Aries having trouble with an ex

So I cut my ex off three months ago. I just needed to isolate myself and it seemed like it was too easy for me to focus on her and how our relationship ended. to Clarify we have been broken up for about 9 months and I really tried to be her friend, but my emotions were just too strong towards her. Anyways I deleted her contact and blocked her on everything three months ago with the expectation that I would never see her again. Low and behold I started my new semester only to find out the hard way that she had returned to my university.

Now she is a Scorpio, very stunning individual. After a couple of days of avoiding each other, she reached out and offered to hang out. We hung out for a few hours and then I left a little early to go spend times with some friends. The whole time we hung out neither of us made any advances or were trying to do anything romantic. The next day I sent her a text at around 10pm. I thought maybe I would hang out with her if she was free and I had time. I did this even though I had just met up with another friend of mine. She replied that she was just relaxing at home and said that if I wanted to hang out that I should text her. I saw the messages but was busy the rest of the night so I didn't respond. This seemed to drive her crazy, she kept sending messages on instagram and deleting them. She seemed to be worried as to what I could possibly be doing that I would prefer over spending time with her.

So I pulled up to my apartment complex at 12:30 to find her parked outside waiting to see my car. When I pulled up she reversed and left. I texted her the next day acting normal and not even talking about what had happened the night before. Usually I was very attentive to her and gave her all of my time and care, but this time was different. I chose not to give her my attention and that seemed to drive her a little wild. In my point of view you have to have some sort of feelings towards someone to worry that much about where I was and what I was doing.

To be 100% transparent I would not mind dating this girl again. Even the three months that I took to focus on myself she was always in the back of my head. I loved this girl and still do to a certain extent. It seems like she might start to rekindle those feelings too if I keep being evasive and play hard to get. How would you guys handle this situation?

Wait...are you an Aries asking this question?

Are you planning on growing up?

Oof that was a spicy response! Yes I am the Aries asking this question.

To be honest I was never expecting her to do what she did. I was just busy that night and it’s not like we had plans. I didn’t think she would be worrying about where I was all night. It was out of character for her and I didn’t expect it. Not trying to be immature. The whole situation just caught me off guard seeing as I was always the one giving her the attention before. Maybe some constructive criticism would be helpful 😉

Posted by AreisBlood

Oof that was a spicy response! Yes I am the Aries asking this question.

To be honest I was never expecting her to do what she did. I was just busy that night and it’s not like we had plans. I didn’t think she would be worrying about where I was all night. It was out of character for her and I didn’t expect it. Not trying to be immature. The whole situation just caught me off guard seeing as I was always the one giving her the attention before. Maybe some constructive criticism would be helpful 😉

You acted like a teenage idiot.

And she didn’t care. She was mad! You haven’t bowed to a Scorpio Queen!!!

But it WAS moronic of you to text her WHILE partying with friend. Were you high?

You shoulda followed her back and talked the night away in the car.

Ooo you got her mind racing. Crazy in love lol

Try calling or "meeting" her somewhere she cant ignore or run away acting coy.

Posted by DMV

You shoulda followed her back and talked the night away in the car.

Ooo you got her mind racing. Crazy in love lol

Try calling or "meeting" her somewhere she cant ignore or run away acting coy.

They need each other like hemorrhoid...

Lol no i was not high! I did want to hang out with her that night but things just went longer than I expected that night and I had work in the morning. The thing is I bowed to this Scorpio queen for 10 months before she dropped me, so i’m Not too fond of the idea of putting myself in that position again. Maybe there is a situation where things are a little more even.

Stop playing games and reply to texts and be normal lol

Thank you 🙂

You need guy advice. It does sound like you don’t have much experience. Why did she break up with you the last time? Don’t run the risk of making the same mistakes.

You are allowed to be busy, you are allowed to message when you are out or whatever. She needs to think your time is valuable, make her think you might be with other women, easy to play a Scorpio like this. Why make her a high priority if she dumped you once already? She’ll be testing you. Scorpios always test, and they always play mind games. As Aries we are not the best to deal with this, so just tread very carefully. Definitely do not give her your full attention, not now anyway, maybe one day you can, but this shouldn’t even be on your mind right now.

Scorpio and Aries are all about the sex. That’s how you connect. It’s definitely not through messaging or talking.

Why do you think you are getting good results when you don’t do the “nice guy” thing, no women wants a nice guy, but they all say they do. Carry on doing what has been working so far. Doesn’t that make more sense?

Honestly game playing is not the answer at all. You'll end up single and if you want her don't over think it and let it flow. No amount of trying to pretend your cool or texting when you think you should works. Be yourself and natural. Don't over think, pretend she's a friend and text and communicate normally.