Hi there!! newbie here... I'm in a wonderful two year relationship with my aqua but im a bit curious what makes an aqua guy cheat and what are the signs that he is no longer into you? Do they get bored in a relationship?
what makes aqua guys cheat?
Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? I've never cheated on any of my partners so I cannot say. But obviously people cheat for various reasons; some people are just greedy, others maybe get something from that person that they can't get at home. Some do it for the thrill. Cheating is wrong, but for some strange reason I can understand why some people do cheat.
You seem somewhat worried about your partner which is a shame but it's only natural to fear what could happen. Hopefully it doesn't, because as you say, you're in a wonderful two year relationship.
You seem somewhat worried about your partner which is a shame but it's only natural to fear what could happen. Hopefully it doesn't, because as you say, you're in a wonderful two year relationship.
I guess there is some truth about the biggest fear of the majority of Scorps : betrayal.
If you asked this question, I think you might have suspected something? Otherwise, it has been two years, why suddenly wondering about this now?
So many reasons can make someone cheat so you can't really stop someone from cheating on you but you can't help yourself on this matter though.
If you asked this question, I think you might have suspected something? Otherwise, it has been two years, why suddenly wondering about this now?
So many reasons can make someone cheat so you can't really stop someone from cheating on you but you can't help yourself on this matter though.
hmm, fixed signs don't cheat once we're committed.
but uhm, most aqua men i know are more likely to quit ya before they cheat ya.
but uhm, most aqua men i know are more likely to quit ya before they cheat ya.
Hi there!! wow!! thanks guys for the warm welcome... i haven't done this before which makes me a lil bit shy >.< ... I've been with dxp for quite a while now but twas just yesterday that i had the guts to post my very first message... but thanks ya all for replying to this thread.. hmm anyways...
Not that I suspected that something is happening??_ such that I was in a cuddling moment with my aqua guy one time when the cheating topic came out. He told me about his almost eight year relationship with his high school sweetheart and told me that he cheated with this girl twice. The first one his ex girlfriend didn't know of (lasted for just three months) and the second was with a girl which he admittedly told his ex because he wanted a way out. Though I appreciate his honesty regarding this, somehow, it made me feel insecure like is he going to do the same thing with me? It gave me a paranoia for three days ^_^ but I tried to brush it all off because I know what's important is what we have today??_ I love this guy and told him that I loved him even more after all his confessions??_ I told him that he can go ahead and try to find another girl but he won't find a girl as wonderful as me :-P??_....
"I guess there is some truth about the biggest fear of the majority of Scorps : betrayal."
@ exam well guess this holds true for me as well... one of my biggest fear is to be betrayed by the person you really loved awww!! I know I could appear to be as confident as a super model but deep inside there is this little insecure girl who is afraid to come out... afraid to get cheated on :-P
Not that I suspected that something is happening??_ such that I was in a cuddling moment with my aqua guy one time when the cheating topic came out. He told me about his almost eight year relationship with his high school sweetheart and told me that he cheated with this girl twice. The first one his ex girlfriend didn't know of (lasted for just three months) and the second was with a girl which he admittedly told his ex because he wanted a way out. Though I appreciate his honesty regarding this, somehow, it made me feel insecure like is he going to do the same thing with me? It gave me a paranoia for three days ^_^ but I tried to brush it all off because I know what's important is what we have today??_ I love this guy and told him that I loved him even more after all his confessions??_ I told him that he can go ahead and try to find another girl but he won't find a girl as wonderful as me :-P??_....
"I guess there is some truth about the biggest fear of the majority of Scorps : betrayal."
@ exam well guess this holds true for me as well... one of my biggest fear is to be betrayed by the person you really loved awww!! I know I could appear to be as confident as a super model but deep inside there is this little insecure girl who is afraid to come out... afraid to get cheated on :-P
Not trying to be cheeky but 8 years from high school! Wow! I don't think that I knew what was love at that time and I'm still abit unsure from time to time these days.Even if I know , I'm not sure that a 15 years old me can carry a relationship for 8 years like him! I'm also not trying to make excuses for him that it's just "young love" because cheating is still wrong, he should have told her that he was bored of her already.
sweetscorpiogirl, I like your confident feedback towards the guy but I think you need to ask him to tell you the truth no matter what. If he ever wants to go out and sleep with any girl, he should at least tell you first because besides all those love, trust, respect principles, you don't want to catch anything bad from him.
sweetscorpiogirl, I like your confident feedback towards the guy but I think you need to ask him to tell you the truth no matter what. If he ever wants to go out and sleep with any girl, he should at least tell you first because besides all those love, trust, respect principles, you don't want to catch anything bad from him.
^well said.
i think where some men, who are in a committed relationship, might cheat if the relationship is heading south, an aqua is more likely to leave abruptly (to you) than to cheat.
as for fixed signs, once fully committed, we're typically either all in or we're all out.
the key is, was he committed to begin with? if a man is cheating throughout the course of a relationship then not only is he not mature, neither is the relationship and if that's the case, you're not dealing with an aqua, you're dealing with a cheating bastard who happens to be an aqua.
i think where some men, who are in a committed relationship, might cheat if the relationship is heading south, an aqua is more likely to leave abruptly (to you) than to cheat.
as for fixed signs, once fully committed, we're typically either all in or we're all out.
the key is, was he committed to begin with? if a man is cheating throughout the course of a relationship then not only is he not mature, neither is the relationship and if that's the case, you're not dealing with an aqua, you're dealing with a cheating bastard who happens to be an aqua.
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besides, Aquarius is in my 7th house...i know he's The One 😉
lol
Oh God.. is that why I can't get rid of my Libra?? 😉
Then The One for me is a Gemini...Damn! I've never dated a Gemini but my Gemini mum is a Gem! If there is a male version of her, I'd have to ask my Aqua for a break! J/k 😛
@Kisses: Haha, I used to be like you too. I liked this Scorp guy alot years ago but I found out that he had a girlfriend and he always treated me so nice like a little sister. So I held in my affection. Everyone said that I was stupid because the girlfriend was long distance and till they were married, I could still compete but I thought that was wrong in my principle! He's married now and I also realized that there are many the Ones at different period for me! Who knows? I think this September , love will shine at you, Kisses 🙂
@valeria25: Do you have Cap in your chart or are you a January Aqua? I just think that you seem more stable than Feb ones based on what you wrote. What did the Aqua with Scorp moon do? Did he have the syndrome "Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde" ?
@Kisses: Haha, I used to be like you too. I liked this Scorp guy alot years ago but I found out that he had a girlfriend and he always treated me so nice like a little sister. So I held in my affection. Everyone said that I was stupid because the girlfriend was long distance and till they were married, I could still compete but I thought that was wrong in my principle! He's married now and I also realized that there are many the Ones at different period for me! Who knows? I think this September , love will shine at you, Kisses 🙂
@valeria25: Do you have Cap in your chart or are you a January Aqua? I just think that you seem more stable than Feb ones based on what you wrote. What did the Aqua with Scorp moon do? Did he have the syndrome "Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde" ?
@SweetScorp:
Well what matters MORe than his actual past is him ALSO sharing with you whether or not he's actually changed and/or learned from his mistakes. If while he was telling you those stories about his past relationships, he seemed to justify his actions back then and/or not seem to feel any sense of guilt/remorse for cheating, those ARE good indications that he still has the same mindset about cheating. Some people change. Good thing though is that regardless of what kind of background a man has, if they have changed and/or plan on not being the same person like they were in the past, they are usually VERY QUICK to also mention this. People LOVE making it clear that they are NOT the same person they used to be. And if this guy didn't, it's probably b/c he hasn't changed much. Different girl, BUT SAME mentality.
I'm not sure if you knowing the "signs" a man is about to/already has cheat(ed) will even matter or if they will even be considered understandable or justifiable but here it goes:
1. When a man references his past cheating & yet even years later, seems to still be in the same mindset and/or justifying his cheating
2. And of course there's the obvious: Random/sudden changes in his attitude towards the relationship or towards you, in which some men when they feel the urge to cheat will purposely LOOK for flaws in the relationship/their partner in order to justify & feel less guilt about their urges to cheat.
3. The obvious: Unexplained hickeys and/or physical marks on their bodies that you KNOW didn't come from you.
4. When a man has a random/sudden urge to be more secretive/private than usual. Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. (For example: All of the sudden wanting to take calls or check texts in other rooms where you are not around).
5. An all of the sudden upgrade in his appearance. If your man is all of the sudden overly concerned with his appearance, when yet he's usually laid back about it, this is an indication that he might be interested in impressing a new/another woman in his life.
6. Unexplained absences or sudden changes in his daily routines w/o valid explanations. For ex: If your man is usually home from work by 6pm, but yet LATELY he hasn't been getting home/calling you until 8 or 9, this sudden change could mean he's spending/investing his time elsewhere. And be careful of this ESPECIALLY if these changes are not valid or explained when you ask him about these things
7. Best of all: USE YOUR GUT!
Well what matters MORe than his actual past is him ALSO sharing with you whether or not he's actually changed and/or learned from his mistakes. If while he was telling you those stories about his past relationships, he seemed to justify his actions back then and/or not seem to feel any sense of guilt/remorse for cheating, those ARE good indications that he still has the same mindset about cheating. Some people change. Good thing though is that regardless of what kind of background a man has, if they have changed and/or plan on not being the same person like they were in the past, they are usually VERY QUICK to also mention this. People LOVE making it clear that they are NOT the same person they used to be. And if this guy didn't, it's probably b/c he hasn't changed much. Different girl, BUT SAME mentality.
I'm not sure if you knowing the "signs" a man is about to/already has cheat(ed) will even matter or if they will even be considered understandable or justifiable but here it goes:
1. When a man references his past cheating & yet even years later, seems to still be in the same mindset and/or justifying his cheating
2. And of course there's the obvious: Random/sudden changes in his attitude towards the relationship or towards you, in which some men when they feel the urge to cheat will purposely LOOK for flaws in the relationship/their partner in order to justify & feel less guilt about their urges to cheat.
3. The obvious: Unexplained hickeys and/or physical marks on their bodies that you KNOW didn't come from you.
4. When a man has a random/sudden urge to be more secretive/private than usual. Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. (For example: All of the sudden wanting to take calls or check texts in other rooms where you are not around).
5. An all of the sudden upgrade in his appearance. If your man is all of the sudden overly concerned with his appearance, when yet he's usually laid back about it, this is an indication that he might be interested in impressing a new/another woman in his life.
6. Unexplained absences or sudden changes in his daily routines w/o valid explanations. For ex: If your man is usually home from work by 6pm, but yet LATELY he hasn't been getting home/calling you until 8 or 9, this sudden change could mean he's spending/investing his time elsewhere. And be careful of this ESPECIALLY if these changes are not valid or explained when you ask him about these things
7. Best of all: USE YOUR GUT!
Ladies..an Aqua Man will cheat if given the opportunity to do so. Trust me,
The way you will know is this "they will only see you on certain nights. ex: Monday Wednesday and Friday. They will keep the same pattern with you and will never book these days in advance they will keep you hanging on these days to see if you are going to meetup. Rarely will see you on a Saturday (Saturday is boy's night or a night for a 1st date) dont worry this date (whoever she is) wont get another Saturday date for a long time.
Only when they commit to you fully will you get many Saturday nights. However you will have to forfeit one other weeknight you are with him.
Get the hint**
He will see you a few then test you and not call or call late with a lame excuse for being tardy for the call. These guy's have their own time schedule. What ever you do do NOT call him to ask why didnt you call??!! They will tell u they are on the phone and will call back and wont. They are testing you. Trust me when they are busy they are busy.
Want to get their goat,? do not take their phone calls when they call late! Do not call them!! when they think you do not care they will respond to you.
You will see their true colors via text or voice mail it will be nasty to say the least.
Ladies this will go on for many years it takes along time for an Aqua to commit and they may commit if they have an earth shattering event in their life such as a death etc.. you may at that time form a closer bond.
Most Aqua's have single guy friends.. watch for this... their friends will come 1st before you, unless they all get married themselves and then and only then will you have a shot at this guy. He will be one of the last single guys in the group.
Ladies if they play this way dont waste your time ... it will take years off of your availability to date someone else. Someone much more suiting to your tastes.
The way you will know is this "they will only see you on certain nights. ex: Monday Wednesday and Friday. They will keep the same pattern with you and will never book these days in advance they will keep you hanging on these days to see if you are going to meetup. Rarely will see you on a Saturday (Saturday is boy's night or a night for a 1st date) dont worry this date (whoever she is) wont get another Saturday date for a long time.
Only when they commit to you fully will you get many Saturday nights. However you will have to forfeit one other weeknight you are with him.
Get the hint**
He will see you a few then test you and not call or call late with a lame excuse for being tardy for the call. These guy's have their own time schedule. What ever you do do NOT call him to ask why didnt you call??!! They will tell u they are on the phone and will call back and wont. They are testing you. Trust me when they are busy they are busy.
Want to get their goat,? do not take their phone calls when they call late! Do not call them!! when they think you do not care they will respond to you.
You will see their true colors via text or voice mail it will be nasty to say the least.
Ladies this will go on for many years it takes along time for an Aqua to commit and they may commit if they have an earth shattering event in their life such as a death etc.. you may at that time form a closer bond.
Most Aqua's have single guy friends.. watch for this... their friends will come 1st before you, unless they all get married themselves and then and only then will you have a shot at this guy. He will be one of the last single guys in the group.
Ladies if they play this way dont waste your time ... it will take years off of your availability to date someone else. Someone much more suiting to your tastes.
I can vouch for the whole Monday, Wednesday and Friday cheating thing. That is an Aqua trait. That was my pattern too. Right after work, on those days, I would go get me some, my girlfriend at the time had no idea. I would spend Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday and Sunday doing my own stuff - it was me time. We never saw each other; but I cheated on her 3 times a week.
Aquaguy7 : You reminded me of three couples I know : Aqua-Pisces, Aqua-Cancer, Aqua-Leo. The Cancer girl is still crying and phoning her man everyday. The Leo girl is throwing tantrum at least once a week and checking up on her man by coming to his office everyday. The Pisces girl once cried to me when she found out that her man was cheating on her ( he didn't know that she knew). I dried her tears and said calmly "You cheated on him too, didn't you?" She was shocked and silent for a minute then gave out a sigh "Yes , I do. That's how we can be together this long" .
My grandma used to tell me "when a man wants to deceive you, he'll avoid your eyes as much as possible. When a woman lied, she'll try to stare in your eyes as much as possible" . She was right in many occassions.
My life would be boring without you guys. Watching , reading and observing people' lives truly bring me smiles 🙂
My grandma used to tell me "when a man wants to deceive you, he'll avoid your eyes as much as possible. When a woman lied, she'll try to stare in your eyes as much as possible" . She was right in many occassions.
My life would be boring without you guys. Watching , reading and observing people' lives truly bring me smiles 🙂
Exam... I would just like to point out that my post above yours was sarcasm! 🙂
Haha, I wasn't , Aquaguy7 but I know that you were. Life is boring without a "shock" 🙂 My Pisces girl didn't shock me but she sure will shock her Aqua guy one day!
I'm with tubby on this one - I don't cheat. It's not simply a question of having high moral values, it's also to do with value in and of itself.
Why risk a close intimate relationship for a few cheap thrills, its like exchanging pounds for pennies.
Why make life difficult for everyone around you, by enlisting their support to cover your lies and deceit.
Why continue in a relationship that isn't giving you everything you want, when you can just leave and start afresh.
If I ever find myself being tempted to the point of considering an alternative offer then it tells me that I'm not entirely happy where I am. If the missing happiness can't be regained then I do the decent thing, I end the relationship.
Why risk a close intimate relationship for a few cheap thrills, its like exchanging pounds for pennies.
Why make life difficult for everyone around you, by enlisting their support to cover your lies and deceit.
Why continue in a relationship that isn't giving you everything you want, when you can just leave and start afresh.
If I ever find myself being tempted to the point of considering an alternative offer then it tells me that I'm not entirely happy where I am. If the missing happiness can't be regained then I do the decent thing, I end the relationship.
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