Cap with Aries Mars

Hi. I'm new here. Maybe I should post on the Capricorn forum but I'm interested in more info about Aries Mars. I recently ended it with a Libra man just because I got so tired of verbally abusing him. I have never been so mean to anyone in my life & I couldn't stop it. It's over & I'm not taking him back. I think he's exhausted too. He would keep bringing things up, which I said in the past with sarcasm (now that I reflect, I maybe he wanted an apology) but I would blow the F up, and then say more things he would sulk and get hurt over. When I was done blowing up, it was over for me but he would milk the pity party, sulk and withdraw, complain... thus another round of me blowing up on him. Sometimes it was funny (I'd laugh in private) but I didn't like hurting him. I couldn't stop the cycle. Anyone else do this? I dated another Libra man 10 years ago & the exact same cycle. I'm with a taurus guy now & happy. Not sure what triggers it with Libra guys. I hate how I behaved!! (He also knew how to make me feel guilty by being so "nice" which drove me crazy because it seemed so fake to me, then it was geniune, fake -- flip flop. LOL). I'm just curious. Not trying to mend the relationship.

I'm sure it has a lot to do with being a capricorn. I'm assuming the combination of Cap Sun/Asc + Aries Mars, Aqua Moon, Pisces Venus.