When a aqua man tells you they love you.. do they use that freely or only when serious about someone

confused leo, idk why but i only attract/ date aqua men.

Me too...well I do attract other signs but there's something especially intense abiut my connection to Aquas.

So your comment doesn't really match the subject line of your thread.

To answer the title question, usually not. Aquas don't usually play around with the "L" word. What were the circumstances behind why je might have said it?

Not used lightly; if i say i Love you- it means the world. Aqua female thou-not sure if dudes are all that different however.

Posted by justagirl
Not used lightly; if i say i Love you- it means the world. Aqua female thou-not sure if dudes are all that different however.

Nope.

Posted by sultrykitty
Me too...well I do attract other signs but there's something especially intense abiut my connection to Aquas.

So your comment doesn't really match the subject line of your thread.

To answer the title question, usually not. Aquas don't usually play around with the "L" word. What were the circumstances behind why je might have said it?

yes my connection to this aqua is the strongest ive ever felt, but of course its super rocky, he tells me he loves me all the time and is ready to make me his. weve been going back and forth all year. Im scared to get hurt, so im trying to take what he says lightly. But idk im in love with the guy and its pretty intense. i just want to make sure hes totally serious about me, and really loves me. Are there any tell tell signs with aquas? i know you have been with your aqua for a long time, and youre a leo! id totally appreciate any advice

My sun in leo, moon in virgo, venus in leo, mars in gem
his sun in aqua, moon in taurus, venus in cap, mars in aries

The fact that he told you and continues to, means he's serious.

Don't let your fear of getting hurt keep you from letting him in completely. He will need reassurance that you feel the same way. You may need it too but you may not get it in the way Leo expects it. That has been our biggest issue; the way we show love on a daily basis is completely different.

Honestly I'm not really sure how mine shows it, I just know that he loves me. It's more of a knowing than a feeling, if that explains it.

Your Aqua has almost the same placements as mine, except mine has Aqua Venus and Cap Mercury.

How old are you guys?

Its discouraging that the typical sun sign compatibility says opposite signs dont really work, but do you think that the other planets more to do with it than just the sun sign? i know our moon signs are compatible. im 23 and he is 28.

Leo and Aqua are probably the one opposite pair that works.

Therr was a meta-study done on couples' longevity based on sun signs, and for both sexes separately. Turns out that Leo (both male and female) were the least likely to divorce when paired with Aqua.

We have our moments where we just don't get the other, or where one word or action can completely deflate the other, but I think there is bascially a very deep respect and admiration for each other that helps ground the relationship.

The one thing that I respect the most about my guy is his tolerance and patience with me. He's been there with me through years during which I was an absolute wretched bitch to him without even realizing what I was doing; it turns out I have a chronic illness that effects all my hormones so it was like I was in a constant state of PMS among other things. I guess his friends were asking him why he stayed with me if I was so mean to him, and all he could say was that he knew something was wrong and that he loved me. I was diagnosed 7 years later. If that's not love and respect, I don't know what is.

As I see his patience, he's taught me a lot of it too. Cap moon might be patient and determined, but he's tried mine countless times and as exasperating as ot may be, I know it's mutual.

So I think of all opposite pairings, Leo and Aqua can not only teach each other a lot but if both parties are mature and open with each other, we can also appreciate the differences and embrace them.

This is a very good article; I think it explains the dynamics very well. If you can get into your Aqua's head space, you'll fare better. In my relationship, I have had to bend mich more to him than he has to me. We're both stubborn, but with my Libra dominance I tend to back down for tje sakr of peace more often. When I was younger, I didnt and it caused problems in our relationship.



http://www.compatible-astrology.com/leo-aquarius.html

Usually aquas dont say out "i love you" often so he must have meant it when he says a few times. Well its incompatible usually due to generalization about Leo's tendency for attention which will restrict the alone time for aquas. Well every relationship has challenges, as long as you two communicate well & solve the issues together i see no problem. Sultrykitty seems happy with his leo husband so why cant u? Dont let astrology affect you too much, its always different in real life scenario 🙂

You may have an air Venus or attract Aquarius with Venus in Sag or Aries. I have witnessed an Aquarius man with Venus in Aries move very fast, with confessing his love and proposing marriage to his Leo maiden. One article described Venus as the sign you act like when you love, and what you prefer in a soul mate. For instance this Gemini woman I know marries and only falls in love with Scorpio - naturally her Venus is in cancer.

It took mine a year and a half to say it, so my vote is they mean it.

You need to reassure him and let him into your feelings. Just don't overdo it or you will overwhelm him. Be confident about it. If he doesn't respond in kind, don't let it bother you.