i had never hooked up with an Aquarius before...

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lv519
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17 YearsTaurus

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and like so many on this board, I'm friggin confused.


So the dude starts coming on to me and talking to me hardcore a month or so ago.We have a lot in common, he is a sweet man,smart,funny,hardworking,artistic.Really super awesome. From the first night we had a date he was the epitome of affectionate .The chemistry was also off the charts .After our first date it had gotten to a point where my signals got crossed to a point where im like I dont think this is just sex, i think he really is invested in me. He was open to meeting a bunch of my friends, holding my hand in public ,affectionate. The other day he even told me that he bought me my own toothbrush for his place. I am usually rather skeptical but I was like wow... this felt like he was showing me that he wanted me around for a while.


But then the same day as the toothbrush incident, he when we said goodbye kinda flipped the switch.It was the weekend and I asked what he was up to .He had plans to go to an art show (im an artist myself so stupid me i thought he'd probably say oh do you want to go with me?).But he didnt...we had sorta a weird moment at that point and im like,"well do you want to hang out?". His response "maybe".

he didnt call me over the weekend, i got some little lame facebook status update comment from him last night saying,"wtf you went bowling and didnt invite me?".It felt random .

Im just confused by his actions .Should I be doing something on my end? or am I missing big hints and just move on.Perspective on this would be so greatly appreciated.
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lammal23
@lammal23
17 YearsAquarius

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Like airbender said, "He is recharging his battery." I often confuse people with this type of behavior as well and I feel bad. It's hard though because we physically, mentally, and emotionally get exhausted when we are around people too much. Although it may feel as though he is pushing away, it is more likely he just needed time to gather himself. If he wasn't interested he wouldn't have commented you about bowling.