How can he move on !—? I was just kidding !!!!

I have Been dating a aries for 8 months , and I broke up with him I wasn't serious but he is just so damn flirty with like every girl! I thought he'd change his ways , he told me he. Loved me , but he was very quick to say ok let's be friends , and when I said no to friendship he was even quicker to drop all communication, he carrying on with new girls now ( nothing serious ) but I'm madly in love with what should I do I want to be with him ?

LOL!!!!!!

I kno @quietstorm that's wat he said , but honestly that's not helping me now 😢

You should be glad it was you who broke up with him. It looks like he was gonna leave you anyways sooner or later. He obviously doesn't feel the same way you feel for him.

@ariesvita I agree I don't believe his feelings were as strong as mine , but I really wish we weren't working together or that I wasn't still in love with him , or that the other girls at work were not so atracted to him it makes me cringe , I guess I need to figure out how to fall out of love with him if there is no way back into his heart

Yea I totally did I said " I'm your girl there is no need to have a covo with every girl in the office " . And he told me there his friends and it would be unfair to be different to friends, just because he on a relationship ... I'm starting to think I'm just afraid to lose him to one of these chicks bc of same he is really arrogant , no more cocky , he is very attractive , but he's selfish and a user , his friend told me last night on Fb he's been with 150+ girls and will never change to give it up do better he can Also be quite mean he's o.c.d stlye organized , and aggressive I say all this to say he wasn't much of a bf anyway

I'm a Virgo

Okay, aside from the immature "joke" of breaking up to make him do what you want.. (guess you know better than that now, huh?)...


Why would you WANT a man who flirts with every girl and makes you feel bad? An arrogant, cocky, selfish user ... mean, aggressive, ocd who has been with way more women than is usually considered smart OR healthy? You say he wasn't much of a boyfriend anyways. So why?

It's ego, girl. We all got one, some bigger than others. You "broke up" to get your way.. it backfired.. and now you want him cuz you can't have him cuz HE doesn't want YOU. You're jealous of the other girls.. what do they have that you don't? Why does he want THEM and not YOU?.. 1) They don't know he's an asshole yet. Give it time. and 2) He's an asshole.

There's plenty of guys out there who WON'T be a douche to you.. but you'll miss out on them if you're still hung up on this one guy who wasn't, isn't, and probably will never give you the respectful treatment you want and deserve.

A lot of aries men live and breathe women. They love the chase and aren't all that great at being "exclusive" with one girl, unless if she is constantly posing challenges to him (and not on purpose, or as games, I might add.)

It's just this thing with (*some) aries that clicks. There aren't a lot of girls who can handle dating this kind of Aries and not at least think he is cheating on them -- or be "enough" to stop him from cheating. And some of these Aries are just plain scum bags who don't give a damn at all of anyone but themselves and their reputation.

My main point, this guy isn't worth your time and it's not going to work out. Cut it cleanly with him, don't give him the satisfaction of begging for his return. His ego doesn't need more stroking.

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I guess I need to figure out how to fall out of love with him if there is no way back into his heart

It will never stop shocking me when I see women do this.

Yes, it was a bad joke .. but, it had a valuable conclusion = he isn't into you.

But, this doesn't seem to matter .... a girl would want this in her life, she would pine away and do anything necessary to get this back into her life .. only to then be hurt because the guy proved to be what you knew all along, and now you want pity.

I will never get it.

If the guy doesn't want you, if he could let you go so easily .. then why in the hell would you lower yourself, disregard your pride and dignity for yourself and even think for one moment that he is worth something to you?

hahahahha

we don't know the whole story do we? I think some aries guys are azzholes
but not most.How do we know that she wasn't already very jealous & smothering?
What if he wasn't flirting & what if he was tired of all her accusations?
I'm not calling her a liar but alot of girls push aries men away by being too
bossy,possessive & controlling! The girl was already jealous as it was,& if
all he was doing was talking then whats wrong with that?

FORGET HIM. TELL HIM TO GET LOST. DONT WASTE YOUR TIME FOR WOMANISER LIKE THIS. WE HV BETTER THINGS TO DO. HE IS SUCHA CRAP !!! HE SOUNDS DUMB.

ANY GUY WHO IS WOMANISER IS SUCHA DUMB.