Fast forward 3 weeks..

I'm perplexed. I've known aries man for 3 weeks now. Things are going great, although I'm puzzled by some of his behaviors, comments and questions.

his exterior is very masculine and controlled. he's charming, attentive and extremely giving.

I'm thinking he's a bit on the insecure side. in the last couple of days he's expressed an interest in my ex boyfriend, like why'd we break up, when was the last time I talked to him, etc. he appreciated, he said, that I didn't have anything negative to say about the ex. When I finally asked why he was so curious he just said he wasn't the jealous type.

We met up with my friends this weekend. He decided that a shopping trip was in order. I'm thinking were looking for jeans for him and it turned in to an all out shopping spree for me. I quickly learned you don't tell this man no. Within minutes of being in the shop he had every available salesperson eating out of his hand. Commanding and demanding. He dressed me completely...
It was like tge scene from pretty woman,

He'll make comments like "you're so easy to be with" " I can be me with you" "I don't have to watch what I say around you" etc.

Sex is absolutely amazing, and long. Like hours. As a gemini woman, all about the sex and have had numerous partners over the years. I have never had such a tender and thorough lover.
We talk about anything and everything.

This weekend he said to me "don't fall in love with me, I can't make any promises, yet" an hour later he said "maybe I'm the one that had to worry about falling in love". WTF—

my heart I'd opening up and quite frankly scared shitless.

Any and all comments are welcome. The man is an enigma.should I tell him how I feel or let him be in control of that, too?

I like the subtle, and not so subtle, way he controls me, lol.