Aries + Aries questions

Hi All,

I'm new here and I would like to ask people here to comment a little on the follow story.

Some years ago, while at work, I saw an extremely attractive gal for the first time. She was cute, nice smile and I guess I could say I felt something for her right away. However, nothing really happened. I tried talking to her when I ran into her at the bus stop or at work but she was either shy or just didn't want to be bothered by some guy she didn't know all that well.

Eventually, I finally gave up on anything happening with her. The funny thing was after I "gave up", I somehow became friends with her. Unfortunately, while I was interested in hooking up with her, she was not interested (to make a long story short).

In any case, in the course of becoming friends and talking to her, I found out some very interesting details:

We both were born on April 1st, 1974 at the same hospital in the same city. I was born around 2:30 PM, she at about 4:01 PM.

What I would be interested in from folks is:

If my friend and I were somehow to get together, would we even have a chance?

My friend is a nice, sweet, and thoughtful gal but awfully picky and seemingly anti-social. She doesn't have a BF (as far as I know) and from what I know isn't actively dating. One of my other guy co-workers who knows my friend described her as "not being particularly interested in guys". Would this be due to the influence of her "Virgo" rising sign?


To be perfectly honest, I still feel my friend and I have a chance. Perhaps I am too much of a romantic, but I can't help think that my friend and I were brought together for a reason. Unfortunately, my friend isn't likely thinking that way at this point.

In any case, if anyone has any comments, please feel free to post!

Thanks!

Welcome to the boards first off,and it may have something to do with the virgo rising.From what im getting from your post it's a very virgo way towards that.She may come around to that when she's satisfied with it being non-superficial and risky,but im not an aries freebird,std,etc may be able to help you more into understanding the psyche of an aries woman.

Yes Yes Yes...It is DEFINITELY the virgo rising speaking.

I know because I have Virgo rising and my Sag ex is always complaining about how nit-picky I am. And I am always looking for perfection...not necessarily in love, but definitely in the person who I am to fall in love with. And he definitely has to make the first move.

I say this to say, most Aries women are agressive when it's someone they like...so perhaps you hit the nail on the head.

Good Luck & WELCOME!

Cancer Lady,

Thanks for the response. 🙂 I have a quite a few things I could ask but let me limit myself to a couple right now:

One, what other aspects of your "Virgo Rising" personality have your friends or SO's noticed (both the positive and "negative" aspects?)

Two, if you were interested in someone, how would you let that other person know?

I'm particularly interested in question #2 mainly because my friend did a few nice and thoughtful things which I might have mis-read as "interest" when she was really being "herself".

In any case, thanks again!