why are aquariuses stalkers?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by ThisAndThat on Saturday, July 3, 2010 and has 15 replies.

Why Aquarians May Seem Stalkerish

Aquarians often show interest through curiosity and observation, which can appear as stalking. They enjoy understanding others deeply and may follow someone’s activities to connect or learn more about them. This behavior stems from their inquisitive nature rather than malicious intent.

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@ThisAndThat
17 Years

If aqua is intrested in someone why do they keep on looking at their blogs/facebook.Arranging that they end up at the same party/event as the one they are intrested in?

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@Wings
19 Years

What is strange about someone who is interested in another wanting to be around that person and know as much about that person as they can?

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

I am such a stalker but not a cyber stalker.....like i will follow a person home just to see where they live....and most of the time i have no intention of being theyre friend its just cos i wanna know how and where they live ...

if any sign is a stalker its pisceans....My mate nathan spends hours on facebook looking at guys and adding people he doesnt even kno

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Sounds like maybe YOUR Aqua is the only one doing stuff like that moreso than this being an Aqua thing.

When I'm interested in getting to know someone, yes I do find ways to get to know that person when they're not looking. After all, facebook or any other social networking site is designed so that OTHERS (and not just yourself) can find out what you're all about. Those sites reveal different things/traits within others & since the information is there & out in the open, why NOT go look at it.

HOWEVER, arranging things in a way so that I keep seeing someone at an event by "coincidence" is a little creepy, especially if the person can't come right out & admit they're crushing on you and/or that they'd like to hang out with you. I agree that if someone's only way to see what they have in common with you OR to know what your plans are only are known through the means of a website, that can be a little creepy & probably taken wrong, especially if the person meant well.

I can't speak for all Aquas but what you described is generally not my " style ." If that person uses a website of any kind to display their personality, hobbies and/or interests, there is NO harm in checking that website out. After all, that's what the person signing up for the website WANTED anyways. Some people can take it a little too far or look a little TOO deep into what they're seeing on those profiles, but just looking at it as a means to gain understanding or paint a picture of what someone is like/all about isn't what I would call a bad thing

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

actually ill admit I love finding out peoples birthdays and seeing what sign they are so I get a leg up when I meet them and kind of know what to expect....

I get really shitty when they change theyre settings so u dont know what it is tho >😢

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@HappyCappy
16 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

11th sign. i am the same in that aspect. im always asking about birthdays. then saying oh so yur a whatever sign they are. then they ask questions about there sign and i get the usual rsponse of omg thats so me. the only negetive feedback i ever get is from taurans. i find astrology fascinating to a certain extent. its almost like taking a personality test. im an INFP by the way.

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@SagGal70
16 YearsSagittarius

It is totally not an Aqua trait to "stalk". I think you are misconstruing general interest (that we ALL have) for being stalkerish. If I am interested in someone, even being a Sag, I will try and find out all I can about the individual via the web, Facebook or simply by talking to other people who may know this person...

In my opinion, Virgos/Scorpios are the possessive/obsessive "tendencied" stalkers of the zodiac....No offense you Virg/Scorps out there

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@Harlequin
16 Years

I agree with the previous comments. I'm curious about things, especially people who pop up on my radar. I want to know more about them for all sorts of reasons. I like puzzles and other people are the most intricate puzzles about.

Can I trust them, what makes them tick, what makes them smile or laugh, or what should I not do around them, and so on. Isn't that what we all do in our own little way to make the people around us feel comfortable and appreciated.

Granted, I'm only really curious about the people I'm in direct face to face contact. Although, there are times when I might encounter someone who might one day fill such a role, so a little prior planning might be done if I'm not to busy.

Acquaintances are different. I tend to take them as they are since I rarely let them under my skin. You can be nice to someone and fill the time you spend together with sunshine, without being really bothered about them over the long term.

As for facebook, erm, isn't that what it's for - a gathering place where people delight in telling the world about themselves in a bid for attention. The situation is like women walking round in revealing clothing and then complaining that all the guys are looking at them — utterly ridiculous. People can only read what someone else chooses to put on their page. If they don't want other people to read it then don't write it.

Arranging to be in the same place as someone else, and not making your reasons know for doing that within a reasonable period of time, now that's kinda creepy though.

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@libra sun
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

I just thought I would have a look on the Aqua board as I have found exactly the same thing! I have recently started dating again and both of my experiences with Aqua's was the same, I started feeling like I was being stalked!

If i didnt text back straight away i would be bombarded with "did you get my text" "?" "?". at first i felt flattered by all the attention but then I just felt smothered.

I have been told by a couple of people who have Aqua ex's that they have came home to flowers being taped to the door, cards being left for them at work. Maybe some people find this romantic, I dont know , suppose it depends on the person but I personally find them very intense and obsessive. Love you guys as friends though 🙂

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@libra sun
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Yes I agree Libra's can be quite obsessive too. I have to work really hard to curb my stalker instincts lol. Just felt wierd to be on the recieving end of it. I usually love attention but from my Aqua I have came to realise there is such thing as too much attention.

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@Aquaguy7
17 YearsAquarius

I'm an Aqua with a Virgo moon and I can say that I have never ever stalked a girl, or two girls, for that matter. I don't see the need to stalk somebody because its very weird and that isn't the way to get yourself into a relationship, or a good position with someone that you like. It is much better to get to know them and not be so weird. That might help. If they aren't interested in any shape or form then look around - there's a big world out there.

Just a tip for any stalkers out there.