Aries man makes me headache . lolz

First of all, i'm new in this site 😄 and i'm sorry if my English is bad.
i have a Aries bf that i meet on social network , he works in military. As other Aries hes falling love with me so quickly, tells me how beautiful i'm, how we match together, and other sweet sugar talks, etc.
He is soo impatience , we never meet but he said he wants to make me pregnant and marry me -.-! I read all about Aries man from others experince.
As a cancer i built my wall and defense because i'm scared with strangers. But he is not give up. Until one day we actually meet after he back from deployemend. He show me a lot of affection and passionate. He said he loves me many times, kissed me, etc.
I know the Aries man's passion can goes to waste very quickly, so i tried so hard to give him space as much as he needs, i never cheated or flirting to others, never nagging or clingy, i'm a career woman i'm independent too.
Maybe because he's so tired at work so mostly i spend my time in his place bring grocery and cook for him, watching Tv when he sleep half day. Sometimes i feel so bored.. first i'm thought that Aries man like to go adventure, etc.. but mine like to sleep. He never bring me to meet his friends or walking around.
Until one time when he promised will take me to dinner friday afternoon after valentine day, i'm waiting for him but he doesn't send me email/text. I send him twice asking where is he, until he answer that tonight he will going with other workers. i'm little bit shocked but i'm still thinking maybe because Aries like to change the plan without notice so i let him go. I just feel i'm waste my time waiting for his email.
And once again , the next day (saturday) i'm waiting his email until afternoon, because he sleep. And what i get just the bad news that he will going all day but he left the key so i can stay in his place. I went there and cook like always until late night, i'm working using his computer (he let me using his stuff) and i saw he left his social networks open, and many flirting mails to other girls, and of his email is about plan meeting with the girl in other country in the next deployemend location. I'm shocked, even i already know that Aries is flirting by nature.. But i never think he will doing like that because he seems so honest and he loves me so much (or just in his mouth) i already try so many hard like people tells me how to make Aries man happy. But now i'm feel so tired..
What i supposed to do.. i Love him so much.

GGGrrrr i want to punch him. Sorry he is not worth it. You are too good to him. He has an in built cook, sex all the comforts when he so wants with you at his home. Im an Aries women we are different to the Aries man but I did live with an Aries man for 6 years. He would never have lied or been unfaithfull to me. Please dont waste your love on this man it will just be heartache for you.

Oh and if he was into you he would have taken you out to show you off to his friends. Sorry probably not what you wanted to hear but better you get out now. So sorry i know this will be soooo hard for you

Posted by NZaries
GGGrrrr i want to punch him.

Thank you NZ, you can help me punch him in his face. LOL 🙂)

i confront him , i speak really honest to him, and he little bit angry because i checked his social network (thanks GoD, to open my eyes), he said sorry if he flirting and he said he not cheating on me just flirt and he loves me, rrrrrr -.-!
Now he's on deployement , i can't break up with him now b/c i know every soldier needs mental support from his lover even i don't know if he can keep promise not to meet/sleep with other girls in locations.. but i'm really truthful to support him.

I'm just thinking maybe he still flirting to other girls because i don't want to have his baby before married.
I'm not pushed him to marry me, but he looks so hurry to have baby, maybe b/c before his ex gf has a baby from other man and it seems he really closed and love her kid. me myself really love kids. But in my culture ppl will calling me b*tch if i having baby without married even i'm already 30. lol. He said he don't want to wait until we finished all the paperworks if we want marry because it takes time,-.-! what is the different... he still have to wait 9 months before he can see his baby and for me there is no guarantee he can stop flirting or even cheating when i'm pregnant and looks fat, right?
i really really like to joint / voluntering in his military base activity so i can socialize with other military gf, but he always said what for it's not important and no big deal.

The conclusion is he is so selfish, romantic just in the first after he get it.. all the romantic will be gone. i know he like to chase but we can't run all the time (how can we be together if i should run all the time??), he like flirting but he angry if we flirting too, lazy, adventure yes but his adventure is about looking for girls, don't have any planning about future (as a cancer i have to plan all the things before i have child, because i have a responsibility with my work and my life), maybe he should work with Mr. Hefner in Playboy mansion. lol.

Thanks again, maybe my story can help others too 🙂

Aries or whatever sign, this is a guy thing and you as a woman need to look out for YOU first! Be with a guy who is true to you and makes you happy. He isn't. You didn't even date this guy and you're acting like his wife UH NOOOO, he doesn't get that so stop giving it up to him. No sex, going over to his place, cooking like a slave to his needs.
I hope you used birth control.

Find a guy in your town that you can date. You are not obligated to him at all because you're relationship it not that deep so break up with him or let it fade. You have as much choice as he does. So choose wisely and from what you've posted, this is not a wise choice.

Posted by Mistery
You are not obligated to him at all because you're relationship it not that deep so break up with him or let it fade. You have as much choice as he does. So choose wisely and from what you've posted, this is not a wise choice.

Thank you, really appreciated 🙂
i'm feel free and breath easily now , lol!
sometimes i need other people advice to make me more strong enough.