Is Aries IT?

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Help sista Aries lover here...

He is awesome and everything and making me happy...

Though Friday he was less than affectionate before his first music gig after 2 years of child custody battle and shit so I said lack of affection is what is drawing people to a cheating...

OMG was I sorry I said that!!! 🤦‍♀️

He jumped up from the bed yelling that he thought he found THE ONE and I am just like everybody else!!! 👿

I don’t see him mad usually. This was...fucking scary!!!

However to make a long story short I’ve turned on my Gemini charm and in a record short time he was ok and I was asking if he is REALLY ok because it seemed like he is playing cool before he will throw me out...

No. Sat night we went for a gig and on the way there I’ve asked AGAIN if he is ok with us after that argument and he said...I am not going anywhere but it seems you might because I don’t now how to cuddle correctly...(I said that AFTER ‘cheating’ episode)...

So...everything went smooth and it seems like we don’t really react to each other shit anymore. Like I am sure he is telling me what he is feeling and is ok with me typing now while he is looking for something funny for us to watch periodically glancing at me if I am done yet...so see you later...❤️
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Aries are your ride & die. You need to believe in him. Actually perhaps your Leo moon want certain type of attention & you don’t understand his type. I understand it’s hard. My Aries ex was not affectionate the way I needed so it was hard.. but I had no doubts of his love.

And yours is an aqua moon! These sort of comments are NOT going to help him “cuddle the right way” more like show him.

Anyway have you read the Love Languages book and both of you taken the test? I think it would help to understand more.
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Aries men are loyal in love, and they will give their all... don’t say things like that even in jest. Gem, that commentary was uncalled for, especially considering the circumstances.


What circumstances? Am I supposed to keep quiet about something that’s bothering me?

THATS how break ups are happenning. By saying what’s on your mind you letting them know not to relax 199% ...
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Aries are your ride & die. You need to believe in him. Actually perhaps your Leo moon want certain type of attention & you don’t understand his type. I understand it’s hard. My Aries ex was not affectionate the way I needed so it was hard.. but I had no doubts of his love.

And yours is an aqua moon! These sort of comments are NOT going to help him “cuddle the right way” more like show him.

Anyway have you read the Love Languages book and both of you taken the test? I think it would help to understand more.


Oh ok...my daughter actually recommended this one to me.

But taking test won’t change his hard ass behavior. It’s ‘dont tell me what to do’ both of us...and his way of making fun of everything I am saying...🤣🤦‍♀️
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

😆

Lol I get you crazy Leo Moons

#thedramuh

You just have to explain to him that sometimes you say things that you don't truly mean....

Thank gosh he's an Aries tho

Explodes fast and let's it go fast

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No. I truly meant what I said.

I haven’t said I will be looking for another man...

I’ve stated the fact which is a valid and neglect DOES draw people apart...

It just he has this child in him that needs to grow up! No kidding...
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Aries are your ride & die. You need to believe in him. Actually perhaps your Leo moon want certain type of attention & you don’t understand his type. I understand it’s hard. My Aries ex was not affectionate the way I needed so it was hard.. but I had no doubts of his love.

And yours is an aqua moon! These sort of comments are NOT going to help him “cuddle the right way” more like show him.

Anyway have you read the Love Languages book and both of you taken the test? I think it would help to understand more.

Oh ok...my daughter actually recommended this one to me.

But taking test won’t change his hard ass behavior. It’s ‘dont tell me what to do’ both of us...and his way of making fun of everything I am saying...🤣🤦‍♀️
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Well it is about both of you understanding & accepting each other better. If you can’t do that.. it’s gonna be a hard road. Or counseling. Nothing is ever perfect. It’s just about what you can live with. Not talking about feelings won’t help, it is better to face issues head on. Maybe about how you talk about feelings though?
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Aries are your ride & die. You need to believe in him. Actually perhaps your Leo moon want certain type of attention & you don’t understand his type. I understand it’s hard. My Aries ex was not affectionate the way I needed so it was hard.. but I had no doubts of his love.

And yours is an aqua moon! These sort of comments are NOT going to help him “cuddle the right way” more like show him.

Anyway have you read the Love Languages book and both of you taken the test? I think it would help to understand more.

Oh ok...my daughter actually recommended this one to me.

But taking test won’t change his hard ass behavior. It’s ‘dont tell me what to do’ both of us...and his way of making fun of everything I am saying...🤣🤦‍♀️

Well it is about both of you understanding & accepting each other better. If you can’t do that.. it’s gonna be a hard road. Or counseling. Nothing is ever perfect. It’s just about what you can live with. Not talking about feelings won’t help, it is better to face issues head on. Maybe about how you talk about feelings though?
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LDR taking toll on me for sure.

And we are talking about feelings a lot all the time. That’s what I love about him that he is answering anything.

It’s just his way of dealing with me talking...’oh! My hug wasn’t long enough?’ And it makes it all funny and gets dismissed...until I will say something again...like what I’ve said...🤷‍♀️
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Aries are your ride & die. You need to believe in him. Actually perhaps your Leo moon want certain type of attention & you don’t understand his type. I understand it’s hard. My Aries ex was not affectionate the way I needed so it was hard.. but I had no doubts of his love.

And yours is an aqua moon! These sort of comments are NOT going to help him “cuddle the right way” more like show him.

Anyway have you read the Love Languages book and both of you taken the test? I think it would help to understand more.

Oh ok...my daughter actually recommended this one to me.

But taking test won’t change his hard ass behavior. It’s ‘dont tell me what to do’ both of us...and his way of making fun of everything I am saying...🤣🤦‍♀️

Well it is about both of you understanding & accepting each other better. If you can’t do that.. it’s gonna be a hard road. Or counseling. Nothing is ever perfect. It’s just about what you can live with. Not talking about feelings won’t help, it is better to face issues head on. Maybe about how you talk about feelings though?

LDR taking toll on me for sure.

And we are talking about feelings a lot all the time. That’s what I love about him that he is answering anything.

It’s just his way of dealing with me talking...’oh! My hug wasn’t long enough?’ And it makes it all funny and gets dismissed...until I will say something again...like what I’ve said...🤷‍♀️
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It is very good you are communicating about it. 🙂
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Aries men are loyal in love, and they will give their all... don’t say things like that even in jest. Gem, that commentary was uncalled for, especially considering the circumstances.

What circumstances? Am I supposed to keep quiet about something that’s bothering me?

THATS how break ups are happenning. By saying what’s on your mind you letting them know not to relax 199% ...

No, of course not. Absolutely, you should be able to express what is bothering you in a relationship, that’s important. But it could have been approached differently, and you know that.
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Honestly...I don’t see what was I supposed to say to nail it differently...
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Aries men are loyal in love, and they will give their all... don’t say things like that even in jest. Gem, that commentary was uncalled for, especially considering the circumstances.

What circumstances? Am I supposed to keep quiet about something that’s bothering me?

THATS how break ups are happenning. By saying what’s on your mind you letting them know not to relax 199% ...

No, of course not. Absolutely, you should be able to express what is bothering you in a relationship, that’s important. But it could have been approached differently, and you know that.

Honestly...I don’t see what was I supposed to say to nail it differently...
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It's the way you say things that has in impact, try being kind and gentle instead of approaching things like a Rottweiler
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Aries men are loyal in love, and they will give their all... don’t say things like that even in jest. Gem, that commentary was uncalled for, especially considering the circumstances.

What circumstances? Am I supposed to keep quiet about something that’s bothering me?

THATS how break ups are happenning. By saying what’s on your mind you letting them know not to relax 199% ...

No, of course not. Absolutely, you should be able to express what is bothering you in a relationship, that’s important. But it could have been approached differently, and you know that.

Honestly...I don’t see what was I supposed to say to nail it differently...

It's the way you say things that has in impact, try being kind and gentle instead of approaching things like a Rottweiler
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I would looove the example.
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?
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Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮
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Harsh....
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Aries men are loyal in love, and they will give their all... don’t say things like that even in jest. Gem, that commentary was uncalled for, especially considering the circumstances.

What circumstances? Am I supposed to keep quiet about something that’s bothering me?

THATS how break ups are happenning. By saying what’s on your mind you letting them know not to relax 199% ...

No, of course not. Absolutely, you should be able to express what is bothering you in a relationship, that’s important. But it could have been approached differently, and you know that.

Honestly...I don’t see what was I supposed to say to nail it differently...

It's the way you say things that has in impact, try being kind and gentle instead of approaching things like a Rottweiler

I would looove the example.
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Example in what way?
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Aries men are loyal in love, and they will give their all... don’t say things like that even in jest. Gem, that commentary was uncalled for, especially considering the circumstances.

What circumstances? Am I supposed to keep quiet about something that’s bothering me?

THATS how break ups are happenning. By saying what’s on your mind you letting them know not to relax 199% ...

No, of course not. Absolutely, you should be able to express what is bothering you in a relationship, that’s important. But it could have been approached differently, and you know that.

Honestly...I don’t see what was I supposed to say to nail it differently...

It's the way you say things that has in impact, try being kind and gentle instead of approaching things like a Rottweiler

But she is a rottweiler, that's why he likes her. 🐶
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Lmao...I suspect that MAYBE because I DO say shit straight up he knows I am not bullshitting when I compliment him on things...

We actually often discussing subjects on here and he is always on my side.

Lol
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Aries men are loyal in love, and they will give their all... don’t say things like that even in jest. Gem, that commentary was uncalled for, especially considering the circumstances.

What circumstances? Am I supposed to keep quiet about something that’s bothering me?

THATS how break ups are happenning. By saying what’s on your mind you letting them know not to relax 199% ...

No, of course not. Absolutely, you should be able to express what is bothering you in a relationship, that’s important. But it could have been approached differently, and you know that.

Honestly...I don’t see what was I supposed to say to nail it differently...

It's the way you say things that has in impact, try being kind and gentle instead of approaching things like a Rottweiler

But she is a rottweiler, that's why he likes her. 🐶

Lmao...I suspect that MAYBE because I DO say shit straight up he knows I am not bullshitting when I compliment him on things...

We actually often discussing subjects on here and he is always on my side.

Lol

I don't see a problem. Maybe you should've just been aware he was probably nervous about the gig after the pause. Or simply focused. Now you will. Problem solved.
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I am expecting different outcome that NOW when I’ve delivered my point across loud and clear - he might think about it and next time when he is stressed out about shit that isn’t life and dearh matter - he will shove his worries for 4 minutes and give me attention I am looking for so right after we can be both worried about whatever is that he is worrying g aboit!

And trust me I am extremely supportive and he is praising me for that all the time BUT for my battery to work I need them to charge! So has to stop and make me happy so I can give it back x25! And if he does love me as he says - he will do it.

I have my problems as well. And I am dealing with it when I am with him. I am not freaking out for 72 hours unable to hug him and give him warm shoulder and big ears...
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....
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Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...
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Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....
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Did you learn anything from your divorce and affair? It seems you're already gearing up to do it again.

What was I supposed to learn? That after one man comes another? I’ve learned that! 🤔

I guess shame does have a purpose.
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I don’t know what you are saying.

What shame and what purpose?
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....
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Still would love an example
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example
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an example of how you behave or how you could behave?
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example

an example of how you behave or how you could behave?
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Of how would you handle it?
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example

an example of how you behave or how you could behave?
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Of how would you handle it?
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example

an example of how you behave or how you could behave?

Of how would you handle it?
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Well if the guy was going through a difficult time I’d not put pressure on him, doesn’t he already have a psycho ex? The last thing he needs is another woman making demands on him or lashing out😐
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example

an example of how you behave or how you could behave?

Of how would you handle it?

Well if the guy was going through a difficult time I’d not put pressure on him, doesn’t he already have a psycho ex? The last thing he needs is another woman making demands on him or lashing out😐
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Ok. I’ve been good. I’ve sent him a beautiful love letter to which he answered: I love you and I am not going anywhere...

NOW can I be myself? 🙏🏻
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Let me give you this advice.

Aries IS NOT like your husband. They are not pushovers. They will not be quiet while you treat them badly or the passion goes or they get bored or if they feel you get bored or you cheat ..or if even they cheat.

An Aries will up and leave. And they will move on faster than you. They are fire.

When they love you its all in.

I feel like you have learnt bad lessons from your previous relationship.

They don't bow to threats or manipulation.

They will dump your ass.

Don't test him.

Aries doesn't put with manipulative crap.

If you feel the affection is lacking ...state it ...tell him he needs to up his game. He will respect you.


I am playing with a Fire!
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I think he missed a chance. If a woman said that to me. I would freeze. Look at her. Walked to her slowly. Rip everything off, and give her enough attention to make her reconsider the language she is using.


Trust me...he didn’t missed anything!

I’ll say it again! And he knows it. I said it before...he is just getting use to it. 🧟‍♀️
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Let me give you this advice.

Aries IS NOT like your husband. They are not pushovers. They will not be quiet while you treat them badly or the passion goes or they get bored or if they feel you get bored or you cheat ..or if even they cheat.

An Aries will up and leave. And they will move on faster than you. They are fire.

When they love you its all in.

I feel like you have learnt bad lessons from your previous relationship.

They don't bow to threats or manipulation.

They will dump your ass.

Don't test him.

Aries doesn't put with manipulative crap.

If you feel the affection is lacking ...state it ...tell him he needs to up his game. He will respect you.

I am playing with a Fire!

Exactly.
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I know!!! I hope you knew that I know...
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Posted by LittleStar

Lmao @ people saying Aries men will walk.

Aries people are fucking softies. They may throw big fits but they are children. As soon as you distract them they are fine again. And they like getting pissed off anyway. They get off on it.


OMG! It’s so funny you saying that!

I was asking him to forget what I said and he was like 👀...fine! It’s forgotten! And I am again...please just Nevermind. And he was like WTF are you saying that for? Lmao

It’s miss Foxy here big expert on rships you know...😂😂🤣

Jesus...Moses and all saints! 🙏🏻
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example

an example of how you behave or how you could behave?

Of how would you handle it?

Well if the guy was going through a difficult time I’d not put pressure on him, doesn’t he already have a psycho ex? The last thing he needs is another woman making demands on him or lashing out😐

Ok. I’ve been good. I’ve sent him a beautiful love letter to which he answered: I love you and I am not going anywhere...

NOW can I be myself? 🙏🏻
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Awwww ❤️. I had an Aries ex that used to say exactly that.....he didn't go anywhere and stood by his word, but I went somewhere lol

Yes Gem you can be yourself...no slipping up again.....okay??

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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example

an example of how you behave or how you could behave?

Of how would you handle it?

Well if the guy was going through a difficult time I’d not put pressure on him, doesn’t he already have a psycho ex? The last thing he needs is another woman making demands on him or lashing out😐

Ok. I’ve been good. I’ve sent him a beautiful love letter to which he answered: I love you and I am not going anywhere...

NOW can I be myself? 🙏🏻

Awwww ❤️. I had an Aries ex that used to say exactly that.....he didn't go anywhere and stood by his word, but I went somewhere lol

Yes Gem you can be yourself...no slipping up again.....okay??

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I don’t remember why did you go?
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example

an example of how you behave or how you could behave?

Of how would you handle it?

Well if the guy was going through a difficult time I’d not put pressure on him, doesn’t he already have a psycho ex? The last thing he needs is another woman making demands on him or lashing out😐

Ok. I’ve been good. I’ve sent him a beautiful love letter to which he answered: I love you and I am not going anywhere...

NOW can I be myself? 🙏🏻

Awwww ❤️. I had an Aries ex that used to say exactly that.....he didn't go anywhere and stood by his word, but I went somewhere lol

Yes Gem you can be yourself...no slipping up again.....okay??

😊

I don’t remember why did you go?
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Oh lots of reasons

He moved to another country for work and it was a long way to travel, even though it didn't phase him

Too immature

Mother issues

Age gap

..and more...
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Umgsssss gorl

That was a horrible thing to say lolz

I know right? But that’s how you test them...I think...🧟‍♀️

Test for what?

Test on how much they can take from you which will show how strong of a feelings they have for you.

What’s the point walking on eggshells and get ‘it’s over’ after first verbal mistake that will hurt their feelings and they will become whiny bitches. We have too many examples here of those easily broken hearted men! 🤮

Harsh....

Yeah! I don’t do mushy shit! And if henin it for a long haul he outta know it...

Nothing to do with being mushy, it's to do with communicating without sounding like a petulant child....

Still would love an example

an example of how you behave or how you could behave?

Of how would you handle it?

Well if the guy was going through a difficult time I’d not put pressure on him, doesn’t he already have a psycho ex? The last thing he needs is another woman making demands on him or lashing out😐

Ok. I’ve been good. I’ve sent him a beautiful love letter to which he answered: I love you and I am not going anywhere...

NOW can I be myself? 🙏🏻

Awwww ❤️. I had an Aries ex that used to say exactly that.....he didn't go anywhere and stood by his word, but I went somewhere lol

Yes Gem you can be yourself...no slipping up again.....okay??

😊

I don’t remember why did you go?

Oh lots of reasons

He moved to another country for work and it was a long way to travel, even though it didn't phase him

Too immature

Mother issues

Age gap

..and more...
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OMG! 🤦‍♀️

Mine too is immature...like...he can eat receipt and chase it down with coffee...I have prove. I’ve recorded it!

He does have mother issue. He hates his mother...🤷‍♀️

Age gap! You know...💅🏻

...we do live in different states!

You made me think...🤔