Aries male confusing this scorp

hey guys,
so i was just sitting here thinking about life when i realized, the past 3 guys to pursue me were all Aries. I did not like the first 2, but this last one worked his magic.
Now that I have finally showed interest in this one Aries.... he seems to be backing away 😢
he used to text me everyday, now he can go 3 days without a peep.
it's been like this for 2 weeks now and it's driving me nuts because I'd really like to get to know him more.
oh and we've been 'dating' for a month and half.
any tips? input? experiences?
thanks!

I'll be honest and say that while I am an Aries and I think we have some truly admirable traits, we have some negative ones as well (doesn't everyone) Its possible that if you gave in to his charms too easily from his perspective, he got bored. It happens and I've been guilty of that as well. Aries do like to chase, but I think that is a bit more prominent in Aries men. If I were you, I'd back away. Let him make all the moves and dont be readily available every time he calls or texts. Don't play games with him, but at the same time let him know he's not the center of your universe. Essentially, do your own thing and if he wants you, he will come for you. Sidenote: As an Aries, I was with a Scorp male for years and it can be a difficult match. Explosive arguments and jealousy. But... guess you can wait to worry about all that. Lots of luck!

Agree with tiziana and purplerain

Idk...I think any man Aries or not isn't truly interested when they pull shit like this. If a man really likes you, he will like that you like him too.

This is coming from someone who seriously dated an Aries for a while. He showed interest and never stopped even when I did in return. We eventually didn't work out for other reasons.

I dated Arie under a year. It was passionate and exciting. Frustrating too because there was lots of misunderstanding and stupid arguments between us. Initial four months was great. Afterwards it was all downhill. I know I started most of these fights because I didn't trust her. She didn't cheat or anything like that. She was too casual which didn't sit too well with me. She accused me of being too intense, overly demanding of her and her time. I still care about her though.

Posted by lovedone
tiziana

bahahahhaa

As an Aries male, I'd have to agree with the ladies here. Personally speaking, I love the chase and the more difficult it is, the harder I try. On the other hand, if the chase is quick and simple, after the "honeymoon" period ends, the relationship follows soon after.

I also tend to speak my mind so you know what's going on with me. Sometimes that gets me into trouble but oh well...We are a passionate bunch but can also be jealous as well.

Lay off the phone calls/texts for a bit if you want to reel him back in. If he's interested, you'll find out very quickly and he'll come calling even quicker. I also get bored quickly and need to be kept on my toes or just even do different things. I also tend to bring out the best in people, but that's just me. Just don't piss us off. If you do, the best advice is to let us be for a bit to calm down. If you keep pushing buttons, all we see is red and we attack.

Hope this helps...

So, when are bitches going to realize that "confusing" translates to "not that into you?"

Posted by rockyroadicecream
So, when are bitches going to realize that "confusing" translates to "not that into you?"

I know I know that's what I keep telling myself !! But it happened so suddenly, hence why I'm confused. I guess I was hoping for another answer ... Like a success story. Wishful thinker over here. Sounds like it's best to leave him be. Thnx guys

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I don't see it as either positive or negative, it just is what comes with the package. Boundaries are important. Establishing that with an Aries takes a lot of energy.

If words like cock, bitch, cunt, fuck, shit, and many others are changed to more innocent words through a profanity filter, shouldn't words like "boundaries" have the same treatment here on the Aries board?

Posted by ScorpioLaday

Posted by rockyroadicecream
So, when are bitches going to realize that "confusing" translates to "not that into you?"

I know I know that's what I keep telling myself !! But it happened so suddenly, hence why I'm confused. I guess I was hoping for another answer ... Like a success story. Wishful thinker over here. Sounds like it's best to leave him be. Thnx guys

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RRI: never and sometimes we read into things too much as well..it's like we only trust our instincts for other people's well being and ignore that same intuition with self cause we want what we want and not what is actually presented to us.

SL: yes, let go. Aries that want ppl are like fish to feed. We don't let go once the chase is on, until we are shut down harshly, exhausted in some way over time, or if we get bored..but I'm a female Aries.

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Posted by dofacc
SPOILER ALERT!!!!!!

Digression Directly Ahead

I don't see it as either positive or negative, it just is what comes with the package. Boundaries are important. Establishing that with an Aries takes a lot of energy.

If words like cock, bitch, cunt, fuck, shit, and many others are changed to more innocent words through a profanity filter, shouldn't words like "boundaries" have the same treatment here on the Aries board?

😛 but as far as I can tell most aries i know keep a boundary around themselves, true or no

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WELL!!!!

If you are going to pick apart my comments with logic and insight, I believe I will just go someplace else, huuummmmrrrrppphhhhh!!!!!

Posted by ScorpioLaday
hey guys,
so i was just sitting here thinking about life when i realized, the past 3 guys to pursue me were all Aries. I did not like the first 2, but this last one worked his magic.
Now that I have finally showed interest in this one Aries.... he seems to be backing away 😢
he used to text me everyday, now he can go 3 days without a peep.
it's been like this for 2 weeks now and it's driving me nuts because I'd really like to get to know him more.
oh and we've been 'dating' for a month and half.
any tips? input? experiences?
thanks!

I wouldn't worry about. I've been in a relationship with my aries man for almost 2 years. Going three days without calling isn't really a big deal. Especially if you're just getting to know one another. When he stops calling, then you worry. He's probably just busy..... You want to know if he's really interested? The next time he calls you, don't answer. Don't be too available. Start acting like you're not interested... And see what happens. It's all about the chase....and other things.....

Posted by tiziani

Posted by ScorpioLaday

Now that I have finally showed interest in this one Aries.... he seems to be backing away 😢

Have to say this is textbook stuff.


Not to minimize the importance of your problems of course, just saying you're not alone in this kind of behaviour.


I don't see it as either positive or negative, it just is what comes with the package. Boundaries are important. Establishing that with an Aries takes a lot of energy.

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It takes a lot of energy and patience.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by ScorpioLaday

Now that I have finally showed interest in this one Aries.... he seems to be backing away 😢

Have to say this is textbook stuff.


Not to minimize the importance of your problems of course, just saying you're not alone in this kind of behaviour.


I don't see it as either positive or negative, it just is what comes with the package. Boundaries are important. Establishing that with an Aries takes a lot of energy.

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+1000

YES! Boundaries. Something a lot of women have trouble establishing. We Aries love a challenge so this is a crucial step and snagging an Aries. And like Tiz says it takes a lot of work and has to start from the beginning of the relationship /:

Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by dofacc
SPOILER ALERT!!!!!!

Digression Directly Ahead

I don't see it as either positive or negative, it just is what comes with the package. Boundaries are important. Establishing that with an Aries takes a lot of energy.

If words like cock, bitch, cunt, fuck, shit, and many others are changed to more innocent words through a profanity filter, shouldn't words like "boundaries" have the same treatment here on the Aries board?

😛 but as far as I can tell most aries i know keep a boundary around themselves, true or no

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Such an insightful Aqua you are 😄