Perfectionism

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Angmodurian
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Depend on what kind of a perfectionists you are. If you are just looking out for more details its fine but if your perfectionists type means crticizing others & trying to force others to follow your way its a good NONO.

I personally have never been fond of a perfectionists because i have a father that insists on people following his ways & making everyone very unhappy about it. Nobody is perfect in this world, there is no such thing as perfection. We can only do our best within our capacity as well as accomodate others but we cant force our way on them. It is also not respecting the other person for what they are too.
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Posted by Angmodurian
Depend on what kind of a perfectionists you are. If you are just looking out for more details its fine but if your perfectionists type means crticizing others & trying to force others to follow your way its a good NONO.

I personally have never been fond of a perfectionists because i have a father that insists on people following his ways & making everyone very unhappy about it. Nobody is perfect in this world, there is no such thing as perfection. We can only do our best within our capacity as well as accomodate others but we cant force our way on them. It is also not respecting the other person for what they are too.

+10000000 couldn't say it any better!
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Felt so gooooood to get your praise 🙂 After all i am your fan & you are the best spokesperson for Aquarians as a whole.
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In the eyes of an Aqua, is having a partner who is a 'perfectionist' good or bad? My man says I am a perfectionist and he is a self-confessed 'control freak'. We're good together, so from his side, I guess it's a good thing. I'm just asking out of curiosity of what goes on in the typical Aqua mind, and the fact he is away for work and I'm kinda bored without him.
Depends on the perfectionist, if you're obsessive compulsive about minor details that aren't important then no, but if you're meticulous in planning fool proof systems then we will worship you like a god.
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As an "Aqua perfectionist" I'm very critical on products and inventions that aren't designed well and aren't sustainable.

I'm worse when I'm n YouTube I go off at people who make tutorials and think it's ok to have an intro where they talk for 15mins about their day or adjust their cameras and do stupid editing, it's a fucking tutorial just do the fucking then so we can all watch it and get on with our day.
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Posted by Angmodurian
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Posted by Angmodurian
Depend on what kind of a perfectionists you are. If you are just looking out for more details its fine but if your perfectionists type means crticizing others & trying to force others to follow your way its a good NONO.

I personally have never been fond of a perfectionists because i have a father that insists on people following his ways & making everyone very unhappy about it. Nobody is perfect in this world, there is no such thing as perfection. We can only do our best within our capacity as well as accomodate others but we cant force our way on them. It is also not respecting the other person for what they are too.

+10000000 couldn't say it any better!
Felt so gooooood to get your praise 🙂 After all i am your fan & you are the best spokesperson for Aquarians as a whole.

Much love to you too Aqua guy! 🙂 I'm more fire/water and my style is completely different from other Aquas but I still share to the best of my knowledge.
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I don't actually like criticising others. I'm just very careful about what I do and how I do it. I am a fan of the mermaid too! 😄
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In the eyes of an Aqua, is having a partner who is a 'perfectionist' good or bad? My man says I am a perfectionist and he is a self-confessed 'control freak'. We're good together, so from his side, I guess it's a good thing. I'm just asking out of curiosity of what goes on in the typical Aqua mind, and the fact he is away for work and I'm kinda bored without him.
Depends on the perfectionist, if you're obsessive compulsive about minor details that aren't important then no, but if you're meticulous in planning fool proof systems then we will worship you like a god.
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I think I am the second...so I guess it's a complement! I like to do what I do the best I can do it, I will do it as many times as needed to get it just so. I agree with others here, there is no such thing as perfection, but if we strive for it, we can get the closest possible to it. I am def not obsessive about anything!
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Posted by AquaMermaid
Posted by Angmodurian
Depend on what kind of a perfectionists you are. If you are just looking out for more details its fine but if your perfectionists type means crticizing others & trying to force others to follow your way its a good NONO.

I personally have never been fond of a perfectionists because i have a father that insists on people following his ways & making everyone very unhappy about it. Nobody is perfect in this world, there is no such thing as perfection. We can only do our best within our capacity as well as accomodate others but we cant force our way on them. It is also not respecting the other person for what they are too.

+10000000 couldn't say it any better!
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I wouldn't be in a relationship with an Aqua if I was as you described. These "flowers" need gentle watering not torrential rain! 😉
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Angmodurian
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Posted by AquaMermaid
Posted by Angmodurian
Depend on what kind of a perfectionists you are. If you are just looking out for more details its fine but if your perfectionists type means crticizing others & trying to force others to follow your way its a good NONO.

I personally have never been fond of a perfectionists because i have a father that insists on people following his ways & making everyone very unhappy about it. Nobody is perfect in this world, there is no such thing as perfection. We can only do our best within our capacity as well as accomodate others but we cant force our way on them. It is also not respecting the other person for what they are too.

+10000000 couldn't say it any better!
Felt so gooooood to get your praise 🙂 After all i am your fan & you are the best spokesperson for Aquarians as a whole.

Much love to you too Aqua guy! 🙂 I'm more fire/water and my style is completely different from other Aquas but I still share to the best of my knowledge.
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Your not that different from me at least Aqua mermaid, i am a gemini moon with aqua sun which is double air & i have seen many of your posts. Your advice is straight to the point, i would have to say probably too blunt sometimes because it might hurt people's feelings but i really like it though, straight to the point with very little bullbutter. Either way advice is never pleasant to the ears no matter how people praise it. Your arguments always expose people's bullbutter right away muhahaa, so full of wit & wisdom. I wonder how your husband can expect to win any arguments with you hahha.