Geminithefox
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Dealing & Drug Addicted Aries
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I have known this aries man since I was 15
and I never knew that he had a serious love
for cocaine & drugs until he got arrested for it
and I even tried to love him again but all the
lies and betrayal made me stop loving him.
I just feel bad because he wrecked my mustang,
and I had to get it fixed,it was almost totaled
but thank God it wasn't,we could have both been
killed but God almighty & the air bags saved us,
but out of all these years,I never knew he had a
serious addiction or that he would return back to
drugs.Now that I see the truth and I have had to
accept that this man is so capable of betraying
people he says he loves,I wonder if he has any
true feelings for others?
I hate to feel this way but there is alot of hurt,
shock and disgust that I have felt when I was getting
out of this relationship,and he just expected me to
understand everything and move on with him as if
nothing ever happened,I could not!
I don't know this man yet I knew him most of my life!
and I never knew that he had a serious love
for cocaine & drugs until he got arrested for it
and I even tried to love him again but all the
lies and betrayal made me stop loving him.
I just feel bad because he wrecked my mustang,
and I had to get it fixed,it was almost totaled
but thank God it wasn't,we could have both been
killed but God almighty & the air bags saved us,
but out of all these years,I never knew he had a
serious addiction or that he would return back to
drugs.Now that I see the truth and I have had to
accept that this man is so capable of betraying
people he says he loves,I wonder if he has any
true feelings for others?
I hate to feel this way but there is alot of hurt,
shock and disgust that I have felt when I was getting
out of this relationship,and he just expected me to
understand everything and move on with him as if
nothing ever happened,I could not!
I don't know this man yet I knew him most of my life!
He had no car insurance and he drives a truck,
without insurance!!! Bad news right there,and he
just wrecked my car and couldn't help pay to fix
it! He works but doesn't get enough money because
he owes so much to the law.
He decided to move to another state which is about
2 and 1/2 to 3 hours away when I decided to leave
him for good and not try anymore.
He wanted me to be with him and work it out but I
couldn't do it.He knew I was moving,and I believe
he wrecked the car on purpose because he is an
excellent driver and he started to drive crazy one
night after we went to visit the town I was moving
to.We were looking at houses all day,and he didn't
like any of them,he began to get his camera out and
wanted to look at his pix while he was driving and
he kept going off the road.He asked me if I was going
to forget him when I moved? I said why would you think
that when I stood by you while you where in prison?
I didn't press charges on him for wrecking my car but
I don't want him back.He seems to think that I'm just
mad but that later I'll cool off like in the past and
take him back yet I know that I won't.
What does it take for this man to see that light?
His controlling ways began to show up more clearly
before he was sent to prison,and even got worse after
he was released.I don't know what to expect from him
now? Can I be hopeful that he will stay away from me
now when he's never done it before?
He just thinks I'm mad,but I am not,I'm glad to be
without him and want it to stay this way.
without insurance!!! Bad news right there,and he
just wrecked my car and couldn't help pay to fix
it! He works but doesn't get enough money because
he owes so much to the law.
He decided to move to another state which is about
2 and 1/2 to 3 hours away when I decided to leave
him for good and not try anymore.
He wanted me to be with him and work it out but I
couldn't do it.He knew I was moving,and I believe
he wrecked the car on purpose because he is an
excellent driver and he started to drive crazy one
night after we went to visit the town I was moving
to.We were looking at houses all day,and he didn't
like any of them,he began to get his camera out and
wanted to look at his pix while he was driving and
he kept going off the road.He asked me if I was going
to forget him when I moved? I said why would you think
that when I stood by you while you where in prison?
I didn't press charges on him for wrecking my car but
I don't want him back.He seems to think that I'm just
mad but that later I'll cool off like in the past and
take him back yet I know that I won't.
What does it take for this man to see that light?
His controlling ways began to show up more clearly
before he was sent to prison,and even got worse after
he was released.I don't know what to expect from him
now? Can I be hopeful that he will stay away from me
now when he's never done it before?
He just thinks I'm mad,but I am not,I'm glad to be
without him and want it to stay this way.
ha ha I wish thats what it was all about!
No I was hurt because of all the lies he
told and all the changes in his behavior
towards me like not trusting me always
thinking I was going to leave him,being
bossy & possessive & jealous of everyone
and drugs abuse Hello",your just too
funny Gemini Wizard,I am a Gem too you
know & that was funny but I am just
in disbelief I guess? thought I knew him!
Wrong!!!
No I was hurt because of all the lies he
told and all the changes in his behavior
towards me like not trusting me always
thinking I was going to leave him,being
bossy & possessive & jealous of everyone
and drugs abuse Hello",your just too
funny Gemini Wizard,I am a Gem too you
know & that was funny but I am just
in disbelief I guess? thought I knew him!
Wrong!!!
really,drugs destroy people and it's bad sh!t!
but I really wish that his life would have turned
out better,we had some great times before this whole
nightmare but I just feel he's so lost and wonder if
he's beyond helping himself? I knew him forever but
he had his secrets and kept them well until he no longer
could and it was his PO that told me about the drugs tho
I felt he was using all along because he was really acting
crazy!
but I really wish that his life would have turned
out better,we had some great times before this whole
nightmare but I just feel he's so lost and wonder if
he's beyond helping himself? I knew him forever but
he had his secrets and kept them well until he no longer
could and it was his PO that told me about the drugs tho
I felt he was using all along because he was really acting
crazy!
Geminithefox "I was hurt because of all the lies he told and all the changes in his behavior"
this is interesting - I have experienced exactly this from a Gemini gentleman
I am truly sorry an Aries guy did all this. Dude is giving us a bad name - we are not all flaky losers.
Don't give up hope Gemthefox.
@Gemwiz - thrills yes, B/s hell no. This guy just sounds like an ankle.
this is interesting - I have experienced exactly this from a Gemini gentleman
I am truly sorry an Aries guy did all this. Dude is giving us a bad name - we are not all flaky losers.
Don't give up hope Gemthefox.
@Gemwiz - thrills yes, B/s hell no. This guy just sounds like an ankle.
Ya reallyniceariesperson he did get all caught up in something he
couldn't get out of,but he was a good man prior to all these things,
but people change.He wasn't himself but I can't save him,that's up
to him. I gave him my love but in the end the drugs took over.
It's over now,I just wish him well & have let go.
No,all aries are not like this and I know that for a fact lol...
they may like thrills but they don't want to destroy themselves
or the ones they love,so this guy just had issues that were beyond
his sign,being aries had nothing to do with it.
He use to be the best guy ever but drugs destroy!
couldn't get out of,but he was a good man prior to all these things,
but people change.He wasn't himself but I can't save him,that's up
to him. I gave him my love but in the end the drugs took over.
It's over now,I just wish him well & have let go.
No,all aries are not like this and I know that for a fact lol...
they may like thrills but they don't want to destroy themselves
or the ones they love,so this guy just had issues that were beyond
his sign,being aries had nothing to do with it.
He use to be the best guy ever but drugs destroy!
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Geminithefox "I was hurt because of all the lies he told and all the changes in his behavior"
this is interesting - I have experienced exactly this from a Gemini gentleman
I am truly sorry an Aries guy did all this. Dude is giving us a bad name - we are not all flaky losers.
Don't give up hope Gemthefox.
@Gemwiz - thrills yes, B/s hell no. This guy just sounds like an ankle.
Thankyou reallyniceariesperson! He can't give you a bad name,I already know about
and love aries people so it's all good lol...
Posted by geminiwizard
aries dudes are thrill chasers
they are to a point and adventurous somewhat like we Gem's are just a tad more
perhaps? But a normal aries know their limit usually.They tend to get gutt
feelings and sense things when they aren't right,but they can jump into things
without thinking sometimes like us except we think a few miliseconds first lol...
there's a reason it's called "dope"!
Hard to believe someone with their head screwed on would bother to get mixed up with the stuff.
No judgement - it's just one of the many things I don't understand.
big ole Aries hug for you
Hard to believe someone with their head screwed on would bother to get mixed up with the stuff.
No judgement - it's just one of the many things I don't understand.
big ole Aries hug for you
your right reallyniceariesperson he must have had those old demons
all along but they came back to get him and destroyed everything
we had! funny how he just had to have me in his life,but when he
finally got me,it all went down hill gradually until it vanished!
Hugs to you too! I needed that big aries hug lol...
all along but they came back to get him and destroyed everything
we had! funny how he just had to have me in his life,but when he
finally got me,it all went down hill gradually until it vanished!
Hugs to you too! I needed that big aries hug lol...
Posted by DetailsPleasePosted by Geminithefox
RESTRAINING ORDER FOR HIS AZZ IF HE COMES BACK!
I'M DONE!!!
Aww??_I feel so bad for you and having to go through that. I had to experience that with a man but he was a Taurus. Oh my goodness. However, lots of Aries hugs from me too.
Don't hate him for what he is going through. When people are addicted to drugs it's the drugs talking and acting, not him. However, that doesn't mean you have to tolerate him or even be with him. Maybe you leaving him will open his eyes to see that being on these drugs has cost me everything. Kind of like, tough love. I feel so bad for some drug addicts, because just recognizing they have a problem can be extremely difficult, and getting that help can be harder. Who knows??_In my opinion send positive energy his way and hope that he gets the help that he needs. Holding on to what he did is going to be baggage that may be carried into another relationship. So continue to purge all the negative stuff that was experienced and hopefully with time you will heal.
Thank goodness you left.click to expand
very good advice...
Posted by dward417Posted by DetailsPleasePosted by Geminithefox
RESTRAINING ORDER FOR HIS AZZ IF HE COMES BACK!
I'M DONE!!!
Aww??_I feel so bad for you and having to go through that. I had to experience that with a man but he was a Taurus. Oh my goodness. However, lots of Aries hugs from me too.
Don't hate him for what he is going through. When people are addicted to drugs it's the drugs talking and acting, not him. However, that doesn't mean you have to tolerate him or even be with him. Maybe you leaving him will open his eyes to see that being on these drugs has cost me everything. Kind of like, tough love. I feel so bad for some drug addicts, because just recognizing they have a problem can be extremely difficult, and getting that help can be harder. Who knows??_In my opinion send positive energy his way and hope that he gets the help that he needs. Holding on to what he did is going to be baggage that may be carried into another relationship. So continue to purge all the negative stuff that was experienced and hopefully with time you will heal.
Thank goodness you left.
very good advice...click to expand
Yes I did that! Thanks for your blessings and kind heart,your a great lady!
I know what you mean & I do wish him well & pray for him but I have healed
and let go.I cannot change it & I know it. But things happen for a reason
and I am not bitter at all.I feel sorry for him but not enough to allow his
issues to take over my life.My love is all gone for him but I know what you
mean,addicts get all caught up and their lives spiral down fast.
aries may be hard to get but that's not my experience with them
but I only date males and don't know about how the females are
but the men are easy to get in my opinion but then again I'm
not easy or easy to get because love is a big deal and the word
Love makes me nervous and I don't like to hear it too soon lol
but I only date males and don't know about how the females are
but the men are easy to get in my opinion but then again I'm
not easy or easy to get because love is a big deal and the word
Love makes me nervous and I don't like to hear it too soon lol
ya but I still care on some level I just wish the drugs weren't there
WE MADE UP!!!
please be careful Gemthefox..they don't call it dope for nothing.
Look after you
xxRNAP
Look after you
xxRNAP
I wish you all the best. Don't let his man speak for all arian men. When it was good you were so happy in your past posts. Druggies only love their drugs and what they can get out of them and people are tools for getting drugs. He won't feel it until he chooses a cleaner life. I wish him the best too.
i think you'll be okay...we all have problems
So, it wasn't about the dealing and the drugs ??
It was just about an arguement ??
And making up from the argument nullifies anymore acknowledgement, or conern that dealing and drugs are involved?
It was just about an arguement ??
And making up from the argument nullifies anymore acknowledgement, or conern that dealing and drugs are involved?
Posted by geminiwizard
aries dudes are thrill chasers
bullshit
Im aries, i have no interest in drugs cigarets and shit like that whatsoever, GEMINITHEFOX, he is an addict okay, stop being in denial, his sweetness is just simply natural and its nothing exclusive, you look like a nice girl and you can get a much better aries, he will only ruin your life with his problems, remember if a guy has problems - they will become your problems as well, the lesser problems he has the better off you are with him, so let him live his life, he will never change, go to on some dating website look through april guys and pick anyone you like and start talking to them, u be surprised what you find.
Thanx everyone for your honesty & concerns & I agree I must be careful!
@PAngel No there was alot more to it than just an arguement!!!
Don't be soooo silly P-angel,you'd be nice if you weren't soo
negative & suspicious of everyones motives.Anywho?
He's agreed to get help & it working on it right now in rehab.
I am being supportive but I am cautious too. I love him but I
know what to look for.It's crazy this thing called LOVE but I
have set my bounderies & made them clear.
@PAngel No there was alot more to it than just an arguement!!!
Don't be soooo silly P-angel,you'd be nice if you weren't soo
negative & suspicious of everyones motives.Anywho?
He's agreed to get help & it working on it right now in rehab.
I am being supportive but I am cautious too. I love him but I
know what to look for.It's crazy this thing called LOVE but I
have set my bounderies & made them clear.
KINGOfARIES you may be right,but I love my man & am praying he will defeat his demons!
Posted by dward417
i think you'll be okay...we all have problems
Thanx my good aries friend! I love your honest words of hope yet I also understand
the concern of the other friends here too. I really can use your prayers for those of
you who believe in prayer power as I do. He's a good hearted man & I know this is his
issue but I am supporting him while he's in rehab & taking classes. He gets out this
November. Thankyou so much everyone & I'll take to heart your advice ok?
Posted by Geminithefox
.. I am supporting him while he's in rehab & taking classes. He gets out this
November.
November? Rehab that is like 8 months long?
You mean ... he gets out of jail in November.
Rehab takes 3 months max if you really want to quit, guess he doesn't really want to or whatever the deal is, unfortunately for you - i am always right, stop loving him you are wasting your life, life you will never get back, life the addict won't give you back, life you could live with a normal, family, not drugs, -oriented guy and be happy.
Posted by KingOfAries
Rehab takes 3 months max if you really want to quit, guess he doesn't really want to or whatever the deal is, unfortunately for you - i am always right, stop loving him you are wasting your life, life you will never get back, life the addict won't give you back, life you could live with a normal, family, not drugs, -oriented guy and be happy.
yes he's involved in community service & he was tested for drugs and he failed last December due to
when he was arrested for being drunk. I have known his all of his life & he wasn't always on drugs.
He wants to get clean on his own,he's not being made to do it but I know this is a big concern for
me & I must be careful. He says he is willing to do whatever it takes to have me in his life.So far
so good.
excuse the bad writing lol but yes this is a serious issue in our lives & I know that things won't be the same with trust
and all of that because I will always wonder if he will use again,at least at first. I am confused about what to do but I
want to be there for him & support him.He's back to being himself again & says he'll do anything to make out love story
come true & he says he's willing to do whatever it takes to stay clean.He wants to keep me in his life.
and all of that because I will always wonder if he will use again,at least at first. I am confused about what to do but I
want to be there for him & support him.He's back to being himself again & says he'll do anything to make out love story
come true & he says he's willing to do whatever it takes to stay clean.He wants to keep me in his life.
He is currently taking classes about alcohol & drug abuse & will enter himself into a good rehab program soon
& follow up with Co anan & Alanon meetings that I will attend with him. He is his sweet self right now & I
missed that about him so much.I'm happy to see the real aries man come back & I pray he stays the same as he
is now.
& follow up with Co anan & Alanon meetings that I will attend with him. He is his sweet self right now & I
missed that about him so much.I'm happy to see the real aries man come back & I pray he stays the same as he
is now.
im not trying to put her down she is just in very very bad denial that he will come clean, he won't, he like every aries needs a source of confidence which geminis have over the top, but unfortunately you got caught up in it, i seriously feel very strong denial from you, you need to wake up gorgeous
foxy come over to NYC ill substitute your bad aries for a week or two this summer, cause ill be busy the rest of the time
Posted by amethyst2002
^ This.
Quit this overly "positive" bullshit. Seriously. There's a difference between being positive and being flat out in denial/naive/ignorant to what's going on. Nothing drives me crazier than freaking people who constantly respond with "OMGZ UBER POSITIVE PEOPLES!! LOLZ" *cue hair twirl* Being positive is one thing, but sometimes I think people take it too far to the point where they're putting on rose colored glasses and...
...see world im pink you meant, what you said being positive and taking it too far and living in a pink world is called being in denial - at least from a scientific/psychological point of view, dude is an idiot, ive never even tried drugs and never will, not even talking about jail, he came out of rehab and went drinking his ass off, and not only that, he got himself to the point that cops had to take him! no matter how drunk ive been in my life and i used to be really drunk, and considering that in live in the NYC where theres as much police as in your all foxy state combined ive never had any problems with police, your guy is an idiot, i understand that you love him but its unreasonable, someone else can love you, you are a sweetheart, we should get you a new aries guy!!
in pink*
Posted by starlover
.....and sometimes love overcomes all odds 🙂
No, it doesn't ... people like to say that because it makes them feel better, but, nowhere in human history do we find love conquering all. What is being proposed in that sentiment is complete ignorance to the fact that this man has to work for himself, to get himself to be in a better place.
A person doesn't become miraculously fixed by the power of love .. if this were the case, then the whole world would holding hands lovingly.
He definitely needs to know that he is loved by her ... but, this love cannot shadow out his need to mend himself. So long as an addict has a person who will proclaim to love him unconditionally no matter what ... the addict is enabled to keep using.
She said he was in rehab .... until I pointed out that rehab doesn't last that long.
Now she says that he is going to go later.
It is likely a probable assumption to say that because of the promise he made about going to rehab (sometime later) .... this is what he used to get her back.
An empty promise .... GeminiFox has been posting about her relatinship with Ben for quite a few years ... and it's always been about empty promises.
You have to give him props though .. it works. She goes right back to him, forgetting about all the empty promises of the past that he never fulfilled.
You guys can call it bright and cheery and positive if you want .. I call it ignorant.
Now she says that he is going to go later.
It is likely a probable assumption to say that because of the promise he made about going to rehab (sometime later) .... this is what he used to get her back.
An empty promise .... GeminiFox has been posting about her relatinship with Ben for quite a few years ... and it's always been about empty promises.
You have to give him props though .. it works. She goes right back to him, forgetting about all the empty promises of the past that he never fulfilled.
You guys can call it bright and cheery and positive if you want .. I call it ignorant.
Its not worth the time. There are limits to love.
Hey look gemini we are like this we can forgive and forgive sometimes when i thoguth i couldnt forgive anymore i keep forgiving we are full of forgivness when we love someone.
look Giminithefox, your letting Aries controll you with even knowing we are weak for them i know that. but Aries is weak too someone has to be the adult someone has to stop being the weak one. you got to say enough until you see a real change in his life he will comeback one day when he is better and you would have spared your self a world of pain. i know gimini we love to feel pain. we can handle pain its not a big deal just something we can deal with with. but trust me the more you care the more pain you feel and more you will suffer later. if you stop now you will not suffer take my advice. either way you dont have to be with him for him to get better you got to just leave him alone until he get better
look Giminithefox, your letting Aries controll you with even knowing we are weak for them i know that. but Aries is weak too someone has to be the adult someone has to stop being the weak one. you got to say enough until you see a real change in his life he will comeback one day when he is better and you would have spared your self a world of pain. i know gimini we love to feel pain. we can handle pain its not a big deal just something we can deal with with. but trust me the more you care the more pain you feel and more you will suffer later. if you stop now you will not suffer take my advice. either way you dont have to be with him for him to get better you got to just leave him alone until he get better
3 words: Moon in Pisces.
3 words boomshlak: go fuk yourself
Ignorant little twat, you dont even have the guts to take some chick out for a date, so please drop the "Im so tough" game, stop embarrassing yourself.
To what? a laboratory rat?
well I broke up with him! P-angel was it any of your business about jail &
rehab? No it is not!!! I shouldn't have to spell out everything to u and
draw pictures for u,you got the idea so why waste our time going over it?
The one thing you got right was the enabeling part & denial.I was in denial
and of course I was,I loved him but I woke up and I am staying strong although
the past months have been very heartbreaking I broke it off with my aries man
and have no plans to take him back! everyone is right except you P angel,you
only got the enabling part correct & thats it but at least u were awake a lil
bit this time lol
rehab? No it is not!!! I shouldn't have to spell out everything to u and
draw pictures for u,you got the idea so why waste our time going over it?
The one thing you got right was the enabeling part & denial.I was in denial
and of course I was,I loved him but I woke up and I am staying strong although
the past months have been very heartbreaking I broke it off with my aries man
and have no plans to take him back! everyone is right except you P angel,you
only got the enabling part correct & thats it but at least u were awake a lil
bit this time lol
I did enable Ben,but I realized that everyone was telling the
truth & I started to see what was going on thru our letters
and phone calls.He gets out next month on the 26th 2011 & I am
so glad for him but at the same time I feel sad that it's really
over now & I know I cannot risk anymore for him.
He did hurt me very badly but he hurts himself alot more and he
doesn't even see that.I played the part of the fool and the
sucker,and I know that I was blind,totally in denial and I know
that my choices in taking him back all the time made me look &
feel so weak but I loved this guy with all of my heart and the
man I knew all of my life,I realize I never knew him at all.I
did so much soul searching & cried every day and I researched
all I could on addiction & loved ones who enable the addicts in
their lives & so forth.I learned alot,and even though I'm over
the worst part of this I still miss him at times but I know I am
moving on because I must.I have to take care of me!
truth & I started to see what was going on thru our letters
and phone calls.He gets out next month on the 26th 2011 & I am
so glad for him but at the same time I feel sad that it's really
over now & I know I cannot risk anymore for him.
He did hurt me very badly but he hurts himself alot more and he
doesn't even see that.I played the part of the fool and the
sucker,and I know that I was blind,totally in denial and I know
that my choices in taking him back all the time made me look &
feel so weak but I loved this guy with all of my heart and the
man I knew all of my life,I realize I never knew him at all.I
did so much soul searching & cried every day and I researched
all I could on addiction & loved ones who enable the addicts in
their lives & so forth.I learned alot,and even though I'm over
the worst part of this I still miss him at times but I know I am
moving on because I must.I have to take care of me!
and thankyou starlover & all of you here! your words have
given me courage & made me feel stronger and alot better!!
Thanks everyone!!!
given me courage & made me feel stronger and alot better!!
Thanks everyone!!!
Thanx KINGOFARIES!!! I hope u get the girl u want very soon!
Why is it everytime you come back ... you address me?
Posted by P-Angel
So, it wasn't about the dealing and the drugs ??
It was just about an arguement ??
And making up from the argument nullifies anymore acknowledgement, or conern that dealing and drugs are involved?
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Geminithefox
.. I am supporting him while he's in rehab & taking classes. He gets out this
November.
November? Rehab that is like 8 months long?
You mean ... he gets out of jail in November.click to expand
Posted by P-Angel
She said he was in rehab .... until I pointed out that rehab doesn't last that long.
Now she says that he is going to go later.
It is likely a probable assumption to say that because of the promise he made about going to rehab (sometime later) .... this is what he used to get her back.
An empty promise .... GeminiFox has been posting about her relatinship with Ben for quite a few years ... and it's always been about empty promises.
You have to give him props though .. it works. She goes right back to him, forgetting about all the empty promises of the past that he never fulfilled.
You guys can call it bright and cheery and positive if you want .. I call it ignorant.
Posted by Geminithefox
P-angel was it any of your business about jail &
rehab? No it is not!!! I shouldn't have to spell out everything to u and
draw pictures for u
Posted by Geminithefox
He went to prison for a year and had some rehab
click to expand
Let me a draw a picture for you.
The only way I would know about him going to jail and rehab is because you said it in an open forum. By the sheer fact that you make a public announcement about it, makes it everyones business who happens to read it.
Question for you ... what is the reason why you are too stupid to put two and two together?
Is it because of your roots, or is it more accurate to say the box? Is it because you're a Gemini, and so naturally dumb?
Of course I was right .. seriously, you don't even know what you say, and then can't figure out how people know. So, how in the world are you going to be able to live in a relationship where another person is inolved
Hell, I remember having to explain to you the simple concept of why he got mad at you for something you said to another guy .. and it was easy shit to figure out. What's the matter with your brain?
P angel bite me! Your strange & you live for drama!
I would hate to see your roots you wishy washy little fishy!!!
Get a life twisted sister! You never explained anything & I
never flirted wih other men so God only knows what your talking
about? but everyone knows you hate Gemini's so whatever dingbat
fish!Go swim elsewhere....
The twins don't like you!!!
I would hate to see your roots you wishy washy little fishy!!!
Get a life twisted sister! You never explained anything & I
never flirted wih other men so God only knows what your talking
about? but everyone knows you hate Gemini's so whatever dingbat
fish!Go swim elsewhere....
The twins don't like you!!!
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