need some clarity about aqua man

okay heres the situation....my aqua has been "in love" with me for several years and i him..but we live 2000miles apart so we have been dating other people and keep in touch all the time....i recently went to visit him after quite some time apart and we had a great time and he assured me of his love for me...but after i left he hasnt contacted me and its been a week...how should i handle this...confront him or just give him time or what??

oh yeah and he has a gf currently but he claims to "hate" her and is planning to move out....im seeing others but yeah idk...

Yes Move on! Quick! Aqua's are very unpredictable and quite "flighty"-also I'm also not an Aqua.

Yeah I say walk on by, walk on by, walk on by...tra la la

Yep, and me as an aqua...I LOVE WOMEN! Simply put, he just didn't want to break it down to you in words. He lost interest in you, and he's probably dating a couple woman besides the girl you know about. Forget him, it'll be easier on YOU.

BigD56:

damn thats exactly what i needed to hear....youre probably right...and i dont play that game. So if he does contact me in the future i should just tell him to forget it?/

oh yeah...and i read youre post about aquas being players which is probably true but i mean you have to fall in love sometime...who are these women??

I think aqua men often fall in love with women who are ALL WRONG fro them, which in turn results in a bad realtinoship which in turn exaserpates their natuaral 'non commital' gene. They end up alone cause they bark up the wrong tree
Maybe they shouldn't be so concerned with the imprtance of friendships, value a few specific people in their life rather than the whole world, women wouldn't get so confused by them, act all crazy, make their aqua run and hide alone again!!! They bring on their own demise!!!

that was beautiful....haha...no seriously

so if he calls ....forget it??

fo' sure.

i moved to the midwest....he lives on the east coast.....im not about exclusive long distance relationships...but that doesnt mean that i dont have deep feelings for him

"I think aqua men often fall in love with women who are ALL WRONG fro them, which in turn results in a bad realtinoship which in turn exaserpates their natuaral 'non commital' gene. They end up alone cause they bark up the wrong tree"


-you are SO right on about that!!! at least in my case with the aqua i was with, the above statement is very true. and not to sound like i have an ego, but i was the best girl he had ever been with, which is why i think he got rid of me. he likes being with women who bring out the worst in him, not the best.

yes!!!! i am the best girl for him....hes dating burn outs and whores...i think they love drama

the one i was dating loves druggies and whores...!!! i am neither of those...not even close.

"who are these women"

canceroushugs(laughs at name), I just put down a couple obvious hints about us aquas that confuses our women. It was a mix of problems from a couple women here on DXP.

"i think they love drama"

WOW! Me personally, I hated drama in my relationship, but there was something about it that made me want to stick around! My ex-love was a libra, and our relationship lasted from age 15 to 19, and our relationship was like a four-year season of Days of our Lives! I didn't know what was gonna happen next, but for some reason it kept me wanting her more and more...until the grand finale dropped on me and I just quit the show altogeather...*sniff*.

"I think aqua men often fall in love with women who are ALL WRONG fro them, which in turn results in a bad realtinoship which in turn exaserpates their natuaral 'non commital' gene. They end up alone cause they bark up the wrong tree"

Honestly, I hate not going off experience when I say things, but I think this is absolutely true. I think us aquarians acutally LIKE the drama and troubles in a relationship, and that action keeps our windy behinds interested and motivated to stay with them another day...

BigD56: haha i love your honesty! i wish i had you around all the time

sooooo the moral of the story....to sum up...would be that aquas are good for sexing it up and nothing more??

if we're not about drama, drugs, or cheating then we will never capture aqua hearts😢 (for at least 15 seconds)

aww p i love you. he's an @ $ $ . you know how some aquas can be be...we're best friends with one...

"I think aqua men often fall in love with women who are ALL WRONG for them,

i agree i mean why would the aqua man i know want to date slags and tarts i dont know?
i think you were right cancer when you said they love drama.

Primegen: "Don't use astrology to hide from the person"

Come on Primegen, she needed help from an AQUA man, so we're giving her help on how to deal with an AQUA man! Of course, no one will judge them according to their zodiac sign (I hope) this is what a typical AQUA man will do and react! I'm tired of people saying that all the time "Don't use astrology" if that was the case, then no one would be worrying about zodiacs altogeather! Just use this information in consideration, canceroushugs.

"if we're not about drama, drugs, or cheating then we will never capture aqua hearts"

I honestly don't think this is TOTALLY true for ALL aquas. You can say that for MOST aquas...or, expect aquas to be more attracted to the freaky chics with three children from three different men...LOL!!

hahahaha...sad but true

Honestly, I hate not going off experience when I say things, but I think this is absolutely true. I think us aquarians acutally LIKE the drama and troubles in a relationship, and that action keeps our windy behinds interested and motivated to stay with them another day...

Really?? Is this even half true?? Cause I think u may be onto something. Think Mr Aqua I am with Likes it when I try & dump his arse?

I have to join in here - my ex Aqua was all about the drama. Always creating conflict and arguments and of course, he was always right! I think that this was his way of making sure attention was always on him. Did remind me of a spoilt child at times.

i have a very good aqua male friend and he is/was in love with a girl that was soooo wrong for him....it was horrible, slighty pathetic. She used him in my opinion, but they still fremained friends even though he was in love with her, but she wouldn't date him. He pined horribly and dated girls who loved him but he did NOT love. It was a mess of broken hearts...he's moving on now but its definitely left its mark on him.

He's with a nice girl now...I hope he makes it work....by the way she looks exactly like his first love/obsession.

I personally stay away from drama...like the plague.

Pisces: "Really?? Is this even half true?? Cause I think u may be onto something. Think Mr Aqua I am with Likes it when I try & dump his arse?"

The reason I say that I hate to go off experience when I say things is because I don't believe EVERYTHING I read...you know? I have to experience my own facts, and coming off of everything I've heard about us aquas, yes, this has to be close. Personally, me being an aqua almost to a tee, if you dump me and not show me ANY attention, I'll be at your front door sobbing for loving. If you give him even a little attention, he will love every minute of it and have you chasing after him for as long as he can! (Yes, this is BigD talking, so you know I believe this is the case for MOST men...) Sad...isn't it?

I think, coming off of what I've read, that the only way to truly reel in an aqua's heart is to have HIM chase YOU by playing hard to get, but still showing him that there is still more to you than what you're showing him, you know...give him a challenge. This may raise curiosity in us windy aquarians to stay...just an idea (Heh, it'll work for me!).

I can't help but be hard to get - not really a game for me - I just don't like being tied down or someone thinking they have me figured - cause Ill go of & re evaluate myself & then change.

i have come to realize that you do give amazing advice BIGD56 and i was contemplating changing the way i deal with "my" aqua guy but then i just wouldnt be being true to myself. i dont want to have to play games with this kid in order for him to me into me...i care about him too much for that and if he doesnt appreciate it then ill move on.

I think it's kinda the same for aqau girls, those who give me attention get little in return, but I revel in it for as long as possiible. Those who dont pay me attention AS MUCH get the most of my attention. BUT it doesnt mean that I will date them most of the time.