Moving on from an aqua male

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Colorofmysunaet
@Colorofmysunaet
10 Years

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Hi Everyone,

I see a lot of posts on here about being in relationships with Aqua males and trying to work things out but what about moving on from Aqua males? My Aqua and I are only in the early stages of dating and started as friends first but I just cannot take his flaky behavior anymore. He's great when he's present but he still has his moments where I'll contact him and he will respond 2-3 days later. I come to realize I need more out of the person I'm dating. Is it best to cut him off completely and not respond when he contacts me, tell him my thoughts straight up or just tell him we should be friends. I don't know if this is relevant but his placements are below. I don't want to be an asshoele to anyone but I also want to move forward with my life.

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Aquarius 13.50
Moon Aries 15.00
Mercury Aquarius 28.33
Venus Sagittarius 27.53
Mars Aries 17.57
Jupiter Pisces 23.46
Saturn Sagittarius 18.41
Uranus Sagittarius 25.22
Neptune Capricorn 6.53
Pluto Scorpio 9.57
Lilith Cancer 8.03
Asc node Aries 13.29

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Eleventh
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Delete him from facebook and block his number, doing this will result in him having to meet you face to face (that is if hes interested in you)....if he doesn't come to see you then it means he doesn't like you and then you wont have to worry about breaking his heart...

If he does come by and see you make sure that you're not sad, you need to have evidence that you've been living life to the fullest, exercising, maybe make sure you have friends over and are having a gay old time drinking cocktails and laughing, maybe you're throwing a party at your place who knows just don't let him see cats, pizza boxes and empty bottles laying around, you need to ooze vitality....This will lead him into a false sense of security.

You need to show on you're face no bitterness or scorn just indifference with a twinkle in your eye and a summery glow......Hes gonna ask you what you've been up to and tell him all you're amazing stories that you've been hanging with friends and meeting awesome new people (make sure you really do this in the time you cut him off) Just tell him about the awesome life you've been living without him....

What you're trying to do here is let him go in a nice way, if he asks about why you deleted him on facebook just tell him that you didn't see any point of having him as a friend on there because he never replies to your messages....next he might try to get you to hang out with him, that's when you make yourself unavailable (this is when the friends you previously made come in handy).....Say you're out to dinner with your new mates.

If he gives you an explanation and goes on with his bullshit just say "That's nice but its not enough for me, I really really liked you but you left me hanging on messenger, I have no idea where we are at and to be honest you let me get cold. Last I knew we were together and having a good time, next minute I'm a stranger to you.....etc etc just keep it short and sweet, and make sure you say I don't know a lot especially when he gives you a long lengthy questions or statements just shrug your shoulders and say "I don't know" it will piss him off lol..

best of luck
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tortillamm
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don't cut him off, tell him your side. then shut the door and never look back. aqua men play too much tbh they're used to women running back to them and giving them second chances and they abuse that. i'm an aquarius sun/venus too and i've only seen this type of behavior in the men. this is why they usually only stick with leo influenced females (cuz those chicks with hunt a man down). aqua men always think they're in the right even when they're in the wrong, it's second nature to them. you just have to show him that you felt he wasn't deserving you. be a lesson to him. i've had an aqua guy try to play that disappearing act on me and i wasn't having any of it, so the conversation we had before he dipped was the last one we ever had. it's hurts when you're not a priority to someone that is a priority to you. the question you need to ask yourself is: are you going to put up with it? because when it comes to men, if they know they can get away with it, they'll do it over and over again.
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sultrykitty
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Posted by tortillamm
don't cut him off, tell him your side. then shut the door and never look back. aqua men play too much tbh they're used to women running back to them and giving them second chances and they abuse that. i'm an aquarius sun/venus too and i've only seen this type of behavior in the men. this is why they usually only stick with leo influenced females (cuz those chicks with hunt a man down). aqua men always think they're in the right even when they're in the wrong, it's second nature to them. you just have to show him that you felt he wasn't deserving you. be a lesson to him. i've had an aqua guy try to play that disappearing act on me and i wasn't having any of it, so the conversation we had before he dipped was the last one we ever had. it's hurts when you're not a priority to someone that is a priority to you. the question you need to ask yourself is: are you going to put up with it? because when it comes to men, if they know they can get away with it, they'll do it over and over again.



LOL this is the truth.