Aries Sun/Cancer Moon...The Third Personality

First and foremost allow me to thank Tasha for the ideal for this topic...Thanks love 🙂 and great theory "The Third Personality" loving it!

A brief introduction...We are a very special group of people ( FA85 is the only other person that I know of on this board so far that also has the fire and water connection ) that has, what Tasha has coined, the 3rd Personality. What is it you ask?...well let me explain. When two opposing forces gather on a battle field, in our case Aries/Cancer...Fire/Water, war is inevitable. Sometimes the heat from the flame is so intense that it boils all the water out of the pan. Soon it begins radiating a bright red light, the flame engulfs the pan, destroying it completely. Other times an unexpected flow of water occurs, it spills over the top dousing the flame below, leaving nothing behind, not even the kenneling used by the flame spared.

This is the battle that rages within me.

Hi there - nice to have you. I'm a triple Aries, as I like to call it, Sun/Moon/Venus but I'm dating a guy with a Cancer moon (Sag sun).

Q: How does your moon affect you? Do you get your feelings hurt easily?

To be honest it's a lot more than just hurt...it goes really deep, especially if it is by someone I truly love. In the same instance but reversed ( if it's me that has hurt someone...it's apart of me that says " this is what happens when you play with fire, your mother should have told you this!!!" ( Aries )

OR

I can actually "feel" the pain that I have caused someone and it reaches so deep within me, that it's hard to bare sometimes. ( Cancer )I recently told someone of a defense mechanism that I used to protect myself...basically it's the equivalent of hiding in ones shell...you see the conflict...

I don't consider...I conquer. I blaze into battle, sword drawn and screaming with ecstasy ( Aries )

I won't attempt to conquer unless I know what I'm getting is worth the battle...and it (Hoover) well better be!!! ( Cancer )

Posted by .Tasha.
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cute... 🙂🙂🙂

one of my many nicknames ( that in itself should clue you in about my many moods ) is Sybil. The name comes from an old movie with the same title played by Sally Field. She played a girl with multiple personalities.

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"When it starts it's like a flame that burns, I want to always be around someone cause I have a burning passion for them, when and if feelings develop,they are hard to get away from if I really like the person." - FA85

We are truly daughters of the Shadows of the Night. ( Pat Benatar Song )

Raging reaches her hand out in kinship and understanding


"I am very well capable of using someone too. If I don't like you I will let you know, it doesn't bother me to hurt one's feelings (aries) yet if someone I care about hurts me I feel like I am in the deepest black hole, and no matter how hard I try I can't get out (cancer)." - FA85

I experienced a really traumatic event in my early years that I could literally feel the doors within my mind close one by one until I was left in complete darkness, alone and scared...cut off from the rest of the world. I stayed that way for a long time, isolated in loneliness, surrounded by dispar ( Cancer ). But my outward appearance was strong and fierce...a force only a fool would mess with ( Aries )

Remembering the darkness Raging begins to shiver from the coldness of isolation...reaches for the light switch...there, light enters the room.

"My mind digs and digs for reasons to let go, but can't, if I truly loved...which has only been once. It took my as $ 9 long years to get over the person I truly loved, now a lot of people would call that psycho, I call it truly loving another" - FA85

Try 13 years and still counting!!!

Raging looks around to make sure no one is looking at what she is typing...coast is clear

"I dunno if that made any sense at all, I don't even make sense to myself!! I look very strong on the outside, but my pain runs very deep and I won't ever show anyone, I have to much pride for that!!" - FA85

FA85 that pride of ours really acts more like an anchor, keeping our emotions and deep feelings right where they are supposed to be buried deep below the surface. I have literally mastered the art of hide and seek at your own peril.

I'm sorry your suffering, if there is anything that I can do let me know ok...
Raging sends lots of hugs to FA85

Maybe it's the commonality of personalities that has attracted you to him. There could be a similar physical attribute that reminds you of your former lover, any number of similar characteristics that has attracted you to this man and the fact that he's an Agua also ( my rising sign by the way ) just ( in my opinion ) speaks to the type of men you are attracted to.

Now being in a dark hole of emotions with him...just remember that no matter how deep you go, you'll always have a lifeline and friends that will be there for you when you need them...me too🙂

The comment about getting laid...I'm not touching that one with a ten foot pole!!!🙂

everyone is welcome to join in this topic...were trying to find out if other people with our combination experience that conflict that we do. Any insight that you have to offer is welcome AA, nice to hear from you again. 🙂

you too suffer in silence...😢

Raging sends hugs to AA 🙂

I hate to lose control over my emotions in front of people...it makes me "feel" weak and vulnerable. Then I get mad for allowing the person to get to me.

Raging draws sword and shield in hand, stands ground, ready to conquer...🙂

I think and this is just my opinion, that any conflicting elements will cause some sort of rift within the person. As for me having Aries as my sun sign ( outgoing, courageous, spontaneous and fearless ) constantly conflicts with logic and reasoning ( Cancer )...foreign words for sure...alien in fact. An Aries that actually thinks things through first ( trust me not all the time )before making a move—

Posted by Astrological Aftermath
i have to agree with water engulfing the pan comment raging, sometimes i'm confident, most times i'm fucking depressed 😢 oh well... theres positives,

Could you elaborate on the positives of having Cancer, in your case rising. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that having Cancer in our chart is wrong or bad ( any Cancers reading this please don't take offense 🙂 ), it's just that the push and pulling gets tired sometimes and the constant battle is emotionally draining. I guess what I'm trying to say is...how do you make them work for you in a positive way and not against you in a negative way.

Posted by Astrological Aftermath
i hope i made sense

I tend to agree with with you on that point. One positive is my intuition, if I choose to listen to it that is...but that Aries in me almost always chooses not to listen to it and that's when things tend to go haywire.

Posted by Juan Moore-Beer2
i am deeply emotional and affectionate however nobody knows because i never show. well, all right 2 people in the entire world.

yes, quite a different person on the surface -> defence mechanism/Aries.

It's like one part of you ( Aries ) just begs for some really stupid person to say something so irritating that you will pounce like a Lion and verbally rip them to shreds, while at that same time it's like another part of you feels remorse for even thinking that...

Right now, I'm in one of my dark days, lights off, curtains drawn and highly emotional... ( Cancer ) watching Casablanca, with Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman..

Posted by FireyAries85
I am sorry! Let's get you some ice...

Priceless...love it! 🙂 🙂 🙂

Posted by Astrological Aftermath
sun aries cancer rising count? or does it have to be moon?

I was just about to ask that. I'm more emotional than what I'd like to be.

I just saw this post and joined. 26male. Sun in Aries and cancer moon. My emotions can change in the snap of fingers for whatever that means to you. When channeled in intuitievely sensitive like bursting into the fifth dimension..I can't really put words on it and if the words Im using don't stick with you forget I mentioned it. Anyways I'm glad there's a discussion here like this and wanted to thank you all. I like what you shared.

What do you think about Cancer sun sign/Aries Moon?

Anyone have that placement.

I'm just curious, I am a aries sun sign/taurus moon, but someone I know is the opposite to what you have been discussing and I am wondering if you have any insights into it🙂

Personally, I haven't met any Cancer sun/Aries moon people but I would love to have them come and join this discussion and offer any insights that could be of help. GemFox wrote a really good post about Aries sun/ Cancer moon placements I wonder if she has any insight into the opposite? Great question cheeky14u

I-am-now, welcome to the discussion I think I understand what you are trying to say but if I'm wrong please explain...

You can "feel" people emotionally, reading them is as easily done as reading this post. If I may add, you can also get a glimpse of things to come, albeit from "feeling it or just sensing it" you can pretty much surmise the outcome before it happens just from the vibe of the situation.

like I said earlier, if I'm wrong please try to explain.

Rage

Hi all!! I just did an internet search for Cancer Sun/Aries Moon and I found this thread. That's me, Cancer Sun, Aries Moon, Cancer ascending! I can totally identify with some of the posts I've seen here so far. I'm constantly at war with myself, angry and fiery one moment and sulky and sad the next. Ahhh, the life of a water & fire child!

lease someone give me a helping hand...my bfriend is an aries, with leo moon and cancer ascenbdat...how messed up can that be—
he can be the most arrogant bastard, he will simple refuse to express his feelings and he will sulk for the most unbelivable reasons...then he wont stop calling and keeping tabs, when we together i can feel in his touch that he is the sweetest thing...but he will use all the opportunities that he has that he could be sweet, to be harsh and cold!!!

i dont get it😢

Sup everyone.
I only just found out that my moon sign is Cancer, making my placement Aries Sun/Cancer moon. From reading the posts on here, I can definitely relate to certain parts. Still not over my ex, and it's been almost 2 years since we've broken up. I think of myself as a really fucked up, deep person, no one ever knows that side of me. After being hurt from a relationship, I've moved onto having rather bad trust issues; I don't get close to anyone and I don't ever want to be understood. I don't like relying on anyone but myself. I have huge dreams and aspirations and the intelligence/power to do these things, but then I'm extremely lazy and I procrastinate a LOT. I'm doing it right now, haha!

What a retarded mix. :s

I can't really comment because my moon is in taurus but my mars is in cancer and mind often feels very unstable and scatterd when i get to the point where i cant identify my with emoitions and separate fact from fiction i think this is what makes me so sensitive to myself and others i sometimes can feel comsumed with other peoples pain... its really weird.

sorry i couldnt be of more help. Your placements sound interesting.

I don't have a Cancer moon but my chart is fire/water. It took a while for the water to come out as I always tried to suppress it until I matured a bit. We Aries hate to show weakness. Now, water is playing a bigger part in my life. After showing my more sensitive side when horrible circumstances forced the issue, I got the support & love I needed and realized I was acting like a 'normal' person with emotions. It mellowed me out and made me aware that I need to share things with other people. That I can't handle everything on my own. It's not weakness, it's being a human being and it makes your life better to ask for help, share difficult issues with those who care. In turn, it's made me a more balanced & happier person.

Posted by Mistery
I don't have a Cancer moon but my chart is fire/water. It took a while for the water to come out as I always tried to suppress it until I matured a bit. We Aries hate to show weakness. Now, water is playing a bigger part in my life. After showing my more sensitive side when horrible circumstances forced the issue, I got the support & love I needed and realized I was acting like a 'normal' person with emotions. It mellowed me out and made me aware that I need to share things with other people. That I can't handle everything on my own. It's not weakness, it's being a human being and it makes your life better to ask for help, share difficult issues with those who care. In turn, it's made me a more balanced & happier person.

I totally agree with that! it can be so hard.

I do have a few water placements. Id rarther be vunrable and get hurt than to be isolated and have a sense of false happiness and also can lead to major mental problems in the long run. I've always been sensitive towards others but have only just learned to be sensitive towards myself as well.

Hello everyone, I Just read this topic and I'm and Cancer sun/ Sag moon and Sag rising.

This can be conflicting at times, at one moment I can be all sensitive, touchy and moody AND the next moment (most of the time I can be assertive, confident, very sociable, friendly. I sometimes find myself more Sag than Cancer
I will be very friendly to you but the minute you cross me............OMG!!! WATCH THE F OUT. LOL especially when I know I'm right!

Anyway.......

I'm kinda interested in this guy a Aries sun/Cancer moon......we seem to connect and we've not known each other long and we just connect....I hope its his Cancer moon positively aspecting my Cancer sun

and his Mercury is in Pisces (water)
and my Mercury is in Cancer (water)

But I don't know his rising sign......

hi there - so happy to have found my true home.... the Aries with Cancer Moon support group.

I am also the proud owner of a Cancer ascendent. It has only been very recently that I have found out about having Cancer and it does explain why I have spent my whole life wondering why I care so much when I am supposed to be this fiery, rip snorting, don't care, love em and leave em Arian. It explains why people do the nastiest lowest things to me and instead of butting them to death with my horns, I ask "why did they do that - I didn't do anything to hurt them" and it really throws me. At least I now know why I do that and can override the need to find out what I did wrong (when I know deep down inside that I didn't do anything wrong.) Disturbing though it was to find out about my Cancer influences (no disrespect meant to any Cancerian readers) I think I actually felt a huge wave of relief that I was not bi-polar or something.

I am trying to make friends with my Cancer moon and ascendent and welcome them into my Aries world, but they are going to have to buckle in for a wild ride now that I know what is going on!

peace everyone - have a great weekend xxReally

sorry - in my excitement I forgot to add a message for Pretty713...
You said you just "connected" with your Aries/Cancer moon guy. That's how it is for me.Snap. Straightaway. This is it.
And he will be loyal and devoted and sensational in bed. You struck it lucky babe. Be good to him.

Well we really can't date cause we are in the Military and I'm a higher rank/grade than he is......but he's been in far longer than me. Anyway we click and I like it.....but honestly I'm afraid of him being an Aries.....though I'm double Sag I still get hurt because of my cancer and Aries can be tooooo confrontational.....but I usually see this in all of my close Aries females (mom, best friend, sister)....lol

Oh Pretty713 - I hear your pain!! we need a miliary section here.
Don't suppose you can get him to fire up and be promoted?
I know quite a few mil couples - it seems a bit rough that you are unable to "engage". Would your department support you if you were in an actual relationship? Or is it a total no go zone?
Don't be afraid of his Aries-ness. I kind of had a blowout with a close, close GF who is a Sag. We were both going though our own personal hells at the time, but she didn't tell me the full story of what was happening to her, she just kind of went a bit snappy and weird and was not being the supportive friend that I had been to her over the years, so I got jack of that and kind of shut her out a bit. If I had pried into her situation a bit more (we don't generally like to pry) she may have opened up, but previously she had never held anything back so I was in unchartered territory... if she had only let me know...

So learn from our mistakes! Tell him everything - spill your guts. A good Aries will never tell a secret of yours. Just lay it on him. Always. We are tough, we can take it. Sometimes I think Saggs might not want to seem vulnerable by talking about stuff, your Aries will admire you for it. At the very least you should be great friends and Rams always look after our friends. You shouldn't have many confrontations with your Ram, we would do anything to avoid it if possible. A confrontation would be a last resort thing. And the energies in a sister/mom Aries would be vastly different to a soldierly Aries who thinks you are hot stuff! Go forth and fraternise if at all possible.

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Oh Pretty713 - I hear your pain!! we need a miliary section here.
Don't suppose you can get him to fire up and be promoted?
I know quite a few mil couples - it seems a bit rough that you are unable to "engage". Would your department support you if you were in an actual relationship? Or is it a total no go zone?
Don't be afraid of his Aries-ness. I kind of had a blowout with a close, close GF who is a Sag. We were both going though our own personal hells at the time, but she didn't tell me the full story of what was happening to her, she just kind of went a bit snappy and weird and was not being the supportive friend that I had been to her over the years, so I got jack of that and kind of shut her out a bit. If I had pried into her situation a bit more (we don't generally like to pry) she may have opened up, but previously she had never held anything back so I was in unchartered territory... if she had only let me know...

So learn from our mistakes! Tell him everything - spill your guts. A good Aries will never tell a secret of yours. Just lay it on him. Always. We are tough, we can take it. Sometimes I think Saggs might not want to seem vulnerable by talking about stuff, your Aries will admire you for it. At the very least you should be great friends and Rams always look after our friends. You shouldn't have many confrontations with your Ram, we would do anything to avoid it if possible. A confrontation would be a last resort thing. And the energies in a sister/mom Aries would be vastly different to a soldierly Aries who thinks you are hot stuff! Go forth and fraternise if at all possible.

Lol yeah I saw him today, and I had a problem today and he went out of his way to help me. We really seem to click and I know its because Im a Cancer and his moon is in cancer. He is an Aries and my moon is in a Fire sign Saggi. He really helped me today and when we talk its so smooth....and I can tell when I come around he truly glides his way to me. Its crazy cause we cannot ever date. Military dont play that...lol. And he does not have enough B.A. in order to become an Officer.

Ok then, we have to get him a degree.

hello! I'm Aries sun with cancer moon too! Got many problems in love and life but I never stopped. I was very glad to find this forum here! I was in love with a Virgo guy and I had to!!{had to},I didn't want to! but I had to leave him and move on. But call it a co-incidence or fate !! I have started liking another Virgo. the earlier one's birthdate was 15 sep this one's is 12 sept!!

If anyone with my combination has fallen in love with a Virgo ! I wud be glad to hear!from u!!

I see it has been a few months since the last post. I am also an Aries native with a cancer moon. Let me know if anyone is still out there. Don't want type a lot if no one's there to see it!!

Well here is a update. Me and the guy off and on. We got REAL CLOSE for a while...planning trips and such. And then he got REAL DISTANT on me. And every time I confront him on it he would coward away more. I felt like he was seeing other ppl and was NOT being honest about it. Then things with his fathers health got worse and work got intense for him and we stop talking all together. I was hurt. Over the last few days he has come back around apologizing for being distant, and I have been with him at the hospital with his father twice, just for support and to talk.

Aries sun/Cancer moon i thought in Sept would be great for me.....Cancer sun/Sag moon
But I don't know anymore.......

I am also an Aries with a Cancer moon. It is horrible. My boyfriend thinks I am nuts as we have been back and forth several times. I am a very detailed person and know what I want. i can be super blunt. As you stated above I can be rather sensitive when hurt. My now ex says I am hypersensitive. He is the only person I feel who can hurt me to the core. I wonder how many of us Aries with Cancer moons have smooth sailing relationships. I sware the one I was in was so up and down i was awful. I wonder if it's my cancer moon. I am totally connected to other peoples emotions. It bothers me as I know what people think and when something is up or when someone is hiding something. I caught my ex in a few lies and he was like how did you know that — Can't explain I just know. You guys the same way. I heard many cancer moons can be very psychic. Just wanted to know if you guys are this way as well.

WOW! Guys...this is some pretty serious stuff! I also have aries sun with cancer moon and boy does it get intense!!! Some of yous mentioned about a burning feeling? wow! I got that feeling just from reading ur post's! The burning i get comes from within my chest and i can almost feel it in my back. I dont know exactly where its coming from but its certianly there. It makes me feel as if I have to tell everyone how i feel...or like i have to sing or something...ts a bit ridclius really but i cant help it! : /
I also have to tell the trth all the time otherwise i dont feel as if im being honest, Im not saying that I would say something to hurt anyones feeling, no way...I hate doing that, in fact i cant! If i hurt anyone i feel like i crumble...as if my feelings have been crumpled up like a piece of paper...does this sound like anyone else? T be honest I feel things and I dont even know what it is that im feeling most of the time...its horrible. But for example if someone askes me about my job I would honestly tell them how i feel about it.
Sweatpea7733 mentioned abot being able to read people, I get that too!...I can just look at someone and pretty much tell u what they are about, its a bit like having a laser eye...when i speak to people about their relationship for example...I pretty much no what is gonna happen...its really weird! I can spot a lier a mile away and if someone is a bit dodgy they get sussed ot straight away...so ppl like that tend to stay away from me because they no I have already clicked on to what they are about befor they have even hardly said hello.

Well guys I honestly thought I was the only one who felt like this, I am so happy to know that their are others out there who feel these strong emotions...love and peace xx

Posted by fragm3nt3d_mind
lease someone give me a helping hand...my bfriend is an aries, with leo moon and cancer ascenbdat...how messed up can that be—
he can be the most arrogant bastard, he will simple refuse to express his feelings and he will sulk for the most unbelivable reasons...then he wont stop calling and keeping tabs, when we together i can feel in his touch that he is the sweetest thing...but he will use all the opportunities that he has that he could be sweet, to be harsh and cold!!!

i dont get it😢

ohhh godd my ex gf has the same exact placementss aka horriblee!! She would say horribleee thingsss but then feel bad about ittt but then continue to do it, so egotisticall but then can be the nicest giving personn.. ahahha it was nuts!

Posted by AmenRa
WOW! Guys...this is some pretty serious stuff! I also have aries sun with cancer moon and boy does it get intense!!! Some of yous mentioned about a burning feeling? wow! I got that feeling just from reading ur post's! The burning i get comes from within my chest and i can almost feel it in my back. I dont know exactly where its coming from but its certianly there. It makes me feel as if I have to tell everyone how i feel...or like i have to sing or something...ts a bit ridclius really but i cant help it! : /
I also have to tell the trth all the time otherwise i dont feel as if im being honest, Im not saying that I would say something to hurt anyones feeling, no way...I hate doing that, in fact i cant! If i hurt anyone i feel like i crumble...as if my feelings have been crumpled up like a piece of paper...does this sound like anyone else? T be honest I feel things and I dont even know what it is that im feeling most of the time...its horrible. But for example if someone askes me about my job I would honestly tell them how i feel about it.
Sweatpea7733 mentioned abot being able to read people, I get that too!...I can just look at someone and pretty much tell u what they are about, its a bit like having a laser eye...when i speak to people about their relationship for example...I pretty much no what is gonna happen...its really weird! I can spot a lier a mile away and if someone is a bit dodgy they get sussed ot straight away...so ppl like that tend to stay away from me because they no I have already clicked on to what they are about befor they have even hardly said hello.

Well guys I honestly thought I was the only one who felt like this, I am so happy to know that their are others out there who feel these strong emotions...love and peace xx

I couldn't hurt anyone I loved. It would kill me. Seriously.
And when someone who loved me (correction, SAID he loved me. Fkg Gemini) did something heinous to me and I just crumbled to little pieces. Thankfully my Maxwell Smart doors are shutting that out for me. The Prick.

On reading people, I notice that in an argument I can see and understand the other person's viewpoint so when they do not extend to me the same courtesy it floors me completely. Don't know how else to describe it. Frustrates the hell out of me.

And lying...well I always thought I was just being lazy because if I tell the truth I don't

have to keep remembering the lie! But I encounter a lot of trouble in life because people expect other people to lie cheat and steal and just refuse to comprehend that I might actually be telling the truth.Shits me something fierce.

Ok, I think I need a muscle relaxant now.

I'm SO excited I found this! I'm not alone!!! I just recently discovered I was a moon in Cancer and it made so much sense. Then I read a lot of the comments on here and feel right at home. Raging Moon- I find that trusting your psychic abilities will get you FAR, but remember you are also a warrior and can protect yourself. The one thing I have found to help "calm" me if you will, is lots of exercise and as silly as it sounds sex. It gets out the Aries energy, and I try to meditate a lot to get the Cancer "crazy" in tune.
Anybody else have any ideas. It's we are the true multi personalities.

I have Cancer Rising Aries Sun Cancer moon! Would luv to chat with anyone with similar placements! Please message me!

**bumping**

for Peanutbutter

*feels speshal* 😛 thanks dude!

Nice to see that this topic is still around. Just began to revisit this site after a long, long break.

Raging Moon, are you me—? Its like im reading what im saying. R u sure your not me somewhere else on this planet— This feels crazy but, well, im lost for words, you posted loads and im with you on all of them. Im cancer and was with aries, youve took the words right out of my mouth and the feelings you say are just so spot on. Where are you.......

I have moon in Aries Sun/Pisces moon this placement is even worse, my emotions run really, really deep. I am sensitive as hell. I don't show it but get hurt easily, i soak up emotions of others around me and how they are feeling. An need to take time out to recharge.

Just went through one of my emotional outbursts in a text to an Aries with Cancer Moon (who once months ago randomly told me "I don't love you. I want to, but I don't. I have to go with my instinct with these things", but we still talk frequently and he gets sexual in conversations at times. We've had times in the past he came over purely to cuddle without sex). Thinking of that time months ago of what he said, I sent him a random message saying, "I know you don't lovelove me, but how are you?". This made him call me immediately (but I missed the call), he sounded thrown off in the voicemail saying, "YEAH, I love you girl! But..... (then he listed everything he has to do this week)". I didn't hear the message and just called him back immediately where even then he reconfirmed twice by saying, I love you, girl! To which I responded back, I love you, too! (Might have said it too lightly!) Now, I'm wondering if he was saying it to pacify me or if he really does... he was like, that was an aggressive text and I had to amend the situation. Did I amend it? From a Sun in Aries, Moon in Cancer perspective, what are your guys thoughts?

can't believe I just wrote a fricken paragraph answer for this and it didn't post

Another Aries Sun, Cancer Moon checking in.
Now a few things start making sense....after reading about my moon side.
Everything that defines an Aries, thats me! With the good and the bad. And I deal well with it. I can control my impulse and aggressiveness.
But my emotions! Ahhhh this is something I don't like in me. It is like Im over sensitive. And that to me is a limitation and something I didn't learn how to control yet. i mean, I might not show you, but inside I feel things very deeply.
So this to me didn't make much sense. Thought we Aries were some tough cookies 🙂 But now I get it, its the Cancer Moon.
Does anyone want to swap moons?! 😉

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Posted by CoolAries

But my emotions! Ahhhh this is something I don't like in me. It is like Im over sensitive. And that to me is a limitation and something I didn't learn how to control yet. i mean, I might not show you, but inside I feel things very deeply

Think about when your emotions of things are in line with your thinking and how you feel. I read a little bit on Sun in Aries, Moon in Cancer and one thing that stuck out in the descriptions was the potential that becomes actual when we are more comfortable with our emotions and drive.

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Thats interesting... How one gets there seems to me a bit more challenging.
I've learned how to control my temper a bit, so Im not so blunt and aggressive(unless you really push me!). I used to say anything that was coming to my head, no filter...and I ended up hurting people. Even if I was right. So now I put a break on myself. More often then not, I stop and think and sometimes give myself a few days to calm down before I react. For example: before having a conversation or sending an email, if I feel mad or upset, I write it down first. Next day I read it and Ouch...it sounds harsh. So I re write again and Im thankful I didn't send it out the day before 😄

But this Cancer Moon, this emotional side is sometimes too overwhelming. It seems impossible to rationalize emotions but I still need to find a way not to feel so much, or so deeply.
Making any sense? Probably not 🙂

Posted by CoolAries

Posted by isidhu5

Posted by CoolAries

But my emotions! Ahhhh this is something I don't like in me. It is like Im over sensitive. And that to me is a limitation and something I didn't learn how to control yet. i mean, I might not show you, but inside I feel things very deeply

Think about when your emotions of things are in line with your thinking and how you feel. I read a little bit on Sun in Aries, Moon in Cancer and one thing that stuck out in the descriptions was the potential that becomes actual when we are more comfortable with our emotions and drive.

Thats interesting... How one gets there seems to me a bit more challenging.
I've learned how to control my temper a bit, so Im not so blunt and aggressive(unless you really push me!). I used to say anything that was coming to my head, no filter...and I ended up hurting people. Even if I was right. So now I put a break on myself. More often then not, I stop and think and sometimes give myself a few days to calm down before I react. For example: before having a conversation or sending an email, if I feel mad or upset, I write it down first. Next day I read it and Ouch...it sounds harsh. So I re write again and Im thankful I didn't send it out the day before 😄

But this Cancer Moon, this emotional side is sometimes too overwhelming. It seems impossible to rationalize emotions but I still need to find a way not to feel so much, or so deeply.
Making any sense? Probably not 🙂

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I know some aries that has fire moons and is emotional. They're just good at controlling it.....sometimes. One is a cancer rising, but I don't think that has anything to do with it.