aquafall
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how do you aquarius deal with cancer mothers? or cancer people?
I run away as fast as I can from them.
Im.sorry hear that about ur mom. Idk what to tell u honestly. I'm a cancer and that isnt my personality aqua r my best friends we get along so good. I have heard things about them july cancers or some in general can be mean and cookiemonster keep ur head up.
Posted by aquafallMy dad is an Aqua sun with a Cancer rising and he is prone to violent changes of mood too. But, he is affectionate though.
Anybody here that has a cancer mother? my mom is born in July 17, 1976 and I am born in January 24,1996. She is very abusive in all ways, emotionally, pyschologically and verbally.
She always think there is something wrong with me, is very manipulative, harsh and brings out all the mistakes I did even though I was a teen. I don't even do terrible things or fun things like drinking, weed, drugs or alcohol. Literally, the best thing to me is spending time by myself, I love spending time to myself. I also can't seem to commuincate with her, she is always suffocating me and making me feel bad about myself. And it's not just her, in general, I just cannot seem to get along with cancer people because they say things to either get under my skin one way or the other, so I usually steer away from them and water signs in general.
I am very distant, I can talk to people and have friends, but I am very distant with people, I don't really like being attached to people too much. I am mostly really into air signs and earth signs, but water signs I cannot stand and as for fire signs I can tolerate but I don't like them much either. (These are only based on the people I've come across, this is just my opinion and observation)
Posted by blessyouAre you a Feb born Aquarian?Posted by febaquaim an aqua with a cancer rising and i can relate when people piss meoff..Posted by aquafallMy dad is an Aqua sun with a Cancer rising and he is prone to violent changes of mood too. But, he is affectionate though.
Anybody here that has a cancer mother? my mom is born in July 17, 1976 and I am born in January 24,1996. She is very abusive in all ways, emotionally, pyschologically and verbally.
She always think there is something wrong with me, is very manipulative, harsh and brings out all the mistakes I did even though I was a teen. I don't even do terrible things or fun things like drinking, weed, drugs or alcohol. Literally, the best thing to me is spending time by myself, I love spending time to myself. I also can't seem to commuincate with her, she is always suffocating me and making me feel bad about myself. And it's not just her, in general, I just cannot seem to get along with cancer people because they say things to either get under my skin one way or the other, so I usually steer away from them and water signs in general.
I am very distant, I can talk to people and have friends, but I am very distant with people, I don't really like being attached to people too much. I am mostly really into air signs and earth signs, but water signs I cannot stand and as for fire signs I can tolerate but I don't like them much either. (These are only based on the people I've come across, this is just my opinion and observation)click to expand
Posted by blessyouI keep meeting Feb born Aquarians with water rising for some time now. Good to know you. Are you second decan or third?Posted by febaquaYeahPosted by blessyouAre you a Feb born Aquarian?Posted by febaquaim an aqua with a cancer rising and i can relate when people piss meoff..Posted by aquafallMy dad is an Aqua sun with a Cancer rising and he is prone to violent changes of mood too. But, he is affectionate though.
Anybody here that has a cancer mother? my mom is born in July 17, 1976 and I am born in January 24,1996. She is very abusive in all ways, emotionally, pyschologically and verbally.
She always think there is something wrong with me, is very manipulative, harsh and brings out all the mistakes I did even though I was a teen. I don't even do terrible things or fun things like drinking, weed, drugs or alcohol. Literally, the best thing to me is spending time by myself, I love spending time to myself. I also can't seem to commuincate with her, she is always suffocating me and making me feel bad about myself. And it's not just her, in general, I just cannot seem to get along with cancer people because they say things to either get under my skin one way or the other, so I usually steer away from them and water signs in general.
I am very distant, I can talk to people and have friends, but I am very distant with people, I don't really like being attached to people too much. I am mostly really into air signs and earth signs, but water signs I cannot stand and as for fire signs I can tolerate but I don't like them much either. (These are only based on the people I've come across, this is just my opinion and observation)click to expand
Posted by blessyouIm not like that but okPosted by lovely77all cancers really.. the thing about them is they'll really be your friend and smile in your face and then talk wild shit behind your back but I DIGRESS.
Im.sorry hear that about ur mom. Idk what to tell u honestly. I'm a cancer and that isnt my personality aqua r my best friends we get along so good. I have heard things about them july cancers or some in general can be mean and cookiemonster keep ur head up.click to expand
@aquafall
I have a water rising too. And we are supposed to be the most emotional of the Aquas out there.
I am a third decan too.
I have a water rising too. And we are supposed to be the most emotional of the Aquas out there.
I am a third decan too.
Posted by febaquayeah I am pretty emotional
@aquafall
I have a water rising too. And we are supposed to be the most emotional of the Aquas out there.
I am a third decan too.
when it comes to certain things though
to cut off the emotional things I try to be distant
what about you? I know I am emotional but I distance myself most of the time
Posted by aquafallMy ex's mom has the same birthday but different year. He has the same birthday as well. He talks about her baking and how she loved baking but once in a while he'll complain about how toxic she is. She drinks like a fish and really negative with his dad who is very patient. She killed my ex's confidence as well. She loves him very much but has a funny way of showing it. She loves me but I am a sunny person who buys people flowers just to make them happy so most moms like me.
Anybody here that has a cancer mother? my mom is born in July 17, 1976 and I am born in January 24,1996. She is very abusive in all ways, emotionally, pyschologically and verbally.
She always think there is something wrong with me, is very manipulative, harsh and brings out all the mistakes I did even though I was a teen. I don't even do terrible things or fun things like drinking, weed, drugs or alcohol. Literally, the best thing to me is spending time by myself, I love spending time to myself. I also can't seem to commuincate with her, she is always suffocating me and making me feel bad about myself. And it's not just her, in general, I just cannot seem to get along with cancer people because they say things to either get under my skin one way or the other, so I usually steer away from them and water signs in general.
I am very distant, I can talk to people and have friends, but I am very distant with people, I don't really like being attached to people too much. I am mostly really into air signs and earth signs, but water signs I cannot stand and as for fire signs I can tolerate but I don't like them much either. (These are only based on the people I've come across, this is just my opinion and observation)
Try hanging with a Leo-I always get along with Aquarius men and women and we don't meddle and are loyal and have far too many friends so leo probably wont suffocate you 🙂
Posted by blessyouI know, we don't show it much. And then we get all the bad name.Posted by febaquaYea pretty much. People find it hard to take us seriously but it's all good.
@aquafall
I have a water rising too. And we are supposed to be the most emotional of the Aquas out there.
I am a third decan too.click to expand
But the close ones understand. That's what matters.
Posted by aquafallYeah bro. I do that too. And then people label us as if we have no heart. 😄Posted by febaquayeah I am pretty emotional
@aquafall
I have a water rising too. And we are supposed to be the most emotional of the Aquas out there.
I am a third decan too.
when it comes to certain things though
to cut off the emotional things I try to be distant
what about you? I know I am emotional but I distance myself most of the timeclick to expand
I would say, we are the most emotional ones out there and don't show it all.
Posted by aquafalluh that don't make sense. if you have a mother who has cancer energy then you have cancer energy. so you're both moody. I've got cancer energy (i'm a 4th houser) and so does my husband, and it's not a wonder his parents have 4th, although his father is dominant scorpio, so maybe he is cancer rising don't know for sure. my parents are dominant scorpio, and I know all about the sting-a-rooney spiel. it blows over though, but that's just how it is. you can't change people's nature anyway so you either ACCEPT that about yourself and her, or just leave. and then what happens? you are a lonely lonely individual with no loving mother to be there and be supportive.
Anybody here that has a cancer mother? my mom is born in July 17, 1976 and I am born in January 24,1996. She is very abusive in all ways, emotionally, pyschologically and verbally.
She always think there is something wrong with me, is very manipulative, harsh and brings out all the mistakes I did even though I was a teen. I don't even do terrible things or fun things like drinking, weed, drugs or alcohol. Literally, the best thing to me is spending time by myself, I love spending time to myself. I also can't seem to commuincate with her, she is always suffocating me and making me feel bad about myself. And it's not just her, in general, I just cannot seem to get along with cancer people because they say things to either get under my skin one way or the other, so I usually steer away from them and water signs in general.
I am very distant, I can talk to people and have friends, but I am very distant with people, I don't really like being attached to people too much. I am mostly really into air signs and earth signs, but water signs I cannot stand and as for fire signs I can tolerate but I don't like them much either. (These are only based on the people I've come across, this is just my opinion and observation)
they just love you and don't want you to do the same mistakes over again. they remember these things and it hurts them. So you just gotta reassure them it will never happen again, and sometimes they bring it up again as a way of releasing the hurts they had, so all you gotta do is tell them straight, set her down and tell her that you don't like that and you understand your mistakes as a teenagers.
but then i'm not you,and I don't really get on with airy peeps the way you do. my husband is my very best friend, companion, lover, everything, and i'm his too, if i'm honest with myself, and he's water /fire dominant.
and if you don't do drugs, that's good. they are actually secretly proud of you that you don't fall into that addiction trap.
Ok, I don't know if it matters to you or not but I am a cancer. I just want to give some insight in some cancer's head. Yes we are moody I can tell you that. I particularly don't like talking about people behind their back, the only time I do is when someone has done something to me that irritated me or hurt me in some way and then I talk just to get it out of my system other wise I feel too depressed. Sometimes I will go into my shell and remove myself from that person for a while. I know I can blow up on someone and to keep myself from hurting the ones close to me I leave. We aren't as clingy as what people say. It may come across as clingy- believe me give me too much attention and you won't see me for a while. I get bored and hop from person to person. As for the guilt trip. I do guilt people- most of the time I don't intentionally do it to make them feel guilty. I do it cause it pains me when the people I care about is doing something that hurts. Distance is something that bothers us. After all, I enjoy the people I care about company. I do like to know what's going on in their life, if something is bothering them so that I can help if I can. I have been dealing with an Aqua man for a while and it's a pain cause of the distance. I finally decided to give up and I have a feeling if I give it time he's going to start contacting me again. As it has happened before. I don't know the details about why your mother would guilt trip you but something is on her mind where she's worried or feels that you're way too distant because all she wants to do is help you. In making you feel guilty she's hoping that you will come out and start thinking about it.
Side note that I've been learning- any relationship is work from both sides. As a cancer I like to see the other person try instead of them feeling that they don't need to. Also I've seen that the compatibility is low for cancer and Aquarius but once the crab learns to give distance and breathing room and the Aquarius shows that they care they become the strongest bonds in the zodiac as they're capable of changing the world together.
Side note that I've been learning- any relationship is work from both sides. As a cancer I like to see the other person try instead of them feeling that they don't need to. Also I've seen that the compatibility is low for cancer and Aquarius but once the crab learns to give distance and breathing room and the Aquarius shows that they care they become the strongest bonds in the zodiac as they're capable of changing the world together.
I love them, it's a struggle at first but my Taurus moon bonds with them nicely.
Posted by blessyouI'm right there with you guys...struggle is real, ha.Posted by febaquayeah pretty much, dxp brings my real side out because not too many people know about this so..Posted by aquafallYeah bro. I do that too. And then people label us as if we have no heart. 😄Posted by febaquayeah I am pretty emotional
@aquafall
I have a water rising too. And we are supposed to be the most emotional of the Aquas out there.
I am a third decan too.
when it comes to certain things though
to cut off the emotional things I try to be distant
what about you? I know I am emotional but I distance myself most of the time
I would say, we are the most emotional ones out there and don't show it all.click to expand
I dont get along with cancer girls - only the men. Cancer girls make me wanna jump off a cliff with their whininess and complaining. Buhuuu cry cry over everything. Nah. Not my cup of tea
Posted by FutureSeekerno wonder you get on with cancers, but airy ones too. it's in your family.
In my family my dad is an aqua (Jan 24) mom Aqua (Feb 5) and I'm Aqua (Jan 30). Then I have 2 Cancer brothers (July 11 and July 16). I'm also engaged to a Cancer man (July 13).
My family is very close. We grew up with laughter. My dad was sick for a long time before passing in 2000 from MS- as a family we had so much quality time together because my parents raised us to value communication and that time is valuable. I am close with my brothers. We don't ever have conflict or anything.
I'm sorry you are going through stress with your mom and she smothers you a bit emotionally.
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