MAN...US AQUA MEN ARE PLAYERS, AREN'T WE?

Wat up, peoples. It's BigD56 and I have something to say. I've been on here for about a month or two, and if I learned anything from this DXP site, it's that US AQUARIAN MEN ARE PLAYERS!!! I've been helping countless women from all zodiac signs about their troubles with their aquarian men, and they ALL SOUND THE SAME! Here's a few common things they have to say about their 'Mr.Fantastic' aqua man:

"Well, he SAYS he loves me...we got PHYSICAL almost as soon as we met...he only calls me when he's not BUSY...he says the most sweetest things about me and he NEVER COMPLAINS...there's this THING that happened in his life that prevents him from being with me, and I understand...he's just feeling CONFUSED, and I want to do whatever I can to help him...(and the most common) when he's away, he never calls me, but whenever I'm around him he treats me like I'm an angel."

Nothing but a heap of bullbutter, huh! Us aquas are one of the coolest people you will ever meet, but we can be the most devious people on the planet. I don't know if I should be proud of this trait, but I hate being seen as a player(although I am strongly detached). Now, how about we put our heads togeather and put down some ideas for our women who lusts for us aqua men and how to hogtie their hearts (Honestly, I don't TRULY know how, but I can still try to help LoL!).

I got one already to set it off, if an aquarian, no, if ANY MAN says ANYTHING I've placed above, that means he lost ALL interest in you and he's using you for his own personal benefits. Come on ladies, if a man sleeps with you and he doesn't want to be with you for ANY reason, HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU!!! This is a player's basic move! Then he'll be like "I'm sorry, my beautiful angel from above, but I can't be with you because (insert reason) and it's tearing me apart with everyday I'm not with you" This is bullbutter at it's finest.

"Well, he SAYS he loves me...we got PHYSICAL almost as soon as we met...he only calls me when he's not BUSY...he says the most sweetest things about me and he NEVER COMPLAINS...there's this THING that happened in his life that prevents him from being with me, and I understand...he's just feeling CONFUSED, and I want to do whatever I can to help him...(and the most common) when he's away, he never calls me, but whenever I'm around him he treats me like I'm an angel."

-so, explain the reasoning behind all of this...is it just a bunch of bs—

so, explain the reasoning behind all of this...is it just a bunch of bs—

Ok, first one:

"Well, he SAYS he loves me...we got PHYSICAL almost as soon as we met"

This is where the problem always begins for the poor ladies. They give up the goodies right at the beginning, which causes lies to come out of the man's mouth. They lose respect for the lady, and create a personality to keep them confused.

"he only calls me when he's not BUSY"

Come now, if ANY man TRULY likes you, he WILL make time for you, or he wouldn't have created a relationship with you especially if he's an aqua. He cares for you, he loves you, but he just couldn't see you because (bullbutter reason here)...it's all lies.

"he says the most sweetest things about me and he NEVER COMPLAINS"

Ok, this is the dream man right here. A man that is sweet beyond belief and never complains about you...this is an obvious one here. He's trying to get you where he wants you, and once that ring is placed around your finger or if years pass in your relationship, I bet a billion his whole attitude will change. I personally see it in women.

"there's this THING that happened in his life that prevents him from being with me, and I understand"

What thing can be THAT terrible to prevent this man from being with you? Remember, he's the most sweetest guy, right? If he was soo sweet, why can't he go a step further to prove this? Make him show you that he's truly yours, instead of just going off the words that come out his mouth. Actions speak louder than words.

"he's just feeling CONFUSED, and I want to do whatever I can to help him"

When I heard this, I just wanted to keel over. Confused about what? If he says he loves you and stuff, then why is he confused about being with you? Oh, he's in an asylum? Ok, THEN I'd understand, but relationship scars results in just totally not trusting a woman, not 'ok let's sleep togeather but my heart is still confused about my feelings' it's all game to get in your pants.

"when he's away, he never calls me, but whenever I'm around him he treats me like I'm an angel"

I personally do this because I love women. I will never let myself become an enemy to a woman, so when I see her I'll give her all I got but honestly i'm just doing it because I'm a man. This means that he lost interest in you, but he's always up for something "physical". He can't stand wasting time talking to you over the phone, but he can find enjoyment in seeing you physically..

Come on, I made this topic to HELP our women. Let's think of ways to rope em', but if you disagree with my opinions, I'm open for debate...

Ok...but what do you mean it was the other way around? You used HIM and confused HIS brain to use him for bed-work? Man, you women are the TRUE players...LOL!

And at the end of the day girls with these aqua men problems, if they'll not give you what you want who cares!!! Some other man will, his loss. Take your issues and walk boyfriend!!!!

Tanay123 my fellow gem, we can handle these aquas right? And i agree with what you say, we love em though and will always stay mates with them

And I think they do like the gems too - he DOES make an effort to keep me in his life. I am gemini sun, libra moon and he is aquarian sun and gemini moon!!! Air signs galore!!! We on the same plantet at least!!

Seriously, BigD is right. Looking through the boards, there are an over whelming amount of posts asking about Aquarius. How to handle them. Are they still interested. What does it mean when they do this. And so on.

I think the biggest problem people have with us, is the fact they don't understand that we're NOT emotional.

I saw a board asking about an Aqua boyfriend or something and the girl kept reading into to what he was saying and blahblah

She confronted him on it and he said

"Take what I say just as it is." and she said "But the way he said it was so cold and mean like he emant something more!"

THERE'S YOU'RE PROBLEM.

People read too much into us on the emotional level. We don't like being weighed down by clingy hands.

Well, im currently seeing an aqua man and its great. Im (Libra) and more detached than he is, and its driving him crrrrazy! He is so interested in why i refuse to fall at his feet, he's is always sending me texts and emails saying how beautiful i am etc and all i'll ever say is 'i already know..but thanks'. This seems to be the best way to enjoy an aqua man..keep it light and simple and most importantly, fun! I really adore the guy, but i know if i was to tell him, the whole dynamics of the relationship would change for the worst. Im happy to have what we have, i dont need the drama of seriousness. Hope this helps.

No Aquarius men for me. It didn't take me long to get the hint of my Aqua Ex-Lover. I was trying to keep it light but show i was a good friend all along. I overwhelmed him with my kindness he couldn't handle that and still proceeded to act like a jack ass so I dropped him like the asshole he is. I don't have time for games. Let the kids play them.

Well said Karima - I got 'played' by one of these idiots I took it on the chin and moved on. I learned my lesson. Every now and again he calls me and hangs up or sends me a blank emails (is this normal for Aqua or is he psycho?!).


"I think the biggest problem people have with us, is the fact they don't understand that we're NOT emotional."

Halfway - Are you an android?? Lol

i also have a libra rising! : )

(is this normal for Aqua or is he psycho?!).

Both.

Halfway is kinda true though, us aqua men dash at the first hint of serious, mushy love talk. I just can't understand why we gotta be like that...now that I see this is ruining our reputation I think it's time for a change! I LOVE MUSHY LOVE TALK!!!!

(Crosses fingers behind back LOL!)

Hummm - BigD56. Thats what Mr Aqua said to me after we met "you might actually be a better player than I am" - Heh heh.
Nothing like playing a player.
I don't do that shit anymore.

Yeah Aqua men are players! But it is more than just Aqua men: the tricks/signs that BigD56 listed are not just aqua men' tricks they are those that men who are not interested in having serious relationships use to have their cake and eat it too! Maybe aqua men represent a serious percentage of that crowd! They are emotionally detached for sure so maybe that allows them to be better players than most...add to that their charm...it's a killer combination.
We all have been played at least once in our life. I even read men's post listing those tricks BigD56 about aqua women doing it to them sometimes. Of course more women post but if you look at the forums on capricorn men, aries or what have you, there are striking similarities. The thing with players is that that they can't play alone: so the complaining posts are usually from women/men who can't face reality and have to invent excuses in order to go on! therefore allowing the game to go on ad infinitum...Been there, done that! and only realize it after the fact...try not to repeat it in future relationship but yeah...what can I say!

Maia!! after all we talked about!!! yours isss soooo not!!

"Well, he SAYS he loves me...we got PHYSICAL almost as soon as we met...he only calls me when he's not BUSY...he says the most sweetest things about me and he NEVER COMPLAINS...there's this THING that happened in his life that prevents him from being with me, and I understand...he's just feeling CONFUSED, and I want to do whatever I can to help him...(and the most common) when he's away, he never calls me, but whenever I'm around him he treats me like I'm an angel."

Yeah Elly you're right! My guy never told me he loved me, then got physical and started acting up!!! I don't think I could be with him or any other man that way: I usually am very sceptical of out of the blue declaration of love: like, you don't even know me? how can you love me?
But I'm human and not perfect, I still got played (and as Primegen said, I won't made him look like the bad guy: I did participate) in other ways. I'm seeing my guy seriously now and he has been doing fine, no reproach there for the past two months. But at the beginning (the first four) it wasn't serious and it was player game's time...but I participated because throughout it all he never lied to me by making declarations of love that he wasn't backing up. He still hasn't but I'm not sweating it cause I can see his feelings for me in the ways he looks at me. so a balance is always important. I think that is what i like about aqua men: we can all complain here, but they're not the type to swoon you off your feet with declarations of love after the second date and disappear..They take it slow and I like that (well, the mature ones!)...even though it can be painful sometimes. Just as long as it is not too painful...
And Elly...if your aqua is going to travel maybe it is good that you guys are not together for now...just make sure you don't have a friend with benefits with him! your post earlier today got me worried: once you get there at this stage, you'll never get out.
Luck
Maia

Maia: "But it is more than just Aqua men: the tricks/signs that BigD56 listed are not just aqua men' tricks they are those that men who are not interested in having serious relationships use to have their cake and eat it too!"

YESSS!!! Thank you maia, this is exactly what I've been trying to point out! This is just too obvious to see! All these signs are all use by men who are NOT interested in having a serious relationship with you! Sadly, aquas wear the title of this, but what about the women? Are the aqua women just as breezy about relationships as the aqua man? I guess I gotta look into this...

"I can see his feelings for me in the ways he looks at me"

i catch my aqua friend looking at me, sometimes glassy-eyed. he just stares and he's so bold about it too. i am usually the one to look away since it makes me so uneasy. i find this behavior truly baffling since we're just platonic friends. (this phenomena has been occuring for the better half of our friendship).