Why not just take our word for it?

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We can all agree that most Aquas are "different."

I think where some of us disagree is in whether or not Aquas are naturally different b/c they "just are" vs. us being different b/c we're somehow purposely trying to be.

When other signs discuss how they are, they expect for people to take their word for it. After all, no one understands a Libra better than a Libra...No one understands how Scorpios tick & WHY they do the things they do, better than another Scorpio. So why can't the same apply to Aquas

If you guys want to "understand" us so bad, want to know why/how we tick, how about start taking our word for it, b/c no one can tell it better than an Aqua.

In my experiences iwth Aquas, alot of them are considered "different" NOT b/c they are the ones placing that label on themselves, but moreso b/c others are the 1s who consider them to be different.

Plus, even if an Aqua WAS purposely trying to be "different," why is that such a bad thing? What's so wrong with stepping outside of the box, wanting to stand out, not following the crowd, not worrying about what's popular & establishing a sense of individuality? What's so wrong with that? Why are people so offended when Aquas purposely go left just b/c everyone else went right?

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Personally, I'm NOT the one who considers myself to be "different." OTHERS have placed that label on me, which means that whether I'm trying to be different on purpose or not, I'm still going to be considered "different."

I have my own sense of style (clothing) & my own sense of individuality. But not b/c I'm purposely trying to be different. I literally just like the things that I like, & I really don't care if I'm the ONLY 1 who likes it b/c I don't live for anyone else other than me.

I may be the only person on earth who likes the color blue, while yet everyone else adores purple. And me simply liking blue when no one else does may grant me the label of being "different," BUT it's not like I like the color blue simply to piss others off or purposely be rebellious. How about um...I literally just like the color blue, whether the rest of the world likes it or not!
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The only thing Aquas "purposely" try to do/be is THEMSELVES! Why is that such a big deal/problem?

Had Aquas been people-pleasers, ones to follow the crowd & only focus on what's popular, people would complain.

We stand out naturally b/c we naturally like different things sometimes. We may like 500 of the same things that you like & yet you guys don't get offended. But yet if I decide to go against the grain (not on purpose) & like something that no one else likes, all of the sudden Aquas get accused of purposely trying to be different? That makes no sense.

We are who we are. We can't help it that we just so happen to tick differently than most other people/signs. We're unique in our own right just like other signs are.

That's why we're Aquarians & you're Libras, Aries, Cancers, etc. Every sign has their own different & unique characteristics that set them apart from other signs.

It seems like people always want to take away our sense of individuality, when yet they fight for their own sense of the same thing & expect for others to respect them more for being/ticking "differently."

All I'm saying is that Aquas deserve that same respect. NO, we don't do everything out of rebellion or to piss others off. Sometimes we literally just don't agree with you; sometimes we literally just want to go right when everyone else goes left; sometimes we really ARE different, even when we're not trying to be.

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Posted by zentientsquirrelsentinel
Maybe because no-one read it, she's quite prolific, that krys.
Why do you want people to see it ?
Bcuse you want them to believe it ! 😛😉



Are you that fuxking dumb. How many threads get posted on this site a day and no one comments on them, I have posted threads with no comments on it and i know people have seen it because i kept commenting on them myself to keep it on the top of the forum list. So i dnt wanna hear that bullshxt. Dont make it about me, make it about her saying the truth. And i like it. So get that twink dixk out ya azz and relax. take a Xanax or something cornball.
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If people aren't responding to your threads, allow me to help you. I, good sir, am a qualified attention whore, and I do some consultation on the side.

Some freebies! Here you go:

1. Smut it up a little; put on a short skirt and bend over a lot

2. Offend your readers terribly! I mean REALLY give it to them. Tears are good on the interwebs. They're cleansing. Gotta get the poison out.

3. Devil's advocate. Be provocative. Challenge others in a way that is so obtrusive, there's no way in hell they'd ignore you.

4. Discuss a new trend

5. Be funny or interesting



Lol cut it out. You not that smart. When i first got on this site, i had no picture up and i would post real questions that i wanted answered even if they were boring. But i dont have this problem anymore because i posted a new pic up and now people like you swarm like wasps...The only thing that will stop me is if DXP creates a "Dont Comment On Ayb's Threads" petition..
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Posted by 0987654321234567890
WAIT, if you're from NY, then why do you have up a westside sign? ARe you geographically challenged? Am I going to have to teach you gang culture? YOu obviously have not learned it properly. Sit down.



Lol what im throwing up is not a gangsign even tho gangs use it. Thats the "Eastside" sign you know-it-all. Westside is thrown up with the index and middle finger tied together...But we live in america and we're entitled to freedom of speech so its whateva you wanna think bozo..
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Posted by starlover
Eccentric, ruled by Uranus...the mad professor kinda vibe

Interesting though that as they age lots of aquarians can become boring...being a fixed sign, they tend to get stuck in themselves and lean towards many words but no action.

I have know many! Like them, and think they are naturally rebellious.....🙂



if we become boring, its probably because we've almost seen it all and even if we don't, we want to and get even more frustrated with the norm..
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Posted by AybLynk
Posted by 0987654321234567890
No turst me. I'm the authority on gang culture, as I have been schooled many a time on the playground over lunch money or something like that. Do you have any questions?



LOL you can joke but there is more meaning in my one hand than your whole life.



oh man, you're no fun, Debbie Downer.
click to expand



I thought it was a reall rreally dry joke (or not, as you will now see).
He does have the more meaning (in a general 'what's the meaning of life' sense) in the palm of his hand than women do.
hhmmm 🙂
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Posted by 0987654321234567890
Posted by AybLynk
Posted by 0987654321234567890
No turst me. I'm the authority on gang culture, as I have been schooled many a time on the playground over lunch money or something like that. Do you have any questions?



LOL you can joke but there is more meaning in my one hand than your whole life.



oh man, you're no fun, Debbie Downer.


I thought it was a reall rreally dry joke (or not, as you will now see).
He does have the more meaning (in a general 'what's the meaning of life' sense) in the palm of his hand than women do.
hhmmm 🙂
click to expand




i always have dry jokes. Im not a comedian. i dont joke, smile, do none of that. I surround myself with like-minded serious people. Only girls get to seen my clownish side because they mean nothing to me, just a hole to stick my beef into.
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I just read it and didn't comment on it not because it was boring but i didn't think there was anything to be a said..I could ask to list examples(cuz it seems like it's touching on something really specific but explained generally)..and i'm guessing that it's in light of other threads posted.

I personally do not have a problem with an aquarian expressing their individuality..it's the whole..'believing thier thought process is the norm, when it isn't." I think that's the base of MOST communication problems. I'm trying to be concious of how i communicate all the time, I'm seeing that how i talk to be people, despite the fact that i don't insult, people seem to ALWAYS take my words as an attack..and they take it personally. Now I could just be like fuck it, that's the way I am...but communication for me is important..if people dont understand the message than it's worthless. How can I single out what I can express my message and do it in a way that's 'non-offensive' and still be myself? Once I figure that out, i'll be able to adjust accordingly.

And you know, I've seen several aquarians that are the MASTERS of that..it could be to your detriment or benefit in your opinion, I dunno, but it's a skill I admire.