Aries Are Too Much

I don't think a lot of people can handle an aries. We seem to attract all signs different signs of really different varieties but none of them seem to be up to par when you really get to know them. Everyone thinks their ready for all the fun and excitement we bring. Their not ready for unexplained actions. I'll be dancing, singing, rapping, working hard anything and everything to channel my energies. Its so hard to rid myself of all restlessness. It gets so frustrating. I want somebody at least a little similar to me. Scorpios and geminis seem to attract me the most. Scorpios are an instant connection they would be oh so perfect if it wasnt for the little things like the promises they break, the possessiveness, the very high sex drive and their deep emotions that they only express sometimes. Geminis feel so right because their so intellectual and feed into my stimuli that craves communication and knowledge but then again they play too many games, mislead people, and lie.

Aquarius are too distant for me to even engage in conversation.
libras are compulsive liars and just seem to be too stubborn. They always bash me with their negativity. like "no its not gonna happen" " no no no no no" I dont know what goes through a libras head but once i get to know them theres nothing there.
Pisces are too emotional for me and when they get drunk their like a whole different person and its embarrassing.
they also seem to want a relationship with people that dont love them
Leos are too into themselves. We would clash indefinitely.
Taurus are mean when they want to be and too stubborn for my liking. Their insensitive to others feelings.
Sagittarius cant trust. I dont even like them because their all about entertainment at the expense of others.
Aries 1 aries is already enough. Which is me.
Cancer again too emotional, too stubborn, and boring.
Capricorns usually stay in my friends zone, their too grounded and seem like a push over.
Virgos fall too fast and are too critical for me. Its not attractive to have someone always judging you

It seems as though i'll probably end up alone, thats something i dont want though.

A high sex drive is a bad thing??

It kinda seems like you're too critical and negative. :/ Try to appreciate people and their signs for the positive aspects and to forgive/tolerate the ones you don't like. No sign is ever bad and alot depends on rising or just how they where raised. I wish i knew more aries. At the moment i only have one aries friend and i wants more 😢.

Posted by starlover

Posted by glassblowing
lol

yeah, we can be too much.....I always feel like I have to reign in my energy.....around other people. we come on too strong.....and fast......sometimes, I will pursue until I have no interest just to show the guy I could get him and then I walk off just as fast. lmfao!

otherwise, just tell them it is going to be a bumpy ride and to hang on for their dear life....we are not for the faint of heart, seriously.

Careful lady, that could backfire on you ~ sounds like a bit of a cruel game you are playing there.
Karma and all that?

Not funny!

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That's not an Aries thing, that's just a selfish bullshit thing. Karma's gonna bite her hard.

Posted by luxe
It kinda seems like you're too critical and negative. :/ Try to appreciate people and their signs for the positive aspects and to forgive/tolerate the ones you don't like. No sign is ever bad and alot depends on rising or just how they where raised. I wish i knew more aries. At the moment i only have one aries friend and i wants more 😢.

I do appreciate everything and everyone but as for holding a relationship down especially in the future, I see that as very impossible. I'm not looking for perfect but im looking for damn near it. For me. I have a different perception of perfect.

Posted by glassblowing
lol

yeah, we can be too much.....I always feel like I have to reign in my energy.....around other people. we come on too strong.....and fast......sometimes, I will pursue until I have no interest just to show the guy I could get him and then I walk off just as fast. lmfao!

otherwise, just tell them it is going to be a bumpy ride and to hang on for their dear life....we are not for the faint of heart, seriously.

Oh man we fall fast and hard in love but then if we get what we want too quick, (which we usually do) that passion dies out. Sometimes when i get what i want im like "thats it?" haha. I don't want to or do that to anyone anymore. I let them in on my tendencies.

They still think they can handle me when i know they get and then they just sometimes start dissing me or keep coming back when i know at that point ive already lost interest.

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Careful lady, that could backfire on you ~ sounds like a bit of a cruel game you are playing there.
Karma and all that?

Not funny!



Yeah we know that and usually learn that in the long run like i`ve had. Never knew we were heart breakers. I just thought we were having fun until you realize its really serious when you seriously care about someone.

Posted by glassblowing
Starlover,
So true..... 🙂 It's only happened "sometimes" but what I just said shouldn't be an attonement for judgment......karma is to be balanced in our lives......so good and bad, it comes back to us.... There is a branch of buddhists that believe that we can balance our karma in this life and proceed to the other world after this life never having to return again to earth......other branches of buddhism believe karma cannot be balanced in this life (I believe the former).......

What caused me to lose interest—
.....talked and asked the same questions again with them.....they were lying
......other obligations or stuff in life. If it is meant to be....I will return

I`m all about karma and energies as well. you lost interest because he couldn`t keep your interest. He was either too much or not enough. I find myself running to people that are too much sometimes.

Posted by starlover

I cannot stand people that think its okay to mess with peoples' heads ~ its quite cruel

This. When women admit to doing this, I just want to slap the shit out of them. THAT is why the rest of us have to deal with guys thinking all women are these game playing, hard to get bitches.

It is NOT something to brag about.

Posted by Chachacha

Oh man we fall fast and hard in love but then if we get what we want too quick, (which we usually do) that passion dies out. Sometimes when i get what i want im like "thats it?" haha. I don't want to or do that to anyone anymore. I let them in on my tendencies.

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I think you missed the bit where she implies she just does it for shits n giggles. This wasn't about losing interest just as fast. She was doing it intentionally to "show" the guy that she can get him just because. It's an ego boost thing.

And I have no idea what EITHER of you are talking about as far as losing interest. I've only done that in the crush stages when nothing has been admitted. The guy isn't interested and nothing becomes of it, I lose interest and am over it.

Relationship wise however, I make sure that I want in on it and when I do, I'm in for it. I don't change my mind and scamper off like some asshole. That's a Libran thing to go in and change their minds last minute. With Aries, we're either in or we're out. None of this "yeah sure, oh changed my mind!" bs.

Both of you sound very young and immature. Early 20s maybe? Girls that age are notorious for doing this dumb shit.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by starlover

I cannot stand people that think its okay to mess with peoples' heads ~ its quite cruel

This. When women admit to doing this, I just want to slap the shit out of them. THAT is why the rest of us have to deal with guys thinking all women are these game playing, hard to get bitches.

It is NOT something to brag about.

Posted by Chachacha

Oh man we fall fast and hard in love but then if we get what we want too quick, (which we usually do) that passion dies out. Sometimes when i get what i want im like "thats it?" haha. I don't want to or do that to anyone anymore. I let them in on my tendencies.

I think you missed the bit where she implies she just does it for shits n giggles. This wasn't about losing interest just as fast. She was doing it intentionally to "show" the guy that she can get him just because. It's an ego boost thing.

And I have no idea what EITHER of you are talking about as far as losing interest. I've only done that in the crush stages when nothing has been admitted. The guy isn't interested and nothing becomes of it, I lose interest and am over it.

Relationship wise however, I make sure that I want in on it and when I do, I'm in for it. I don't change my mind and scamper off like some asshole. That's a Libran thing to go in and change their minds last minute. With Aries, we're either in or we're out. None of this "yeah sure, oh changed my mind!" bs.

Both of you sound very young and immature. Early 20s maybe? Girls that age are notorious for doing this dumb shit.

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Yes i am young just under 20 and like i said i dont do that anymore i was young and i started to realize what i was doing. I knew i was too young to hold down a serious relationship so i just assumed all of them were for fun and to play the game of love and be in it for the chase. But i stopped chasing when i got my heart broken in grade 9 i was like forget it.

i don't have a lot of experience with aries, but i'm talking to one now. i think they just sometimes kind of have a lot going on on their mind or in their lives, so they focus on that stuff and just kind of detach from the things that are less important or less beneficial for them. my aries disappears sometimes and i give him his space, and so far, he always comes back. an aries is a lot to handle sometimes, but if you take the time to know them and understand how they work, it's a lot easier. i'm a capricorn and i always want to know everything and i need consistency, so an aries is a pretty terrible match for me and it's taken literally 5 years to get to a good place with him where i understand him and how we works and i can stop bugging him when he seems distant.

That glassblowing chick is cray cray. :/

Sew your gine together and leave men alone until you know how to use it properly, kay?

Rocky road icecream is awesome. Why I used it as a username. :p

Posted by rockyroadicecream
A high sex drive is a bad thing??

That's exactly the only thing I was gonna say! Hahaha! True aries!!!

Yeah... Since when is a high sex drive a bad thing? We have high sex drives!

Posted by rockyroadicecream
That glassblowing chick is cray cray. :/

Sew your gine together and leave men alone until you know how to use it properly, kay?

Holy fuck that is funny!

Posted by SassyVirgo
Totally agree Aries can be too much to handle. Mine talks really dirty, doesn't like to sweet talk me. Also he is very sensitive about domination. I was going to leave him but I found out he was going to take me to an event with LOTS of his friends there, I know he is serious about me. The hard part is he never tell me this is what he intended to do. I found out through other sources.

In general, I don't think Aries and Virgo are a good match at all! I was seeing a virgo guy for a teeny weeny bit... he is hot, but SOOOOOOOO BORING! I love talking dirty, and he had to be told directly to be more involved in the sack.... I believe my words to him were "I need you to be more involved, make me feel like a woman!" Then I think he got pissed at me and started biting me pretty hard, which kinda turned me on a lot.... then I think that turned him on.... cus he got pretty involved after that! haha

I see your still with the Aries dude Sassy

Posted by aquansidenout
" I do appreciate everything and everyone but as for holding a relationship down especially in the future, I see that as very impossible. I'm not looking for perfect but im looking for damn near it. For me. I have a different perception of perfect."


I just figured out who the problem is here....it's you. And me the aquarian living all inside my cold distant head took the time to thinking of others. O_o

Maybe they just need to be alone for a while and not judge people off their perfection scale. Too much thought can cost a good thing before it has come to bloom....

I don't find Aries too much at all, in fact they are just right. I have loads of them in my life in all areas and they are just great, we spend hours talking, I especially love their honesty, no shit taking and bluntness the most and you I find I can be completely me and say whatever comes into my head with them (which can be shocking to other signs as I can be quite blunt myself), no need to hide youself with aries, very refreshing and stimulating people to be with.

aries men in "general" in real life (my limited observation) seem to love timid, soft, kind, demure women.
It's like the opposite poles coming together. Aggression and softness.

Posted by celticlioness
I don't find Aries too much at all, in fact they are just right. I have loads of them in my life in all areas and they are just great, we spend hours talking, I especially love their honesty, no shit taking and bluntness the most and you I find I can be completely me and say whatever comes into my head with them (which can be shocking to other signs as I can be quite blunt myself), no need to hide youself with aries, very refreshing and stimulating people to be with.

What a lovely compliment CL 🙂 I could definitely say the same about Leos. In addition to what you mentioned about Aries, Leos are so warm natured and sincere... SUCH nice people. Real people. I can see why the two signs are possibly the most compatible in the zodiac. I adore the male and female Leos in my life. It's like I collect them, I have so many 😄

Posted by lisabethur8
aries men in "general" in real life (my limited observation) seem to love timid, soft, kind, demure women.
It's like the opposite poles coming together. Aggression and softness.

Not true my Aries brother is always saying he'd wish his Cap girl would be more assertive, independent and sassy. His exact words were I didnt get with you because you were the most available chick in the room. They like kind woman but dont be a push over, or else they will begin to lose interest and respect.

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Posted by lisabethur8
aries men in "general" in real life (my limited observation) seem to love timid, soft, kind, demure women.
It's like the opposite poles coming together. Aggression and softness.

Not true my Aries brother is always saying he'd wish his Cap girl would be more assertive, independent and sassy. His exact words were I didnt get with you because you were the most available chick in the room. They like kind woman but dont be a push over, or else they will begin to lose interest and respect.

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i tried to put "general" in there. In "general" they (it sounds like it's a whole marching band of clones) lol like to "push" their significant other to be more "assertive".

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Posted by lisabethur8
aries men in "general" in real life (my limited observation) seem to love timid, soft, kind, demure women.
It's like the opposite poles coming together. Aggression and softness.

Not true my Aries brother is always saying he'd wish his Cap girl would be more assertive, independent and sassy. His exact words were I didnt get with you because you were the most available chick in the room. They like kind woman but dont be a push over, or else they will begin to lose interest and respect.

i tried to put "general" in there. In "general" they (it sounds like it's a whole marching band of clones) lol like to "push" their significant other to be more "assertive".

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Yea I could see that, they like to challenge them

^^ true. The reserved and shy, timid ladies could make them yawn. 🙂