Question for Aqua Ladies

Are there other Aqua ladies that feel like they are just meant to be alone? Not that you enjoy it, just like that is your fate.

I feel like that as an Aries. And the universe has made sure of it so far!

Posted by bkbella86
I feel like that as an Aries. And the universe has made sure of it so far!

I am with you.

Posted by killerwhalemoon
Yeah. I do. But only because relationships are tiring and smothering most the time.
I like being alone though.
Xxx toy stores and porn were made for a reason.

I am an Aquarius and I never want to be alone. I am not the typical Aqua I like to be smothered lol

But I am not compatible with anyone that I would ever be interested in.

Posted by Aquarcorn
I think this can be true because the way were so different and beat to are own drum it's hard for others to rise to the rhythm and play the note's that we play others may find us to difficult to tune in to are frequencies were bizarre but trust were brilliantly wonderful we can take you on a deep ride of emotions and when you get off on the end of the ride your like wow how did they pull it off I didn't expect it to end like that lol I believe after my ride of gaining the world's knowledge 😄 I was written to understand it and be alone forever

I love everything you wrote.

Posted by cosmicbutter
just realized that someone was OP herself LOL

You know what I do? Because I have been called aloof and cold at times, I over compensate. Then when I am sick over over compensating people feel like I was lying, but that's not it. I also seem to attract very strange men and I like the opposite of me lol lol Just to much work!

Posted by coffeelove

Posted by bkbella86
I feel like that as an Aries. And the universe has made sure of it so far!

I am with you.

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I feel that way too 🙂

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I'm not an Aquarius, but one of my very best friends is one and she brings this topic up all the time. Especially after we've shared a few glasses of wine. Aquarius does not like to feel caged in or stifled in any way. So I can totally see why an Aquarius would worry about being single forever since being in a relationship can feel stifling at times. Mainly if it's with a controlling person *cough*Scorpios*cough* lol. Aquas just have to find someone who's just as free spirited and open minded as they are. My friend and I click so well because I too am free spirited and do not like restriction. I think Aquas would do good with a mature Aries, a fellow Aquarius, or maybe even an older Gemini. I don't think Aquas are destined to be alone. They are wonderful people with biig hearts and even bigger imaginations. They just need someone who's going to help them grow instead of trying to box them in...

I was so in love with a Scorpio man but he just didn't feel me. Broke my heart bad, very bad. He was not controlling, just don't think I was what he wanted.

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Posted by killerwhalemoon
Yeah. I do. But only because relationships are tiring and smothering most the time.
I like being alone though.
Xxx toy stores and porn were made for a reason.

I am an Aquarius and I never want to be alone. I am not the typical Aqua I like to be smothered lol

But I am not compatible with anyone that I would ever be interested in.

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You have captured my sentiments in this post. I want to be smothered too but not compatible with anyone I'm interested in 😢

Im a scorpio and my boyfriend is an aqua and I dont control him. Hes got the freedom to not only be himself around me but see his friends when he wants to also. He did however try to find out if I was the controlling type. I guess he's had that experience in his past.

Im paranoid now though that im stifling him.

I seem to get along well with aqua girls too. No idea why...I personally dont feel controlled. Both aquas and scorpios have good listening abilities.

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by coffeelove

Posted by killerwhalemoon
Yeah. I do. But only because relationships are tiring and smothering most the time.
I like being alone though.
Xxx toy stores and porn were made for a reason.

I am an Aquarius and I never want to be alone. I am not the typical Aqua I like to be smothered lol

But I am not compatible with anyone that I would ever be interested in.

You have captured my sentiments in this post. I want to be smothered too but not compatible with anyone I'm interested in 😢

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It's a sad feeling, but I have decided this year I am not going to let it bring me down. I have been trying really hard to embrace it and learn to enjoy being single.

I have my sad moments but I am learning how to distract myself.

Have you not been single before?

Posted by aquarius09
Have you not been single before?

I have, but I am in my 40s and it bothers me way more now than it did when I was in my 20s and 30s.

By my observations, jumping into relationship after relationship is not something an aqua does.

My aqua friend is not even into having a boyfriend right now and she's completely content with that. I do admire it. Another aqua girl I know has constant f-buddies but won't go offical with one guy. She however seems saddened that she apparently can't get a boyfriend (personally I think she can, she's just going through a battle of some sort in her head)

My aqua guy is the first guy ive known in a very long time that doesn't date girl after girl after girl. He told me that out of him and his three brothers, he was the one who hardly had girlfriends.

Posted by Scorpgurl
By my observations, jumping into relationship after relationship is not something an aqua does.

My aqua friend is not even into having a boyfriend right now and she's completely content with that. I do admire it. Another aqua girl I know has constant f-buddies but won't go offical with one guy. She however seems saddened that she apparently can't get a boyfriend (personally I think she can, she's just going through a battle of some sort in her head)

My aqua guy is the first guy ive known in a very long time that doesn't date girl after girl after girl. He told me that out of him and his three brothers, he was the one who hardly had girlfriends.

You summed up an Aqua quite well. We want a relationship (a best friend to do everything with), but just can't seem to be compatible with the guys we like. Eventually they all either screw up or we get bored of them. I guess being in a romantic relationship with your bestie is just an ideal concept possible only in Utopia. Real life relationships always have a way of taking away from the best friend relationship.

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Posted by aquarius09
Have you not been single before?

I have, but I am in my 40s and it bothers me way more now than it did when I was in my 20s and 30s.

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I know, but it's better to be alone than be in the wrong relationship. I tell myself that and I start to feel better. LOL

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Posted by aquarius09
Have you not been single before?

I have, but I am in my 40s and it bothers me way more now than it did when I was in my 20s and 30s.

I know, but it's better to be alone than be in the wrong relationship. I tell myself that and I start to feel better. LOL

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You are a 100% right but when I see happy couples I can't help but want that, but does not seem to be in the cards for me. But I am working hard to not focus on that aspect of my life.

Posted by coffeelove

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Posted by coffeelove

Posted by aquarius09
Have you not been single before?

I have, but I am in my 40s and it bothers me way more now than it did when I was in my 20s and 30s.

I know, but it's better to be alone than be in the wrong relationship. I tell myself that and I start to feel better. LOL

You are a 100% right but when I see happy couples I can't help but want that, but does not seem to be in the cards for me. But I am working hard to not focus on that aspect of my life.

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That's the problem. You see an illusion and you fall for it. What you see is not always the reality. I see "happy" couples too and especially on FB who create a facade, but if you really ever talk to people and get to know them personally, then you'd realize that relationships especially in this day and age is a lotttt of work and compromise. Not a lot of people are willing to do that kinda compromise in today's world. In modern society, people are well versed in creating facades and illusions to make others envious or to fit in. Reality of one's relationship is different. I see people jumping into relationships with other people for superficial reasons but they look for quality from strangers. Makes one wonder why they can't talk about the meaningful things with their partner.

Just to point out though...I suppose its different with a scorpio male.

Sorry my post is too coffeelove lol

I spent a very long time on my own doing alot of reflecting on past relationships etc...and that time being single (3 yrs) I think was what I needed.

The thing I love about my aqua is that there is 'comfort' there. I find him very down to earth. Seriously we can talk about the most disgusting things and neither one bats on eyelid. Aquas are aware that people are human. Aquas also a quite aware of human behavior, same as scorpios.

I take it as a compliment when my aqua says "you read me so well" cause I get the huge sense that alot of aquas can feel misunderstood or people thinking straight up that they are weird.

Posted by brandyp
Feeling that way sounds horrible, sorry aqua. I guess it depends on whether or not you believe in concepts such as a fate you cannot control.

Don't feel sorry for me, that's not what this thread is about. But thank you for the sentiment.