Aries' intensity.

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I was recently chasing after this guy but I have stopped now (let's just say I got bored... to save my pride)... Anyway, I realised that maybe I was being a little bit too intense and I probably should have played it a bit more cool.... Poor Aries, so persistent, pushy and annoying. Though, I think if he'd turned around and expressed his undying love for me, I would have probably ran and never looked back but for some reason at that time, that's what I thought I wanted to happen.

Anywaaaaaaay, my question isn't actually for Aries but for people who have dated or been chased by an Aries. I'd like to know your story and what it's like from your point of view... because if an Aries was chasing me, I think I might be a little scared. Anybody got any stories of a fixated ram, wanna tell me how you felt??
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Aries sun with Virgo moon chased me once. Being an Aries myself maybe I didn't see it as intense. He was very smooth and knew the right things to do and say. But I was never very interested even though I thought he was a very interesting person. Just not enough to tempt me. Lol. But he ended up asking me out. I said flat out no thank you. He was flabbergasted and said and I quote "did you not hear what I said I just asked you out." And i was "yeah I know." It wasn't that I wasn't interested I just was preoccupied with a Sag at the time.

I think we Aries know our stuff. We can come on strong but I think with good placements we can know how to work with our intensity.
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Aries sun with Virgo moon chased me once. Being an Aries myself maybe I didn't see it as intense. He was very smooth and knew the right things to do and say. But I was never very interested even though I thought he was a very interesting person. Just not enough to tempt me. Lol. But he ended up asking me out. I said flat out no thank you. He was flabbergasted and said and I quote "did you not hear what I said I just asked you out." And i was "yeah I know." It wasn't that I wasn't interested I just was preoccupied with a Sag at the time.

I think we Aries know our stuff. We can come on strong but I think with good placements we can know how to work with our intensity.
Hahahaha, what he said is hilarious, I can also relate... like "Wait..... what do you mean no? Did you fall and hit your head..." 😛
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Aries sun with Virgo moon chased me once. Being an Aries myself maybe I didn't see it as intense. He was very smooth and knew the right things to do and say. But I was never very interested even though I thought he was a very interesting person. Just not enough to tempt me. Lol. But he ended up asking me out. I said flat out no thank you. He was flabbergasted and said and I quote "did you not hear what I said I just asked you out." And i was "yeah I know." It wasn't that I wasn't interested I just was preoccupied with a Sag at the time.

I think we Aries know our stuff. We can come on strong but I think with good placements we can know how to work with our intensity.
Hahahaha, what he said is hilarious, I can also relate... like "Wait..... what do you mean no? Did you fall and hit your head..." 😛
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Aahhh!! Tis the Aries pride. It's strong! Especially when we think we're certain about something. I'm guilty of that myself 😄
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Aries sun with Virgo moon chased me once. Being an Aries myself maybe I didn't see it as intense. He was very smooth and knew the right things to do and say. But I was never very interested even though I thought he was a very interesting person. Just not enough to tempt me. Lol. But he ended up asking me out. I said flat out no thank you. He was flabbergasted and said and I quote "did you not hear what I said I just asked you out." And i was "yeah I know." It wasn't that I wasn't interested I just was preoccupied with a Sag at the time.

I think we Aries know our stuff. We can come on strong but I think with good placements we can know how to work with our intensity.
Hahahaha, what he said is hilarious, I can also relate... like "Wait..... what do you mean no? Did you fall and hit your head..." 😛
Aahhh!! Tis the Aries pride. It's strong! Especially when we think we're certain about something. I'm guilty of that myself 😄
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and then when you find out you weren't so certain after all..... eesh!
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I'm curious what You did to chase.
It's a long story... we've had this thing for over a year, there's a lot of details... but recently I laid it all out on the table, was very upfront about everything, he didn't exactly say he wasn't interested so I took that as "I'm interested" haha... but apparently that wasn't the case.

I got drunk, don't remember what happened but I'm assuming I crossed the line because he told me to leave him alone. I wrote to him about a week later after I'd gotten over my humiliation and I apologized... he just laughed actually and told me not to worry, he tried to start conversation but I think my pride is still a little hurt, I don't really feel like making conversation with him right now. Eek.

Fun! 😛
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What's hard is as soon as you give, they ignore. Almost as if they prefer the chase over an actual relationship. I feel like these kinds of people prefer being single and would only settle if they found their king/queen.
That's the way things *should* be tho.
Yes it should, but if that's the case, don't play with people you don't want. I've always been single and haven't bother paying attention to a man unless the attraction is genuine. Anything less than a relationship feels like a waste of time imo.
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Being full of Gem and 12th house often leads to being confused over who/what you truly want/need, but my Venus in Taurus supports this message.