will turn on you when you do something they don't like, and their true personalities will reveal.
I believe everything you are saying and have thought it through somewhat. I do question his intentions which does not like. I guess you could say at this point I am intrigued by him. We really are good friends tho...
Posted by -Flo-
So because out of nowhere he says he loves you and other lovey stuff, your NOW wondering about your own feelings towards him?At this point you're easy to manipulate for this Aquarius man. Through the time of your friendship, he's read what will make you tick. Do not believe what aqua man or any man says without actions. He can be the most charming sweetest guy around but if he can't back it up, he can not be trusted. You will see how quick men will turn on you when you do something they don't like, and their true personalities will reveal.
This is great advice!
Posted by bittercupcake
...But I am unsure if his love is true and deep or mere infatuation. I'm really starting to fall for him...yikes!Any thoughts or advice on how to proceed?
so if he didn't like you would yu have considered him?
because it seems like you just want a way out of
your relationship becaus eyoure not happy
why not jjust walk away?
When and if I do walk away, I will not do it to run into the arms of another man. This Aqua just has me intrigued, that's all. Yet, I do like him for the unique person that he is...and I felt this way before he confided his feelings to me.
Posted by bittercupcake
...But I am unsure if his love is true and deep or mere infatuation. I'm really starting to fall for him...yikes!Any thoughts or advice on how to proceed?
so if he didn't like you would yu have considered him?
because it seems like you just want a way out of
your relationship becaus eyoure not happy
why not jjust walk away?
I did like him, that's why I wanted him in my circle of friends...as a friend and someone to network with in our respective work fields. We have a lot in common...so I guess the attraction was there, somewhat hidden on my part at first.
Posted by -Flo-
Besides that, you are still with someone, either drop your current partner or drop the aqua.
It's not that serious on my part. Yes, I do like him somewhat. But Caps, we don't readily reveal our emotions to anyone so soon. If it ever comes down to making a choice, it will be the best choice for me.
Posted by bittercupcake
...But I am unsure if his love is true and deep or mere infatuation. I'm really starting to fall for him...yikes!Any thoughts or advice on how to proceed?
so if he didn't like you would yu have considered him?
because it seems like you just want a way out of
your relationship becaus eyoure not happy
why not jjust walk away?
Same thing I was thinking.
yea it doesn't meake sense when women say that.
like did you have a crush on him bfore and didn't think there would be a chance
or are you only into him because he's into you?
id be paranoid to be with someone who only liked me because
i like that person. it wold make me feel used as a ginniepig to dump
their current relationship. what then?
what's your sign OP?
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I am a Cap and this Aqua and I have a mental connection. We just flow together in the way we converse about everything and anything.
Posted by -Flo-
So because out of nowhere he says he loves you and other lovey stuff, your NOW wondering about your own feelings towards him?At this point you're easy to manipulate for this Aquarius man. Through the time of your friendship, he's read what will make you tick. Do not believe what aqua man or any man says without actions. He can be the most charming sweetest guy around but if he can't back it up, he can not be trusted. You will see how quick men will turn on you when you do something they don't like, and their true personalities will reveal.
I believe everything you are saying and have thought it through somewhat. I do question his intentions which does not like. I guess you could say at this point I am intrigued by him. We really are good friends tho...
Good Friendships can turn into romanticism quickly if there are mutual feelings. This is where you need to be honest with yourself, and the aqua.
You know what usually happens and this is the negatives of my sun sign. Sadly sometimes we like the chase, you are unattainable to him, but the moment you drop your dude and try to get with him he will spin you into a mind game, either your mentally strong enough or not.
Aquas recently saw it on the board with two other users. Thought they knew everything about their "awesome" aqua man only for it to fall apart and they were being played the whole time. He will be like night and day for you.
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He is long time divorced and is raising his 14 year daughter as a single dad. I don't think he is into playing games like that, but the way he expressed his feelings and how soon is just different than the way I would have gone about it if I was the one who admitted falling first.
I like his courage, it took guts to come out like he did with his feelings. I keep reading that Aqua males are slow to fall in love and be in a relationship. Yet, this Aqua is very open to me...and it could be that he feels safe because I'm in a situation. So it's possible he could be into the chase. I have questioned him as to why he is single and not interested in available, single women...and he said he does not choose who he wants to be with according to if they are single or not. That's what he said....
Posted by bittercupcake
...But I am unsure if his love is true and deep or mere infatuation. I'm really starting to fall for him...yikes!Any thoughts or advice on how to proceed?
so if he didn't like you would yu have considered him?
because it seems like you just want a way out of
your relationship becaus eyoure not happy
why not jjust walk away?
I did like him, that's why I wanted him in my circle of friends...as a friend and someone to network with in our respective work fields. We have a lot in common...so I guess the attraction was there, somewhat hidden on my part at first.
what's your bf sign? why do you feel unhappY?
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He's an overbearing Cancer who stifles me career wise...and I can't breathe and be myself in my relationship with me.
Posted by bittercupcake
...But I am unsure if his love is true and deep or mere infatuation. I'm really starting to fall for him...yikes!Any thoughts or advice on how to proceed?
so if he didn't like you would yu have considered him?
because it seems like you just want a way out of
your relationship becaus eyoure not happy
why not jjust walk away?
Same thing I was thinking.
yea it doesn't meake sense when women say that.
like did you have a crush on him bfore and didn't think there would be a chance
or are you only into him because he's into you?
id be paranoid to be with someone who only liked me because
i like that person. it wold make me feel used as a ginniepig to dump
their current relationship. what then?
what's your sign OP?
I am a Cap and this Aqua and I have a mental connection. We just flow together in the way we converse about everything and anything.
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Honestly all the girls/women who come here say that. They go on and on about this "connection"
Keep reading the forum. You will see. Aquas are such good charmers.
Posted by bittercupcake
...But I am unsure if his love is true and deep or mere infatuation. I'm really starting to fall for him...yikes!Any thoughts or advice on how to proceed?
so if he didn't like you would yu have considered him?
because it seems like you just want a way out of
your relationship becaus eyoure not happy
why not jjust walk away?
Same thing I was thinking.
yea it doesn't meake sense when women say that.
like did you have a crush on him bfore and didn't think there would be a chance
or are you only into him because he's into you?
id be paranoid to be with someone who only liked me because
i like that person. it wold make me feel used as a ginniepig to dump
their current relationship. what then?
what's your sign OP?
I am a Cap and this Aqua and I have a mental connection. We just flow together in the way we converse about everything and anything.
Honestly all the girls/women who come here say that. They go on and on about this "connection"
Keep reading the forum. You will see. Aquas are such good charmers.
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Ye~ah, I am beginning to see this about Aqua males. He just sent me a text asking me if I love him. Then he ask me to "Marry" him. Who does that through text? But it's not the first time that he's done this.
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Man, where do I start? I met this Aquarius guy almost a year ago while in a relationship with someone else. He came to a cookout I had at my house Memorial day in 2016. He came with some friends of mine and was pretty cool. He was so cool that I wanted to fix him up with a single friend of mine...so I invited him out to a 4th of July cookout I hosted last summer.
Things didn't work out between him and the girl I introduced him to; it didn't go anywhere with them at all. And he would talk with me about it and my friend would talk to me about him, so I would talk to them both about each other.
...At this point I'm not thinking much about him, paid no attention he's an Aquarius male. I just knew he was cool and I could talk to him about anything. He is also friends with my man. We have all gone to lunch together etc.
Anyway to make a long story short, a few months ago he came right out and said that he is falling for me. He started telling me he loves me and that I am "his heart." He blew me away! I was thinking we were friends. He tells me that he's never felt this way about anyone before...and he does have other female friends. So he tells me, "I do have other friends but they have nothing to do with what I feel for you."
He says he will wait for me however long it takes for us to be together. He does not pressure me at all. He tells me he wants me in his life forever...and that he never wants to lose me. He tells me I am the one. He tells me if I need anything just ask him...and he has come thru for me a couple of times.
To be honest he's got me spinning. I sometimes doubt his love tho because, to me; he fell in love too quickly. I had no clue he was falling for me until he told me so. I had been trying to fix him up with other people. He is tempting me, I am a Cap female and I dig his flow.
...So I began researching the Aquarius zodiac sign and can see that they value friendship first and foremost. Guess I can see how this could happen.
...But I am unsure if his love is true and deep or mere infatuation. I'm really starting to fall for him...yikes!
Any thoughts or advice on how to proceed?
*Aquarius males do chime in also, thanks.