SmartOnTheRocks
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Too Fast Too Furious
Weird right? Who knows. ..
So a guy rushes in, and reassures they're into you all too much and then girl says oh btw I like you too and backs off. Wth? I have a few air placements and that would even myself detach. .Like this is a game of rushing into marriage or kids or courtship? Nah it's not really especially if you don't even know if they are compatible for just fwb or long term or straight acquaintances..
The hotter the flame, the quicker it burns. Hold your ground and wait before making any emotional decisions.
Or that much shorter version of take your time....
ladies Thank you. .. I have never been confused like this in my life. I always know even can spot a bullshitter from a mile away. But this 1 mostly seems genuine and I don't know. When I push him away like I mentioned someone he might go for her put me on the spot. He asked if I like him. Or is he wasting his time. .. I said yes. .. I don't know. .. I'm need to think badly
I just see a lot of red flags in your story. My advice? Take your time and go slow.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksI'm sure he's being genuine, but air signs can be flighty. Enjoy your time as you have been but don't fall victim to his charms until *you're* sure he is ready for a commitment. That takes time.
ladies Thank you. .. I have never been confused like this in my life. I always know even can spot a bullshitter from a mile away. But this 1 mostly seems genuine and I don't know. When I push him away like I mentioned someone he might go for her put me on the spot. He asked if I like him. Or is he wasting his time. .. I said yes. .. I don't know. .. I'm need to think badly
I just don't want to see you get hurt. It's easy to do with an aqua. 🙂
if you have aquarius in your chart, you would KNOW how to work him. and see through his shit.
but if you're watery you're STILL gonna cry deep inside because you want him and love him /DESIRE him, and you will pine HARD fo this guy...
so you can't help it and cry deep inside.
i'd just HOPE that he is going to be sincere with you.
Watch his ACTIONS.
if he makes plans with you with marriage and career future, and your future with him and then DOES IT, meaning he is making a home with you, doing it, then you are gonna be fine.
other than that. It will just make you cry hard.
don't take shit from guys. You must make sure they will make a commitment with you right away if you desire them and want them badly.
but if you're watery you're STILL gonna cry deep inside because you want him and love him /DESIRE him, and you will pine HARD fo this guy...
so you can't help it and cry deep inside.
i'd just HOPE that he is going to be sincere with you.
Watch his ACTIONS.
if he makes plans with you with marriage and career future, and your future with him and then DOES IT, meaning he is making a home with you, doing it, then you are gonna be fine.
other than that. It will just make you cry hard.
don't take shit from guys. You must make sure they will make a commitment with you right away if you desire them and want them badly.
Haha snoring loud is a turn off.
Okay I have my moon in Aquarius and Venus in Libra so I got some air and water and earth to my chart. Only fire is my mars in Aries. Oh em gee. I don't initiate and I detach easily. I think he's trying to run away from his feelings for me but he can't shame.
Today he wrote me this poem :
I'll cry for you,
I'll bleed for you,
I'll do whatever I need to do,
Just for you.
To make you love me,
And make you care,
To make you wonder why,
I do the things I do.
Your everything I want,
And everything I need.
I dream sweet dreams,
About you and me.
So please take my hand,
And tell me you'll always be here.
Say you wont leave me,
No matter how the earth continues to spin
I don't even know what to say or how to react but I am slowly falling. I won't lie
Today he wrote me this poem :
I'll cry for you,
I'll bleed for you,
I'll do whatever I need to do,
Just for you.
To make you love me,
And make you care,
To make you wonder why,
I do the things I do.
Your everything I want,
And everything I need.
I dream sweet dreams,
About you and me.
So please take my hand,
And tell me you'll always be here.
Say you wont leave me,
No matter how the earth continues to spin
I don't even know what to say or how to react but I am slowly falling. I won't lie
Don't.
He sounds like he has some Pisces or Scorpio in there, because my Aqua wouldn't be caught dead writing or uttering anything like that. But he has no water in his chart, either.
What are his placements?
He sounds like he has some Pisces or Scorpio in there, because my Aqua wouldn't be caught dead writing or uttering anything like that. But he has no water in his chart, either.
What are his placements?
Posted by sultrykittyMine either.
Don't.
He sounds like he has some Pisces or Scorpio in there, because my Aqua wouldn't be caught dead writing or uttering anything like that.
hmmmm okay. .. Take it as slow as a tortoise then let me find his chart. All I know is his 12 feb 1990
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksYou've known him for ONLY three weeks? How can you be slowly falling for him? That's pretty fast, I'd say.
I am slowly falling. I won't lie
hmmmm okay. .. Take it as slow as a tortoise then let me find his chart. All I know is his 12 feb 1990
Posted by truecapI get you. But him being here almost everyday is like I have known him for years. .. I need to remind myself of that.Posted by SmartOnTheRocksYou've known him for ONLY three weeks? How can you be slowly falling for him? That's pretty fast, I'd say.
I am slowly falling. I won't lieclick to expand
I think what attracts me to him is the way he he respects his mom and sisters. When he's dad passed away he became responsible for them. But the level of respect he shows even to people around him us breath taking. ... He's just so open and honest and just so genuine. Don't be surprised if I pull a khloe and Lamar
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksNo job. Red flag
At 1st he told me he's still hustling no job
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksLies. Red flag.
At 1st he told me he's still hustling no job just helping out but I didn't mind but recently I found out he owns a lot of businesses. And I'm wondering why didn't he tell me?
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksControlling? Red flag.
I told him I might move 4 a new job and is going to be 4 hours away then he says I must leave the job
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksMarriage talk after only three (or less) weeks. Red flag.
he wants to marry me and take care of me and my son.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksHe doesn't even think he's believable. Red flag.
He asked me to believe him.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksHe's getting you all invested, then he's going to bail. He sees it coming. Red flag.
2 nights back we spoke with my best friend and he spilled all his emotions I also spilled mine like I really like him too. But ever since that day he spoke that he feels we moving too fast.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksDistance already? Red flag.
so he's been distant.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksNeedy. Clingy. Red flag.
This guy can call 20 times a day.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksHe talked about this. Then distanced. Then he talks about it again. Warning. He will distance again.
Today when he called he told me he can't wait to marry me
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksYep. He's got you hooked.
he said he's going to call and he hasn't called and I'm up at night thinking about him.
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All this in only three weeks.....
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksHave you seen this in person? Long term? Or is he just telling you these things to gain your respect?Posted by truecapI get you. But him being here almost everyday is like I have known him for years. .. I need to remind myself of that.Posted by SmartOnTheRocksYou've known him for ONLY three weeks? How can you be slowly falling for him? That's pretty fast, I'd say.
I am slowly falling. I won't lie
I think what attracts me to him is the way he he respects his mom and sisters. When he's dad passed away he became responsible for them. But the level of respect he shows even to people around him us breath taking. ... He's just so open and honest and just so genuine. Don't be surprised if I pull a khloe and Lamarclick to expand
I'm not trying to burst your bubble. I only want to to sit back and look at things from a realistic point of view. I don't want to see you get taken for a ride. Perhaps this guy is serious. Perhaps he's genuine. I hope so for your sake. I only suggest that you don't get caught up in him so fast. Get to know him. Let time determine whether he's the real deal or not. Let enough time go by so you can see his true personality and his true colors.
Don't be in a hurry to get it wrong.
One of my friends fell for a guy who talked so serious, so fast. They met and married within 5 months. He had her convinced he was the real deal and a certain kind of person. The day after they were married, he changed. Soon, his true personality came out and he was a creep, a stalker, a womanizer, broke, couldn't keep a job, was trying to meet up with other women, a sex addict - he was NOTHING like he presented himself to be.
Don't be in a hurry to get it wrong.
One of my friends fell for a guy who talked so serious, so fast. They met and married within 5 months. He had her convinced he was the real deal and a certain kind of person. The day after they were married, he changed. Soon, his true personality came out and he was a creep, a stalker, a womanizer, broke, couldn't keep a job, was trying to meet up with other women, a sex addict - he was NOTHING like he presented himself to be.
Posted by truecapokay now I'm scared. .. plus I have my son so I really need to be cautious. Okay I can't date a creep. I actually don't want to be in a relationship after reading this. especially after all the red flags. .. I sat up all night and I'm close to ending it.
I'm not trying to burst your bubble. I only want to to sit back and look at things from a realistic point of view. I don't want to see you get taken for a ride. Perhaps this guy is serious. Perhaps he's genuine. I hope so for your sake. I only suggest that you don't get caught up in him so fast. Get to know him. Let time determine whether he's the real deal or not. Let enough time go by so you can see his true personality and his true colors.
Don't be in a hurry to get it wrong.
One of my friends fell for a guy who talked so serious, so fast. They met and married within 5 months. He had her convinced he was the real deal and a certain kind of person. The day after they were married, he changed. Soon, his true personality came out and he was a creep, a stalker, a womanizer, broke, couldn't keep a job, was trying to meet up with other women, a sex addict - he was NOTHING like he presented himself to be.
Thanks @truecap eye opener. ...
There's a chance he's genuine. Just go slow.
Posted by aquanibThanks a lot hun... Sorry I read this thread with 1 eye open and missed this 1. oooh but in the poetry part my best friend whose an Aquarius writes poems and writes manual letters all the time.
Take the poem as a metaphore for your potential dating and marriage. It only rhymes in the first verse, then it all just breaks apart. 😄
As for the lady (and i mean that in the best of sense) talking of pisces and scorpio, i can't comment on that, but i have some fish and there's a hint of insect blood in me too somewhere but i would never write 1.) a poem to a girl and 2.) such a crappy poem. Just shoot me.....
I'd suggest getting as much info on him as possible, specifically those businesses he owns, their financial records, exact ownership structure too. How did you find out about those? Was it through your own digging or was it some info that was served to you in some way from him or his friends?
Something is just off.....waiting for someone on the jogging path, idk, doesn't sound familiar...there's other things too, but others commented on it better...
best of luck 😄
But I get you. .. so far so good. ..
Posted by truecapthat's what I want to do. Oh well today he asked me for my banking details because he wants to put me in his budget. I told him we will talk about this when he gets here. already from this morning he has called me 6 times... We speak like old time friends. I mentioned the 3 weeks part he said he genuinely forgets this is a new thing.
There's a chance he's genuine. Just go slow.
What kind of banking details does he want?
Balance, ehh.....okay but I, personally wouldn't be comfortable (cap reaction. lol!) and suspicious (scorp placements). I'd probably hold off.
Account number? Hell to the no.
Balance, ehh.....okay but I, personally wouldn't be comfortable (cap reaction. lol!) and suspicious (scorp placements). I'd probably hold off.
Account number? Hell to the no.
I was reading the topic and was thinking exactly what true cap was thinking....red all over.
I commend you for keeping your fitness regime after having a baby
I think your Venus in Libra has got you romantically dazed and confused
I commend you for keeping your fitness regime after having a baby
I think your Venus in Libra has got you romantically dazed and confused
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksWhere was he born?
hmmmm okay. .. Take it as slow as a tortoise then let me find his chart. All I know is his 12 feb 1990
In fact, next time he calls, subtley ask him about his childhood, where he was born, was he a night baby or a morning baby.....
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksmy husband wrote me poetry and he still WALKED the Walk.
Okay I have my moon in Aquarius and Venus in Libra so I got some air and water and earth to my chart. Only fire is my mars in Aries. Oh em gee. I don't initiate and I detach easily. I think he's trying to run away from his feelings for me but he can't shame.
Today he wrote me this poem :
I'll cry for you,
I'll bleed for you,
I'll do whatever I need to do,
Just for you.
To make you love me,
And make you care,
To make you wonder why,
I do the things I do.
Your everything I want,
And everything I need.
I dream sweet dreams,
About you and me.
So please take my hand,
And tell me you'll always be here.
Say you wont leave me,
No matter how the earth continues to spin
I don't even know what to say or how to react but I am slowly falling. I won't lie
lol
pleaseee....
that's why I keep saying, ACTIONS speak louder than words.
Yeah, every time you add something new my radar flashes.
Are you much older than him? Make more money?
My SO of over 20 years still doesn't have any of my banking information, nor does he want it. He doesn't even like me giving him my debit card to buy me something if I can't get it myself.
Are you much older than him? Make more money?
My SO of over 20 years still doesn't have any of my banking information, nor does he want it. He doesn't even like me giving him my debit card to buy me something if I can't get it myself.
Take your sweet lil time. I find it very weird that an aqua would rush that fast into marriage.I would also be very confused! I once met a guy who who proposed that quick,but he was broke, so I ran away in blink of an eye.
Okay in the country that we live in if someone asks your banking details give it to them fast. lol because only money can go in. Or they can do an eft to your account. anyways he really is serious spend the day with him. .. amazing. His actions are letting down my gut especially since he respects the celibacy part of it. He's moving so we will see if the consistency still occurs.
Thanks guys I will surely tread this 1 as swiftly as possible. You really must be Jesus Himself for me to want to put my son's life in jeopardy.
Thanks guys I will surely tread this 1 as swiftly as possible. You really must be Jesus Himself for me to want to put my son's life in jeopardy.
Okay this his chart
Rising Taurus
Sun Aquarius
Moon Virgo
Venus Aquarius
Mars Capricorn
Rising Taurus
Sun Aquarius
Moon Virgo
Venus Aquarius
Mars Capricorn
I meant Venus in Capricorn
lol I will give him the banking details with no money in it. 1 thing I am is cautious. I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt but I'm very cautious. yoh he is intense. .. He just left and he brought flowers and a basket full of fruit chocolates nuts with champagne in the middle. And he left. sum no kissing. .. sigh
Well, good luck. Hope it works out.
I was looking at the rest of his chart he's got a lot of Capricorn and earth in him. I wonder how that plays to the Aquarius sign. Because he's naughty funny louvres to talk but he's so humble respectful and down to earth. ... He's magical.
Honestly, this doesnt even seem like a Aqua trait, but a typical male trait. Fire signs come on strong like this too, and then once they get you to open up then they back offf, almost like they are completely surprised at the fact that the woman they pursued would fall for them. Well duh!? What do these men expect. But it is a game for many immature guys, they like the thrill of a new hunt, they like the passion involved, but the moment the woman reveals she is hooking into it, buying into it, it snaps them into reality.
I think that is what happened here. I have experienced it before and see this all the time. I am realizing that we have to guard ourselves, particularly from men who come on strong. Nine times out of ten, they arent as serious as they say. They are too emotionally immature to understand how careless and reckless their behavior is to the other person. Too selfish to out aside their mind games for their own thrills.
I would say back off. He has given you a million red flags. How can he be so in love and interested in marriage after a week!?? Then you confess you have fallen for him in 3 weeks, the game is over for him now. I am so sorry. But that is what happened here, you developed something real and he played pretend. He is too reckless. He is showing you his true self. I am so sorry hun 😢
I think that is what happened here. I have experienced it before and see this all the time. I am realizing that we have to guard ourselves, particularly from men who come on strong. Nine times out of ten, they arent as serious as they say. They are too emotionally immature to understand how careless and reckless their behavior is to the other person. Too selfish to out aside their mind games for their own thrills.
I would say back off. He has given you a million red flags. How can he be so in love and interested in marriage after a week!?? Then you confess you have fallen for him in 3 weeks, the game is over for him now. I am so sorry. But that is what happened here, you developed something real and he played pretend. He is too reckless. He is showing you his true self. I am so sorry hun 😢
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksOh careful girl. Have you witness him taking care of his mom and sister, or is this just been hearsay from his mouth?Posted by truecapI get you. But him being here almost everyday is like I have known him for years. .. I need to remind myself of that.Posted by SmartOnTheRocksYou've known him for ONLY three weeks? How can you be slowly falling for him? That's pretty fast, I'd say.
I am slowly falling. I won't lie
I think what attracts me to him is the way he he respects his mom and sisters. When he's dad passed away he became responsible for them. But the level of respect he shows even to people around him us breath taking. ... He's just so open and honest and just so genuine. Don't be surprised if I pull a khloe and Lamarclick to expand
Another thing. Stop allowing him to come around so much. Limit yourself to seeing him one, maybe two times a week...nothing more. He is moving too fast and things that move fast often burn fast. My dad is an Aqua and a playboy. He charms women at lightening speed, latches onto them for free meals and a roof over his head before moving onto the next woman. I wouldnt be surprised if that is what he is doing here.
And no offense, who wants to be Khloe? And who wants a Lamar? That sounds lame.
I ask again:
Are you older than him, do you have money?
Are you older than him, do you have money?
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksHe likes you so much he wants to marry you but you havent kissed yet!? Sweetie how are you not seeing red flags?? Exchanging bank details, three weeks in— I dont think you are cautious at all. No judgment, I give the benefit of the doubt too easily too, but dont you want something to last...in your experience how long do relationships that start fast truly last? In my experiencr, not long and if they did, it was because i took crap for too long.
lol I will give him the banking details with no money in it. 1 thing I am is cautious. I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt but I'm very cautious. yoh he is intense. .. He just left and he brought flowers and a basket full of fruit chocolates nuts with champagne in the middle. And he left. sum no kissing. .. sigh
lol sorry it was just a stupid metaphoric example the whole khloe . Anyway wow wow and wow. This is the best you have given me. No assumptions no making me over think the possibilities. Just straight to the point. I think this is what's going on here.
argh we spent the day together and I really got turned off. Like you said. We finally kissed and he didn't want to practice celibacy anymore. I told him I want us to test. He bluntly refused and said that he's never going to test. I told him with all these talks about marriage and for someone who claims to love me, the fact that he doesn't want to test knowing I got a son where we both 100% clean that's a selfish mentality.
yoh I went all crazy on him I was really mad I won't lie. told him I'm practicing celibacy for myself and whoever wants me will respect that. I told him the fact that he doesn't more he's status shows his a selfish person. Not even about me but he's mom. His the only son. If 1 day he has Aids the mom would ask why didn't he test so when he had hiv they could treat it better.
I told him he's young successful handsome so full of life and very humble. Didn't make sense why he was single maybe now it does. And that I will not discriminate him but my love would take care of him. But the fact that he didn't think for me or my son that was the deal breaker. well he still thinks we five but I really got over him yesterday.
Talk about lightning speed. He's left still calls. But I'm no more responsive as much. I'm just going to have a decent talk with him and we shall see how he responds. honestly now I'm like whatever to relationships. At this point I will just be single living life and my son than endure such selfishness from men.
Sorry for the rant but I just needed to let it all out.
argh we spent the day together and I really got turned off. Like you said. We finally kissed and he didn't want to practice celibacy anymore. I told him I want us to test. He bluntly refused and said that he's never going to test. I told him with all these talks about marriage and for someone who claims to love me, the fact that he doesn't want to test knowing I got a son where we both 100% clean that's a selfish mentality.
yoh I went all crazy on him I was really mad I won't lie. told him I'm practicing celibacy for myself and whoever wants me will respect that. I told him the fact that he doesn't more he's status shows his a selfish person. Not even about me but he's mom. His the only son. If 1 day he has Aids the mom would ask why didn't he test so when he had hiv they could treat it better.
I told him he's young successful handsome so full of life and very humble. Didn't make sense why he was single maybe now it does. And that I will not discriminate him but my love would take care of him. But the fact that he didn't think for me or my son that was the deal breaker. well he still thinks we five but I really got over him yesterday.
Talk about lightning speed. He's left still calls. But I'm no more responsive as much. I'm just going to have a decent talk with him and we shall see how he responds. honestly now I'm like whatever to relationships. At this point I will just be single living life and my son than endure such selfishness from men.
Sorry for the rant but I just needed to let it all out.
Posted by sultrykittyolder by a year. . And yes I'm financially stable. chose a great career choice and for a single mom I never need money from a guy. Not even my son's dad.
I ask again:
Are you older than him, do you have money?
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksThat's good. I read your post and I think you're being smart about this.Posted by sultrykittyolder by a year. . And yes I'm financially stable. chose a great career choice and for a single mom I never need money from a guy. Not even my son's dad.
I ask again:
Are you older than him, do you have money?click to expand
If he really wanta you, he'll think about what you said and come back, maybe with a different amd less ruahed attitude.
You guys are young and have plenty of time to get to know each other, if that's what you want. I just have a strange gut feeling that he's not as financially successful as you think, and that he sees you as a financial security blanket.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksI'm an aqua with loads of cap. I dont say shit I dont mean.
I was looking at the rest of his chart he's got a lot of Capricorn and earth in him. I wonder how that plays to the Aquarius sign. Because he's naughty funny louvres to talk but he's so humble respectful and down to earth. ... He's magical.
Dont worry too much. Do what feels right for you. My cap and I were official after a week. Moved in after 2 weeks. Got engaged after 6 months of living together and we marry next month. He told me on date 3 that he cant wait to get me preggo lol we take a chance next year.
If its right for BOTH then its right. End of story. If he makes it official and wants to live together with you because he wants a future with only you - go ahead.
Oh wow @aquanextdoor I think you are so right
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Update
so after him refusing to test I kind of lost interest. On Sunday morning around 1 am he called me to tell me he's outside. I was home alone and I had gone out with my friends and was a bit tipsy. He came tried to make out I blew him off. Since he had left his friends at some club he went back. He called me again around 4am to tell me his outside this time he's alone no car. He just got in told me he told his friends to take the car he will take a taxi back. He just went into my room and passed out and I wanted to wake him up but I just let him be.
I slept for a while got annoyed woke up cleaned the whole house watched some tv then played gospel music full time blast in the hope that he would wake up. But no nothing. He finally woke up at 11 am and his mom called him to tell him about the family lunch planned. He asked if i can join him. I said no. He left.
Next day I decided to go to the clinic just to test and told the nurse there all about him and she asked me to bring him. He called me that evening to say his outside. I told him about it showed him my results and asked him if he wants to go back with me. I said I know it's still early but you said you loved me. And most guys say they will jump in front of a train for you so I'm asking you to jump in front of a train for me and my son. No pressure.
He said he will think about it. Then in my heart I told myself his decision will determine if we should continue or not.
On Tuesday he called me around 6pm that he's hungry we should go out for dinner then we will go to the clinic. We have a 24 hour clinic. yoh I could have kissed him. He picked me up went to shower when he came back I could see how scared he was but I told him no matter the results I'm not going anywhere. We went together long story short both our results came back negative.
honestly had it not been for the celibacy rule I was going to give it up to him raw even. He kept on saying thank you. He loves me. And then he dropped me off. b4 he left he said he's never loved anyone so fast. He just wants to bring the world to my feet. He told his mom on Sunday about me the family also sees the change but the mom said he is moving too fast. so he is asking we slow down especially now that we know both our statuses. Because the way his feeling he wants to go buy a ring tomorrow even.
lol anyways I told him for the rest of the month we won't see each other just talk over the phone. Last night he failed. He just came took me out booked out a section from a resturant where I got flowers a diamond,necklace, a new galaxy S7 with the pics we took so far and rnb love music and a promise ring. Then he said he loves me and my son and starting today we not seeing each other but everytime I miss him I must look at the promise ring and remember he loves me.
I miss him already and honestly I'm at peace right now I'm no more questioning h
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Update
so after him refusing to test I kind of lost interest. On Sunday morning around 1 am he called me to tell me he's outside. I was home alone and I had gone out with my friends and was a bit tipsy. He came tried to make out I blew him off. Since he had left his friends at some club he went back. He called me again around 4am to tell me his outside this time he's alone no car. He just got in told me he told his friends to take the car he will take a taxi back. He just went into my room and passed out and I wanted to wake him up but I just let him be.
I slept for a while got annoyed woke up cleaned the whole house watched some tv then played gospel music full time blast in the hope that he would wake up. But no nothing. He finally woke up at 11 am and his mom called him to tell him about the family lunch planned. He asked if i can join him. I said no. He left.
Next day I decided to go to the clinic just to test and told the nurse there all about him and she asked me to bring him. He called me that evening to say his outside. I told him about it showed him my results and asked him if he wants to go back with me. I said I know it's still early but you said you loved me. And most guys say they will jump in front of a train for you so I'm asking you to jump in front of a train for me and my son. No pressure.
He said he will think about it. Then in my heart I told myself his decision will determine if we should continue or not.
On Tuesday he called me around 6pm that he's hungry we should go out for dinner then we will go to the clinic. We have a 24 hour clinic. yoh I could have kissed him. He picked me up went to shower when he came back I could see how scared he was but I told him no matter the results I'm not going anywhere. We went together long story short both our results came back negative.
honestly had it not been for the celibacy rule I was going to give it up to him raw even. He kept on saying thank you. He loves me. And then he dropped me off. b4 he left he said he's never loved anyone so fast. He just wants to bring the world to my feet. He told his mom on Sunday about me the family also sees the change but the mom said he is moving too fast. so he is asking we slow down especially now that we know both our statuses. Because the way his feeling he wants to go buy a ring tomorrow even.
lol anyways I told him for the rest of the month we won't see each other just talk over the phone. Last night he failed. He just came took me out booked out a section from a resturant where I got flowers a diamond,necklace, a new galaxy S7 with the pics we took so far and rnb love music and a promise ring. Then he said he loves me and my son and starting today we not seeing each other but everytime I miss him I must look at the promise ring and remember he loves me.
I miss him already and honestly I'm at peace right now I'm no more questioning h
his intentions.
people love differently. I believe this is the way he loves me and I deserve to be loved like this as I have been praying for a man who goes all of to showe his affection. He said his usually insecure but he can't stop with me. I also feel the sand. I respond naturally to his lead.
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