@dmk66801
14 YearsGemini
Aries individuals often prefer to be direct and take the lead in expressing love. They like to be the first to say I love you because it aligns with their bold and assertive nature. However, some Aries may wait for the right moment to show their feelings. Understanding an Aries's desire for honesty can clarify their approach to love declarations.
if im in love with a person they would clearly know about it through my actions,
although i would be a bit hesitant about saying i love you first since i want to be
sure that the other person reciprocates the feelings, if given the hints that they do
then ye i would be pretty vocal about my love for them, and i wouldnt mind saying it first =)
I always feel myself WANTING so badly to say I love you, for the first time, but I really hate being the first one out of the two of us. So I just wait until the other person says it :p
personally, i would always leave it for the man to say it first but then again, i don't think it's something you necessarily need to say at all.
i remember when my ex husband first told me he loved me. we had been dating on and off for a loooooong time...nearly 2 years. he said it when we were laughing about something...like the movies...couple fall about laughing and when the laughter dies down, he looks at her and says 'i love you'. that was pretty much how it happened although i didn't say it back to him cos i think it's lame to say 'i love you too'. being a scorp, i show my love rather than state it.
also, it strikes me that when aries men say they love you, they love you forever whether you are together or not. nothing seems to break that love which is probably why they're careful who they say it to.
If I love someone I tell them. Why would I want to hold that back? The only reason I would hold back is if I know the person may not feel the same way, but then I step out on faith and move forward. Silly me, but oh well.
@BlueMoon I freakin love your avatar! I wish I could find one like that for Libra. lol
Thanks 🙂
Who cares who says it first? When I'm in love I will shout it from the rooftops. I don't hold back. Life is too short to worry about stuff like this.
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Ok Aries, I have been told that you all like to be the leaders in a relationship. So do you all also like to be the first to tell who they are seeing that they love them? If yes, why and and if no, why—?