I think there are people who naturally enjoy complementing others..they usually do this if they themselves enjoy receiving compliments.
Now....if someone that you know begins to compliment you and it is not their "normal" pattern - then my flag is raised. Hmmm...what do they want? I have a pisces male buddy who does this very often. Me being a direct communicator calls him on his "stuff". This is what has worked for him in the past with getting his female hook-up buddies. He found what worked for him and he found the girls who fell for it....the ones who can sniff it out....do not take the bait.
With this said......I do not seem to feel that it relates to Choco latte in the least. My feeling is that she expresses from her heart.
"some people have a hard time loving themselves so whatever you say they will take it in a negative way" ...and this is so true! However, this does not mean that others need to walk on egg shells or change their natural behaviour due to someone's insecurities for fear of a neg. reaction by the uncomfortable person. Those who choose to compromise themselves for another are not coming from an honest place...this will then create a relationship that is falsely based.
always....always be yourself and if someone doesn't like it....heyho, no problem. NEXT! 😉
"you wouldn,t give a beginner an expert problem would you ?"
well....yeah, I might depending on the "beginner" and the "expert problem" if he/she could handle it, why not? the reason I say this is because a so called beginner...(I am guessing you mean new at something?) may be new at something but may have the innate skills to handle the problem. One never knows.
As you can tell.....I have a very opened mind.😉 anything is truly possible ya know 🙂
"But i am simply suggesting give people what they can handle"
I see what you are saying but can you really know how much a person can handle? I am guessing that your question is implying that you don't really know the people....if we know them very well then your question makes perfect sense. oh....but then again.....when I was personal training....I took them beyond what they could handle so they were able to meet a new challenge. Maybe if we give people what they can handle they may become stagnant and stay in the "safe" zone...no growth there!
"numerous aquas have told me this they start to doubt and same with scorps or caps the more suscipious signs"
I wonder why they choose to doubt? perhaps in their past they may have had some difficult times and are bringing those past issues of doubt and lack of trust to their new relationships? someday, if they desire a healthy relationship, they will need to open themselves to someone and be able to trust them. But first....they will need to learn to trust and not doubt themselves. By "protecting" them does this really help them grow?
That is all carry on. 🙂