SageTree
@SageTree
17 Years
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Be clear about your intentions by calmly stating you only want to retrieve your jacket and prefer to remain acquaintances. Avoid giving mixed signals and do not engage in conversations that suggest romantic interest. Set boundaries to prevent misunderstandings and prioritize your comfort and clarity in the interaction.





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He goes on to explain that I was never back up and he didn't intend for it to be so long since we talked, but he was not in a situation to get serious.
I said that I was not trying to get serious with him and nor did my actions suggest otherwise, asking him if they did, he agreed that I was not pressuring him in any way.
He said I left a jacket at his place, and I couldn't remember if I did. Well it is my jacket and I was looking for it for a while. Well he said to come over and get it.
Somehow I think he is trying to get some from me and using the sweater as a way to lure me back to his cave.
We were supposed to meet yesterday but I'm in pain right now and I am on meds.
The thing is I don't want him to think that I want to have sex now or something. Just want to get my sweater back. I don't mind to remain acquaintances but not interested in sex with him.
What should I do? How should I handle it?