Can't Figure Him Out

This topic was created in the Aries forum by SagwaiMogai on Sunday, April 19, 2015 and has 5 replies.

Understanding Aries Behavior in Romantic Situations

Aries individuals can be impulsive and inconsistent, often acting on initial attraction before withdrawing or acting unpredictably. They may struggle with open communication and emotional depth, especially when unsure. Recognizing these traits can help you decide how to respond and set boundaries based on your comfort level.

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@SagwaiMogai
11 Years

Met this Aries guy. Great connection at the beginning. first he was all "let's be friends, maybe more". After a few days he tries getting in my pants then gets mad & insults me when I say no... Acts all sweet the next day like nothing happened. After being blunt about losing respect for him after his actions, he decides he wants to "talk and get to know each other better".

Meanwhile he doesn't say anything about himself, avoids every question i ask. Barely even makes an attempt to keep the conversation going, even though he always texts me first. So closed off and a little indirect, which really throws me off. I end up not replying or mirroring him because I don't see the point, until he contacts me the next day again.

I'm not expecting anything from him. I want to know what he's thinking so I'll know how to act and feel with him. Don't like wasting my thoughts & energy on a game. He is in his home country right now, moving here in a month. Might make plans to hang out, but the lack of communication is turning me off from friendship and anything else.

Any advice is appreciated.

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@SagwaiMogai
11 Years

You're probably right.. I was thinking the same but ofc I always believe in 2nd chances.

In that case, blocking his number. Thanks!

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@SagwaiMogai
11 Years

Thanks. He could be the same douche!!! Sorry you had to go through it. I feel dumb for believing his words for even a second.