Aries with Cancer Moon

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Woopsies.. The other topic I made wouldnt open because it had a little slash in the title.. Waa. :,(

Anyways.. What I was wondering was if anyone has had any experience with Aries sun w/ Cancer moon males? The Aries guy I know w/ this combo seems very upfront and super affectionate (so far).. But what are they like in relationships? He's super sweet which is kind of funny yet great since he's an aggressive & ambitious professional MMA fighter ugh.. Hes awesome, we've been talking for over 3 weeks and have gone on two dates so far.. He's always travelling which Im ok with because it gives us time to miss one another and well, he's following his dream so Im behind him 100% as Im sure he would be w/ mine! 🙂

How do they act in the beginnings stages of courtship? What kind of things do they do to show they like you, etc??

Tis his chart.. Any insight on his placements would be greatly appreciated! ")

Sun Aries 21.52
Moon Cancer 7.47
Mercury Aries 29.47
Venus Aries 23.37
Mars Gemini 19.16
Jupiter Gemini 5.32
Saturn Capricorn 13.49
Uranus Capricorn 5.20 R
Neptune Capricorn 12.24
Pluto Scorpio 14.25 R
Lilith Libra 7.01
Asc node Pisces 3.58
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Layna: lol, Yeah all fiyah! He's the sweetest guy ever tho... He's been training out of state for a week now n hasn't skipped a beat w/ contacting me. He returns tonight n made plans to take me out on Friday 🙂.

Ugh, seems too good to be true... He's already told me how much he likes me, that he's looking for something serious, n that he wants us to be more than friends.. He agreed enthusiastically to taking things slow 🙂.

I feel like a little school girl lol, I can't wait to see him tmrw!
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Well given that he's been on 2 dates with you says he likes you enough to continue dating. Communicating also shows sign of interest... :p



hi there 🙂. Do you have any insight into cancer moons?

You're right 🙂.. he flirts w/ his fans on Twitter tho.. Doesn't bug me too much because I know he spends most of his time thinking n talking to me.. and well it helps to be a confident mofo LOL.
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Well given that he's been on 2 dates with you says he likes you enough to continue dating. Communicating also shows sign of interest... :p



hi there 🙂. Do you have any insight into cancer moons?

You're right 🙂.. he flirts w/ his fans on Twitter tho.. Doesn't bug me too much because I know he spends most of his time thinking n talking to me.. and well it helps to be a confident mofo LOL.
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Aries emotions = magnified.
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So he reiterated that he wants to be more than friends and that he wants a serious relationship, & he sees us being good friends but also good together as a couple, said he sees us together goin strong 🙂. He likes that Im a sweet person, mellow, and he realizes that relationships based on sex loose steam fast and thats not what he wants for us....

Um... There must be some kind of catch right? Im being punkd arent I?
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@ Layna: I get what you mean when u said u wanted to make a run for it lol.. Thats how I feel when he gets mushy n starts talking about us n our relationship.. I cant remember when we started speaking, but either way we met in person on the 4th for the first time.. The fact that hes so ready to commit so soon is kind of scary.. Was your Aries this eager w/ you? Ugh.. Sometimes Im not even sure how to react to him..
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Posted by Peanutbutter
So he reiterated that he wants to be more than friends and that he wants a serious relationship, & he sees us being good friends but also good together as a couple, said he sees us together goin strong 🙂. He likes that Im a sweet person, mellow, and he realizes that relationships based on sex loose steam fast and thats not what he wants for us....




Um... There must be some kind of catch right? Im being punkd arent I?




Why do people assume that just because someone (who probably wasn't an Aries) bullshitted them about something, so the Aries must be bullshitting them too?

Does no one appreciate our straightforward honest no B/S approach to things. Especially important things, like people's hearts?


**Geminis don't bother answering that - we already know you don't appreciate it.
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So he reiterated that he wants to be more than friends and that he wants a serious relationship, & he sees us being good friends but also good together as a couple, said he sees us together goin strong 🙂. He likes that Im a sweet person, mellow, and he realizes that relationships based on sex loose steam fast and thats not what he wants for us....




Um... There must be some kind of catch right? Im being punkd arent I?




Why do people assume that just because someone (who probably wasn't an Aries) bullshitted them about something, so the Aries must be bullshitting them too?

Does no one appreciate our straightforward honest no B/S approach to things. Especially important things, like people's hearts?


**Geminis don't bother answering that - we already know you don't appreciate it.
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Well, I've only known him like 3 weeks n have only hung out twice... Its a bit fast for my taste... Guys like him, very handsome, a very well known local athlete, theyre used to getting girls left n right so this could either be game to get in my pants... Or Idk... I mean I know I'm irresistible & funny but.. 2 dates! One of which was a movie where we hardly spoke.........

I'm so confused....
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I mean, maybe it was easier for him because we've talked pretty much every single day since we've known one another... Like a month lol, but even that is too fast for me. Trust me, I don't have baggage n am smarter than to blame pple for other's mistakes...

I have no issues w/ any of my ex's because I know I could have done this n that differently, n so could they, but I choose to blame circumstances n know that someone's wrong doing is not all they are. A bad choice doesn't make up a person.

But anywho.... ARIANS how fast (or slow) do things usually progress in love relationships for you? Have u ever been told to slow your roll?
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sorry PB, I am just a bit cranky atm🙂 Hate that.


Yes apparently we are always being told we are too forward, too fast etc etc. But when you know, you know. Ya know??


What sign are you? (sorry - blonde day and can't remember if you have told us)

Someone once described very nicely the way different signs feel time.....Two weeks to an Aries can feel like two months, whereas that same 2 weeks might feel like 2 days to a Cancer.
So we can learn a lot about you in a month, which may seem to you a very short space of time.


If I was a hot jock just trying to jump your bones I wouldn't have waited a month......too much like hard work😉
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It's good to have a little freak out once in a while - keeps us on our toes.
And dxp is good for that because you can freak out on here instead of freaking out on your person of interest.



I also have the famous Aries venus🙂 We don't fall often but we do fall hard.
I can see how a Virgo might be stunned to be suddenly in that spotlight of Aries love, but bask in it. Enjoy.


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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Does no one appreciate our straightforward honest no B/S approach to things. Especially important things, like people's hearts?



Nope.

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Yes apparently we are always being told we are too forward, too fast etc etc. But when you know, you know. Ya know??
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Agreed. I think it's why I get so wtf about people who are all "doop dee do" and jump into relationships when they have no idea what they want. When we go in, we know exactly what we want. None of that wrist wringing crap and putting someone else's emotions in the balance to our whim.

Take home message= Aries don't really go jerking people around. The only time they act in any sort of douchebag fashion is if YOU did something wrong and they're icing you out, or they're of the jerk variety.

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This is a bit deep , but I am sitting alone , really hurting and thinking al sorts do suicidal crap! Been through hell and back and it seems to be never ending.... Like quick sand. I have an Aries friend and what is it with Aries , they dream up these great friendships , and then selfishly drop you like trash. I know how they work been there worn the t'shirt , but me and this friend were going through lows, she is a weed smoker also daily 4-5 times maybe more a day, and she has given up her 14 year relationship etc, and I left my life after 12 years also , just mental abuse.

she and I have been great friends rock solid, but then the odd clinch will appear m normally after seeing her man , and she will retreat , and go cold, blaming it on menstrual cycles ,etc etc, now I am no idiot, and I said look don't kid me into the fact your down because of you're so called man mood, I would then go off accept it , then it was I know what I want lets be friends again .

It's really hurtful pushing me away after we bond agin for three months , worst still I get really close to her 4 year old son, so I loose there too.Recently I asked her to buy a train ticket to come to see a car, but she never did, so the morning I was leaving she hadn't bought her ticket , so ended up staying home for the bank holiday alone.

After coming back , she hasn't fridaybeen round for 3 weeks this Friday, it's my birthday sat , we have been solid for 18 months, and now its like I don't exist , she says she's not feeling it , so unless she does , she in her cave, while she runs around with any but me. Ok in the past I would have rang , begged anything, but I m tired of this crap from any one... it really hurts , and then you gotta pretend it doesn't.,.and the worst is I moved out into the sticks to be near her after she convinced me , all was good.

Now its like , if I pull away eventually I will get the message, she left her tooth brush here and printer, I asked for her to pick me up to collect a printer i bought , as I need it to get my business running. but she respond with she's moving her stuff into her new flat etc off the boat she shared with her ex, and that after she does that , her car is being fixed, all bull crap! she would have done that without hesitation, but now its avoid .. since learned she's running around with a friend who as come back from leave in the navy.

Guys I feel used so No jokes. Ok , also It's not like Im clingy! .... quiet the opposite,
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Worst bit never ever in my wildest dreams thought I would feel anger towards her. I have left it given her that space she claims to want , but its like well were friends whats your problem. i don't wanna go into one, as she reckons I understand her,. but it's not really about that its about respect. when I moved I let her help me move everything. she took offence when I told her one day not to help so much, yet I ask if she wants me to help her move , considering were hanging out 3-4 days of the week , and its like nope ex is helping and his mum. I know your thinking , she wants the ex guy back , but he is settled down new woman new house , and teo bedrooms for the kids. hers and my friends little boy. its horrible.. its like I want to be friends , but another side wants to just erase. but it's such a waste. we spent hours laughing chilling watching films just general banter , now I am like the latest fashion accessory gone out of fashion, I keep saying roxy don't hang with women their bad luck! and users I don't know , al l I know Im deeply hurting and barely can speck.. crying as I write this, wishing I was 6 feet under.
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Shout out to those who took the time to read , sorry it was long ,but the part of the world in Great Britain Im from we talk , were not fake........Ok Ok she and I were involved! but she's all over the place, wont work , relies on everyone to show her a good time , and its like what the f**k , text me today with are you ok , then a x i JUST just theres no trust , she's unpredictable. don't get me wrong, s oam I , but not when it comes to friendship ,her ex fella said to me today everyone gives up , because she's just selfish ! is this a Normal female Aries. tell you one thing I don't dig it.

Worst still my birthday tomorrow, and the selfish cow , didn't even consider working out something. Yet she spent 250 bloody days of the year around my flat dossing..... Gezzzzz women.
Now I have a new mate Bank trader, lives in Germany and London. Just talking on phone right now she's a saggi , but funny and hard working. Last time I dissed someone , so this Aries could hang with me after pushing me away, again Aries was like I know want I want now I love you... bullshit words words just to win the challenge, Again Aries has a rep for getting bored and loosing interest.

Guys I like her a lot but Im not doing that chasing crap! And anyway doesn't work on Aries does it. God know we have great chemistry , laugh our heads off , but she just gets depressed and goes in her so called cave or finds another BUZZZZZZ..... Ok from a crab! Who's dated a male Aries for 8 years in the past Male may I had , whats the difference between the men and the girls. And how do I know if she is into me after saying she does love me as she puts it.. I don't reply much when she does , because I don't believe it yet , and her action, are the very reason why! Cancer will not fall unless the actions show the same .. They say it's not what Aries says ,its what they don' t say.

Aries guys please throw in your 2 cents to sort this shag feast out. Sexxxxxx is amazing , but the moods no , she even accepts she's moody!


COME ON THEN. :0) ROXY

Love an Aries. but gotta get you guys to not be so flipping rude , thats my job lol