Major help needed with aqua male i'm devastated

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Scorp female been very close friends with aqua male for 8 years he's shared very personal info with me and needed me for help on his life very close friends talk almost everyday
8 months ago we started casually seeing each other "dating" and obv we have always had a connection attracted to each other and when we took it to the next step it was like fireworks the chemistry was unreal lol

But I get very angry lol obv I'm a scorp and I sometimes don't understand him and I will lash out verbally and hurt him I've done it do many times and he always lets me back in. bUT this time I've gone to far and I've hurt his ego/feelings i know I have and he won't respond to me the last silent treatment from him lasted 2 months but I can't wait for that again I messaged him saying that I do in fact love him so I'm letting him go and I've cut all contact!!!

Did he ever like me if there is a chance I want him back how can I do this I'm desperate
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Well he knows me enough to expect that anger
We have had crazy arguments before and he always forgave me.
We were seeing each other casual I liked it that way , I been to his home but never invited him to mine , no sex he's never seen me naked I've seen him though lol
I guess I freaked when I thought he was using me for not replying I'm not clingy hence the casual nature of it , I wouldn't phone him I had his number I never gave him mine. We contacted each other through messenger. The last argument we had he accused me of using him !

I'm confused as to what he was feeling
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My crazy virgo ways drove my ex Aqua bf away for good., neediness, emotional obsessiveness, demanding emotional affection , he hated that kinda shit; wouldn't have anythinh to do w me anymore. Lasted casually LDR for 1 ye of sextung, some genuine emotional exchanges and interest.them we got together when I moved back home it was great he confessed his love for me w in two weeks. Then I left back 400 miles and it was continued I to a LDR, we had future plans. But I took it too far w my insecurities, and obsessive behaviors. He couldn't take it anymore and dropped me, w no real closure. It still saddens me to this day he could just let someone he "loved madly" just go so easy.... Good luck girl
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Posted by Stihl46
Ah the Scorpio lash out I've experienced it many times I'm a Cancer man so I can handle it an Air sign Aqua I don't think so. Funny you Scorps only lash out at people you are comfortable with when you get mad you start saying things you shouldn't.

You screwed the pooch this time I doubt an Aqua man will come back



that aqua man sounds weak anyway.




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This thread is just so dumb its not funny. Apart from Huldra and Konlucha its like kids talking.

Lisbethur8 - you must be really young or something?
What precisely is "weak" about poor Mr Aqua please?

Because he said Take a Hike after Miss Dumbell here who led him on, feigning intimacy and being fickle?
No - that ain't weak little girl, thats proper.
Personally I hope she gets her self righteous entitled skinny as 'kicked'

You suggest that 'Aquas' do X or Y. Scorpios do Z etc..
Next you'll be talking about Blacks or Italians 🙂

People like you really sum up how incredibly lightweight certain parts of DXP are!

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You need to watch the new Cinderella movie the lesson that movie teaches is to "be brave and always show kindness"......Ok you're a scorpio we get it but you can just hurt peoples feelings and then play your scorpio card, thats just lazy and irresponsible and gives scorpio's everywhere a bad name, maybe you should exercist control and retrain the way you think if you're the one constantly putting someone down. Seriously monitor your thoughts and start changing your attitude because people in general don't like hanging with negative people.
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Posted by aquapiscesmoon
This thread is just so dumb its not funny. Apart from Huldra and Konlucha its like kids talking.

Lisbethur8 - you must be really young or something?
What precisely is "weak" about poor
Mr Aqua please?

Because he said Take a Hike after Miss Dumbell here who led him on, feigning intimacy and being fickle?
No - that ain't weak little girl, thats proper.
Personally I hope she gets her self righteous entitled skinny as 'kicked'

You suggest that 'Aquas' do X or Y. Scorpios do Z etc..
Next you'll be talking about Blacks or Italians 🙂

People like you really sum up how incredibly lightweight certain parts of DXP are!




My gosh I'm amazed at the responses
I guess you all know your stuff it true I suppose even if I don't like it I need to accept I've f'ed up bad.
Thing is never in my life have I met someone like him who would always rub me the wrong way. He'd talk about all his one night stands and the many girls he banged and chucked and deep down I was scared he'd so it to me too. But like a dumb fool I didn't see him giving me chance after chance picking me up every time we'd meet


I'm a fool
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Posted by Tinxy
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I don't care what he did, you lashing out says everything about your instability and nothing about him. 3 days? That's not a game. He didn't have your number, you were casually dating and only spoke over messenger and you threaten him? You're crazy. He dodged a bullet.



I'm not crazy , but you're right in many ways
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Here's the thing. That behavior sounds destructive. Even if someone looks past your outbursts, know they won't forever. Words hurt longer and worse than anything else.
Even if you felt your feelings were hurt its always best to ask to understand the situation vs jumping to the worst case scenario.

I know scorps sting when they are hurt. But make sure you only sting when you are done with someone because even if you aren't ready for them to leave, they still will.
I'm an aqua with a scorp moon so I get it but communicating is more productive than lashing out.

I think overall it's a learning experience.
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Posted by flowingwater
Tinxy,

Aquarius- fixed sign
Scorpio- fixed sign
= power struggle.

You can't control him and he can't control you. An aqua man is independent, detached in his ways and subtle in showing love. Basically he will drive you insane as long as you try to tie him down. That won't happen.



But this is the thing I've never tried to tie him down , I never show jealousy or that I've pursued him for a full relationship , it was me who said the whole "were friends" thing and he seemed taken aback. I used to tell him go out have fun live your life lol then the love big hit and I never let on.
He'd say to me look at me ?!?! Why won't you look at me .
He once said if he stood naked in front of me I'd still not notice him !
Don't get it at all. He said also he feels like a dog and Im throwing a ball to make him chase it but I don't actually throw it but he runs after it anyway !!! Wth is that about ? I didn't even bother to ask for an explanation. Maybe I should have. Hind sight and all that.
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Posted by aquapiscesmoon
This thread is just so dumb its not funny. Apart from Huldra and Konlucha its like kids talking.

Lisbethur8 - you must be really young or something?
What precisely is "weak" about poor Mr Aqua please?

Because he said Take a Hike after Miss Dumbell here who led him on, feigning intimacy and being fickle?
No - that ain't weak little girl, thats proper.
Personally I hope she gets her self righteous entitled skinny as 'kicked'

You suggest that 'Aquas' do X or Y. Scorpios do Z etc..
Next you'll be talking about Blacks or Italians 🙂

People like you really sum up how incredibly lightweight certain parts of DXP are!



We were intimate I just wouldn't let him have sex with me. I don't have sex with just anyone.
I gave him pleasure that blew his brains out we had a strong chemistry
No joke.
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Sorry to say, but every time a Scorpio chick comes to post her dramatic breakup with an Aqua man on here it's basically cut and paste. With every single one of you showing exact same behavior and rough chain of events. The world should guve up on this M/F pairing by now.




My mum and dad are scorp/aqua pairing and they have been together for 40 years lol

Interesting! Correct me If I am wrong but I read that your mom is Aqua so your dad must be a Scorp.I am married to a Scorp.I think Huldra was talking about Aqua male/Scorp female pairing.There is a pattern though so she isn't totally wrong.I don't want to be nosy but just out of curiosity,how's parents marriage?
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Yes _??_ mums an aqua and dads a scorpio born on All Hallows' eve lol a true devil lol

My mum is someone I really look up too, she sees no bad in anyone.

Their marriage is a good one they are like the bestest of friends. Together they are one spirit I have so much to lern from them I'm an idiot u see that tho lol

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Posted by Tinxy
I think Cersei from game of thrones is a scorpio lol



so strange. i was just looking over game of thrones today, and thought Cersei is one COLD bitch.

then i looked up the character playing her. She is a Libra with a Capricorn moon, but she is dominant Scorpio too.

she reminds me alot of that other libra woman who has a capricorn moon, who plays this really COLD bitch in, the newer Judge Dredd, AKA MAMA:

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Scorpio woman are serious, wants to be in control, and is clingy. Not to mention they have biggest ego in the zodiac, can be super manipulative, mean and aggresive, cunning . They are also elitists, look down on other if they are weaker than her, and some are pure power hungry witch. I m not saying scorpio dont have any desirable qualities , which is not.They are one of sharpest sign in spotting opportunities and are quite wise. But aqua men are not earth sign who are looking for women with good kitchen skills or a protective mother for their child. Aquas actually find scorp women boring and sometime bitter , their eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth policy even when other party has no idea does not do well for their relationship.( Infact it actually reminds them of their sign, no matter how loyal you are to them , they still bite ). Look at her other watery cousins. That lunatic crab who make no sense are actually capable of being quite sweet and they can be easily brought to life by humour. Also their drama is not as violent as with scorpio aqua relationship. And our neighbour tuna , (even though haters gonna hate)well they can be easy going and that trait is quite suitable for aquas.Even in vedic astrology this sign's description sucks. But western Scorpio becomes vedic libra but again Sun debilitated in Lib and vedic astrology takes that seriously(meaning poor moral, succumb to materialistic pleasure).Aquas become cap which are almost as worse as scorps. You know I was reading one of the vedic forums where i found that women in India were still traded like livestocks in their tradition of arranged marriage. So parents would decide their partners(which actually reminded me of Sansa Stark with Ramsay in Game of Thrones in that last weeks Rape Scene). So parents would look at their potenial son/daughter in laws education , financial capability and all that and they use vedic astrology whether their union would be good or not. So in that forum were complaining that their daughter who had a scorpio moon got rejected multiple times because of that placement lols !!!! In another topic I found the husband's parent were raising dowry for someone who had those placement . Because in Vedic astrology the description of malefic placements are quite grim and some people take the desciption literally . At least in west people are spared of such
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Are libra women evil ?

I've never come across one that I've known in depth so thus is news to me lol



all i know is that anyone with libra in their personal planets, mooon, sun, venus, mars ect.

they are going to be PARNTERED early in life, even with their parents. Parents as in, family is close, because relationships are important to them.

it's a lifelong thing with these placements.


my aqua gf has been with her husband for over 20 plus years, and he's also got libra so that tells you those two are stuck like glue partnered for life. can't let go, won't let go, sewned at the hip.
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Are libra women evil ?

I've never come across one that I've known in depth so thus is news to me lol



all i know is that anyone with libra in their personal planets, mooon, sun, venus, mars ect.

they are going to be PARNTERED early in life, even with their parents. Parents as in, family is close, because relationships are important to them.

it's a lifelong thing with these placements.


my aqua gf has been with her husband for over 20 plus years, and he's also got libra so that tells you those two are stuck like glue partnered for life. can't let go, won't let go, sewned at the hip.
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Nearly all my plants etc are libra LOL

Only Uranus in scorp and Venus in sag the rest are all libra
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Are libra women evil ?

I've never come across one that I've known in depth so thus is news to me lol



all i know is that anyone with libra in their personal planets, mooon, sun, venus, mars ect.

they are going to be PARNTERED early in life, even with their parents. Parents as in, family is close, because relationships are important to them.

it's a lifelong thing with these placements.


my aqua gf has been with her husband for over 20 plus years, and he's also got libra so that tells you those two are stuck like glue partnered for life. can't let go, won't let go, sewned at the hip.



Nearly all my plants etc are libra LOL

Only Uranus in scorp and Venus in sag the rest are all libra
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so you're a libra moon too? and sun?
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Are libra women evil ?

I've never come across one that I've known in depth so thus is news to me lol



all i know is that anyone with libra in their personal planets, mooon, sun, venus, mars ect.

they are going to be PARNTERED early in life, even with their parents. Parents as in, family is close, because relationships are important to them.

it's a lifelong thing with these placements.


my aqua gf has been with her husband for over 20 plus years, and he's also got libra so that tells you those two are stuck like glue partnered for life. can't let go, won't let go, sewned at the hip.



Nearly all my plants etc are libra LOL

Only Uranus in scorp and Venus in sag the rest are all libra



so you're a libra moon too? and sun?
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I'm scorpio with libra moon I have 9 libra placements

I have no idea what that means , maybe I'm a special kind if nut job scorpio lol