@pennystealing123
11 Years
Thinking
Yep. We tend to unintentionally distance ourselves from people we love for more than days at times. This tends to happen a lot after we've expressed some kind of emotion, that's a big deal for us. Most of the time our feelings don't change throughout the lack of communication so you'll notice how we can carry on casually from the last we spoke regardless if it was like a month ago or so. Of course non-aquas are less socially inept humans and can find this aloofness a sign of disinterest or something when it's usually not... I think it's a way we process who is worth keeping around as they're able to tolerate this difficult nature of ours. If you tried initiating a conversation and he hasn't responded, I would suggest you wait for them to respond to you (I know that feeling must suck). If you haven't and are waiting for him to initiate, there is nothing with checking up. He's thinking about you alright lol. Just say things that aren't too progressive relationship wise or else he will most likely feel burdened.
Our distance also has a lot to do with how often we get to see you. If it's not often, we find it easy to distance more than if we ran into you on a regular basis.
Aqua men honestly seem like the toughest to deal with, much power and luck to you.
Posted by Velocity
Yep. We tend to unintentionally distance ourselves from people we love for more than days at times. This tends to happen a lot after we've expressed some kind of emotion, that's a big deal for us. Most of the time our feelings don't change throughout the lack of communication so you'll notice how we can carry on casually from the last we spoke regardless if it was like a month ago or so. Of course non-aquas are less socially inept humans and can find this aloofness a sign of disinterest or something when it's usually not... I think it's a way we process who is worth keeping around as they're able to tolerate this difficult nature of ours. If you tried initiating a conversation and he hasn't responded, I would suggest you wait for them to respond to you (I know that feeling must suck). If you haven't and are waiting for him to initiate, there is nothing with checking up. He's thinking about you alright lol. Just say things that aren't too progressive relationship wise or else he will most likely feel burdened.Our distance also has a lot to do with how often we get to see you. If it's not often, we find it easy to distance more than if we ran into you on a regular basis.
Aqua men honestly seem like the toughest to deal with, much power and luck to you.
uh not me.
my husband is Always with me, every single day, there's no distance at all. Even when i'm on the computer he's next to me. so if that's distance i dont know what you all talk about.
however if i dont like the person, i will never contact you again. because, it's Obvious, i dont like. it sounds mean and cruel, but why would anyone want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with them??
anyway, guys are different. I dont know what they do, i can't read their mind, and the only way a guy is gonna want you is because they will FIGHT for you and fight to be with you.
Yes, us Aquarians need time and space to recuperate and recollect our thoughts. Yes, he may be mentally processing the relationship between you two and may need some time to figure things out for awhile.
Posted by Velocity
Yep. We tend to unintentionally distance ourselves from people we love for more than days at times. This tends to happen a lot after we've expressed some kind of emotion, that's a big deal for us. Most of the time our feelings don't change throughout the lack of communication so you'll notice how we can carry on casually from the last we spoke regardless if it was like a month ago or so. Of course non-aquas are less socially inept humans and can find this aloofness a sign of disinterest or something when it's usually not... I think it's a way we process who is worth keeping around as they're able to tolerate this difficult nature of ours. If you tried initiating a conversation and he hasn't responded, I would suggest you wait for them to respond to you (I know that feeling must suck). If you haven't and are waiting for him to initiate, there is nothing with checking up. He's thinking about you alright lol. Just say things that aren't too progressive relationship wise or else he will most likely feel burdened.Our distance also has a lot to do with how often we get to see you. If it's not often, we find it easy to distance more than if we ran into you on a regular basis.
Aqua men honestly seem like the toughest to deal with, much power and luck to you.
uh not me.
my husband is Always with me, every single day, there's no distance at all. Even when i'm on the computer he's next to me. so if that's distance i dont know what you all talk about.
however if i dont like the person, i will never contact you again. because, it's Obvious, i dont like. it sounds mean and cruel, but why would anyone want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with them??
anyway, guys are different. I dont know what they do, i can't read their mind, and the only way a guy is gonna want you is because they will FIGHT for you and fight to be with you.
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I definitely didn't articulate the first sentence the way I wanted. I don't know why I said that tbh. Maybe I was thinking more about my family, relatives, and friends when I was writing the rest. I think those who you live with or see on a daily basis are different. You learn not to be closed off so often.
Posted by Velocity
Yep. We tend to unintentionally distance ourselves from people we love for more than days at times. This tends to happen a lot after we've expressed some kind of emotion, that's a big deal for us. Most of the time our feelings don't change throughout the lack of communication so you'll notice how we can carry on casually from the last we spoke regardless if it was like a month ago or so. Of course non-aquas are less socially inept humans and can find this aloofness a sign of disinterest or something when it's usually not... I think it's a way we process who is worth keeping around as they're able to tolerate this difficult nature of ours. If you tried initiating a conversation and he hasn't responded, I would suggest you wait for them to respond to you (I know that feeling must suck). If you haven't and are waiting for him to initiate, there is nothing with checking up. He's thinking about you alright lol. Just say things that aren't too progressive relationship wise or else he will most likely feel burdened.Our distance also has a lot to do with how often we get to see you. If it's not often, we find it easy to distance more than if we ran into you on a regular basis.
Aqua men honestly seem like the toughest to deal with, much power and luck to you.
uh not me.
my husband is Always with me, every single day, there's no distance at all. Even when i'm on the computer he's next to me. so if that's distance i dont know what you all talk about.
however if i dont like the person, i will never contact you again. because, it's Obvious, i dont like. it sounds mean and cruel, but why would anyone want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with them??
anyway, guys are different. I dont know what they do, i can't read their mind, and the only way a guy is gonna want you is because they will FIGHT for you and fight to be with you.
I definitely didn't articulate the first sentence the way I wanted. I don't know why I said that tbh. Maybe I was thinking more about my family, relatives, and friends when I was writing the rest. I think those who you live with or see on a daily basis are different. You learn not to be closed off so often.
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lol it's ok, just chiming in to clarify. i may have also misinterpret. I'm glad you also clarified.
I am an aqua male & i unintentionally need alone time too to sort out my thoughts. The sign of aqauarius carries a burden to be able to do good to human society as whole, therefore in that quiet moment we are always thinking about the errors of human beings including the faults that a person commits in a relationship. Because of this reason, we can see clealy that relationship DOES hurt a lot if its not genuine, hence we put up a high wall to protect ourselves from this calamity. Doing social work & helping others is of no stress but opening out our tender heart to you is no joke, we are very SENSITIVE people & i can get really hurt (you definitely cant see that we are sensitive people from our outlook).
Either he needs more time to evaluate the relationship or he just needs quiet time to sort out his thoughts so he can better serve humanity. Hopefully you can be a close friend or a lover that can share some of his burden & be his trusty shield. We look strong & independent but if you look closely within our eyes, there is this aura of sadness, it will be good if we have a confident partner to confide in & give us support when we need it.
Posted by Angmodurian
I am an aqua male & i unintentionally need alone time too to sort out my thoughts. The sign of aqauarius carries a burden to be able to do good to human society as whole, therefore in that quiet moment we are always thinking about the errors of human beings including the faults that a person commits in a relationship. Because of this reason, we can see clealy that relationship DOES hurt a lot if its not genuine, hence we put up a high wall to protect ourselves from this calamity. Doing social work & helping others is of no stress but opening out our tender heart to you is no joke, we are very SENSITIVE people & i can get really hurt (you definitely cant see that we are sensitive people from our outlook).Either he needs more time to evaluate the relationship or he just needs quiet time to sort out his thoughts so he can better serve humanity. Hopefully you can be a close friend or a lover that can share some of his burden & be his trusty shield. We look strong & independent but if you look closely within our eyes, there is this aura of sadness, it will be good if we have a confident partner to confide in & give us support when we need it.
I agree with you completely.
It is just that people who don't have time for me will not care a damn about me and my needs. They simply are unworthy people in my life. Sometimes, it makes me feel liberated and also shows how much people care about my presence in their life, giving me an idea if that person deserves to see ME.
Sorry for hijacking you thread penny
lol that's aquamermaids fault
Nah I don't consider it hijacking a thread, lol.
I'm totally learning. 🙂
It soothes me to hear how other aquas feel about the retraction period after bonding with someone.
He sent me this message last night - after 4 days of no contact...
"Thinking of you. Sorry I haven't been around. But thinking of you. Problems with the WiFi here tonight hopefully you get this one . I'm leaving now.œ›"
At least he acknowledged things, right?
I was asleep when He sent it. He knows that I was sleeping.
Posted by Velocity
Yep. We tend to unintentionally distance ourselves from people we love for more than days at times. This tends to happen a lot after we've expressed some kind of emotion, that's a big deal for us. Most of the time our feelings don't change throughout the lack of communication so you'll notice how we can carry on casually from the last we spoke regardless if it was like a month ago or so. Of course non-aquas are less socially inept humans and can find this aloofness a sign of disinterest or something when it's usually not... I think it's a way we process who is worth keeping around as they're able to tolerate this difficult nature of ours. If you tried initiating a conversation and he hasn't responded, I would suggest you wait for them to respond to you (I know that feeling must suck). If you haven't and are waiting for him to initiate, there is nothing with checking up. He's thinking about you alright lol. Just say things that aren't too progressive relationship wise or else he will most likely feel burdened.Our distance also has a lot to do with how often we get to see you. If it's not often, we find it easy to distance more than if we ran into you on a regular basis.
Aqua men honestly seem like the toughest to deal with, much power and luck to you.
+10000!!! I totally agree with everything she said.
Posted by pennystealing123
Nah I don't consider it hijacking a thread, lol.I'm totally learning. 🙂
It soothes me to hear how other aquas feel about the retraction period after bonding with someone.
He sent me this message last night - after 4 days of no contact...
"Thinking of you. Sorry I haven't been around. But thinking of you. Problems with the WiFi here tonight hopefully you get this one . I'm leaving now.œ›"
At least he acknowledged things, right?
🙂
Honestly penny you need to just start sitting back and enjoying this instead of thinking or worrying too much .
He has made it CLEAR
It can't be any more clearer from one human to another
Take his words stick them to the inside of your eyelids
Go now and liveeeeeee
😄
You're right. Darn mercury retrograde - I'm misinterpreting text messages...
Posted by pennystealing123
You're right. Darn mercury retrograde - I'm misinterpreting text messages...
Are you joking or being serious —!?
Cuz if ya being serious thennnn .....
This mercury retrograde is all about partnerships as mercury is currently In Libra.
Merc retrograde is when communicating comes to a standstill- or misinterpreted or misconstrued.
It makes sense that my mental process is being irked by his texts, rather than putting me at ease...
But mercury retrograde is also a time to reflect and take things slowly in regards to communication.
Posted by pennystealing123
This mercury retrograde is all about partnerships as mercury is currently In Libra.Merc retrograde is when communicating comes to a standstill- or misinterpreted or misconstrued.
It makes sense that my mental process is being irked by his texts, rather than putting me at ease...
But mercury retrograde is also a time to reflect and take things slowly in regards to communication.
Thank for explaining I understand where you're coming from
🙂
That very interesting I need to read more about this.
Rest assured though you're in a fine place with him
Posted by AquaMermaid
@Tinxy, You've got him intrigued Scorpio lady 😉 The actual Scorpio/Aqua sex is evil and deliciously uninhibited.
Pahahaha
So I herd lol scorps like a bit of aqua blood
:o
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They say you aquas think a lot.
Would you need to think a lot after having an honest to goodness connection with your lover, like four five days of no contact kinda thing?
We really bonded last week, he even teared up a little that he can't give me more attention and time.
But I haven't heard from him since then. Is he processing something mentally here?
What do you think?
I just miss him...