need help with an aqua dad !

My dad is aqua and he treat me like im sht,nothing on this earth..im 21 scorpio.he wont let me choose anything or anyplace..he always think im so stupid and he tells that to his friends,he doesnt even know me...and when I meet a friend of him he says "tell me dude will she ever get marry"...he always want me to look like sht infront of everyone...advices...and please dont tell me to talk with him,he consider himself god..so consider him deaf and tell me what to do

You're 21, a grown adult. Its time for you to be a grown up and make your own choices without having to consult anyone else. So, stand on your own two feet and stop worrying about what your dad thinks.

Admit it you've probably made some horrible choices over the years? you aren't taking things as serious as you should, so your dad is tough on you. And by him being as blunt as he is feelings aside he's not going to see you fail in life or represent him in a distasteful/ignorant manner. He doesn't know you but he spent 21 years raising you? What you can do is make great life choices, prove yourself independent, follow through with any/everything you say. But most importantly deal with yourself and at the end of the day if your life is put up on a movie screen you won't be embarrassed of every single second of life you lived. That's all there is to it.

Posted by lololala
My dad is aqua and he treat me like im sht,nothing on this earth..im 21 scorpio.he wont let me choose anything or anyplace..he always think im so stupid and he tells that to his friends,he doesnt even know me...and when I meet a friend of him he says "tell me dude will she ever get marry"...he always want me to look like sht infront of everyone...advices...and please dont tell me to talk with him,he consider himself god..so consider him deaf and tell me what to do

Trust me i feel ur pain im now 30 my mother is an aquarius feb 2nd and she was nasty as can be to me treated me like a black sheep and im her only daughter aside from two brothers abused me when i was younger and wouldnt help me with nothin not even be a grandmother for my son she rejects me an then wonders why i grew up hatin her

Hate does more harm than good, signs aside her upbringing may have affected her life experiences, and her experience may have affected her from being a good mother to her daughter. Not every parent that has a baby is responsible for their entire life and not every person that has a baby will be a good parent. Bringing them into the world is their job, then making them independent to stand on their own 2 feet. I'm just saying at least have some respect for your family some people grew up without a 2 parent household some not even 1, and would have done anything to have them even if they ended up with a not so loving one. Life could have been far worse, instead of counting misfortunes let go of the past and count your blessings.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Hate does more harm than good, signs aside her upbringing may have affected her life experiences, and her experience may have affected her from being a good mother to her daughter. Not every parent that has a baby is responsible for their entire life and not every person that has a baby will be a good parent. Bringing them into the world is their job, then making them independent to stand on their own 2 feet. I'm just saying at least have some respect for your family some people grew up without a 2 parent household some not even 1, and would have done anything to have them even if they ended up with a not so loving one. Life could have been far worse, instead of counting misfortunes let go of the past and count your blessings.

Ur right i guess i got caught up in my emotion when she spoke about her dad

It's ok 🙂 , you know you're a cool person. I can just tell by how you cleared that up. Friends or nah? (too soon)?

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
It's ok 🙂 , you know you're a cool person. I can just tell by how you cleared that up. Friends or nah? (too soon)?

Friends I could use some lol ...i need ur help on a situation with a guy its on the help any aquarian post i need u to tell me if he will come back or not i think i hurt him but not intentionally

Yay! and ok I'll go read it now.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Yay! and ok I'll go read it now.

Ok

You're 21, my advice is get a job, move out, and you won't have to deal with your dad unless YOU want to. You've already tried words so since you're a scorp, ice him out.

wow very blunt consider others when giving advice smdh^^^^^^

nevermind i c ur an aquarius

His house, his rules.

I agree with the others to move on, you're an adult.

Just don't move out in strife or I tell you life is going to smite you down so hard on your knees karma will force you to go back begging for shelter, under... yes HIS roof. Keep calm, life goes on 🙂.

Posted by Libralula
All I can say is it sucks being forced under someone's mean and careless rules
He is insensitive and selfish, how someone would be so harsh to their own blood is beyond me..
There could be a compatibility issue but there is more to it just that. Alot of parents especially from older generations, never got love from their parents & so forth, this causes issue when
they have a child they cant understand. so deny them love they deserve, whether consciously or not because of fear deep inside, and possibly they are emotionally blocked, or narcissist
or he's dealing with personal mental issues and takes anger out on you.

daughters need strong good fathers and sons, mothers. if not our birth parents a strong figure in our lives.
maybe as he ages he will realize the errors of his ways... but he should remember that one day he will be old and helpless & he will need You to be there. Until then, focus on your happiness, keep your mental happy, One day, you will need to tell him how you feel. If your'e not ready or still need his help financially or whatever, try to fight negativity with kindness. Let the hurtful feelings fly right past you. Write a letter, burn it, set the ashes to the wind and remind yourself to be strong and you are everything and more of what he says you will never be.
keep your head up

I guess you are right
Thanks