aquaglass
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Aries & Physical Stimulation
Could care less about physical appearance. We just get bored quickly. Maybe the science book u mentioned wasn't interesting. We like to have fun or just work. Try to talk about something fast paced like where he wants to go in his career. Or where does he see himself in 4 years
Posted by merakiI think that someone like him should be far from being a shitty conversationalist. His job is all about negotiation and networking with important people in gov.
Yeah, some have trouble with self-absorption which leads to being shitty conversationalists. What's his venus in?
But he has stated once that he doesn't like to talk about politics with woman he's dating.
His venus is in Gemini.
Also we are nosey in an indirect sense. Hes trying to see where u are and who you're with through the pictures since he can't be with u all day. I'd rather be with my partner in person rather than text or phone relationship.
Posted by miriyahhhAh now i see. Is that why all he did in text is just about meeting plans? Because he'd prefer us to interact in person than just texting or talking on the phone a lot?
Also we are nosey in an indirect sense. Hes trying to see where u are absolutely who you're with thriugh the pictures sense he can't be with u all day. I'd rather be with my partner in person rather than text or phone relationship.
Posted by vixen14I feel that too, it's not flowing just as i'd like it to.
Sounds like you’re not really going with the flow here. My Aries and I have wonderful and stimulating conversations that he brings up or I bring up. And we have different Mercury’s. His being Pisces and mine being in Cap.
Just stop being so rigid and loosen up a bit. It sounds like you’re trying to find faults in the relationship already.
His mercury is in Pisces and mine is in Cap too.
I am pretty rigid sometimes, i'm just not really good at small talks, you know.
Posted by aquaglassI also work a lot in a very high paced job. I hate talking on the phone. The only reason I'd call a guy or romantic other off the clock is to ask them when can I see them again and how soon.Posted by miriyahhhAh now i see. Is that why all he did in text is just about meeting plans? Because he'd prefer us to interact in person than just texting or talking on the phone a lot?
Also we are nosey in an indirect sense. Hes trying to see where u are absolutely who you're with thriugh the pictures sense he can't be with u all day. I'd rather be with my partner in person rather than text or phone relationship.click to expand
Posted by miriyahhhI got you. That sounds like him.Posted by aquaglassI also work a lot in a very high paced job. I hate talking on the phone. The only reason I'd call a guy or romantic other off the clock is to ask them when can I see them again and how soon.Posted by miriyahhhAh now i see. Is that why all he did in text is just about meeting plans? Because he'd prefer us to interact in person than just texting or talking on the phone a lot?
Also we are nosey in an indirect sense. Hes trying to see where u are absolutely who you're with thriugh the pictures sense he can't be with u all day. I'd rather be with my partner in person rather than text or phone relationship.
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The text would be just about asking where i am this weekend, should he come to my place or should he get me a plane to where he is. Very practical.
Normally this is sometimes how immature Aries can be... I will say I am naturally attracted to strong Aquarius points. I am very much into science astrology and just generally the human mind but I am also an aqua rising... and Pisces moon.
For me what you are saying is exactly how I am... I do have to be attracted but at the same time I find conversations needs to be there or I don’t feel connected.
I am an Aries sun.
That being said the Mercury retrograde is in Aries so he could have a lot going on I know I do work wise as well. It is hard because if you work hard it is nice to share it but should not be harped on... he mostly is having break through a because I know I am as well.
I ran into an Aquarius actually about 3 nights ago at a restaurant. I think she is very attractive... however she was very interested in conversation because I guessed she was a Scorpio. When she said no Aquarius I said I could see it but she had dominant Scorpio point the eye... she was confused I said full charts where other planets are placed gives an affect. I asked if she had her birth info... she did... Scorpio moon lol strong as can be just about.
She seemed really happy to talk to me though... I sent her a text the next day just saying I was golfing and so she had my number. No reply but nothing she would be interested in...
I may text her but I don’t want to be overly aggressive. I think if I mention the right subject though she will open up more.
Piscesmoon
For me what you are saying is exactly how I am... I do have to be attracted but at the same time I find conversations needs to be there or I don’t feel connected.
I am an Aries sun.
That being said the Mercury retrograde is in Aries so he could have a lot going on I know I do work wise as well. It is hard because if you work hard it is nice to share it but should not be harped on... he mostly is having break through a because I know I am as well.
I ran into an Aquarius actually about 3 nights ago at a restaurant. I think she is very attractive... however she was very interested in conversation because I guessed she was a Scorpio. When she said no Aquarius I said I could see it but she had dominant Scorpio point the eye... she was confused I said full charts where other planets are placed gives an affect. I asked if she had her birth info... she did... Scorpio moon lol strong as can be just about.
She seemed really happy to talk to me though... I sent her a text the next day just saying I was golfing and so she had my number. No reply but nothing she would be interested in...
I may text her but I don’t want to be overly aggressive. I think if I mention the right subject though she will open up more.
Piscesmoon
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.click to expand
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.
He said he can't do virtual. And I wouldn't do virtual. It would be so lame I wouldn't even waste your time. I'd actively be seeking a relationship bcz I don't take virtual relationship seriously. Either find a way to spend time with him or move on
Posted by aquaglassThat's the essence of my career as well and I am an Aries. Shit gets really real at the top. I'm not good at mindless, idle chit-chat... particularly the kind you see here on DXP when people are bored. It really irritates the shit outta me... drivel, pseudo intellectuals, etc.Posted by merakiI think that someone like him should be far from being a shitty conversationalist. His job is all about negotiation and networking with important people in gov.
Yeah, some have trouble with self-absorption which leads to being shitty conversationalists. What's his venus in?
But he has stated once that he doesn't like to talk about politics with woman he's dating.
His venus is in Gemini.click to expand
When I'm strategizing, I really don't want mental or emotional interference.
I am not stimulated sexually by what I see. I find it base and the saddest part of being human. And, I am an artist.
Be careful with that Venus in Gemini...lol. Google it.
I will also say, be careful what you lead with. You could get pigeon-holed.
Posted by aquaglassYou have a a lot of action in Capricorn... moon is there is your Venus.Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.click to expand
Aries can be a lot like the Gem88 is saying... not all are like that. There is compatibility on an energetic level but he does not understand your intulectual side. He is trying but a lot of Aries are not big readers either. He most likely did not even open it. So you may honestly be more insulted because he did not even try.
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2I find alot of men are not big readers... particularly fiction... golf, sports books, books or work-related literature, history, etc... books that cater to their paradigm.Posted by aquaglassYou have a a lot of action in Capricorn... moon is there is your Venus.Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.
Aries can be a lot like the Gem88 is saying... not all are like that. There is compatibility on an energetic level but he does not understand your intulectual side. He is trying but a lot of Aries are not big readers either. He most likely did not even open it. So you may honestly be more insulted because he did not even try.
Piscesmoon
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Chauvinist and misogynist do not care for women that read.
Posted by piscesmoon2I find alot of men are not big readers... particularly fiction... golf, sports books, books or work-related literature, history, etc... books that cater to their paradigm and are careful to avoid influence of any kind.Posted by aquaglassYou have a a lot of action in Capricorn... moon is there is your Venus.Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.
Aries can be a lot like the Gem88 is saying... not all are like that. There is compatibility on an energetic level but he does not understand your intulectual side. He is trying but a lot of Aries are not big readers either. He most likely did not even open it. So you may honestly be more insulted because he did not even try.
Piscesmoon
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Chauvinist and misogynist do not care for women that read.
Posted by aquaglassNo. Mind stimulation equally important. If it's just physical then he isn't interested. If relationship, aries want all senses to be triggered,and not investing in commitment if that's not fullfilled. I for an example love science and can talk days about it without stop, same with spirituality or anything really.
My Aries that i've been talking to is a very smart man with a very respectable position in his career, very focused on it.
He talks about himself and his job a lot.
But when it comes to me, the thing that he notices the most is my appearance and how he wants me to be just present there physically with him.
I just read a lot. I love mind stimulation. I shared a book about Science with him yesterday. His reply was pretty vague and short that makes me pretty discouraged to talk about it further, so i didn't reply to that.
But then later when i changed my profile picture on my app he would text me again quickly all excited and passionate.
It happens quite often. He would text me after few days of us not talking just to ask if i can meet him or just to ask for a photo snap.
Other than that his talk was mostly about how busy and how tough or great his meetings are.
It happens when we're in person too. For the person who said that he wanted to get to know me more, he's all about himself too much not asking me about my personal life that much and what's on my mind.
Just him, his work, meet up plans and new pics please. He said that he just want to look at me.
So Aries, do you think that visual / physical appearance stimulate you more?
Posted by aquaglassWhat happens here is that, you push your expectations and he talks down to you and reinforce dominance. Both is just wrong, or to say the least not at all compatible. You guys wasting time.
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Posted by vixen14Aries also good to detect or intuitive about your knowledge. If your knowledge is lacking even though you are passionate they will not engage in conversation because it most likely turns to disagreement and ego battles. I can tell from my own experience I do not engage unless I see that the person I talk to looking or seeking perspectives. It's not being ignorant but I most of the time spend much more time and depth into subjects than others do usually. In contrast I like yo learn and listen subjects I am completely unfamiliar with.Posted by SheeverExactly and this is why they call Aquarius rigid, cold, aloof / boring. Because majority of Aquas fail to see how they come off but expect the other to bend. It’s obvious he’s trying to please her but unless she changes her ways, he grow tired of her unrealistic demands.Posted by aquaglassWhat happens here is that, you push your expectations and he talks down to you and reinforce dominance. Both is just wrong, or to say the least not at all compatible. You guys wasting time.
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
If stimulating convos is her thing, then maybe she should date a Libra. They can talk for days about this sort of stuff.
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Sometimes not engage is coming from experience of communication. In the case of the Op the guy chemical processes dominate, not the intellectual interest.
For me both is a must. I am fussy and seeking quality in woman on all areas. Equal partner is important.
You right on aqua expectations on bending. It's very egoistic and pushing away tendency especially with aries whom clear with themselves and what they want
Posted by SheeverI am with you on this one...this is not going well.Posted by aquaglassWhat happens here is that, you push your expectations and he talks down to you and reinforce dominance. Both is just wrong, or to say the least not at all compatible. You guys wasting time.
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.click to expand
The excessive use of "baby's", constant physical thing when any conversation pops in...hummm
I am speaking for me on this one, the Intelectual connection for me when it comes to a long term relationship possibility is something way, way, way more important than the Physical one.
It's like...we have to speak, connect and understand each other on all levels or else...i don't actualy see a point...what are we going to talk\do when things *get boring* ?...
I realy love to speak with the woman i am in love with, be it any topic, any. And even if i wasn't interested in reading the book...i wold ask it if *you* had read it...and if so, to tell me everything about it. I wold listen, make questions about it and see if we had the same *view* on it...and so a conversation and a good time begins.
If you want an astrology explanation for the way that i am OP...maybe it's cuz of 3rd house Aries Sun.
Posted by IamTheRamExactly 🙂Posted by SheeverI am with you on this one...this is not going well.Posted by aquaglassWhat happens here is that, you push your expectations and he talks down to you and reinforce dominance. Both is just wrong, or to say the least not at all compatible. You guys wasting time.
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
The excessive use of "baby's", constant physical thing when any conversation pops in...hummm
I am speaking for me on this one, the Intelectual connection for me when it comes to a long term relationship possibility is something way, way, way more important than the Physical one.
It's like...we have to speak, connect and understand each other on all levels or else...i don't actualy see a point...what are we going to talk\do when things *get boring* ?...
I realy love to speak with the woman i am in love with, be it any topic, any. And even if i wasn't interested in reading the book...i wold ask it if *you* had read it...and if so, to tell me everything about it. I wold listen, make questions about it and see if we had the same *view* on it...and so a conversation and a good time begins.
If you want an astrology explanation for the way that i am OP...maybe it's cuz of 3rd house Aries Sun.click to expand
Posted by EarthgoddessHe asked for us to meet every weekends all these time. But i'm the one who couldn't meet him.
Maybe you too are just incompatible
I mean you guys haves literally no time to be with each other irl and the convos are dead 💀
I could never do ldr...I need the in person contact🤷♀️
The convo is ok when we're talking in person, though it's mostly all about him. When we're apart, well i have mentioned above how.
Posted by miriyahhhYes, apparently he couldn't do it. Well, he obviously said so. I'm too busy traveling for work and such. Plus, I actually still not pretty sure what does he really want from me. I made a thread about how i'm wondering if he only wants me for sex or what. I need to feel comfortable enough and safe enough to really spend more time with him as he always wanted me to.
He said he can't do virtual. And I wouldn't do virtual. It would be so lame I wouldn't even waste your time. I'd actively be seeking a relationship bcz I don't take virtual relationship seriously. Either find a way to spend time with him or move on
Posted by VenusAquariusI have been with venus gemini people, they're actually fun. And yes some stereotype about them being so flirtatious, social butterfly, like variety, get bored easily.Posted by aquaglassThat's the essence of my career as well and I am an Aries. Shit gets really real at the top. I'm not good at mindless, idle chit-chat... particularly the kind you see here on DXP when people are bored. It really irritates the shit outta me... drivel, pseudo intellectuals, etc.Posted by merakiI think that someone like him should be far from being a shitty conversationalist. His job is all about negotiation and networking with important people in gov.
Yeah, some have trouble with self-absorption which leads to being shitty conversationalists. What's his venus in?
But he has stated once that he doesn't like to talk about politics with woman he's dating.
His venus is in Gemini.
When I'm strategizing, I really don't want mental or emotional interference.
I am not stimulated sexually by what I see. I find it base and the saddest part of being human. And, I am an artist.
Be careful with that Venus in Gemini...lol. Google it.
I will also say, be careful what you lead with. You could get pigeon-holed.
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I even don't know why i attract Venus in Gemini people a lot, and Sag moon.
Posted by piscesmoon2He said that he hasn't read it. But said that it looks really interesting. Then i told him what i think about the book and he only replied with yes.Posted by aquaglassYou have a a lot of action in Capricorn... moon is there is your Venus.Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.
Aries can be a lot like the Gem88 is saying... not all are like that. There is compatibility on an energetic level but he does not understand your intulectual side. He is trying but a lot of Aries are not big readers either. He most likely did not even open it. So you may honestly be more insulted because he did not even try.
Piscesmoon
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Yes i do have too many Capricorn. I'm that boring person with a resting face who thinks that drinking too much and dancing all night long at the party isn't really that exciting.
I got bored with small talks. But i can talk for hours about deep topics with someone whom i connected to. That kind of convo even could make me wet, seriously.
Posted by VenusAquariusI asked him about his reading activities once. He said that's what he did a lot to get his Phd. And now that's what he does too at work. So, when he's not working he'd prefer another activities than reading.Posted by piscesmoon2I find alot of men are not big readers... particularly fiction... golf, sports books, books or work-related literature, history, etc... books that cater to their paradigm and are careful to avoid influence of any kind.Posted by aquaglassYou have a a lot of action in Capricorn... moon is there is your Venus.Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.
Aries can be a lot like the Gem88 is saying... not all are like that. There is compatibility on an energetic level but he does not understand your intulectual side. He is trying but a lot of Aries are not big readers either. He most likely did not even open it. So you may honestly be more insulted because he did not even try.
Piscesmoon
Chauvinist and misogynist do not care for women that read.
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Posted by aquaglassThree months and only an hours drive away ?Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.click to expand
Does he see other people, and do you ?
Posted by SheeverI'm bored with all his talk about how my hair looks like, how he wanted me to be there at his on weekends with sexy dress that he could hug all night, about how he needed me to send him pics instead when we couldn't meet up. It's not bad, it isn't.Posted by aquaglassWhat happens here is that, you push your expectations and he talks down to you and reinforce dominance. Both is just wrong, or to say the least not at all compatible. You guys wasting time.
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.click to expand
But if that's all he is interested in connecting with me, i wouldn't like it at all.
I brought up some topics about other things that i mentioned above, yes he was responsive. But just a few comments and done.
But, when we're in person he is that normal man talking about many things mostly about him and work but hey we talked about politics, culture, family, art, etc too. And he did ask me a lot.
Though i could see sometimes he's just there pretty shy but still being nice, nervous smiles and such.
I'm starting to feel that we're indeed incompatible in some way. I'm not going to force things that i think would not going to work out well.
Posted by TimonHe is that kind of polite man who talks carefully and in a low tone with smile. Yes i'm pissed.
Aries men are not the best listeners. They make everything about them and they are very focused on their work. I would say you have a typical aries.
His message to you seemed sweet though but you seemed pissed. 😆
Posted by IamTheRamYes, this is indeed not going well. And i told him that.Posted by SheeverI am with you on this one...this is not going well.Posted by aquaglassWhat happens here is that, you push your expectations and he talks down to you and reinforce dominance. Both is just wrong, or to say the least not at all compatible. You guys wasting time.
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
The excessive use of "baby's", constant physical thing when any conversation pops in...hummm
I am speaking for me on this one, the Intelectual connection for me when it comes to a long term relationship possibility is something way, way, way more important than the Physical one.
It's like...we have to speak, connect and understand each other on all levels or else...i don't actualy see a point...what are we going to talk\do when things *get boring* ?...
I realy love to speak with the woman i am in love with, be it any topic, any. And even if i wasn't interested in reading the book...i wold ask it if *you* had read it...and if so, to tell me everything about it. I wold listen, make questions about it and see if we had the same *view* on it...and so a conversation and a good time begins.
If you want an astrology explanation for the way that i am OP...maybe it's cuz of 3rd house Aries Sun.click to expand
He called me baby even before we met, after few weeks of us talking if i'm not mistaken.
We even isn't in relationship, and still.
I remember you were there at my 1st thread about this man and how strong he came off, the chase and how i got overwhelmed by that.
Actually that "baby" thing makes me wondering since day one he called me that, since i'm not that kind of person who calls every man i talk to with that term. I'm wondering if he is just an affectionate person in general or what.
But i kind of don't really want to too overthink about it, so i've been kind of let it be and whatever.
I agree that we have to connect in all levels, maybe not all but major things.
He told me that he feels that we can connect body, mind, soul. (Yes, body was the first part he mentioned).
So he wants to share more time together with me in person. Which i almost always refused.
I think it's pretty clear that he is upset about how i always made it hard for us to meet up in person again.
He said that he hasn't read the book, but it looks really interesting. I told him yes it is and how i describe the book then he just said with yes.
We rarely really talking about something too deep in text. If any, it'd be about how he wants me to be there with him and how he would feel.
Posted by aquaglassThe baby thing...humm...when it comes of to soon, and most of the time, it's just "what *he* calls every other woman".Posted by IamTheRamYes, this is indeed not going well. And i told him that.Posted by SheeverI am with you on this one...this is not going well.Posted by aquaglassWhat happens here is that, you push your expectations and he talks down to you and reinforce dominance. Both is just wrong, or to say the least not at all compatible. You guys wasting time.
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
The excessive use of "baby's", constant physical thing when any conversation pops in...hummm
I am speaking for me on this one, the Intelectual connection for me when it comes to a long term relationship possibility is something way, way, way more important than the Physical one.
It's like...we have to speak, connect and understand each other on all levels or else...i don't actualy see a point...what are we going to talk\do when things *get boring* ?...
I realy love to speak with the woman i am in love with, be it any topic, any. And even if i wasn't interested in reading the book...i wold ask it if *you* had read it...and if so, to tell me everything about it. I wold listen, make questions about it and see if we had the same *view* on it...and so a conversation and a good time begins.
If you want an astrology explanation for the way that i am OP...maybe it's cuz of 3rd house Aries Sun.
He called me baby even before we met, after few weeks of us talking if i'm not mistaken.
We even isn't in relationship, and still.
I remember you were there at my 1st thread about this man and how strong he came off, the chase and how i got overwhelmed by that.
Actually that "baby" thing makes me wondering since day one he called me that, since i'm not that kind of person who calls every man i talk to with that term. I'm wondering if he is just an affectionate person in general or what.
But i kind of don't really want to too overthink about it, so i've been kind of let it be and whatever.
I agree that we have to connect in all levels, maybe not all but major things.
He told me that he feels that we can connect body, mind, soul. (Yes, body was the first part he mentioned).
So he wants to share more time together with me in person. Which i almost always refused.
I think it's pretty clear that he is upset about how i always made it hard for us to meet up in person again.
He said that he hasn't read the book, but it looks really interesting. I told him yes it is and how i describe the book then he just said with yes.
We rarely really talking about something too deep in text. If any, it'd be about how he wants me to be there with him and how he would feel.
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An affectionate Aries will most likely invent a few (...a lot...lol) of *nicknames* just for you.
But maybe it's just the way he is...don't give it 2 much thought about it.
Connecting in all levels doesn't mean agreeing with every thing that the other one is saying, and if that actualy happened it wold be a bore fest. You actualy want to share diferent ideas and thoughts so both can grow and learn with each other.
It's more like.."hey i am talking to you now, because i want to share this with you, so you *better* listen to me" ^^
I dunno...it seems he is someone when he is with you in person and another one when texting...maybe it's just the way he is...
As for him wanting to always be with you and that body thing...hmm...it seems that atm he is more *interested* in that, than rather in you as a person.
How you can change that..2 ways..either give into to him and see how it goes (could backfire..)...or keep rejecting him (could backfire...but you will save headaches)...make him see that he can't have one without the other because that's not what you are interested in.
Posted by VenusAquariusewww i hate that type of man. i love a man who encourages me to read. (i married one who encourages that) his mother has a library of books too.Posted by piscesmoon2I find alot of men are not big readers... particularly fiction... golf, sports books, books or work-related literature, history, etc... books that cater to their paradigm.Posted by aquaglassYou have a a lot of action in Capricorn... moon is there is your Venus.Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.
Aries can be a lot like the Gem88 is saying... not all are like that. There is compatibility on an energetic level but he does not understand your intulectual side. He is trying but a lot of Aries are not big readers either. He most likely did not even open it. So you may honestly be more insulted because he did not even try.
Piscesmoon
Chauvinist and misogynist do not care for women that read.
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Posted by vixen14I might be a bore. And yes i know i can be boring sometimes.
No offense OP but you might come off as a bore. So the Aries isn’t responding because he doesn’t feel that need to / connection.
I also noticed you’re looking at it much more from your angel than his. So at this point, find someone who’s a bit more stimulating than passionate.
But i got bored too of how things that he only talked about. It were just small talks, commenting on my physical looks and "hey can we meet this weekend?"s.
When we're in person it's all about him, i'd be there listening to all his rant about how tough his job and such. Yes he is asking me things but you know it's only generic stuff.
I have my right to feel bored by those shits too. I want to connect with him more.
But yes, we maybe just too different. And i won't force things if it's not going to work.
Posted by Impulsv😉
He sounds like self absorbed bore
Posted by MyStarsShineYes. And it also took 3 months for us to meet in person for the first time.Posted by aquaglassThree months and only an hours drive away ?Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.
Does he see other people, and do you ?click to expand
I'm the one who couldn't meet up with him much. And he always be the one who asked me to meet up every week, for almost 7-8 months now.
I don't know about him. But i'm not seeing other people, talking to other guys yes but nothing more.
Posted by IamTheRamYes, exactly. I don't think i'd just give into him that easily. Not because i'm playing hard to get or such. It's just because i need to feel comfortable with him more to really share more.Posted by aquaglassThe baby thing...humm...when it comes of to soon, and most of the time, it's just "what *he* calls every other woman".Posted by IamTheRamYes, this is indeed not going well. And i told him that.Posted by SheeverI am with you on this one...this is not going well.Posted by aquaglassWhat happens here is that, you push your expectations and he talks down to you and reinforce dominance. Both is just wrong, or to say the least not at all compatible. You guys wasting time.
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
The excessive use of "baby's", constant physical thing when any conversation pops in...hummm
I am speaking for me on this one, the Intelectual connection for me when it comes to a long term relationship possibility is something way, way, way more important than the Physical one.
It's like...we have to speak, connect and understand each other on all levels or else...i don't actualy see a point...what are we going to talk\do when things *get boring* ?...
I realy love to speak with the woman i am in love with, be it any topic, any. And even if i wasn't interested in reading the book...i wold ask it if *you* had read it...and if so, to tell me everything about it. I wold listen, make questions about it and see if we had the same *view* on it...and so a conversation and a good time begins.
If you want an astrology explanation for the way that i am OP...maybe it's cuz of 3rd house Aries Sun.
He called me baby even before we met, after few weeks of us talking if i'm not mistaken.
We even isn't in relationship, and still.
I remember you were there at my 1st thread about this man and how strong he came off, the chase and how i got overwhelmed by that.
Actually that "baby" thing makes me wondering since day one he called me that, since i'm not that kind of person who calls every man i talk to with that term. I'm wondering if he is just an affectionate person in general or what.
But i kind of don't really want to too overthink about it, so i've been kind of let it be and whatever.
I agree that we have to connect in all levels, maybe not all but major things.
He told me that he feels that we can connect body, mind, soul. (Yes, body was the first part he mentioned).
So he wants to share more time together with me in person. Which i almost always refused.
I think it's pretty clear that he is upset about how i always made it hard for us to meet up in person again.
He said that he hasn't read the book, but it looks really interesting. I told him yes it is and how i describe the book then he just said with yes.
We rarely really talking about something too deep in text. If any, it'd be about how he wants me to be there with him and how he would feel.
An affectionate Aries will most likely invent a few (...a lot...lol) of *nicknames* just for you.
But maybe it's just the way he is...don't give it 2 much thought about it.
Connecting in all levels doesn't mean agreeing with every thing that the other one is saying, and if that actualy happened it wold be a bore fest. You actualy want to share diferent ideas and thoughts so both can grow and learn with each other.
It's more like.."hey i am talking to you now, because i want to share this with you, so you *better* listen to me" ^^
I dunno...it seems he is someone when he is with you in person and another one when texting...maybe it's just the way he is...
As for him wanting to always be with you and that body thing...hmm...it seems that atm he is more *interested* in that, than rather in you as a person.
How you can change that..2 ways..either give into to him and see how it goes (could backfire..)...or keep rejecting him (could backfire...but you will save headaches)...make him see that he can't have one without the other because that's not what you are interested in.click to expand
So i'd more likely keep refusing it if things still going this way.
Posted by lisabethur8Haha yes! Me too, men who read are sexy.Posted by VenusAquariusewww i hate that type of man. i love a man who encourages me to read. (i married one who encourages that) his mother has a library of books too.Posted by piscesmoon2I find alot of men are not big readers... particularly fiction... golf, sports books, books or work-related literature, history, etc... books that cater to their paradigm.Posted by aquaglassYou have a a lot of action in Capricorn... moon is there is your Venus.Posted by WittyGem88Not really in LDR, just an hour drive. But we both traveling a lot for work and busy with our career.Posted by aquaglassYou in LDR too? Whooooaaaaaaa
UPDATE
Eff it i'm pissed.
He just replied my conversation starter about the book and how i describe it with only one word "yes".
So this is our next "conversation" :
Me : "Oh what a conversation. Super awkward."
Him : "Do you think so, sweetheart?"
Me : "Yes, this is not working"
Him : "It's inevitably going to get awkward if we continue only virtually..."
Me : "How could we have a comfortable silence in person when we couldn't even have a nice flowing conversation about things from a far? That's it to me."
Him : "We have it for a long time baby, It will be one year not too far from now. At some point we need to start sharing otherwise it's impossible. Maybe I am old fashioned but that's pretty clear to me"
And yes, it has been 3 months since our last meeting in person. What he meant by sharing is having time together in person.
Though he asked me every single week to meet up on weekends. Yet, i always couldn't make it.
Aries can be a lot like the Gem88 is saying... not all are like that. There is compatibility on an energetic level but he does not understand your intulectual side. He is trying but a lot of Aries are not big readers either. He most likely did not even open it. So you may honestly be more insulted because he did not even try.
Piscesmoon
Chauvinist and misogynist do not care for women that read.
click to expand
I know that this Aries is reading too, maybe much. But probably it's not really something that he would really care to share with me.
Your Scorpio is great, no wonder you married him and enjoy it.
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